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Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by internationalman(m): 10:12pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Kevsmart88:so women don't divorce rich dude.. ubunja writes and i quote ''the less worthy a man feels about himself the more he uses money to chase girls to compensate for his low self esteem. 55 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by hazard7(m): 10:18pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Sorry man,shit happens in marriages. Once a woman taste power like in yours,she becomes intoxicated so better u put the bitch in her right place or u relinquish control to her. 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by MajorWarren: 10:19pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
That’s sad to hear man, what is it about women that change them once they start earning way more than the man. Just move out of the house give her some space and hustle hard man. I hope it works out between you guys later but even if it doesn’t, your kids are probably old enough to remember their dad as a loving, caring man. You can always come back for them or try be in their lives but give your wife the space, you don’t need that much toxicity right now. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by movement2020: 10:27pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Marriage has it's high and lows. Uncle, this is your very low,pls,try and use wisdom to keep it intact. Your predicament would pass oneday and someday. The struggle makes the home one to emulate which the children would be proud of. Call her, let her know your thoughts and feelings. Don't nag, don't constitute a nuisance either. Just accept was fate brought before you and as I said, seek for divine wisdom so that when the tremor stops, you both would have learnt, trained the kids and be glad you sacrificed. Please, always remember, the end matters alot and every thing can never be rosy all the time. It is time to see the other side of your wife and learn what money turn people into. Take it as a way your creator is using to teach you the lessons of marriage, woman and life. 31 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 10:29pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
MajorWarren: Thanks man. I really appreciate the love. My kids know their dad as the fun loving, jovial and playful disciplinarian. God willing I'll be back on my feet. I'm not lazy 47 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by MajorWarren: 10:31pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
strungup79: Don’t worry you got this champ. She’ll soon realise she lost a good man. God bless. 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 10:41pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
funmisticqueen: you are a foollllllllllll 119 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 10:44pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
lilwetdick: between you and funmisticqueen i don't know who is more foolish in this forum 47 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 10:45pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
strungup79:marriage is not about control. Money is what gives control. Stop misquoting me from your place of pain. Also stop this 'poor me' 'boohoo' victim mentality, it is irritating and pathetic. You are the one emasculating yourself, by allowing yourself to be emasculated. Most likely money was all you had to offer in the marriage and now that you have lost that, you are just like an appendix in your marriage. Existing without function, but capable of causing hell because no one cares about it anymore. It is not about bringing more money but showing that you are a leader, and being her support. Give her a reason to trust you by showing initiative. Do you think women like to be bread winners? She is picking up your slack.Of course She will be pissed at you subconsciously. Be proactive, anticipate needs in the marriage that you can provide and meet them without being told or nagged. Convince her that you are still necessary in your marriage. Get your head out of your asshole and be man. This is the most candid advice you will get from me or on your thread 29 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 10:47pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Elder010:for saying the truth? Or not telling all you testosterone laden apeshits who only think with their joystick what you want to hear or stroking your China doll egos. 21 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 10:48pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
strungup79:you all of a sudden can read your kids thoughts. Don't assume too much 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 10:51pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Elder010: before i delete my moniker you are the foolish one, you might even end of been worst than him the easiest way for a man to give up in life is to engulf himself with self pity self pity kills more than HIV i guess you want me to say sorry sincerely speaking i believe you are a fool, you have basically lost that masculine instinct, the survival instinct of being a man, the believe that no matter what you can solve your problem without complain what kind of man are you? a man that takes the bull by the horn or a man who full of self pity 16 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 10:52pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
MajorWarren:It wasn't the women who changed, it was simply a role reversal. And men do not like the experience being in a woman's shoes. So they cry and wail that they are being emasculated because they can't take what they mete out to womem 24 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 10:52pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
funmisticqueen: you still wonder why no man who is not mad wants to befriend or marry you even after begging in this forum. bitterness will kill you if you no take time 108 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 10:53pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
people hate the truth they love people to pity them self pity does not solve problems, it kill a man faster than anything 12 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 10:54pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Elder010:when did I beg on this forum for a man? Stop deluding yourself 11 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by unbrandedspace(m): 10:57pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
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Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 10:58pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
MajorWarren:Lots of beautiful, single older women with children do not bother to remarry. Have you ever wondered why? Peace of mind is more important than having some phallus around the house who thinks he's a 'good man' and God's gift to women. 29 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by unbrandedspace(m): 10:59pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
I'm a mechanical engineer, pls here is my no 08114521124 [/quote] 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by MajorWarren: 11:00pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
funmisticqueen: What are you on about? The man said she doesn’t discuss decisions with him anymore instead she goes to her parents, which means prior to the “role reversal” he pretty much consults his wife before making decisions. There are other instances in his post that show he’s being disrespected cos his earning dipped. 45 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 11:00pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
movement2020:true words sir. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 11:02pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
MajorWarren:you are assuming things @ bolded. That is not objective at all. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by MajorWarren: 11:03pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
funmisticqueen: And lots of beautiful, single older women with children wish to remarry but can’t. Have you ever wondered why? 71 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 11:06pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
MajorWarren:yes, they either truly enjoyed their previous marriage and want a repeat of that or don't like to be alone, are past childbearing age, or need a man to financially cater for them. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by MajorWarren: 11:08pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
funmisticqueen: No assumptions, I am clearly going by what he said “I am so pained because all I ever did was show her love and respect” 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by MajorWarren: 11:10pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
funmisticqueen: Or or hold on.... here’s a thought They might be horrible people and no one can stand them and they know this but wish to change. ![]() 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by bigpicture001: 11:13pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Womem.dont desearve anything good..dey are so annoying 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by fkj950ax(m): 11:21pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
strungup79: There is nothing wrong with you. Create your own Eldorado and live your life inside it. Your kids will come around. Don't bother. I will remember you in my prayers for strength in your heart. Your wife still loves you, but does not have the character required for success. Imagine if she became an Ngozi Okonjo today 6 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 11:21pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
No comment until I hear the woman's side of the story. No woman will just suddenly start treating her husband that way without cause. Nigerian men are something else. I hope you're helping her with the house chores if there is no help? Who knows if the burden of both catering for the needs of the family and also cooking and cleaning is one of the issues here. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by DNSPro: 11:24pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
strungup79:This is what women are. 90% of them are like that. Once they are above you, they feel on top of the world. What kind of business were you into. Let's start from there. I and other business savvy minds may be able to help with some insights. 11 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by DNSPro: 11:26pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
strungup79:you answered that bitch well. 35 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by DNSPro: 11:30pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Blakjewelry:my brother, who no go, no know. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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