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Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by DNSPro: 11:38pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
strungup79: No curse is on you. Have you taken any new training or skill to reposition yourself during this period? See, as times go on, some previous opportunities loses relevance and new ones are birthed. If you hold on to the past, you will become irrelevant. I was at a shop to do some graphic works few days ago. The owner of the shop gave his staff just just a phone to take passport and print it out. This was previously the work of cameras in the past but technology has rendered cameras useless with the emergence of smart phone. And it practically ended the reigns of global brands like Kodak and others. I could cite numerous examples but I am sure you get the drift. That is the point. 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by OcMichaels(m): 11:40pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
simonlee: I just know it will end in hot tears 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Martinez39(m): 11:43pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Michellekabod2, Ubunja and Co. Was this not what we were discussing? Give a man power, money, and make him the bread winner, his family will benefit from him. Give a woman money, power, and make her the bread winner, her husband will see hell. OP needs to take the red-pill. Even though the man is at home, his wife has turned turned the kids against him in the cruel and petty game of power dynamics. And many girls had the dishonesty to attack me when I created THIS TOPIC and they acted like parental alienation is not really a thing to worry about and the father should "just spend some time with the kid". Here is a man who is present in his home and yet the kid has turned against him (a case similar to that of emmaodet). Never underestimate the power of brain washing and the wickedness and brutal nature of women. Women are not fair players. Indeed, Ilekokonit was right in THIS TOPIC OF HIS. Also the arguments and contributions made by ubunja and myself are valid. A family is supposed to work as a unit but the woman purchased properties without the man's knowledge, turned the kids against him, and disrespects him yet folks like funmisticqueen (whose personality is as ugly as she looks) turned this on the man insinuating that the man must have been cruel to his wife in the past. The op opened a joint account with his wife but now, the wife has gotten a secret account. Any man that remains oblivious to female nature will suffer and get burnt. 84 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by DNSPro: 11:44pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Change business? Good. What business should he change to? Voice mail. Solve problems? Good. What kind of problems can he solve and how does this make him money? Voice mail. 12 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by owowa145(m): 12:03am On Jan 01, 2020 |
olumide3367: Trust me, the woman has co-conspired with key person in her family to go spiritual with d man to become d woman in d house. He needs divine intervention. His downturn ain't normal. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Martinez39(m): 12:24am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen:Guys, note this: PARAGRAPH 1: This is how women see you as a man. They see you as a utility. Once you can't provide, you are like a phone spoilt beyond repair. This is the cold truth. "You are just like an appendix in your marriage." PARAGRAPH 2: This is just senseless rambling to insinuate that it isn't really the woman's fault. Note, women will always blame someone else for their bad behaviour. She is giving him false hope that he can still do something to save the situation but, in line with the aim of this rambling, she is covering up the fact that the man can't get the love of his wife without money. No money, no love. Also, notice how she implied that the man is supposed to provide and the wife is "covering up his slack". This is women for you. The financial sacrifices you make for the family is okay but the one a woman makes is "covering up the slack of the man". Your money is our money, my money is mine mindset. Despite having equal rights and opportunities as men, they think it odd that they should take on equal responsibility at any time. PARAGRAPH 3: Further nonsensical rambling to hide the fact that it not about the money. This advice is ironic because to do these things to win back the wife, he needs money. So we all come to the same point — no money, no love. Notice how she never blamed the wife for turning the kids against the man, an act that was unnecessary and cruel. Notice how she never said that marriage is supposed to a union where both individuals support each other through thick and thin and the wife is supposed to be helpful. It's always the man's fault — he is indulging in self pity and laziness. Guys, if you still think there is a NAWALT out there, you will suffer. Truth. 124 Likes 24 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Martinez39(m): 12:26am On Jan 01, 2020 |
owowa145:There is nothing spiritual here, the man is going through tough times. It's not unusual. Don't spiritualize anything. No one is too special that the universe owes it to them not to go through hard times. 48 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by otipoju(m): 12:35am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen: Stop making careless comments. If it was the days when i was adventurous , i will patiently seduce you and mess up heart and your mind and turn you into a nervous wreck with this careless statement. You have never been married and you have no clue what he is experiencing. 67 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by jesmond3945: 12:39am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Kendumazy:this is the nature of women, if you like marry angel. 13 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by jesmond3945: 12:42am On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79:dont put it to heart. look for those things that would make you happy most importantly get close to God more. Try as much as possible to bounce back and take back control. if you can afford one bedroom please move to one bedroom. stop your wife as much as possible from taking care of the bills. 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by otipoju(m): 12:45am On Jan 01, 2020 |
internationalman: You are a true G. I came to realise first in theory and then in practical that " women do not love. they calculate". I noticed one day back in 2007 when my girlfriend had been acting up the whole day saw an alert of 50k on my phone when i was in the bathroom. Her mood just change, person wey no like to watch ball follow me go viewing center go watch oo. After some bottles come see as she dey scream fanatically for Chelsea that day. We went back to my place and come see passion on steriods. I just dey laugh for my mind sey see this muntula. The next day she carry bill come i tell am sey i no get shishi sey dem take one money send me message. 26 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by ProtectMyMoney: 12:47am On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79: Be a man! This 2020. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by marvelous000: 12:51am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen:You're really a terrible person. 54 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 12:58am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Martinez39:look how you twist my words around to satisfy your delusions of grandeur and push your narrative my using other words apart from what I wrote. Nothing you say makes any sense. With you, cat is dog and black is white, salt is sugar and water is blood. If you all want to drink the wine of your tears and snot, go on ahead and drown your sorrows in the pity and mockery of your brethren. I bid you happy new year 10 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 1:00am On Jan 01, 2020 |
otipoju:I don't have a heart. By the way, point out what is careless in my comment. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 1:03am On Jan 01, 2020 |
hazard7:he was never and will never be in control of another human being. If he wants control so bad, let him get a pet and train it. How are you different from slave traders 11 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 1:05am On Jan 01, 2020 |
marvelous000:coming from you, that's a compliment. I tell you what you don't want to hear but need to understand. My words chip away your armor and burrow into your soul 17 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Equity15(m): 1:13am On Jan 01, 2020 |
na so women just be. that's why I can't be with a lady that's financial bouyant than me. na only money dey make woman respect man I swear 11 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 1:28am On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79:Sorry!!! Happy new year!!! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 1:35am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen:You are very disrespectful!!! 40 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 1:35am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen:Is that how you talk to your Dad?? Are you the first Doctor in your generation?? 40 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Ilekokonit: 1:36am On Jan 01, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix: Spoken by someone who REALLY knows what he is talking about. 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by 9jamag(m): 1:37am On Jan 01, 2020 |
maak400: You've spoken well but the bold area is where I disagreed with you... God did not create anybody to be richer, God's command is for everyone to be loved equally and perhaps God wants a husband and wife to be helper to each other (no specific gender) it cab be the wife or the husband.. You speak well bro 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by internationalman(m): 1:40am On Jan 01, 2020 |
otipoju: funny girlfriend you've got .. if you really know how to stage and fake things that increase your value in the eyes of your girl, both of you will never feel less of the vibe that got you started. being too honest with girls will always make you a failure with them. 17 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Encoreunltd(m): 1:55am On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79: No cause for alarm. This is the more reason why you should intensify your effort cos tough times don't last, tough people do. Focus on getting back on your feet financially rather than focus on who wears the manly pants at home Lastly, just like it's not possible for the devil to smoke Igbo and become the Most High, it is not possible for your wife to grow hairy manly balls overnight. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Ilekokonit: 1:56am On Jan 01, 2020 |
awwfar: Very good advice. If it was me I will relocate far away from her and the kids and only come back once my finances pick up for the better. Your wife has a grudge with you and had been waiting for your finances to go down so that she can exact revenge against you. if you keep staying in the same house with her, your finances will not pick up because she will keep waiting for you to blow your balloon and she will simply puncture it with a pin leaving you deflated and at rock bottom all over again. Face the fact that your wife had been envying your past success and has always been competing with you to have more money than you and now that she has, she will not give up that competitive advantage without a fight including turning your kids against you like you say she is already doing all in a bid to destabilise you any which way she can. Your wife knows that if she gives you peace of mind, you will pick up financially and probably overtake her financially like before and she doesn't want that hence all the dirty tricks she is using to keep you down. The marriage don tire the woman and she sees you as a liability forgetting the times you had money. Guy, pack out of that house now and don't go back until your finances are better and that's if it is even advisable to go back to such a woman. 28 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Ilekokonit: 2:08am On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79: The only person cursing you under their breath is your wife. If I believed in prophets or alfas, I would have said to verify this from them. Your wife DOES NOT want you to pick up financially as she wants to forever be above you financially. Liberate yourself from that bondage and move far away from her as delaying is just like prolonging your agony as she will not change for the better but will only get worse. Mark my words. And remember that this might be an anonymous forum but there is a wealth of good real life experience to be learnt from here FOR THOSE WHO WANT TO LEARN. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by owowa145(m): 2:15am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Martinez39:Alright, i believe u sir. One love. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by hazard7(m): 2:23am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen:Look bitch am not in mode to heckle so take ur drama out of my sight. I never for once talk about slavery or whatever garbage u mean, get ur act together and a happy new year 25 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by otipoju(m): 3:20am On Jan 01, 2020 |
internationalman: You know at a point you just tired of smokes and mirrors. Especially when you have more important things that you are working on. But one thing i know, women do not like to hear the truth and you can't let them see you finish. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by ZaOzaRoom(m): 3:30am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen:Dumb contribution 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Yinibixema: 3:33am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen:Olosho stfu. Ugly fool who can’t take her family out of okokomaiko talking about making money as if she has mademoney for herself or her wretched family. Go and make money and stop giving foolish advice here mofo 45 Likes 2 Shares |
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