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Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by luminouz(m): 9:40am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen: Really?? ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by finalboss(m): 9:40am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Even the unemployed ones here go dy shout go and hustle.. ![]() 19 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 9:41am On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79:. God will turn things around but never treat her bad when things turn around 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Charly68: 9:41am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Peterosky:I think that is the best option for him,why staying in an environment where you are treated as a stranger . Leave her to manage her life as she want,thank God you have three children already ,please go and hussle for life and see if things won't get better,she may even be the one behind your misfortune and want to turn you to her houseboy at home . Don't endure nonsense please 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Lastmankc(m): 9:42am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen:You are so pathetic. May God not give us your type as a wife. Kharashika 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Beosten(m): 9:42am On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79: Locate a better church for prayer. You will thank me later. |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by LINTUNE(m): 9:42am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen:why u so fowl mouthed,God knows how much I hate women like u,puke!..its ur type that tempt men to go extra mile in disciplining women..if u want to insult somebody,why not do it specifically,why dragging the males into it ![]() 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by aimuan(m): 9:42am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen:No,money does not change human,it only reveals the real you.the character you see on a rich person is his/her true character. Likewise the poor.in this case this is his real wife character,but is been hidden all along. So sad 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by 4ckz: 9:42am On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79: It seems this is very common with women. I had a class mate, dad was doing fine and all didn't really fall, then the wife got a job opportunity outside, took the job and children outside... You know the rest. My advice - Don't ask her for money for any reason, if you must, let it be your last resort. - If you have enough to contribute to your childrens growth, maybe school fees, try as much as possible to do it. Even if your wife can afford it in her sleep, but you would stay hungry to do it, just go ahead. ENSURE THAT YOU PLAY AN ACTIVE PART IN THE DEVELOPMENT OF YOUR CHILDREN. - Next thing, she might start meeting men outside. Don't kill yourself over this, because if I were you, I would be living like we are roommates, I won't divorce her, but I would just stop caring about her. - Although, this might be harsh, just know it is my personal opinion. "I would stop eating her food". - I would relinquish control totally to her, let her take her decisions, and let me take mine. However, you must know when to stand your ground, especially when it concerns the children. - Concerning her family, unless you are a week man (not meant as an insult), but no one can come from his family to control mine, no matter how broke I am, I don't care about the problem it would cause, I can be very stubborn. - Continue hustling, even if it means going away for some time. Hustle as if you were not married. - Never you care about what she does with her money, it is her's. She might decide to build a house for her father, while you all stay in a rented appointment, ignore her, it is her money. - Finally, enjoy your life, if you worry too much, you can come down with a serious generic disease, say stroke, heart conditions or B.P. this would compound your situations, because most of those diseases are managed not cured. Always show a happy face, especially to your children, even to her, be happy, this will even make her happy. Yes her happiness still has a role to play with your peace of mind. Don't wear a grumpy face around your home. 8 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by temi1526: 9:42am On Jan 01, 2020 |
simonlee: Don't try this , you can die in the process. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 9:43am On Jan 01, 2020 |
maak400:. It is just the Nigerian thing... Ladies still support their man and still very submissive, bottom line good moral has gone to the dog 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by temi1526: 9:44am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen: Advice him well. birds of a feather SMH 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by mrsteel: 9:44am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen:The way u women spew trash at times ehh I just wish if God can create a divide among gender & let everyone go on its own. You people are very selfish & callous. Just read the nonsense coming out from ur head 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Mutemenot(m): 9:44am On Jan 01, 2020 |
D downfall of a man is not the end, live like you never get married, just hustle well and see what NATURE has for you...You shall bounce back bigger, then quote me so I will tell you how to wicked a stubborn woman 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by mousco(m): 9:44am On Jan 01, 2020 |
simonlee: And what if she is not moved by this? And if she is even looking for mistake or over reaction to use against the husband to push him out completely. Bros just keep praying that God bless you again.. When there is a WILL there's always a WAY. Be positive everything will be well. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 9:45am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Good point, but if you look through that entire post I merely pointed out that her husband drove her into the hands of another man by his actions. He hit her self esteem and she got attention and validation outside. I never said her not cheating is wrong but merely empathized with her because I saw her perspective when no one else did. If a man did the same thing every one will blame the wife. I merely told op to prove himself to be a leader and a contributor to his marriage and stop wallowing in self pity, but all men chose to see my comments as insults. Contribution is not only financial. We live in a patriarchy. Men already have so much going for them. To whom much is given, much is expected. But these millennial men are disappointing. Why should I be fair in an unfair world. I am simply speaking the odds in my favor. If that makes me less objective and a villian or maleficent then so be it. Michellekabod2: 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by 912(m): 9:45am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen: You ugly sha o. I think it's because your eyes are too far apart. Honest advice: please remove the picture from your profile. You look ugly and razz 10 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by nams77: 9:46am On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79:Shit happens bro. I feel your pain. Wealth seems to turn women into something else. Your story is not the first. A lot of cases like this abounds Put your feet down and dont allow any body(her family) run your house for you Keep pushing forward. Use this pain and bitterness as fuel and motivation. A change is gonna come( hope you know that song) 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 9:47am On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79:never let yourself down, who make money before can still make money, just believe and go hustle 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Mypeople2(m): 9:47am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen:Funmi baby, is this how you talk ? Your comments today are something else .The man is passing through hell and this is what you can spill from your mouth ...Babe,you nor try .You fall my hand 10 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by SmithRussell(m): 9:47am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen: It's OP's wife and her kinds that life would teach, not me.. What do yhu mean by misogyny?? Like we should give her an award huh? Just because she has more dinero than her husband, he's now some piece of sh!t and you are asking him to go hustle and to stop complaining.. And I strongly believe her thighs was all she had to offer when they met.. 15 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by ResourceMan(m): 9:48am On Jan 01, 2020 |
owowa145: OP!!! This is likely the case. Very likely the case. Open your eyes. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by OROSUNBOLB(m): 9:48am On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79: I understand your pain bro,the reality however is that most married women only have respect for their spouse when he is financially okay. This is painful and should not be experienced by any man. There is nothing you can do to change things for now unless your current situation changes for better. I hope this happens fast before the hawks start having illicit affairs with your wife. Yes,some men are experts in that field. They will explore and take advantage of your current situation to lure your wife to their beds. I hope she is morally strong and upright to resist them. Like I said earlier,most women are just like your wife. You only need to continue with your hustle while praying to God to answer in earnest before the hawks descend on your home. It is well with you bro,happy new year! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 9:48am On Jan 01, 2020 |
aimuan:True but there are 3 sides to every story 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by jaxxy(m): 9:48am On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79: This is why I have serious problems with gals who are broke and humble, 80% of the time that is not their true nature or character. Don’t trust it for 1sec. People’s charater especially ladies changes when given power, position, authority and money. This is why I say don’t marry a lady who can’t be down with u or love u and act same way when ur temporarily broke and out. These a fair weather gals/women and people. Don’t marry such ladies, they are disasters. Why shud a right thinking lady subjugate or emasculate her loving husband all because of her fortunes turned for good and his went down? These are hidden traits ladies have and unless u test their true character, affinity for money and control u will never know what they are capable of. There are many women in power positions still respectful to their husbands, just like Funke alakija and Oprah... ur wife is and has always been a rude and difficult person, her lack of opportunity and position only concealed it temporarily. U never treated her wrongly so why all the bad behavior. This is why smtmes it’s good to marry a lady on ur level or above who has a good character, those ones below u are most times are only pretending to be humble bt they are most arrogant and terrible. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Ekpeitut: 9:48am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Two words. See Finish 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 9:48am On Jan 01, 2020 |
internationalman:. My nigar 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 9:48am On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79:Sir, I don't know you but I can tell you that no curse is working against you. Life has ups and downs. My dad was out of Job for 7 good years. My mum shouldered all things. After 7 years pop màn came up again. You need divine intervention and patience. Seek the face of God, with good conscience and patience. Nothing in life lasts. You will bounce back. However, still love your wife as long as your life isn't threatened. It's your duty to love. Peace! 2020 will do you good. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by guru333(f): 9:48am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Hollup Hollup..... U say?? just gimme her number I'll help you out ... u will see changes in one week |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Depressed101: 9:48am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen:sorry but this is how you will remain unmarried. 8 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by LegalOpinion: 9:49am On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79: Follow the series of event in your house as an observer. There is something you have ignored that God wants to show you. Pay attention keenly. Do not act in anger. You may separate from her if you are beginning to lose sanity so that you don't lose control and act impulsively. Write it down, you will experience a turnaround that will place you far above what you ever imagined possible. God is preparing you for a greater position in life. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by LINTUNE(m): 9:49am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Martinez39:dude just ignore her,not all women are like her ..have got lots of female friends and I know what I'm saying ,just leave that bitter woman..don't generalize her perceptions to all women OK ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
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