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Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Hodstat1986: 11:07am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Bro, I pray you overcome this problem as soon as possible. Only few women who have fear of God can endure the situation of this type but what I know is that no condition is permanent. What is happening to you is just to show you that disappointment can come unimaginable person especially, the beloved ones. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by nzube89(m): 11:07am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Jaubdu:brother please introduce me in this your business .I am trustworthy |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 11:08am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Ikpongiton:you are quite small minded 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by sophy17(m): 11:08am On Jan 01, 2020 |
I want to believe you have no meaningful or slightest contribution to the fortunes of your wife otherwise I don't see how she can behave like this except she is an ingrate. Her family too would not have allowed it to happen talkless of being part of it if you had been good. What I know is that if you had been good, you will surely triumph. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by DuxofMen: 11:08am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen: But that's what people do. Some disappoint. But what about countless others who bring joy to our lives? Some of the reactions of our female folk when it comes to understanding men is simply out of logic. |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 11:09am On Jan 01, 2020 |
DuxofMen:I appreciate this, 2019 taught me to value people a lot. |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by augustine: 11:10am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen:Hanty, asking a man to submit to a woman [his wife that he has become used to her submission] is like trying to change a dog's diet from meat eating to grass chewing. It's very unnatural. May our fortunes not take a turn for the worse. For real; time and chance happens. |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by LINTUNE(m): 11:10am On Jan 01, 2020 |
[quote author=pocohantas post=85402379] My man is not the one opening threads upandan NL. He isn't the one taking red pills. He isn't the one killing and arming himself with new manipulation techniques to keep a woman in check. I wonder how helping with his own home and kids translates to control and low self esteem. Then use your high self esteems to MAKE MONEY and KEEP MAKING MONEY!! After that you pray it never finishes. If it does, your high self esteem will come crashing Ndi ala!!!..smh |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by tomdon(m): 11:11am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen: I agree with your last point. But men are really more gracious if you want to be sincere. A man being the breadwinner is like default setting, only few men use this position to torment their wives. |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 11:11am On Jan 01, 2020 |
augustine:True. But please read my subsequent posts |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by barikeyz: 11:12am On Jan 01, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix: Too much wisdom here sir,God bless you 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by rayobaba(m): 11:12am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Equity15:yes, l believe it's money dt makes women submissive except very very few like 3%. The 3% sef is submissive cos of another thing separate from money. There must sha be something to make them submissive. Submissiveness by default is rare. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by uninspired07: 11:13am On Jan 01, 2020 |
friendl: Money doesn’t make a man? Just hearing this for the 1st time. |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by IgboSomalia: 11:13am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen: Look at how you showed the world how stupid you are. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Sterope(f): 11:14am On Jan 01, 2020 |
It is all about the control. Once it is gone, they become useless and take their frustrations out on the poor woman who is expected to do every damn thing and not say a word. pocohantas: 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by BLEMOSEDU: 11:15am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Martinez39: My brother everyone you said about women is right, I'm married too, it's just that there are very few exceptions to them. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by DonJiba: 11:17am On Jan 01, 2020 |
ichidodo:God blees bless you for this, you said it's all And from the comments above from a dude talking about how OP hasn't been Hustling enough you never know life I just got to figure out that life's crazy it can move from zero to hero and vice versa.. It's not by the race or how well you can hustle GRACE is all what we should pray for in life 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 11:18am On Jan 01, 2020 |
nzube89:chat me on Whatsapp |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Sterope(f): 11:18am On Jan 01, 2020 |
So she should be eating garri when she can afford to eat rice to make him happy. Do we alls till think women are not enslaved in marriages? RisenPhoenix: 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by obama30: 11:19am On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79: Sorry many men have pass through this and there's nothing like love in 70% of women. I married my first wife in 2015, by 2016 thing was too hard to extend that she's is the one that paid for our rent renew by 2017 things started change but i maintain that things still hard to enable me see her full colors. By September 2017 i told her that i want to travel, she do all her best to see that i no travel not knowing to her that am going to Dubai to by goods, she thought i was going to another state to meet a friend. Could you believed that as soon i made the travel she pack her things out with support of her senior brother who is a medical doctor. when i return from Dubai i first wait my goods to come thereafter i sold the goods travel again for another goods, by the time i go Dubai 2 times. I bought a vehicle and then decide to go and look for her, could you believed that a lady who pack out of my house because am poor turn the story that i chase her out because i have now made small money. And her senior brother who insulted me as if i don't have hope was there looking like cow. I just tell them to refund my bride price that am not interested in the marriage again because first i enter to wrong family and second there's no love. why i tell my story is to let you know that many have pass through what your passing through now. when a woman take care of her husband for 3 months the whole world will know, but a man can feed the same woman for all her life without complain. My brother don't lose hope, never allow whatever she and her people is doing to bring down your hard working spirit, you will make it again, next you make money live your life to the fullest, never you live manage life with hope your living for your family and wife, they are the same people that will first wish you dead when you don't have nothing. I never see a man that have peace from her wife in hardship. and the same woman will try to control you in good time with deceiving tears and coated love. we just enter new year, i pray by middle of this year your story will change to best. only that she have open your eyes to know whom your living with. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by BLEMOSEDU: 11:19am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Martinez39: This is the truth and nothing but the absolute truth of what she wrote there, I can personally relate to all of this, Women always blaming the men for her faults. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Realhommie(m): 11:20am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen:Now it's pretty much obvious to me you've got issues.. You may wanna deny it outrightly or even feign ignorance but i pray you get healing, you need it.. Happy New Year, best wishes. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Ladycewhy(f): 11:20am On Jan 01, 2020 |
LINTUNE:why cant he ? That is where i think the issue is coming from.You people talk about how westerners are different but fail to take a que from them. A white man will not have a problem supporting his wife with house chores especially now that he is out of job but you Nigerian men and your egotistic self will not. she will go to work while he stays home all day and still expects her to do the duties of a full time house wife when she returns while he lifts his leg up and watch the news . 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by fatwhite(m): 11:20am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Dude its all your fault, any man who thinks he can love a woman to the extent of disclosing and sharing everything with her seized being a man from that day onward. Now, let me give you a piece of advise, allow her to continue with whatever she's doing but make sure you have orders passed down to your children. Have time with your kids most especially your male child, as the female kids will always want to take after their mum. Please don't relent talking to God through prayers as you goes out, also visit some good friends too with your predicament. May your tears never be in vain... 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by cerpvad(m): 11:20am On Jan 01, 2020 |
He who pays the piper dictates the tune. Marriage is woven around power and class interface. Earning power and social class are two main factors I always advise guys to consider before marrying a lady. If she earns more than you and she's from a wealthy family, guys, run for your life. Some ladies, after using their earnings and wealthy family to entice you into marriage, would bite you back with a lifetime controls, blackmails and giving you depression. In fact they would be feeling too big to have sex with you. To the Op, though you didn't marry her for her earning and social class, it is evident she married you because you were doing fine financially back then and that probably didn't go well with her. Now that she is rich, she thinks it's time for her to pay you back. The only solution is to get your financial power back or leave the marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 11:21am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Kendumazy: He is married for 13yrs so what has prayer have to do with what happen. Instead of facing real life issues you guys are over religious in this country... Spits. |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by miltonchux(m): 11:22am On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79:Bro focus on God and be prayerful, your business might be going through some attack, Instead of your wife to support you nd pray with you, Pride has come into her. Look for a good church and attend to fight your battles. When things turn around, you know how to position your home. Leave home for sometime and focus on yourself. Your kids will be ok, when things turn around, you play your role and learn. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Classcaptain1(m): 11:22am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen:To slap that your bald agbako head just dey hungry me. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by MrSly(m): 11:22am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen:Then the matter is even worse than I thought. |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nawtygrrlsecret(f): 11:22am On Jan 01, 2020 |
I do not like the fact that a married woman for that matter cannot support her partner in his down times. But what's the actual value of marriage then? No one else can encourage you and give you the push you need more than her.... But as it is now, you have to be strong, ignore the negativity, work hard and be a great dad to your children. Be nice.... They will see you for who you are. That's all that matters. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by DNSPro: 11:23am On Jan 01, 2020 |
MJBOLT: Jeez |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Kennedyiheme: 11:23am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Why do you think nature has them as the weaker sex and didnt put power in the hands of women?. Naturally women are dumb... they cant handle power, give them small, they'll get drunk... men get rich everytime, we never hear too muchof men dumbing and treating his wife like shit because he is richer... bro i advice you leave the house for some time so you settle your head and think straight, being in that house younare basically crippled.. trust me you cant archive anything in that toxic environment... move out , stay with a friend, get your dealings sorted out, then get a divorce later on... women are weak physically but are very dangerous and petty.. thats why I'm staying away from marriage 4 Likes 1 Share |
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