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Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Chikicaka(f): 11:23am On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79: It would come, sooner than you expect, stay strong, keep praying and work hard, stuffs like this go both ways, my ex back then we both had nothing only our dreams, we prayed together, hustled together and worked hard together, I gave up a lot and supported him more than I even supported myself and he hit it, came home one day and said he needed space, that he needed to mix up with the same crowd he now rolls in, no sugar coated words but he gave me hot hot, I was crushed, I was battling with my weight and felt inadequate, but I moved on today if you see me you would not recognize me at all, God has restored in a million folds all that i felt i had lost, he came back begging i forgave him but couldn't stoop so low again this time he was truly not my level anymore, I took that pain and it propelled me, thankfully he was just a boyfriend and not a hubby, as in this case she is your wife, zone in on her good qualities and forgive her, tell her how much her attitude hurts you,, hopefully she changes, may God bless us all. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Brightgem(f): 11:24am On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79:Sad you are experiencing this. It doesn't look like one of those sit down and talk it out situations. Indeed money and power often shows who people truly are. Even after years of marriage, someone can suddenly start acting up and showing unusual behavior. I guess nothing is certain. Pls sit and reflect and you'll come to a good way out of this 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by unbrandedspace(m): 11:24am On Jan 01, 2020 |
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Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 11:24am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Classcaptain1:I am in my house eating chicken. Come and beat me 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 11:25am On Jan 01, 2020 |
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Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Alexandre7: 11:25am On Jan 01, 2020 |
pocohantas: Lol... You & Nigerian Men. But most Nigerian Women don’t appreciate gifts like flowers & chocolates. They rather have Cash, Cold Stone, Pizza & Chicken. So entirely unfair to place the blame squarely on Nigerian Men. Meanwhile Happy New Year, May this year bring you and your family good tidings. |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by millionboi2: 11:26am On Jan 01, 2020 |
jesmond3945:lol D guy dey talk like native doctor weh won promote him juju 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Sterope(f): 11:27am On Jan 01, 2020 |
You failed to mention how these men enslave their wives and kids when he is the brradwinner. The only reason they respect him is because of his ability to provide. You also failed to tell us how some of these men become just a mere figurehead in the house. Would you in all sincerity marry a partner that does absolutely nothing in the house? A woman that does not have a job would at the barest minimum ensure the house is running smoothly. What would most egotistical men in that position do? Nothing!!! Having a penis is not an excuse for irresponsibility. A man has to be responsible in the home. If he cannot provide, he can at least find other ways to be responsible. Many good women with good husbands will gladly have their husbands back when the chips are down. It is a given! Martinez39: 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by unbrandedspace(m): 11:27am On Jan 01, 2020 |
[quote author=LordKO post=85390702]If you're a Mech. Engr. with at least 2 years previous work experience in the petroleum industry, send me a PM immediately. As for your wife and her recent attitude, it's obvious that you've been living with a frenemy all this while. Only few men are lucky, and can be lucky, to marry virtuous/submissive women. Since she's of the small-minded stock, you've to master the art of treating small-minded people and mete out same to her - if you aren't small-minded like her too. Here i am, 08114521124. I'm interested] |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by DennisEche(m): 11:27am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen:Stfu, you begged for men 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nawtygrrlsecret(f): 11:27am On Jan 01, 2020 |
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Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by LegendaryLover(m): 11:28am On Jan 01, 2020 |
internationalman: in this situation where he's losing control and she's getting tired of him, finding such text msg or chats may even give her reasons for a divorce. She's already turning the children against him for f.u. c.k.'s sake. and u r here talking about "game". making her see bogus charts to make her jealous. Yes, it's game. But only early in r/ship or marriage. Not something that will trip a woman after 13yrs of marriage. It'll only enrage her. "So he got talking with some other woman up to such a point?" WHAT THEY F.U. CKING NEED IS COUNSELLING OR SEPERATION. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by uninspired07: 11:28am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Zeewirld: Where do we get these kind of people? Which women are loyal? I think you suck up to women so you may get laid or something. Women are not loyal, at alllll—especially Nigerian women. I fear them a lot. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by zoghys: 11:28am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen: your reply shows how mean and egoistic you are. if you think marriage is about competition of the wealthier then you have lost a nut. in as much as money is a powerful tool in all marriages, it's should be used to foster love and not the other way round. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Sofistcatdmoron: 11:29am On Jan 01, 2020 |
when a woman becomes head of household, the ugly part of her comes out, thats how they do 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by rs172(m): 11:29am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen: Your brain is in your big lips 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Ozugbo(m): 11:29am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Cheer up brother!Same thing happened to me.In my own case,she didn't only maltrmaltreat me but also pack out n since den,I ve put my hope in God. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nawtygrrlsecret(f): 11:29am On Jan 01, 2020 |
zoghys: Yeah, poverty has made money top priority for everyone in this shameless nation. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by optimus106(m): 11:30am On Jan 01, 2020 |
One ship One captain that's all , I am the head of my family/home and no amount of billions can change that. Man, know thy self. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by sylve11: 11:31am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Martinez39: Wonderful! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by kanada(m): 11:31am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Just thank God that this is happening to you. I have experienced this before.Note that before a promotion comes, one needs to pass through exams.This is your exams period for your elevation. Sit your wife down and have a heart talk with her. Let her know the implications of her attitude towards your health and how much you love her and the children. If she fails to change, you may have no option than to leave the house for a while and you continue to hustle for better future. If you remain in the house this may affect your health and ability to think correctly. She will repent and look out for you except she has bad advisers, a substitute man somewhere or another father for the children. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by DNSPro: 11:31am On Jan 01, 2020 |
BiggyB242: That whole package is rare. It's like 1 in 100. Few minutes ago, I was saying to myself, some men will say their wife is different since they are well off. But these men need to start asking questions like: if I am broke, will this woman still stand by me? ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 11:32am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Realhommie:I know I have issues. I still do me in spite of them. I seek counselling once in a while 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Obason22(m): 11:33am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen:Ewu 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 11:33am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen: I pray you stay single You're a poison to the society with this terrible thought you had. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 11:34am On Jan 01, 2020 |
zoghys:i have replied this already. I hate repeating myself. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 11:35am On Jan 01, 2020 |
DNSPro:if a woman was barren, will a man stand by her. Humans always look out for thier best interests 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Brightgem(f): 11:35am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Chikicaka:I love you. I love so much. Lolz! No homo! Why? Cuz this is an almost identical experience, we share. I'm certainly on my way to surpassing him in all he stands for. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 11:36am On Jan 01, 2020 |
True, lack of communication is their problem, simple kanada: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by DuxofMen: 11:36am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen: But then, a lot of your hardline posts, especially when it concerns men, tells me, there's need for some "healing" here and there? There's nothing wrong with being a feminist. It depends on your definition of feminism. One of my colleagues like to announce that she's the most submissive feminist in the world. We all know her, she's hard as nails, very tough, very uncompromising but doesn't joke with her husband. In fact it's a common joke in our office, when she's being obstinate, that we'll call Mr A. to talk to her. She's a deaconness in church and I've heard her say many times, that many of those who propagate feminism, don't know what true feminism is all about. For instance, being a submissive wife is true feminism rather than looking for equality. 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by CorperKola: 11:36am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen:Didnt you see where he said he didnt control her or bully her when he was rich, i think thats what is paining him He prolly feels betrayed at this, this is prolly one of those lovey dovey, soft kind of man I feel bad for him and at the same time there is some truth to what they are saying. U need to become a realist and stop your victim mentality There are many men where the man doesnt contribute as much as the wife and everything is in order, and nobody will know, because the man is in charge and the wife accepts it like that. My advice is always simple as always no matter what some pple will say Dont ever marry a woman you cant control Be 100% sure you are the one dictating or setting the pace of the relationship and that she accepts it and is comfortable with it! You should be the one to provide day to day need s and wants considering ur oncome and savings too I suspect you were never really in control buh she tolerated you cos you had money to provide comforts She was the one that decided the level of your family expenditure and comfort or standard of living before now which shouldnt be so. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by LINTUNE(m): 11:37am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Ladycewhy:have heard u but I want to ask u a question,if ur elder bro was to be in the OP shoe,what would ur take be..what would be ur reaction when u went to visit ur bro,and saw him washing is wife's clothes ,and doing other chores such as ,cooking and sweeping the compound, simply becos he recently lost his job,and his wife is providing for the mean time...I need a honest answer ![]() 1 Like |
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