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Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Encapsulate: 11:37am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Is she the only woman in the world?. Leave her alone n go n be doing ur business with another woman else u will just kill yourself for nothing n she will go n marry another man. By leaving her alone, I mean absolutely leaving her alone oo, not that at night u will be beging her to unzip. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by martowskin1(m): 11:37am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen: Did u even read what he wrote? 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 11:38am On Jan 01, 2020 |
LegendaryLover:you are legendary 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Osashalom: 11:38am On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79:The first prayer every man should pray in life is God may I not get to the level in life where my wife is now the breadwinner of the house. Because if you get there, but God forbid, you will discover that among 1000 women, less than one are truly loyal. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Realhommie(m): 11:38am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen:Good.. Self realization is the first step to healing/redemption.. May whatever you believe in help you. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by West2019(m): 11:40am On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79:dnt mind him.God will.see you tru just be playful and be closer to God 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by uninspired07: 11:40am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen: These kind of comments make me fear this marriage thing more since there’s no money to run the package. This is another year & i am feeling fearful again. When will money come ooo because I can’t be dealing with a Nigerian woman without money. Maybe na life bachelor I go be ooo unless I can leave this country. Everybody is just terrible & heartless. If someone as ugly as this Funministique can be this wicked & materialistic, how will beautiful Nigeria girls be? 11 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by oglalasioux(m): 11:40am On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79: 99% women will do same thing. Ignore her and focus on getting back on your feet. If you don't have money just forget a woman's respect, including many mothers 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 11:40am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Kendumazy: See them o Another local computer guru has arrived |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by DRPAIT123(m): 11:42am On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79:the Good thing about this issue is that you will definitely come back to shape and become auspicious even more than before, just keep pushing and keep praying 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Kennedyiheme: 11:43am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen:lol you...all this your gra gra na social media, when realise hits you, you'll still find yourself under a man... go to linda ikejis page, shes not posting on how she wishes to be someones bride... someone that was all for women power and not minding men... you do pass linda ikeji then ? 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by BadBradley: 11:44am On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen:mumu big toto 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Ladycewhy(f): 11:45am On Jan 01, 2020 |
LINTUNE:honestly its somehow sha make i nor lie. I guess there is this unwritten rule of it being a taboo for men to b domesticated . 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Chikicaka(f): 11:45am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Brightgem: You go girl, one piece of advice, as much as you use whatever pain he may have caused to propel your hustle, never let "peppering" him be your major driving force, because revenge is for the Lord, karma would catch up with him herself and when you finally get to the point you dream of you may have no more ginger because getting back at him was the sole purpose for your intense hustle, for example in my case my driving force was my parents esp my sweet mama, I needed her to enjoy and my future kids I needed them to know mama is no push over but a boss chick... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by uchyno123: 11:46am On Jan 01, 2020 |
My dear, it not suprising because most women are guilty of that. It takes a God fearing woman and the one who understands that marriage is all about love and sacrifices especially if you have been the one holding on all these while. A man who has been up and suddenly found himself down, it just a matter of time before he eventually gets back on it feet, as long as he is determined to. You will bounce back and when you do, just remember that the only family you have are your children and your children alone. Until then, just be patient and continue to do your thing. Peace. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 11:46am On Jan 01, 2020 |
mascot87:Bros person go end up marrying this one. Jesus save men. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by carlos1(m): 11:47am On Jan 01, 2020 |
U c y women can't rule this country, just small family power she z already misbehaving. Odiegwu o. God help us all 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by 27Pushing30: 11:47am On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79:Divorce? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by martowskin1(m): 11:47am On Jan 01, 2020 |
LegendaryLover: After reading what u wrote, I just laugh, I keep saying it, men protect ur wealth, protect ur source of income, don't be deceived by the word love, it doesn't exist, The day u run short of that cash in ur bank account, u are finish, money is the only language women understand, beat them, abuse them, in as much u pay the bills later, give them what they can't afford, they will worship u. The day that money finish, u go fear that woman.... The next thing u will hear is seperation 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 11:47am On Jan 01, 2020 |
I agree with all you say, but I am not a feminist DuxofMen: |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by ABIODUNOLAOPA1(m): 11:48am On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79:There will be a turn around after you have learnt all d lessons God is trying to reach you with this downturn. Your business will bounce back and you will emerge stronger and better. God is trying to open your eyes to certain thing and people. I have been there and God made everything perfect after d storm. But be resolute as to what you will not have a third party in form of in-laws do in your house, fight their intrusion to a standstill. Be rude to them if they don't want to respect your boundaries. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by idiagbo86(m): 11:49am On Jan 01, 2020 |
[color=#006600][/color] funmisticqueen:Women of this generation,I guess u didnt read through the lines properly. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by LINTUNE(m): 11:51am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Ladycewhy:but u were saying something else,that's one thing about we humans, we are just too selfish, u advising a man to do demeaning home chores cos he lost his job recently and his wife just started providing,now u are saying u wouldnt want that for ur bro,even if he is in the OP's shoe,how selfish of u.pukes! 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Amhappy(f): 11:54am On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79: I lot of my my instead of our that the first problem in your marriage. I love the fact you are even doing some odd jobs to assist in the home financially. However someone has take over your position. Why not join your wife in the business. Take this New Year as opportunity. Make her understand it's not a competition together you can do better. My husband is also a my my person. I so hate that attitude. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by cerpvad(m): 11:55am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Having a rich or wealthy wife is not a ticket to having a blissful marriage. Except where love reigns supreme, some wealthy wives are pain in the neck of their husbands. Acidosis: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by samydo(m): 11:55am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Sincerely I'm just pained by this story. These days, it has become something almost impossible to find a partner that truly knows and understands what marriage and true love is all about, I really feel for this generation of ours . 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by IDERAWOLE(m): 11:56am On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79: Don't look for sympathisers from this platform, even if you get one, that's not what you need. You've said it yourself, certain revelations won't happen till certain situations show up. Unfortunately, she couldn't handle her new status. Meanwhile, it's for a temporary period. You'll soon go beyond this bend in the journey of your marriage. It is also a period of self-examination, so, don't miss it. Critically look deep into yourself. However, don't get pained about her behaviour, she's just reflecting her level of maturity, she needs to grow up! On her siblings and parents, just take your cool. Keep watching all of them, without being bitter towards anyone, remember, everyone is being given opportunity to show who they are at this junction of your life. Let your job search continue, or look towards alternative of starting a business, you never can tell, God may be setting you up for something bigger than a paid job. Above all, call her for a heart2heart discussion without anyone's interference. Just the two of you. Explain your observation and let her show her innocence or arrogance about your observation. This will allow you to remind her when things turn around, for it will surely turn around. Remain positive and loving. Ask of her opinions about the situation of things and what she thinks you need to do better or about upping your game. Just remain yourself, hard, but possible. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 11:56am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Each tear that has escaped your eye because of this current situation of yours will Bring Blessings your way. I once rejected a girl who offered to wire me 2 million to marry her when I had nothing doing. In few months while on visit, we had an argument and she threw my things outta her house. As I walked off without transport fare to go back to my base she ran to me held me that I wasn't leaving, Tore my shirt, when I insisted I was leaving she threatened to jump. When she saw I was determined she put money in my pocket, I threw back every penny at her and left. A guy gave me a lift to the motor park and I was lucky My brother responded to my plea and wired me money. Don't give up. But when God finally blesses you again, kill her with kindness. Don't frown at her even now, it will keep her on her toes and continuously guessing. God bless you Brother. 2020 will reopen doors for you. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by isyourboy(m): 11:56am On Jan 01, 2020 |
I urged all the men, both married and single, to come to this thread as as a matter of urgency. cc : ubunja, Martinez39, pansophist and others. Something I Just want to reiterate is that" women have no Love to give". The ordeal which this guy narrated here happened to my uncle. He was a big man, a director. About 4 years ago, 2015, he lost his stands and was unable to regain his footing. his wife took the reign and start directing the affairs of the house. Everybody thought this is a good woman. Months later, this woman bought her cold attitude and started dishing insults to the man all because he could not provide. just last year, the man died- depression. Women are tool good only to be bleeped and discard. If you're a man forming love, you're to be blamed 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by IamMichaels: 11:57am On Jan 01, 2020 |
There is always another side of the coin.. Shit has happened now is damage control.. Stop those odd/menial job give yourself some heads up and give your family a standard respect then pray to God for favour.. Women are never stable especially when taking care of their needs themselves |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Daughterboard(m): 11:57am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Continue the hustle and be faithful to your family. Remember that no condition is permanent. This is a test of life. Please do not be bitter in your heart so as not to fail the test and lose the final reward of your steadfastness. Watch and pray and it shall be well with you. 1 Like |
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