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Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Ultralexo: 11:57am On Jan 01, 2020 |
I can imagine what u are going through, just be focused and hustle u can do odd jobs and save more even if it's warrant u to move out from the house u can even put up with a friend or relative or even parents for the main time. When i found myself in such situation I asked my self how much was my salary? I said I will make x 2 I stared driving a bus and before u know it I was making over 10k daily I saved a good part of that money until I bought another. That was when I knew that hustle pays. Now I have gotten another job and doing very well in business too. U can do the same there is dignity in labour, imagine someone like me that worked for over 5yrs in the bank now driving a bus, but I was not deterred but today God heard my prayers 2 weeks after my second daughter was born. I strongly believe that god performs miracles bro. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by oribi(m): 11:57am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Just determine to break the jinx and think positively sure it will turn around believe me just keep trying |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Aladdin1(m): 11:59am On Jan 01, 2020 |
this new year una done start with complain and regrets.complain no dey tire una? brace up like a man and face your problems gallantly.stop washing ur soiled,tathered dirty pants publicly and suning them openly for all to see.i mean stop bringing ur problems to the open for people to debate on.stop making ur family issues an object of social media discussion.you are only making mockery of urself and family.it does not help.it would only breed more animousity and confusion in your heart and this would unleash hatred on your family.learn to take ur problems to God.and be patient with people. especially ur family.no matter what u experience with ur wife be patient and respond with love.not hatred.remember that tough times never last. tough people do. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by pocohantas(f): 11:59am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Alexandre7: Yes, you are right. I am not placing all the blame on them, I am saying- they know the standard. Skip the complains and keep making money. Happy new year to you too. Hope you are enjoying your villa. I missed you 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 11:59am On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79: Women are like that ooooo.... the God that change the fortune of your wife for good would change mine for good in Jesus name... If a man doesn't have money, na really wahala |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 11:59am On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79: But you're complaining about losing control. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Ultralexo: 11:59am On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79:I can imagine what u are going through, just be focused and hustle u can do odd jobs and save more even if it's warrant u to move out from the house u can even put up with a friend or relative or even parents for the main time. When i found myself in such situation I asked my self how much was my salary? I said I will make x 2 I stared driving a bus and before u know it I was making over 10k daily I saved a good part of that money until I bought another. That was when I knew that hustle pays. Now I have gotten another job and doing very well in business too. U can do the same there is dignity in labour, imagine someone like me that worked for over 5yrs in the bank now driving a bus, but I was not deterred but today God heard my prayers 2 weeks after my second daughter was born. I strongly believe that god performs miracles bro. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Encapsulate: 11:59am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Yinibixema: Ahh, this insult too much fa. I know she is wrong but come to think of it most women encounter far worst things like OP here did. She is thinking from that perspective so jut cut her some slack 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Opengates(m): 12:02pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
maak400: I had my own share of this experience few years ago but now God is returning back the control. @OP => This is the best advice so far, do it and God will help you. That was exactly what I did and today, things are going back to normal. No matter your downfall or failure, you are still the head, so stand your ground as a man and be seriously prayerful, Women are not given to head a home as the head but to manage. God bless you, you shall be back stronger in Jesus name 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Zhanmek5000(m): 12:03pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Kendumazy:I politely disagree with all these consultations and stuffs if you like consult till tomorrow spouse that’ll Bleep go still Bleep up and without consulting the loyal ones will still stay loyal forever |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by yYot: 12:04pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79: Get this once! There is no curse on you or any misfortune. You are 42 years old. Do not expect to get employed easily when there are younger applicants with fresh energy and prospect. Just keep keeping on! Perhaps, you may experience better season. And if nothing changes, keep your dignity and self respect intact while you maintain the status quo! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Enemyofpeace: 12:05pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
simonlee:Na lie that won't change the evil woman 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by uninspired07: 12:05pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
pocohantas: It takes grace to ignore comments like this. It’s a new year jareee. Your actions won’t affect me. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by ogawisdom(m): 12:06pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
e author=strungup79 post=85389072]I'm 42 years old and married with 3 children (2 boys and a girl). I got married to this beatiful lady 13 years ago and everything was bliss until three years ago when my business experienced a serious down turn. My wife on the other hand witnessed an upturn in fortunes and practically became the bread winner in the home. Her good financial fortune had me focussed on trying to get myself back on track. I tried getting a job, but it was not forth coming. My business continued to dwindle and then I resorted to doing small odd jobs just so I could contribute to the family upkeep. My wife's upturn in fortune however brought out the ugliness in her. She started trying to assume control of the home. She stopped consulting me on decisions concerning our home, rather consulting her parents. She practically turned my kids against me as she painted me as irresponsible. We initially had assess to each other's account, but now she has accounts hidden from me. I just found out she bought land somewhere, though she doesn't know I have that knowledge. She has become rude and disrespectful and her parents and siblings have taken over my home. I am so pained because all I ever did was show her love and respect. She didn't like the fact i tried to have order in my home and that seems to be my sin. I have never hit her or been wicked to her. Right now, I'm pained and confused. I don't know what to do. Someone please help.[/quote] Women of these days can only respect you if u r financially strong it's unfortunate the only advice is to lie low and bounce back |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Enemyofpeace: 12:08pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Op get your things, leave the house for her and the children, relocate to any other part of the country to struggle and start life all over again, then always commit your struggles into the hands of God and see what determination, perseverance, hardwork and prayers can do 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by IDnoble1: 12:09pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Most contemporary women respect their husbands because of money. Only few women respect ther struggling husband naturally. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 12:09pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Just kill her |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by midnighter(f): 12:09pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
DuxofMen: Thank you! Finally somebody gets it. All is not lost. Thank you You need to see the kind of stupidity people use to quote me in the name of "feminism". Feminism didnt tell you to mess up your marriage and feminism doesnt tell you to be arrogant, unnecessarily argumentative and stupid!! Somebody will just unleash their bad character on another human and call it feminism smh |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Ladycewhy(f): 12:11pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
LINTUNE:So who made it a necessity for Nigerian women to only do such demeaning home chores? I have seen men who do chores and even pound yam and heaven did not fall. You cannot expect a woman to go to work all day and come back and still come and cook for you with her own money while all you do is sit and do nothing. I am sure the op cant even bath his children and prepare them for school. A white man will cordinate his home in the event of loosing his job with no hassle. If chores are too demeaning for the op, let him put his money where his mouth is (pun intended). I am sure if he was married to a white woman he will not have a problem being a house husband ,go and ask our Yankee brothers how they suddenly have a factory reset when they travel out. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by chinchonglee(m): 12:12pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen:U dis ugly hippopotamus u av started again... Always trying to convert family problems into male vs female superiority battle. Madam go n marry. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Neddyogu(m): 12:13pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
simonlee: That might give the wife liberty to cheat on him and finally crush his already broken heart to dust. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 12:13pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79: What do you mean by her parents and siblings taking over your home? Are they living with you? And what kind of order were you trying to restore? What's your definition of order? 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 12:13pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
DNSPro: They are rare as you have said but there are things which are most important. Most women are loyal because of the money their husband possess. I need the cash not impress one woman but to leave a better life and give my family both immediate and extended. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by EgunMogaji2: 12:14pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
I'm sorry to read this. It's not a good place at all. So here's what I'll do. Let me start with a Yoruba proverb. "Ti Ina Ba Njo Ni, To Njo Omo E ni, Ti Ara Eni La Nko Gbon". You need to leave this woman before she brings hired assassins to off you. Based one what you wrote, you are of no more value to her. Good luck. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by LINTUNE(m): 12:14pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Ladycewhy:OK o..if u say so,if u say u don't mind ,even if ur elder bro should be in the same shoe...alright 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Ishilove: 12:14pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Alexandre7:True that. What are we doing with flowers? If a man gives me flowers i will use it to cook vegetable soup for him. As for chocolates... seriously do you want to cause her tooth decay? Make sure you include Listerine anti-gingivitis mouthwash in the gift pack if you must buy your woman chocolates. Cash, Cold Stone, Pizza and Chicken are the languages of love 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Zeewirld: 12:14pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
uninspired07:..Well,experience and background differs.Your believe might have been shaped by the calibre of women in your live, mine are very loyal to a fault. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by chigoizie7(m): 12:15pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
And marriage gets scarier to me by the day. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Zeewirld: 12:15pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
uninspired07:..Well,experience and background differs.Your beliefs might have been shaped by the calibre of women in your live, mine are very loyal to a fault. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Contumely: 12:16pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
DCmonster: What kind of partnership is that ? |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by blackboy(m): 12:17pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Emasculating!! Strange but strong word. Mr Man, you need to sit her down and tell her to fear God. |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by kingreign(m): 12:17pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Ishilove: Crinkun crankun |
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