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Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by pansophist(m): 12:17pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
isyourboy: I've always uphold the doctrine that men are of only practical value to women. From lifting heavy weight, fighting for her, sponsoring her, ego boost, to name a few. Men are human doing to women, while women are human beings to men. Men are nothing more than success object to most women. From an evolutionary, historically and culturall perspective, realistically, men are just a means to an end for women, and he will be discarded when he outlive his usefulness. The kind of love women have for men is exactly the kind of love men have for their career. Men usually begin to be irritated with their career when it doesn't yield fruit as before, and will think of changing it, or irritated by it if changes are not possible. Since the poster can not fulfil his financial responsibility, he has came to experience this timeless truism, a sad realisation that is a hard pill to swallow, in this trying times. You can either love women or understand them, you cant do both. 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by pocohantas(f): 12:18pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Ladycewhy: -He doesn't have money. -He doesn't want to do demeaning chores. -He wants the wife to hustle for ALL the money and do demeaning chores when she gets back home tired. -He wants to continue knacking the already tired wife with his God given big prick. What is he? A HUMAN DILDÔ ![]() Only cougars want such. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by uninspired07: 12:19pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Zeewirld: You lie. There are no loyal Nigerian women. The fact is you may be doing well financially & they have no reason whatsoever to be disloyal. But to each his own though. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by henrico247(m): 12:20pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
My brother, the honest advice I think I can give to you now is never to touch her money again or even ask her for money. Just try and do some thing that can give you your own money no matter how little. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Brightgem(f): 12:20pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
internationalman:worked because you were dating a shallow, unintelligent, obviously manipulative child woman. You too get time Sha, wetin be all these one? I see part of why everything is going wrong with relationships these days o. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Ladycewhy(f): 12:21pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
LINTUNE:will the story be the same if he was married to a white woman? Abegi ,all this talk is bullshit. Which is why i laugh when i see deluded men write "hustle ,you can get any woman you want" . when the money vanish all that is left is bruised ego and resentment. They become frustrated because the only thing they had for control was the money they put on the table. Which is the main issue the op is facing. Many Nigerian men believe "he who pays the piper dictates the tune "in a marriage,well the op cant pay the piper any more ,too bad. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by uninspired07: 12:21pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
chigoizie7: My brother no be only you ooo. And money no come dey sotey to enter relationship sef na war. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Contumely: 12:22pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
row2ray:Bought her a car and divorced? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by rexx07(m): 12:22pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79: Love your Kids, you are their father, don't disappoint them... Find good Friends to hang out with and share ideas... Starting hitting the gym on a regular, the adrenaline rush will help... Continue hustling, but hustle real smart. Stop trying with your wife, you've probably lost her already. Don't loose yourself in turn. And despite the troubles, pick up an hobby and make an effort to enjoy life. Everything is about attitude... 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Amhappy(f): 12:23pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
LINTUNE: If it's my elder brother becomes a house husband God Forbid,i will ginger him to get his arse out and work or do business. There's nothing wrong in him washing his wife clothes my husband washes mine but it's not a full time job nor will it put food on the table. Sitting at home and doing house work only will kill the morale of any ambitious woman talkless a man. You can only do that for a meantime while working your way out. Those that value their spouse taking over their manly duty reciprocate by taking care of the home more. It's never a problem for a family that walk together. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Godsfavour78: 12:23pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
rayobaba:your last statement make cold catch me bro. |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by ecology: 12:24pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
[quote author=strungup79 post=85389072]I'm 42 years old and married with 3 children (2 boys and a girl). I got married to this beatiful lady 13 years ago and everything was bliss until three years ago when my business experienced a serious down turn. My wife on the other hand witnessed an upturn in fortunes and practically became the bread winner in the home. Her good financial fortune had me focussed on trying to get myself back on track. I tried getting a job, but it was not forth coming. My business continued to dwindle and then I resorted to doing small odd jobs just so I could contribute to the family upkeep. My wife's upturn in fortune however brought out the ugliness in her. She started trying to assume control of the home. She stopped consulting me on decisions concerning our home, rather consulting her parents. She practically turned my kids against me as she painted me as irresponsible. We initially had assess to each other's account, but now she has accounts hidden from me. I just found out she bought land somewhere, though she doesn't know I have that knowledge. She has become rude and disrespectful and her parents and siblings have taken over my home. I am so pained because all I ever did was show her love and respect. She didn't like the fact i tried to have order in my home and that seems to be my sin. I have never hit her or been wicked to her. Right now, I'm pained and confused. I don't know what to do. Someone please help. Listen very well,if you must survive this,you must learn how to endure this trying period I faced similar situation for about three years until God answered me last July.Just cry more to God and don't hold anything against your wife and don't let anything she does surprises you that's how it has been.I am happy you are not the lazy type just pick whatever your hand could find to support the family you will soon overcome and earn your position back. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by bns4eva: 12:24pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen: The man that will marry this one is very unlucky, OMG why Him?? 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by DNSPro: 12:24pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
BiggyB242: Na so e b bros. |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by tunjilana: 12:24pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Dear Men Life is all about the High and the Low....sadly most men date and marry when life is on the High for them...they hardly have the opportunity to test their woman's attitude when they are Low....forget anything anyone tells u about a woman's love....the true test of loyalty is a woman's attitude towards her money and her perception of you when you are broke....always find a way to test this before marriage...so u can atleast get into marriage with a clear understanding of who u are dealing with 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by LINTUNE(m): 12:24pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Ladycewhy:well ,I'll agree with u on this..madam uve won ,dont mention me again na ![]() |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Zeewirld: 12:24pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
uninspired07:..By "women" , does that includes your Mum? 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Brightgem(f): 12:25pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix:Lolz! Are you speaking from experience. A partner is a help mate. Who is your supposed to be trusted to help without any drama. Now you say relinquish your comfort, do u really have any idea how bad his financial situation is? You want the children to start drinking garri from bread and tea? My point is, it's easier said than done. Circumstances can make you helpless for a while. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by LINTUNE(m): 12:25pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Amhappy:..OK madam ...there is an iota of truth in what u just said.. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Ladycewhy(f): 12:25pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
pocohantas:the annoying part is they talk trash about Nigerian women ,but the fact is he cant try that nonsense with white women ,na street she go fling e luggage put. They do shit they cant try with foreign women and still come here to talk nonsense. Funny enough many women are putting up with men like the op just to keep their homes and massage his ego. See that one talking about chores being demeaning so women who have been doing it unkor ? 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by chigoizie7(m): 12:25pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
uninspired07: Lol, with what people are going through in marriages lately. I really do not think that it is worth it. I do not pray to encounter such women in life ooh. But if it happens and then I finally bounce back. Oh my God, that woman will wish she never came across me in her entire life. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by DNSPro: 12:26pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
ecology: Same thing I told him. Cry to God... He will. Answer. |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Brightgem(f): 12:27pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Chikicaka:I get you. Not sole purpose. Never will be. I've always had a drive to excel anyways, his is just extra ginger. I have a purpose, know it and that equally drives me. Thanks. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Ceasardgreat(m): 12:28pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
LordKO: I sent you a pm sir |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 12:29pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen: You will most likely make a bad wife, that's if you aren't one already 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Gforce2019: 12:29pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen: All these new generation ladies are the same. For singles guys, pls be wise. Because of financial challenge, love has flown out of the window. Women are woe upon men. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Contumely: 12:29pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
otipoju: So what was that you were telling your ex? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Martinez39(m): 12:30pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Sterope:Stop deceiving yourself. Don't try to put men in the same box with women in this regard to balance the equation. When men are breadwinners, they do not enslave their wives instead their family benefits from their wealth. When women are breadwinners, the husband suffers, the husband gets disrespected, and the husband gets sidelined. The op did not enslave his wife. He treated her well and all he gets in return is to be sidelined, disrespected, and have his children turned against him. You didn't mention this or acknowledge the fact that men can face hard times instead you thought up that men enslave their wives when they are breadwinners and do nothing when broke so therefore everything is balanced. Even if men enslaved their wives, does the innocent op who didn't enslave his wife deserve what he is getting? Who told you that he is not responsible? "A man has to be responsible in the home. If he cannot provide, he can at least find other ways to be responsible."In what other way can he be responsible? Keep beating about the bush. You, just funmisticqueen, is try to make it seem like it's the man's fault that his wife is a horrible individual. Of course, it's never the woman's fault. You and I know that as long as his money is gone, his wife will keep on treating him this way even if he "... at least find other ways to be responsible." ![]() 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by odigiri1983(m): 12:30pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79: Calm down Bro.No curse is against you .I know is difficult but hold on.You will bounce back, do not allow this situation to get you depressed or frustrated that will be a disaster.I wish you get something doing far away from home. Be calm please. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Ishilove: 12:32pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
kingreign:Abi. When we are not goats so what are we doing with flowers. Ogbeni show us tha money ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 12:32pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Don't give up just hold on and continue soon heaven will pick ur call.just be calm and watch soon she will come pleading 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 12:36pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79: People don't realize that for 99% of ladies, life is all about manipulation and control. Really it's society that makes them that way, because they overcompensate while trying to make up for what they lack in terms of brawn (physical strength and aggression) and the general handicap they grow up with while learning to function in, and eventually functioning as adults in a patriarchal society. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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