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Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by midnighter(f): 12:36pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix: What an irresponsible and mean-minded person you must be, to refrain from giving a struggling person any advice other than divorce. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by recentelder(m): 12:36pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Ireally feel the lamentation of yours bro.Note this that what happens in the physical has spiritual undertone.No matter how hard you hustle,if you are in the web of wickedness ,it seems as if you were doing nothing.In nutshell ,seek for solution through prayer against futune changer.2 you may change location for a while and look for gr eener pasture elsewhere. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Gforce2019: 12:37pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
tunjilana: That's true. Guys entice ladies with money for her to marry you. Unknown to them, the whole foundation of the marriage is on the condition that the man shld sustain his abundance lifestyles..and anything lower than that, he will pack out of his house to start another life else where or she separate.. Nairaland has open my eyes to a lot of scenario in marriage 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 12:37pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
isyourboy:same thing happened to by father. But he is not without blame. He never took advices my mother gave e.g build a school, build houses for rent. Stop father chrismas. My father was the largest donor to our church building project, he sponsored many inlaws and siblings in school and abroad , encouraged an apprentice that used to repair our lister generator to go to school and sponsored him. His driver built house in ota with his assistance. He believed givers never lacked. At the turn of the century technology made his business obsolete. Every other business he tried all failed or was duped till he became broke. Those who built schools were already cashing in my mum used to tell him. My mum would later go to hustle abroad she used his usa account. He took 4000 usd from her money . Still could not get back on his feet. To pay our school fees na beg we beg tire as she said its our papa duty. By the time by mum came back to nigeria after 9 years she don build 3 houses (12 flats) and started a thriving business. My dad also went to usa for 3 year could not hustle like my mama. Had to come back. We sha rough am. My mama later begin dey do the needful to us but not to my father. Today our last born twins don graduate. My mother is still a big madam while my father na me and my big bro dey send am 70k combined monthly. The effect of this in my life is i dont trust any woman with money. Any woman wey no fit spend on me freely is not a wife. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by LifeWorld: 12:39pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Hello Bro Trust me, I've been there. Exactly in your circumstance. And I'm now married for 10yrs. I was also gentle at first, but great men showed me how to wake up. This is women's nature in general, no matter how sweet it is at first. Anyone who tries to argue with me can ask their grandparents to check. But as men, we will always be stronger, more secure, and greater in this life. At 18yrs, every boy becomes a Mr. But women can only be a Mrs when you marry them. You paid her Bride price and she still bears your last name till date. So it's impossible for her to become a lord in your house, unless you're still allowing it. If king marries a woman, she becomes a queen. But if a queen got a husband, will he become a king?? Think about it. Same me a mail at lifeagukpaha@gmail.com. some of my advice are controversial but surefire. They always work. But I'm not God. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by uninspired07: 12:39pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
chigoizie7: My brother, me sef Dey talk am: if I venture get rich before I marry, any woman I marry will know I resent her & I just married her for children. I Nigerian women so much & I can’t even bring myself to beg or be in a relationship with them without some power of my own (money). If all goes well, I will rather travel abroad & marry a fellow Nigerian immigrant who I know is on the same level with me, not home based Nigerian girls who are looking for a man to take them out of poverty. I just tire, this is another year & time dey go. I need that breakthrough more than ever. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by pocohantas(f): 12:39pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Ladycewhy: People wey no well. He should better logout and go help the breadwinner of the home. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by BBBmall25: 12:41pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
It's not easy bro, me gat mine and i know how it feel like. May God help u as He helped me_ Amen! |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Chikicaka(f): 12:42pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Brightgem: Niceeee, Happy new year sis, bigger us we pray 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by superability(m): 12:42pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen:I laugh in Chinese |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by femolasusu: 12:43pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
I don't think running away is the best as a man. First you need self confidence. Money only does not make your wife respect you. Secondly, you must pray and learn to stay positive. Lastly, love her the more. And be the man you have always been. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by marvelous000: 12:43pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen:Yes, it can be construed as compliment by one bereft of dignity and self-respect. I mean people like you real humans consider as sexual meat deserving of the profoundest contempt. How about i tell you what you don't want to hear but need to know. I'm Erebus the soulless, unleashed on your kind like a raging bull with a lethal drop |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by DaddyGngeess(m): 12:44pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
awwfar: The best advice so far, OP pls do exactly this. |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by DukeNija(m): 12:45pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79: Why don’t you go for deliverance? I’m very serious about this bro. I’ve seen cases like yours and they all turned out to be spiritual. Find your way to MFM prayer city along Lagos/Ibadan express way this January. Unless God builds a city, they that labor, labor in vain. |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 12:45pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
midnighter: When you are in a toxic relationship as a man, it consumes your time, saps your energy and drags you down. Have you heard of the saying: "behind every successful man there's a woman"? Well, that woman is not the type who keeps her husband stressed, she's the one who pulls all the emotional stress away from him and keeps him focused and encouraged on his important tasks. This woman is adding financial value to the relationship, but only in exchange for keeping him stressed and unproductive. He will never grow with her. I am not writing a script for telemundo here. I am trying to help the op out of his rut. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Switch07(m): 12:45pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
MrSly: Deep 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by karkinase(m): 12:46pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
isyourboy:Yes oo..All guys shuld come on this thread....women= woe to men 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 12:47pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Martinez39:Its the preconceived notion of men. Those bashing him are without proof he wronged his wife in any way,they just had to use the general notion of women suffering bullshit in marriáge. That's straw man creation. The plight of the OP and his marriage is ignored to throw darts on him for an "assumed " bad character on his part. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by marvelous000: 12:51pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Martinez39:I almost agree with you, if not for some infinitesimal exception i know. I think it will be better if we don't stereotype, in as much as majority carry the vote 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by MJBOLT: 12:51pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
you have been gloating all morning because ubunja quit Michellekabod2:
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Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by flakesy01(f): 12:51pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
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Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Martinez39(m): 12:52pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Kekereekun123:No offence but your dad was not so bright. Givers never lack, who does that? In a world where someone is supposed to acquire resources for himself and family, secure his wealth and leave inheritance for his children, he carry am dey do givers never lack. I am not surprised that when you people went to your mom for help, she refused and asked you people to go meet your father. A lot of women do this. A friend of my mum was doing the same thing too but recently, she has started opening up to her after the children have suffered. The husband? The dude is a poor walking corpse. I am sure your father doesn't benefit from your mum's wealth, am I wrong? 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Teymanhenry(f): 12:52pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
strungup79: use that opportunity to start up a business or something. stop waiting for a job to come. be creative sir. She'll definitely respect u if she sees you are trying. don't just sit there waiting sir |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 12:53pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Brightgem: Few and far between are those who will help without strings attached. You say 'supposed'. I agree, but in school you should have learnt that there is a difference between theory and practise. Furthermore, women are hardwired to only respect men who can offer them fonancial stability, not those who they consider as weak. Brightgem: He hustles and has some income coming in. The trick is to manage it. No man is helpless who is not lazy. He might have to adjust to a less luxurious life, but at this point, it is necessary. |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by iSlayer: 12:53pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
otipoju: Omo see format o. Chai. |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Teymanhenry(f): 12:53pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
It would have been understandable to me if I was a wicked husband or used to bully her.[/quote] use that opportunity to start up a business or something. stop waiting for a job to come. be creative sir. She'll definitely respect u if she sees you are trying. don't just sit there waiting sir |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Ladycewhy(f): 12:53pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
pocohantas:lol. Its just annoying the way they reason and suddenly have brain reset when they meet foreign women,mteeeew 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by midnighter(f): 12:54pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix: I didnt deny all that. But people are not static or fixed quantities. If you had said something like "air your grievances to her/report her/take a break from her and then divorce if she doesnt show any signs of change," it would have made more sense. But the fact is that what you wrote there was irrational and insensitive. Get a divorce right away after 13 years of marriage and 3 kids without even trying to work on their differences, because you are Jesus Christ who never hurt anybody in his life right? Who are you to say that "he will never grow with her"? Who are you to condemn another person to stagnancy? Do you know how far they have come already? Have you always been perfect, all your life? Smh you are just as bad as the "feminists" you lambaste. No nuance, lateral thinking or creativity whatsoever, just extreme black and white reasoning and rigidity in a bid to appear to have seen what others cannot. The irony is that you havent seen anything, because you are so bent on forcing your own conjectures on other people! 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Nobody: 12:56pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Sterope: She is free to leave if she wants to, slaves are not; so your analogy is meaningless. This is why I recommended divorce. It seems that she is not the overly patient type. And foul language/insults do not prove a point. You should learn better about how to engage people in a civilized manner. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by kushercain: 12:56pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen: This girl no get sense. As your face wowor reach na so your thoughts ugly. Ugu-LEEEE biatch!! 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by evesdon4u: 12:56pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
So sorry to learn about what you are going through and I hope you've found some level of ease, sharing it with us. I would like to encourage you to not give up on your hopes, love your children no matter what and stay focused. She may come around, she may not...but always remember the vows you took together and stay strong. I believe this is just a phase and it will surely pass! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by Sterope(f): 12:59pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
I have heard. My advice to you is that don't be poor. Martinez39: |
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