federal9:
Enough of all this 2019 stuff.

What's the difference between yesterday and today??

Just only the date, what else??


It's high time we live everyday of our live like it's the best day.

Actually, there's no difference but it's a period that calls for a sober reflection, an analysis of how the past has been and a resolution of what the future should be.

For many, It's a retreat and don't be surprised that last night, people made the decision that would change their lives forever. It's not about the day, it's the aura of the season.

Beyond that, many are simply grateful that after the turbulence of the previous year, they are still alive to see another year. Many would have wished they made it.

klever18:
WTF? juxt yesterday I lost 3500 to Sporty bet,but I will not stop because winners never quit and quitters never win.

You've not lost enough bro. When sporty is done with you, you'll look back and wish you stopped.

Silas6:


Always know when to be serious

And who tell u that am not

I believe every mistakes was basically a learning process and an experience which made me a better person

Olulinks:
I put my money in a sham called Business Executives Investment. (BEI)
The scammer that spear head the fraud, Anike Ojuolape of Anzok investment, scammed about 12 thousand of us and disappeared with our hard earned money.

God will judge her and her lineage.

I will never put my money on the custody of an illiterate ever!

How?

Crystalline:
PROCRASTINATION

Same challenge I suffered last year.

Trusting too much, procrastination ,thinking what people will say.... i later learn all man for himself
New year new ways

Didn't help orphans and widows enough last year. Won't allow it that way this year.

Bewiseedet:
Not to play betting again.

me too,2019 was good enough for me that I was even able to organise my own betshop with perfect settings.

Actually I'm not addicted to betting when I don't have a shop,but you see as i get one gbam ,I don't know what's pushing me,it's been one game for customer one for myself,even though I have someone working for me,I still manage to Check all activities going on in shop on my own personal laptop,stakes different games,the more I lose the more i stake thinking I wanna win back my money *damn............until I exhausted all my savings,couldn't gain anything from the betting shop,other life savings too was gone,now I had to close down the shop and focus more on my Job.

It's been a bad year for me at the end.

philsbaba:
your eyes never clear. When ee go jam you, ee go be like action film

Lol your eye don jam you tire abi?

Pat081:
And who tell u that am not

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What you typed

Not telling people to 'go fck yourself'.... trying to not hurt feelings.
I think a lot about what people think of me.
People will always run their mouth no matter what you do or don't do.
So this year it's gon be a different ball game.

Also got into a relationship because my friends are dating. Now I want to end it but don't know how, she's a very nice person

Michellekabod2:
I regret getting unnecessarily worked up and rude at comments. Have learnt not to be rude and ignore

Sounds like an evening newspaper

maddman:


To be straight with you brother, you're about to embark upon a difficult task. Just hope your brain isn't self-destructive, if not, you'll fight the urge for a while and eventually relapse, and then realise how stupid you've been and make new resolution only to fail again and, like that, the cycle continues.

Gambling dey make your brain release dopamine, one chemical wey dey totori body, 10 times more than your normal activities fit release.

I will not tell you to pray - it won't help you - but I go like make you stand gidigba for the monster ahead because, right now, only you can help yourself.

Bro enlighten me abeg. I really wanna defeat the monster

Babadimimu2019:


You sure say you go fit stick to that. May be reduce your stakes and frequency till you eventually drop it. Betting is more like an addictive behaviour. It takes more than determination to drop it. If you know you know

It's either you stop or not. There is nothing like reducing. The moment you play one and only one match cut the ticket, you'll always try again. That's when his Waterloo lies.

Having to keep my self for a distance relationship of about a year and kept deaf ears to all the suitors coming my way....




And to my greatest surprise my so called boyfriend told me he is getting married in two months time quoting the word


"" IF THE DEMAND IS NOT AVAILABLE, YOU MAKE THE AVALAIBLE YOUR DEMAND

MY lesson is TRUST NO SOUL:::BELIEVE NO LOVE

WELCOME TO 2020

Falling in love

Wyclefniranz:
me too,2019 was good enough for me that I was even able to organise my own betshop with perfect settings.

Actually I'm not addicted to betting when I don't have a shop,but you see as i get one gbam ,I don't know what's pushing me,it's been one game for customer one for myself,even though I have someone working for me,I still manage to Check all activities going on in shop on my own personal laptop,stakes different games,the more I lose the more i stake thinking I wanna win back my money *damn............until I exhausted all my savings,couldn't gain anything from the betting shop,other life savings too was gone,now I had to close down the shop and focus more on my Job.

It's been a bad year for me at the end.

Chaiii u must have lost alot of money.

Ignoring fools both online and offline.

Bewiseedet:
Chaiii u must have lost alot of money.

I swear alot!

Sirseedorf:


Though nothing special about cross over, new year or resolution to me.


But let me give insight about my mistakes and regrets .


I'm always soft to lend people something, especially money, which I will stop.
I don't party, drink smoke or mingle, I don't even have a girlfriend.
I always stay at home after work or work free days. I'm too soft to my parent to the extent they talk to me anyhow despite the fact that I always help and care for then, yet my junior brother is the other way.
I regret not having money to rent a house earlier, now it's getting messier with abuse and disgrace.
I regret my existence sometimes, because my life seems boring sometimes .

I just found a lady now, at least am going out. Maybe, just maybe things will change.

Make sure this other lady does not also walk all over you.

victorVIC1:
"Most uncles don't mean well for their nephews and never want you to better than their kids, be as discreet as possible with your achievements and plans"


HAPPY NEW YEAR

This got me thinking...A lot of sense in this quote.

There is life in your words.

Kiddo01:
Having a girl friend, the so called date that I spent heavily on all in the name of pity was the worst ever mistake I made 2019

your username tells a lot about you...

When you become Manno01, no girl will ever take you for a mugu

Having to keep my self for a distance relationship for about a year and turning down all suitors that come my way

Just some days back my so called boyfriend told me his wedding is in two months time quoting the word. "IF THE DEMAND IS NOT AVAILABLE YOU MAKE THE AVAILABLE YOUR DEMAND"

BRethen My lesson is TRUST NO SOUL AND BELEIVE NO LOVE.

WELCOME TO 2020

Buying 2 sex dolls in a space of six months with my hosue rent.

Thank God I worked hard to recover on time.

backtalkG:
sport betting, I want to stop it this year. but right now I'm thinking if man u to beat arsenal is not a sure odd. chai!

Omase ooh, them don get this guy finally.

Sport betting comes with an addiction.
If you can break loose from it, you have saved yourself a lifetime of pains and trauma.

Duru9:
Using my life savings to process travelling documents and got duped

Sorry brother, which country were u intending

Nooil:



Lol, this your post made me laugh. I know that feeling of nothingness when you decide to believe in nothing. It's like you are just existing. There is nothing more blissful than putting your faith and hope in a greater power. Some prefer idols who they think are quick to action. But I prefer God who knows the beginning from the end and is ever strategizing to give me an expected end.

Tips to help you embrace God better this year:

Pray consistently. There is a reason Muslims pray four times a day, they are not stupid. If you can pray more than them, prayers will get answered in a matter of weeks (it's a heavenly algorithm).

Add fasting. In your moment of desperation add fasting. Your spirit connects faster to God when you fast because your flesh is relayed to the background.

Avoid fornication. Every other sin is outside the body, but this defiles the body. And the body is the temple of the Holy Spirit. People lose business deals, job opportunities, and lots more because of it

Develop a personal relationship with God. It is good to go to church to renew your faith and fellowship with your brethren. But you strengthen your faith more when you spend time reading your Bible and praying.

I wish you a happy new year.

Flesh and blood did not reveal these to u.
I pray you favour, God's special grace, and a wonderful and prosperous 2020.

YelloweWest:
Believing my darling husband that I should pursue academics without earning daily income.

He is a good man but when his business went bad, we had no backup.

2020, I'm going into business that will fetch me money biko.

Well you learnt by experience. Women need to earn money for themselves and uncertainty reasons abeg.

A woman who earns no income in 2020 will just suffer for nothing.

Realfrankie:



Thank God

Frankie you dey worry me oh