pocohantas:


Sometimes a sister is just being herself. It doesn't mean she wants future

Then set the boundaries from the outset.

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Brightgem:
Book

av read dis thread and av come to a conclusion dat most females arent interested in impressing men. but they actually desire d reverse.

Smartchoiice:

Then set the boundaries from the outset.

How am I supposed to do that? Some of us are humane by default- till you unleash our demons anyway.

Haderonke20:
We started dating in July, so his birthday came in September, guys believe in a new relationship, if their birthday comes first,the girl won't get them anything, so I booked a hotel room,kept a cake there,a perfume and a card, he was so happy and impressed (he told me later ),this happened in 2018,we're still together.

Only female comment that tallies with the OP topic, every other lady here has literally said they don't need to impress a guy. Makes you wonder..... Why women get angry when they are sometimes referred to as being hypocritical.

Thumbs up to you sis

Jodha:
Impress a guy Asin?....

Why should I Impress him....?

Because he fvcks the hell out of you.

Animadontel:
buying him things that i admired in men

This sent a weird vibe.
Things you admired in men?
Hun better start looking at what you admire in him.

But at least you tried to impress.
Some ladies won't spend on a guy if their lives depended on it.

MissPepeye:
I licked his ass. Literarily.

Literally *

AfonjaBoston:

Were olofo

This is 2020,please use your brain.

pocohantas:


How am I supposed to do that? Some of us are humane by default- till you unleash our demons anyway.

Very simple....
"Poco I like what we have, I don't want to ruin it with the postulations about the future.... Hope you don't mind?"

Funmmyastic:


Meaning?I hope you've not mistaken me for funmistic.queen?

..christ ,i just did

She memorized the first 30 elements to impress me..
She didn't know I had the first 109 elements off hand.

Jodha:
Impress a guy Asin?....

Why should I Impress him....?

cos he is ur "olori"

dauddy97:
my girlfriend then was trying to impress me by telling me to have sex with her without protection. now, we have separated. if I had known, I would have done what she wanted.

Bro, don't try it. Girls these days don't have joy. When I was still doing my internship, that is how one pretty colleague of mine was trying to get me to take her home; promising all sorts of skills and telling me how much she hated condoms and how she liked it raw. She was so persistent that I got suspicious and fobbed her off, only to see belle starting to shoot out a few weeks later o. She was trying to dash me pregnancy that someone else had refused. I just thanked God that I did not give in to temptation. I just skipped a bullet.

If any girl says "no protection", run away on all fours.

These girls on here can so lie!! How about the girl I told she looked familiar and....boom!! She started telling me her life history from the days of Adam till date? And she was even giggling all through. Was she not trying to impress me abi no be woman she be?

MissPepeye:
I licked his ass. Literarily.

Ogbeni ...las las naija gals do pass oyinbo gals

Sofistcatdmoron:
everything ladies do is for the sole purpose of impressing men, from fake hair to fake skin color to fake eye lashes, to name just a few

...to fake forming and posturing.

Thank you.

The thing ladies do to impress a man matters a lot and can go a very long way. 200 naira recharge card that a lady friend sent to me today made me feel special and remembered. .
Although there are some guys that if you like buy a house In his name, if he doesn't like you, you are just forcing yourself on him shikena. Yep some are that ungrateful.

pocohantas:
Impress? No.

Not because I do not think they are worth it, but because I am generally a nice person when I am in my best behaviour. I will do anything for you o. Call, chat, listen, cook, clean, take him on dates, gifts...etc.

The problem is, it seems Naija girls are not usually nice to Naija guys, so whenever you are nice to a Naija guy- they start catching feelings anyhow and seeing future.

its pathetic,we don suffer for una hand,thank God u know

I'll summarize for the men.

For those who aren't doing it now...
Value the females who value you in 2020.

And please do not, I repeat, do not try to impress any NIGERIAN female...maybe a little good impression on the other nationalities.

Happy new Year NL.
Let peace reign this year.
Enough with the ethnic rivalry on this forum.

czarr:
men are not that hard to impress, just the simple things, a little effort.

there's a reason you guys are still together.

u are rare

MissPepeye:
I licked his ass. Literarily.

Is that some kinda fetish of his or yours....??

Why are we human being like this...

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Jodha:
Impress a guy Asin?....

Why should I Impress him....?

U never jam na...

When u see that talk dark and handsome with better pink lips, some nice biceps, triceps and abs like me... If you dey like beards, he kon get beards join.. Kon sabi nak better English and my guy dey single..

Girl, u go do pass yourself + make am prayer point seff

All these nairaland girls always forming macho here on nairaland. My ex before we started dating, anytime she wants to come visiting ,she goes to the market and gets foodstuff with her own money, she will prepare stew and soup separately while stocking them in my freezer,it normally last for up to three to four days. Chai Amaka I miss your food and your kpekus.

LINTUNE:
u are rare

I be man o bros, you mean the lady I quoted

GeneralPula:
Their impress self nah scam!

Sense will not kill you jare....impress wey no dey cost pass 2500naira or worst case they spread leg for you......but the next thing na to expect iphone, bag, shoe, car, and to surrender ur life..

Once e no end in marriage, u are a scum...they never want to know if their efforts isn’t enuf...the assumption is as long as they are a woman, that’s should be enough for you...

czarr:
I be man o bros, you mean the lady I quoted

..na the lady abeg

LINTUNE:
..na the lady abeg

lol

Gwagone:
My present gal want to use sex to destroy my life
Is that how to impress a guy?

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I gave him a nice BJ and f***ked him till he came ��

LINTUNE:
its pathetic,we don suffer for una hand,thank God u know

Yes, it is really pathetic. Nigerian men are cheap if you ask me. They don't even expect much from their women in this aspect, so any small thing you do is appreciated.

Naija ladies are just so stingy. Many of them believe you can't be chopping them and chopping their money too.