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The Best Relationship Advice For Everyone This 2020 by philfearon(m): 8:16pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
1] Be friends with your spouse during the day and be lovers at night. 2] If you want to make love to your wife at night, start in the morning. 3] Things change — respect each other and be willing to change. Remain flexible and open to compromise. 4] Stay true — cheating never works — never surrender your integrity. 5] Listen more than you talk. Think more than you say. 6] Don’t keep score. You don’t win at marriage. Strive to stay even. 7] Intimacy and affection are not always sexual. A promise is as good as the act. 8] Women crave sex for intimacy and acceptance — Men crave sex for validation. If either isn’t getting what they need, they will seek it elsewhere. 9] Sometimes she just wants to be held. If she doesn’t she’ll let you know. 10] Let him know you are interested. Don’t think he should see you are interested and act accordingly. If you want it ask. 11] Pick up after yourself. Flip the laundry. Do the dishes. Cook a meal or two or three ect and change a diaper. Neither took a vow to be the maid — if you did — the 1800’s called and want their vow back. 12] Don’t pick a fight. Stop. Wait. Think. Then say what you mean and mean what you say after you stop being angry. 13] Don’t go in thinking he or she will change or you will change them. Change grows organically from within. 14] A divorce is like finding a woman you hate and buying her a house. If that joke isn’t funny — don’t buy a house. 15] Maintain your financial independence. Everyone who was ever married either died or were divorced — you’ll need your financial independence. 16] Sometimes she cries for no reason — sometimes he broods over non-sense. This too shall pass. 17] He or she might be your one, but eventually they will be the half or the quarter — strive to keep growing back together. 18] Watch her family and see how her father treats her mother — that’s her expectation. Watch his family — that’s his expectation. If you can’t imagine living in such an environment — you won’t — don’t hesitate to reset your expectations. 19] Roughly a third of people will suffer from a mental illness during their lifetime. Better than even chance one of you will become ill. Acceptance — Treatment, early and often. 20] Children change everything. She will unapologetically love her children more than she loves you. If you can’t handle that, wrap it in latex. 21] Most fights start over money and end in the bedroom — good or bad. 22] A three-some is never a good idea. It’s a desperate decision — a cancer with no cure. If you have an open relationship, good for you, but follow your rules. Mileage varies. 23] Space is more than what’s 20 miles straight up, or the inches between your ears. Maintain your space and allow him or her their’s. 24] Don’t threaten divorce — you either are or you aren’t. Threats breed fear — fear leads to distrust — It’s nearly impossible to earn someone’s trust, again. 25] If you are on the couch and your spouse is doing chores you are in the wrong place. Do things together. 26] If one of you is using drugs/alcohol and the other isn’t — there’s a problem. There is help available — use it. 27] You are married the person they are, but you’ll be in love with the person they were — reconcile those statements. 28] Once it’s over, it’s over. Move on quickly and quietly. 29] We can’t do anything about the ex parked outside your house — nor can we stop them from sleeping with someone new. Neither of you took a vow of celibacy. The contrary is true. 30] Don’t drunk text, call, write, or skype — Don’t drunk anything except sleep. 31] If you can’t control your emotions — leave — take a walk — pray. But whatever you do, don’t hit, slap, grab, pull, push, hug, knock, slam, choke, pinch, pin, head lock, arm bar, round kick, front kick or beat each other in anyway shape, form or fashion. If you must fight, use your words and remember anger equals ten feet. Never pick up a weapon in anger. 32] Spousal rape is real. No still means No — even if there’s a ring, a vow and several days/weeks/months/years of unrealized expectations. May the Lord grant you the courage to change the things you must, the grace to accept the things you can’t, and the wisdom to know the difference. QUORA 411 Likes 65 Shares |
Re: The Best Relationship Advice For Everyone This 2020 by Heloct(f): 9:27pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
This is really beautiful. Just not what I need right now. 66 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: The Best Relationship Advice For Everyone This 2020 by Mood11: 10:02pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Beautiful piece of Information. God bless you OP. And thanks for giving credence to the original source of this post ( Quora) 43 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Best Relationship Advice For Everyone This 2020 by Jodha(f): 10:04pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
All I know is that this year.... Bye Bye to Yeye boyfriend... ![]() 113 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: The Best Relationship Advice For Everyone This 2020 by Jodha(f): 10:06pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
My one cent... All these won't be meaningful...if both parties don't put equal efforts... A relationship is between two people...not one person chasing the other constantly... 72 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: The Best Relationship Advice For Everyone This 2020 by philfearon(m): 10:46am On Jan 02, 2020 |
Mood11:You are welcome. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Best Relationship Advice For Everyone This 2020 by philfearon(m): 10:47am On Jan 02, 2020 |
Jodha:You are correct dear. It takes two to tango. 5 Likes |
Re: The Best Relationship Advice For Everyone This 2020 by Godwin2019(m): 11:48am On Jan 02, 2020 |
God Bless You For This Wonderful Advice, It Is Really Helpful |
Re: The Best Relationship Advice For Everyone This 2020 by Lamanii22(f): 4:20pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
Great article... But that number 20 though... Is there a way the love between your kids and husband be equal? Like what can one do to make it equal.. I don't want children coming between me and my husband... Or is it inevitable? 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Best Relationship Advice For Everyone This 2020 by HappenStone: 4:23pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
Wonderful Article!
Quora's full of them. Would do more good in family section than romance, I suspect! |
Re: The Best Relationship Advice For Everyone This 2020 by vincentjk(m): 4:31pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
Make money as a man and respect will be awarded to you Be sexy, loyal and make nice dishes as a woman then peace and respect would come knocking at your doorstep 56 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Best Relationship Advice For Everyone This 2020 by SarakiBukola: 5:51pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
![]() Yeye advice mostly suitable for Oyinbos. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Best Relationship Advice For Everyone This 2020 by ValCon888: 5:52pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
That's good relationship advice for women with good and mature reasoning. Unfortunately, a relationship with an average Nigerian girl is not a relationship. Its a relationshit. 26 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Best Relationship Advice For Everyone This 2020 by Rapmoney(m): 5:52pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
The love between a man and a woman is not Agape love. It is 'Eros'. It is a seeing love that can accommodate greed, selfishness, revenge, etc. In all, if you have been hustling and fortune smiles on you, never you go back to marry any of those women who looked down on you in the past. If you do, your mother probably lost her son. 32 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Best Relationship Advice For Everyone This 2020 by hisexcellency34: 5:52pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
Only give birth to children you can cater for 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Best Relationship Advice For Everyone This 2020 by Nobody: 5:52pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
Most times written by the unmarried. No successfully married person will tell you to divorce. .. Never. One word from a successfully married lady I once met... Patience . When patience dey, everything is in order 16 Likes |
Re: The Best Relationship Advice For Everyone This 2020 by nairalee(m): 5:52pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
Haba too many rules. Na war? There should be only two laws...... Love and sense 10 Likes |
Re: The Best Relationship Advice For Everyone This 2020 by StrikeBack(m): 5:52pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
![]() Never believe what is written online by humans like you Live by your rules Qed Didn't read the Ugo C Ugo up there 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Best Relationship Advice For Everyone This 2020 by Elvis2kay: 5:53pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
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Re: The Best Relationship Advice For Everyone This 2020 by MorningstarL: 5:54pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
Make money, Relationships are overrated, find something that makes your genuinely happy, it might not necessarily be someone 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Best Relationship Advice For Everyone This 2020 by freethesheeple(m): 5:54pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
Jodha: slay queen spotted 17 Likes |
Re: The Best Relationship Advice For Everyone This 2020 by Nobody: 5:54pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
Jahzmin007:If you would like her to be a NLer like you, do make sure she doesn't know your moniker. If you don't want to leave NL eventually. If you know, you know ![]() 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Best Relationship Advice For Everyone This 2020 by Uyi168: 5:55pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
... Motivational speakers are low key scammers almost no one is taking note of... ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: The Best Relationship Advice For Everyone This 2020 by Lamasta(m): 5:55pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
Relationship is built over time not overnight 2 Likes |
Re: The Best Relationship Advice For Everyone This 2020 by superlanny(m): 5:55pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
For the guys- No put woman matter too much for your mind, sote you go dey do stupid things because of love. Hustle and make money, that's a woman's first love, control it and you control women, even love. Never be caught off guard, with your pants down, a real niggar never gets caught, have sex as much as you can(be an efficient Carpenter), but make sure you are protected. Lastly never beat a woman, it's better to walk out and cool off, emotional intelligence is a key skill to learn, saying sorry is never too hard. For my ladies- You know I love y'all, but try and be more independent, educated and mannered, have that and it's a plus, learn to support your boyfriend or husband in all ramifications, the age we are demands it, be proactive in bed, moan as much as possible( as if your life depended on it) and loving, never be caught cheating. Saying sorry is never too hard. I know some people are coming for me, heheheheheh 50 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Best Relationship Advice For Everyone This 2020 by namiji2598: 5:55pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
Jodha:let's start a relationship biko, am fvcking tired 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Best Relationship Advice For Everyone This 2020 by Nobody: 5:55pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
Okay mr love doctor |
Re: The Best Relationship Advice For Everyone This 2020 by Nobody: 5:56pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
Insightful. |
Re: The Best Relationship Advice For Everyone This 2020 by obembet(f): 5:56pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
In the year 2020, May you continue to surprise people like *WOLVES & AJAX* May you never live on your past glory like *ARSENAL* May every resources you seek come to you like *PEP GUARDIOLA* May you never be useless like *ALEXIS SANCHEZ* And when people look up to you like *MESSI* May you never disappoint them like *LINGARD* I pray for you, you will never struggle like *ARSENAL* to make it in life Believe in hardwork like *LIVERPOOL* So you will never know shame as *FRANK LAMPARD* Pride will never overtake you like *JOSE MOURINHO* , May you continue to be steadfast like *CRISTIANO RONALDO*, You will never fall from glory like *Kepa Arrizabalaga*. As you grow, never depend on anyone like *BARCELONA* but continue to work and manage the little resources you have like *BAYERN MUNICH* . Even though men will despise you like *MANCHESTER UNITED* always believe in yourself like *IBRAHIMOVIC*. Finally, stick on the best and never be confused like *NEYMAR*. God Bless You All...❤❤❤❤❤ 52 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: The Best Relationship Advice For Everyone This 2020 by Nobody: 5:57pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
To love na by force ? 2 Likes 1 Share |
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