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My Friend Is Getting Married & She Begs Me To Keep Her Secret by Beke2020: 7:32pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
Dear Ma, I need advise on how to go about this matter. So,my friends and I went on a trip to Dubai last month. It was a couples vacation,so everyone came with their husbands or boyfriends or fiance. I went there with my boyfriend. One of my friends, Tina (not real name)went with her fiancee. Their wedding is This February. We had a great time at the vacation ma and we all came back home. I went to see my boyfriend two weeks ago just before Christmas and he was not around. So,I called him and told him I would wait since he was close by. His neighbor, a young lady called me inside to wait for him. She is like all these born again people that do not wear ear rings. She started to preach to me. I listened to her. She sounded very nice. While waiting,she now said its none of her business but since to her,I look like a good girl (you know,I listened to her when she was preaching and praying for me). She now said I deserve someone better than the person I am dating. I asked her what she meant. She said I am not the only girl my boyfriend was dating and bringing home. That made me very curious. She said I should not ..... https://livelystones.com.ng/my-friend-is-getting-married-she-begs-me-to-keep-her-secret/
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Re: My Friend Is Getting Married & She Begs Me To Keep Her Secret by Adasun(m): 7:34pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
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Re: My Friend Is Getting Married & She Begs Me To Keep Her Secret by pfadom: 7:39pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
Incoherent and incomplete story. Is this story about your friend or boyfriend? 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Friend Is Getting Married & She Begs Me To Keep Her Secret by Nobody: 7:39pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
Beke2020:Is this nollywood? Be careful, maybe she wants her daughter or sister to Marry him. How did she know you deserve someone better 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Is Getting Married & She Begs Me To Keep Her Secret by Ghostlord: 10:29pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
Continuation That made me very curious. She said I should not mention her name but she just feels sorry that I am being taken advantage of. Ma,I looked at her like amebo but somehow,I believe she was genuinely caring for me. When my boyfriend came,I took his phone and scanned his whatsapp on my ipad. So,I could be seeing his chats on my ipad. He did not know. That is how I got to read his whatsapp chats. I discovered that my boyfriend was truly sleeping with several girls. I was in disbelief. This guy that looks like a saint? But my greatest surprise was one of the girls on his whatapp chat was my friend,Tina. Apparently,they had hooked up right from the Dubai trip. They were seeing each other regularly and he was telling her when to come so as not to run into me. I mean,this girl Tina is engaged to be married o. I did not know she was a slut. Me and Tina have been friends for almost 9 years. There were several messages of how many times they hooked up. How they both enjoyed it. How my boyfriend says he misses her and wish she was not getting married to a boring guy. That they wish I was not even in the picture. They even wish me dead…haba. I confronted my boyfriend,he could not even mutter a word. He was caught pants down. I broke up with him. My friend Tina has been calling me. Saying it was the devil’s work. I refused to see her. She came down to my place,crying and begging me not to tell her fiance. Now,she is using her mother to beg me. Na wa for her mother. She should be ashamed of her daughter.Well,I do not blame the poor woman. I insulted Tina but that is not enough for the hurt she caused me. She hurt me. She is my friend,she broke up my relationship and she has the guts to tell me not to break up hers by telling her guy? I am upset and furious. I mean,I thank God for showing me the type of guy I was dating but the betrayal from my friend whom I have known for more than 9 years is just too much. I need advise on what to do…I think Tina’s husband to be deserves to know the type of wife he is going to marry. You need to see the dirty nudes and dirty conversations she had with my stupid boyfriend. Saying things like: she will f*ck him crazy he will not be able to remember my name…that he will be shouting her own name when he is with me.. The audacity..that girl is promiscuous…fine,I don’t get my own happiness…she does not get to have hers…I will send her fiance an anonymous text. Her fiance is someone I know very well too. If he finds out I know about this and did not tell him,he would be very disappointed in me He might even think I connived with this slut to hide the truth from him. Years ago,I heard a rumor Tina slept with her boss at work. The boss wife found out and their marriage almost broke up. I never confronted Tina then. But now,I think I need to do something in this case before she hurts another innocent man… 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Friend Is Getting Married & She Begs Me To Keep Her Secret by doggedfighter(f): 10:31pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
I am trying to understand what you're trying write. From one story to another yet inconclusive |
Re: My Friend Is Getting Married & She Begs Me To Keep Her Secret by Ghostlord: 10:37pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
doggedfighter: Read again ..this time , sit on the floor . 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Friend Is Getting Married & She Begs Me To Keep Her Secret by Tunyx01: 11:19pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
thus is seriously serious, but don't pay evil with evil. just let the man find out elsewhere and not through you. no matter how secretive your friend is, the man will still find out one day. don't try to revenge, let God avenge . |
Re: My Friend Is Getting Married & She Begs Me To Keep Her Secret by samson07(m): 11:28pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
please get the man informed, i can stand a broken relationship bt nt a broken home/marriage. if you dont tell the man i will. 2 Likes |
Re: My Friend Is Getting Married & She Begs Me To Keep Her Secret by padi94(m): 11:55pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
Madam go ahead with your plans, this na new year no time 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Friend Is Getting Married & She Begs Me To Keep Her Secret by wilsonchilboy(m): 1:06am On Jan 03, 2020 |
Baby girl if u don't want to tell de fiance u better give me his number and send me all de evidence lemme sens to him myself... I hate rubbish Wat r u delaying for na. Dat man spirit will hunt u if he eventually marries ur fake friend with de mind dat he is marrying a good woman.. save dat innocent man from future heart attack 2 Likes |
Re: My Friend Is Getting Married & She Begs Me To Keep Her Secret by spafu(m): 2:59am On Jan 03, 2020 |
Leave matter for Mathias. |
Re: My Friend Is Getting Married & She Begs Me To Keep Her Secret by careytommy37(m): 4:19am On Jan 03, 2020 |
Dear Ma kill you and your fake story. You better take this pack of bull back to 2019. |
Re: My Friend Is Getting Married & She Begs Me To Keep Her Secret by Ceenelly(m): 5:19am On Jan 03, 2020 |
Clear your conscience, do what is right, tell the man all the truth is left for the man to continue or quit the relationship. |
Re: My Friend Is Getting Married & She Begs Me To Keep Her Secret by jedisco(m): 6:08am On Jan 03, 2020 |
Omo blogger blogger and made up stories 2 Likes |
Re: My Friend Is Getting Married & She Begs Me To Keep Her Secret by itsme01: 6:24am On Jan 03, 2020 |
tell the fiancee the damn truth... if you dont, your friend might cheat again and bring children into this world just to suffer them with a life of broken home 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Is Getting Married & She Begs Me To Keep Her Secret by hardbody: 7:43am On Jan 03, 2020 |
Ghostlord: Ok. |
Re: My Friend Is Getting Married & She Begs Me To Keep Her Secret by nabegibeg: 8:19am On Jan 03, 2020 |
Ghostlord: |
Re: My Friend Is Getting Married & She Begs Me To Keep Her Secret by freeeeme(m): 8:24am On Jan 03, 2020 |
Wryt the story in less than 30 words. I'm lazy to read dis knida tin ojare. |
Re: My Friend Is Getting Married & She Begs Me To Keep Her Secret by Adaba0803(m): 9:12am On Jan 03, 2020 |
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Re: My Friend Is Getting Married & She Begs Me To Keep Her Secret by NobleAngell(f): 9:21am On Jan 03, 2020 |
Tunyx01:how will you feel if you are about to marry a lady with such secrets and no one told you? Will you be happy that they kept it from you and let God revenge? Should she be left to marry the innocent guy who will live with such all his life? Telling him isn't a form of revenge, she's trying to save someone's future. Assuming it was the lady's past, then its ok not to tell him. But that she's still into it, then the man needs to know. 3 Likes |
Re: My Friend Is Getting Married & She Begs Me To Keep Her Secret by stanisbaratheon: 10:12am On Jan 03, 2020 |
If I were Tina's fiancée, I wouldn't mind to be told about her underground dealings and relationships. |
Re: My Friend Is Getting Married & She Begs Me To Keep Her Secret by Nobody: 11:05am On Jan 03, 2020 |
Tunyx01: Remember she would have married a promiscuous if her neighbour had mind her business. She should tell Tina's fiance not because she wants to pay her back but to let the fiancé know what kind of girl he's about getting married to; who knows she cheating on him with other guys not just her BF alone. |
Re: My Friend Is Getting Married & She Begs Me To Keep Her Secret by Solsix(m): 4:52pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
So u want us to visit ur blog and give u advise that u will give your friend?? |
Re: My Friend Is Getting Married & She Begs Me To Keep Her Secret by RealEzee(m): 5:41pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
Ghostlord:tell him with evidence ja re, chaii d kind of evil ur friend did to you guun na wa ooo, save the guy such evil too abeg, ur guy wicked guun. My sister speak the truth!!! |
Re: My Friend Is Getting Married & She Begs Me To Keep Her Secret by Beke2020: 12:44pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Thank you all for your advice |
Re: My Friend Is Getting Married & She Begs Me To Keep Her Secret by MizzPhoney(f): 2:09pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Okay so let me see, her fiance is boring your boyfriend is pretentious... perfect solution, you guys should switch bfs because she will never stop looking for a guy more exciting. Hookup with her, tell her ur condition, you guys can figure it out. I don't know why people go into relationships, pretending about their sexuality. If you are a sex freak, say it, if not, say it. Forever is too long a time to remain sex starved... 1 Like |
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