they think I'm the most responsible. they want their kids to be like me

they think i have sense and very intelligent

family, and friends believe and look up to me to an extend that scare me alot. a friend once said he dreamt about me in a very expensive car.

they think I'm the most brilliant and can pass whatever exam it is.

girls think I'm a snub though some know I'm just an extremely shy freak

think I'm. butty so I don't get eyered when they f with my money

some think I'm proud because I don't say hi but they don't know I'm having issues with breaking the ice, starting and maintaining a conversation. and I don't like been looked at

Wazirinjos12:
People take me as someone with too much pride not knowing that am a shy person. in short a melancholy

Wazirinjos12:
People take me as someone with too much pride not knowing that am a shy person. in short a melancholy

we gather dey....I am in your shoes too....some even thinks I am an idiot by testing your calmness....

yusman14:
But what is the cause of this

I got that from https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/social-anxiety-disorder/symptoms-causes/syc-20353561.

I think I can relate with the environmental cause. I lived in a particular environment for over 14 years. After my family relocated, I found it difficult to adapt to the new environment. I became really shy, which was the direct opposite of who I was prior to the relocation. As a result, I started talking less, over thinking and distancing myself from people. With time, it became worse and social situations became a nightmare to me.

GeniusWannabe:

I got that from https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/social-anxiety-disorder/symptoms-causes/syc-20353561.

I think I can relate with the environmental cause. I lived in a particular environment for over 14 years. After my family relocated, I found it difficult to adapt to the new environment. I became really shy, which was the direct opposite of who I was prior to the relocation. As a result, I started talking less, over thinking and distancing myself from people. With time, it became worse and social situations became a nightmare to me.

Yes i can relate..
But this has to do with low self-esteem indirectly...I consider myself as a semi-extrovert because I behave base on the type of environment...I am presently staying in Ife(modakeke)and the way I behave there make people to think that I am proud...but on campus,I interact well...
I hate gaining much attention also,infact I hate my result been posted because ladies will wanna meet me(I am brilliant) and I can't hold conversation for too long..I teach some of them though....I don't lyk when people are looking me too...
it makes me feel timid and nervous...

it is pyschological....from my experience
...The way Ife people react with one another is different from the way lagosisns do ...so I can't cope there. since morning,I av been in my room because I don't know who to interact with .most of my friends are in hostel....Inshort,this people IQ is low

That I’m rude and wicked ...but they are wrong tho ! Infact this is affecting my relationship now because my gf mother don’t like me because I don’t smile much lol! Buy how can I be smiling when the country is not funny

victorian:
People think I'm too expensive to maintain



But in the real sense of the word :i simply have taste. That's all o.


A lil bit of class, shouldn't hurt no one nah.

Being classy is alright only if you pay for it with your own money and not his!

Most people think I have their time

victorian:







Yes I know bout menopause


But do u know there are some ladies who got married early, just one year in marriage during giving birth to their first child, they gave up the ghost.
Some get married, after years of waiting. On the day of giving birth they die.
Som get married and the whole family is wiped out.
Some have kids and unfortunately one of the kids turns out to be the Architect of the parents death.
There are so many things happening out there with marriage and child bearing.

I thank God. I'm healthy, I don't beg to eat and take care of myself. And I have total and indisputable peace in my life. I don't joke with my peace of mind. It's number one in my top list.

God knows what I want and in due time. It will happen .

He has given me what I craved for last year, at the last minute. And I'm so grateful and happy.

Hopefully this year, He will make me smile more. So don't worry Im fine.

You got a point there my dear.

May God grant you your heart desires. Iseeee.

Angela62:
That I am a bimbo, and I hate it.

Men seem to have this idea that beautiful women tends to be dumb and care only about looks. Meanwhile, I am a professional lady that earns my own money, have my own place and sponsor my younger brother in the uni. I am a Christian and take religion seriously. it keeps me sane. I am intelligent, focus driven and true to myself.

You just registered this account... You are looking for hookups

Most people think am a quiet person until we are close and they call me chatterbox...
Most people think,celibacy doesn't exist anymore.....
Most people think,am always on their matter not knowing that,it doesn't take long for it to leave my thoughts.....

Jimbadly:


You got a point there my dear.

May God grant you your heart desires. Iseeee.

Aww, thanks

Amen!

pocohantas:
Whatever misconception they have is actually a tip of the iceberg to how evil I am or can be.

pocohantas:
Whatever misconception they have is actually a tip of the iceberg to how evil I am or can be.

Most people think I can be a dick.... Usually it’s just my reaction to them themselves

People thinking I don't wanna spend ,but the truth is I don't like much of social activities . Indoor with all I needed to be comfortable

victorian:
People think I'm too expensive to maintain

But in the real sense of the word :i simply have taste. That's all o.

A lil bit of class, shouldn't hurt no one nah.

You look like a fat cow with excessive makeup to cover up ur ugliness.

funmisticqueen:
think so. Just because my opinion differs from theirs

Madam, gbeko sibe!

makydebbie:


I look like your mother.

In your dreams.
My mother doesn't dress like a cheap escort.

Many believe that i am a computer hacker since i am very good with computer and tech stuff. Some even bring huge amount of cash with them for me to agree to their evil schemes for me to hack for them.I always tell them what Bible says about stealing that i do not such.I can teach computer repairs,networking etc but NO NO NO to malicious hacking and stealing

Being jobless, they all thought I was idle and useless.

Now the story is different.
Everyone is like "trilobite, you didn't tell us"

I can gist, goof around, play hard, sleep all day at times (when waiting for the outcome of a hustle) but don't think for a second that I am idle or not working on meeting my personal targets.

Because I'm too dark.. They say I don't smile.. Whereas I just keep my face normal

gowonmaharajah:


Bro,there is a clear distinction between intelligence and brilliancy.I think you're academically brilliant...not intelligent

You can't say he is not intelligent because you don't know him nor witness his approach to issues other than book.

Nonetheless, You are right. The fact that you excel academically doesn't imply you are intelligent, it shows you are smart.

ItooWorWor:
1. People think am a cultist just bcuz of my dressing
2. They think I womanize a lot, but weytin man go do na
3. The way my neighbour always monitors my movement with her daughters ehh I believe she is scared of me
4. The way all those old men and women look at me you will think am there long lost son

paddy, we are in this together,them just the tag me cultists everywhere I go, but Sha it be cuz am very bold,yu can't intimidate me oh.. #calabarboi

TemmyT002:
I am Yoruba but people believe I am Igbo.
A lot of people are certain that I must be a womaniser but in reality, I am one-woman man

Same here bro...

victorian:








Aww, thanks

Amen!

You're most welcome dear.

Pascopele:
how do you know the bolded?

because he is.

Semaj77:


Ok , what piques your interest ?

You said you don't smoke, drink or womanize. So. I was astonished considering this habits are now a norm among our youths.

funmisticqueen:
No

Then stop comments that proves that is what you are.

Emodeee:



Then stop comments that proves that is what you are.

if you believe everything you see online, that's on you

themaestro08:


You mean they are Living in their little bubbles.

Well, that is another way to say it.

However, I noticed majority wrote “ people say I am proud but I am just bla bla bla”

The truth is , if majority of people say you are proud, YES YOU ARE.

All those trying to explain it away are just displaying some form of narcissism.

makydebbie:
That I'm a hoe because of how profane and sexually liberal I am.

SEXUALLY LIBERA ?......... sweetie pls check my signature and chat me up or call me

funmisticqueen:
if you believe everything you see online, that's on you

That is what you make us believe na. Not everybody will get closer to you. If I send you a mail now and i wanna know the type of person i sent a mail. i will go check your posts. That will give me an idea of who you are. Until I get to know you better, i will assume you are cynical considering your posts here.

DonroxyII:
You can't say he is not intelligent because you don't know him nor witness his approach to issues other than book.

Nonetheless, You are right. The fact that you excel academically doesn't imply you are intelligent, it shows you are smart.

Book smart,let's put it that way.