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Re: I Saw My Best Friend's Wife... by Nobody: 11:21am On Jan 03, 2020
IN NIGERA WHEN YOU MENTION HOTEL dehm which god created us

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Re: I Saw My Best Friend's Wife... by miclil: 11:21am On Jan 03, 2020
Mind your business Mr news caster

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Re: I Saw My Best Friend's Wife... by mukthar2000(m): 11:21am On Jan 03, 2020
Talk now mumu , talk make u see real problem of ur life, u better don't joke with woman.

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Re: I Saw My Best Friend's Wife... by Pataricatering(f): 11:22am On Jan 03, 2020
U know how many women have gotten HIV and other stds from their husbands ? Yet men won’t give themselves advice to stop cheating ?
daddycee91:
Informing your friend means you care about his life. She could infect him with some STD that could shorten his life. Don't listen to people saying you should mind your business. If you friend gets aids for an instance from his wife, you would blame yourself for not alerting him early enough

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Re: I Saw My Best Friend's Wife... by nsesam(m): 11:22am On Jan 03, 2020
What did you yourself go to do in the hotel, is that your house or where you worship?

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Re: I Saw My Best Friend's Wife... by francis5051: 11:23am On Jan 03, 2020
Jodha:
Do yhu know what she went to do with this other man in the hotel?....

Biko no go spoil person marriage based on misconception...
let him first tell the husband den the wife can xplain her own part
Re: I Saw My Best Friend's Wife... by YelloweWest: 11:23am On Jan 03, 2020
Op mind your business pls.

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Re: I Saw My Best Friend's Wife... by Nobody: 11:25am On Jan 03, 2020
EFULEFU1:
I saw my best friends wife in a hotel with another man. Since then I have not been myself

Should I tell my friend?

I[b]f she didn't see you[/b], use bulk SMS to code your guy, the earlier you discover and expose an anomaly the lesser its potential damage cheesy


Na wife, no be girlfriend, don't just sit there and not do anything

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Re: I Saw My Best Friend's Wife... by EagleDiamond: 11:25am On Jan 03, 2020
My dear friend dat u saw ur best Friend wife in a hotel does not mean dat dia are doing anything or having affair ok. Get dat pls

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Re: I Saw My Best Friend's Wife... by PointZerom: 11:26am On Jan 03, 2020
Shibaraba:
Unless you caught them nacking
Bros. E no concern you.

She go deny am and if she be the olosho type go tell your friend say you sef wan chop inside. They will make up and you lose your friendship. Plus she go come perfect her game to the extent Wey be say she can't be caught ever again.

As for me shibaraba, make I enter meet her dey do orgy I go just greet her "good evening" and I move on. Minding my business is my priority this year.


Bad advice.

I must let my friend know.

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Re: I Saw My Best Friend's Wife... by Nobody: 11:26am On Jan 03, 2020
EagleDiamond:
My dear friend dat u saw ur best Friend wife in a hotel does not mean dat dia are doing anything or having affair ok. Get dat pls


Ehn If there was nothing to it, let the wife explain herself shikena. People need to be made to know that 'walls have eyes and ears'.

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Re: I Saw My Best Friend's Wife... by kdfinest(m): 11:26am On Jan 03, 2020
EFULEFU1:
I saw my best friends wife in a hotel with another man. Since then I have not been myself

Should I tell my friend?
what kind of position did u encountered in, does it look compromising, cordial, formal (business like) etc
Re: I Saw My Best Friend's Wife... by Alexaonfleek: 11:26am On Jan 03, 2020
For the sake of your friend's health,pls tell him what you saw,although codedly.He won't seperate with her immediately but he'll be watching her carefully now
You can even be anonymous about it.
Re: I Saw My Best Friend's Wife... by Pataricatering(f): 11:26am On Jan 03, 2020
See them ! Lol - always dishing what they can’t take - u people are just learning now that what is good for the goose is great for the gander .
iPrevail:
You have involuntarily placed yourself in a difficult situation. A situation of guilty and restless conscience.
How will you drink and laugh with your friend, while you are helping his wife keep her dirty secrets? And if you spill, you may well be the catalyst that will break their marriage.
What would I do? I'd confront the wife about it and make her understand why it'll be better she tells her husband about it before I do.

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Re: I Saw My Best Friend's Wife... by tegrianonigltd(m): 11:26am On Jan 03, 2020
iPrevail:
You have involuntarily placed yourself in a difficult situation. A situation of guilty and restless conscience.
How will you drink and laugh with your friend, while you are helping his wife keep her dirty secrets? And if you spill, you may well be the catalyst that will break their marriage.
What would I do? I'd confront the wife about it and make her understand why it'll be better she tells her husband about it before I do.



Never you threaten a woman in her marriage lol, she fit kill that guy ooh.. women get heart pass we men oh.
Re: I Saw My Best Friend's Wife... by NaijaOlosho(f): 11:26am On Jan 03, 2020
EFULEFU1:
I saw my best friends wife in a hotel with another man. Since then I have not been myself

Should I tell my friend?

Mind your fucking business undecided

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Re: I Saw My Best Friend's Wife... by atiku4President(m): 11:27am On Jan 03, 2020
Jodha:
Do yhu know what she went to do with this other man in the hotel?....

Biko no go spoil person marriage based on misconception...
You see your life? If it were the other way round, you will rain thunder and lightning on the man.

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Re: I Saw My Best Friend's Wife... by Nobody: 11:28am On Jan 03, 2020
Romanoff:
Issues like this are very sensitive.

The woman might have covered her tracks so well that it will only take being caught redhanded before you can have a case.

2. You should have greeted her and called her husband on the phone immediately to say "guy, I just stumble on madam now now for so so so and so".....

grin

3. If you and your best friend are very close, you shouldn't have an issue telling him what you saw, you can also advise him to be vigilant. If you don't, it means you're enabling her infidelity if she's unfaithful.

God bless you
Re: I Saw My Best Friend's Wife... by awa(m): 11:28am On Jan 03, 2020
This does not make sense at all. Which part of the Hotel did you see them? Where they in a compromised position? Where they there for business discussion? What does the woman do for a living? Please until you have enough information do not attempt to destroy your friend's marriage for nothing sake. Most women do have their dignity intact and we should try to respect our loving women...Why stereotyping her

Abeg it is too early in the Year ooo for this kind thing oooo

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Re: I Saw My Best Friend's Wife... by Abfinest007(m): 11:29am On Jan 03, 2020
hiv is real .pls tell ur friend to put his wife on 5G watch list until he has enough evidence.just tell him u suspect her not that u caught her bcuz saying u caught her is dangerous bcuz u don't have a enough evidence or u can be ur frnd FBI
Re: I Saw My Best Friend's Wife... by atiku4President(m): 11:29am On Jan 03, 2020
NaijaOlosho:


Mind your fucking business undecided
Haa. Take it easy abeg
Re: I Saw My Best Friend's Wife... by atiku4President(m): 11:30am On Jan 03, 2020
Alexaonfleek:
For the sake of your friend's health,pls tell him what you saw,although codedly.He won't seperate with her immediately but he'll be watching her carefully now
You can even be anonymous about it.
You make sense
Re: I Saw My Best Friend's Wife... by Kylekent59: 11:30am On Jan 03, 2020
First and foremost, you need to be very careful at OP, it is family OOo, not boyfriend and girlfriend.


The best advice is to tell him to be very careful, that he should watch his wife moves, but he should pretend he hasn't seen anything.


Bros, you go dey careful and vigilant, dey watch your wife moves, you know say you be my best friend. Just an advice


Also, how sure are you that it was what you were thinking ?

What if they were there for business?

I think the best answer is to mind one's business.

What God has joined together, let no man put asunder.
Re: I Saw My Best Friend's Wife... by QuickStandard: 11:31am On Jan 03, 2020
Shibaraba:
Unless you caught them nacking
Bros. E no concern you.

She go deny am and if she be the olosho type go tell your friend say you sef wan chop inside. They will make up and you lose your friendship. Plus she go come perfect her game to the extent Wey be say she can't be caught ever again.

As for me shibaraba, make I enter meet her dey do orgy I go just greet her "good evening" and I move on. Minding my business is my priority this year.

It's only a foolish friend that will break his friendship with him.

If op and her husband are truly good close friends, tell your friend, make sure you convince him not to confront her. Both of you plan how to investigate her.
In no time, if the wife is truly a w.hore, in no time she will be exposed.
Re: I Saw My Best Friend's Wife... by Pataricatering(f): 11:31am On Jan 03, 2020
She can use female condom nah ! Or find a man who always uses a condom - since condom use is the problem not the infidelity . Guys are bothered about husband getting disease but men have been giving their wives stds since time immemorial- is STD that will kill all of u . Lol .
DMerciful:
Tell your friend straight up. He will put 2 and 2 together because there may likely have been signs he ignored.
People saying mind your business, what if she gives him HIV? Remember a woman does not use condom per se, a man can remove d condom during the act

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Re: I Saw My Best Friend's Wife... by Nobody: 11:31am On Jan 03, 2020
Ashawopapa001:



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and to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life: You should mind your own business and work with your hands, just as we told you,

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and to aspire to live quietly, and to mind your own affairs, and to work with your hands, as we instructed you,

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and to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life and attend to your own business and work with your hands, just as we commanded you;

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and that ye study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your hands, even as we charged you;

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and that ye study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your hands, even as we charged you;

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and to vie with one another in eagerness for peace, every one minding his own business and working with his hands, as we ordered you to do:

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and that you make it your ambition to lead a quiet life, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, even as we instructed you;

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and to study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we did command you
: grin grin

It's now official. You dey crase.

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Re: I Saw My Best Friend's Wife... by QuickStandard: 11:32am On Jan 03, 2020
EFULEFU1:
I saw my best friends wife in a hotel with another man. Since then I have not been myself

Should I tell my friend?


Op of the man is truly your friend as you said, go ahead and tell your friend.

It's only a foolish friend that will break his friendship with him.

If you and her husband are truly good close friends, tell your friend, make sure you convince him not to confront her. Both of you plan how to investigate her.
In no time, if the wife is truly a w.hore, in no time she will be exposed.

That's the bro code.
Re: I Saw My Best Friend's Wife... by Princedapace(m): 11:33am On Jan 03, 2020
Shibaraba:
Unless you caught them nacking
Bros. E no concern you.

She go deny am and if she be the olosho type go tell your friend say you sef wan chop inside. They will make up and you lose your friendship. Plus she go come perfect her game to the extent Wey be say she can't be caught ever again.

As for me shibaraba, make I enter meet her dey do orgy I go just greet her "good evening" and I move on. Minding my business is my priority this year.

That is his best friend. Not just a friend. Bro, speak to ur guy about it. If truly u guys are friends, best friends he will believe u. Minding ur business no reach beat friend. The woman fit gjve him disease and he will die or get health issues. So as a friend, safe ur best friend. If u don't have evidence, simply tell ur guy and tell him to be careful and give him clues how to track the lady. His health and life are important to u too as a friend.

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Re: I Saw My Best Friend's Wife... by dvee2: 11:33am On Jan 03, 2020
Use an anonymous phone to send a message to your friend. Describe the exact situation, place time and ambiance. He deserves to know. What he does with the information is up to him. But you have satisfied your conscience as friend without jeopardising your friendship.

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Re: I Saw My Best Friend's Wife... by Pataricatering(f): 11:33am On Jan 03, 2020
Exactly how monikers with ‘m’ usually encourage cheating when it’s men involved .
SarakiBukola:
grin

Hilarious how monikers with "f" are giving the lady the benefit of doubt.


Send an anonymous SMS with full details to your friend...


IF you're a true friend.

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Re: I Saw My Best Friend's Wife... by dalongjnr: 11:34am On Jan 03, 2020
Brother, just for a quick note!
1. Where they inside lodging?
2. If outside, what's their sitting position? If it looks suspicious,tooh!
3. Did she noticed your presence?
If all are yes,then don't tell him!!
1a. You could had called your friend to come and meet you for a drink and for an imaginary urgent discussion, let him discover by himself.
2.If their sitting position was suspicious, you maybe, could have walked around them and say hi,with that, should will always be torment by ur presence in their midst.
3. If the lady in question have noticed your presence, then she will be first to report herself to hubby codedly by saying she made you at a hotel while trying to eat or drink with colleagues or friends or she can just cook one sensible lie and give her husband. Sorry for your friend, just tell him to be careful with his wife, but indirectly, oh. Let it not be that you are the devil that want to break their marriage.
Re: I Saw My Best Friend's Wife... by nonix22(m): 11:34am On Jan 03, 2020
I'm I the only one thinking that this woman will have a big ass and must be from the west

Baba, back it up with better evidence; make dem no use you settle on top bed for night.

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