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◄ 1 Thessalonians 4:11 ►
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New International Version
and to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life: You should mind your own business and work with your hands, just as we told you,

New Living Translation
Make it your goal to live a quiet life, minding your own business and working with your hands, just as we instructed you before.

English Standard Version
and to aspire to live quietly, and to mind your own affairs, and to work with your hands, as we instructed you,

Berean Study Bible
and to aspire to live quietly, to attend to your own matters, and to work with your own hands, as we instructed you.

Berean Literal Bible
and to strive earnestly to live quietly and to attend to your own matters, and to work with your own hands, just as we commanded you,

New American Standard Bible
and to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life and attend to your own business and work with your hands, just as we commanded you,

New King James Version
that you also aspire to lead a quiet life, to mind your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you,

King James Bible
And that ye study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you;

Christian Standard Bible
to seek to lead a quiet life, to mind your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you,

Contemporary English Version
Try your best to live quietly, to mind your own business, and to work hard, just as we taught you to do.

Good News Translation
Make it your aim to live a quiet life, to mind your own business, and to earn your own living, just as we told you before.

Holman Christian Standard Bible
to seek to lead a quiet life, to mind your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you,

International Standard Version
Also, make it your goal to live quietly, to mind your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we instructed you,

NET Bible
to aspire to lead a quiet life, to attend to your own business, and to work with your hands, as we commanded you.

New Heart English Bible
and that you make it your ambition to lead a quiet life, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, even as we instructed you;

Aramaic Bible in Plain English
And that you would be diligent, peaceable and occupied with your business, working with your hands just as we commanded you,

GOD'S WORD® Translation
Also, make it your goal to live quietly, do your work, and earn your own living, as we ordered you.

New American Standard 1977
and to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life and attend to your own business and work with your hands, just as we commanded you;

Jubilee Bible 2000
and that ye procure to be quiet and to do your business and to work with your hands, as we commanded you,

King James 2000 Bible
And that you study to be quiet, and to mind your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you;

American King James Version
And that you study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you;

American Standard Version
and that ye study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your hands, even as we charged you;

Douay-Rheims Bible
And that you use your endeavour to be quiet, and that you do your own business, and work with your own hands, as we commanded you:

Darby Bible Translation
and to seek earnestly to be quiet and mind your own affairs, and work with your [own] hands, even as we charged you,

English Revised Version
and that ye study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your hands, even as we charged you;

Webster's Bible Translation
And that ye study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you;

Weymouth New Testament
and to vie with one another in eagerness for peace, every one minding his own business and working with his hands, as we ordered you to do:

World English Bible
and that you make it your ambition to lead a quiet life, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, even as we instructed you;

Young's Literal Translation
and to study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we did command you

All these your quotes have been silenced by another that says " James 4:17 So whoever knows the right thing to do and fails to do it, for him it is sin".

I just confirmed it, there are so many oloshos on nairaland.

Chai!

OP, my advice is this...

While on a table drinking and having a nice time, tell him you saw one of your old friend's wife with a man in an hotel. Then ask him what he'd do if it was him.

His response should tell you whether to tell him or not.

I'm saying present the situation to him using different characters and see how he intends to go about it.

But whatever you do, you must not keep quiet. One way or the other, you must let it out.

EFULEFU1:
I saw my best friends wife in a hotel with another man. Since then I have not been myself

Should I tell my friend?

Tell him if she didn't see u before she will kill him with disease

Jodha:
Do yhu know what she went to do with this other man in the hotel?....

Biko no go spoil person marriage based on misconception...

I wonder ooo, it could be a prayer session self or deliverance, and OP is here wallowing on imaginations.

Hypocrite. But when married men cheat it gives you Joy.

KingGBsky:
Please tell the man so he can get rid of that bitch cheating wife. It irritates me when I hear married women cheating.

Marvieduke:


Please tell your friend abeg. I hate cheating women.

you dont know for sure she was cheating.

The stakes are too high to be based on conjectures.

The best he should do is to ANONYMOUSLY send a message to the husband that "your wife is in so and so hotel at so and so time". He shouldn't embellish the story with conjectures

If you hide am, someone will also hide your own from you. Tell the motherfucker and let him be vigilant. Na wife we are talking about not girlfriend. I was in the same bear parlor when a man came in with my neighbor wife. The husband is a security. She never knew I was the one sitting beside them. The man was kissing and she is even giving him a Mouth Action. I recorded it once she bend to suck and I try to move and come back recording which show her face. Before evening I will tell the man. And if she deny den d video will come in. Nonsense. We can't continue with this in 2020

EFULEFU1:
I saw my best friends wife in a hotel with another man. Since then I have not been myself

Should I tell my friend?

Since he's your best friend, mind if I ask, is he loyal to his wife?

1. If no, let them keep fooling each other.
2. If yes, he deserves to know.

for me my friend go hear

BULLIONVAN4:
send me the address of your wife, she'll make a good business partner.

Go fu....ck your mum, iranmu!

monex:

you dont know for sure she was cheating.
The stakes are too high to be based on conjectures.
The best he should do is to ANONYMOUSLY send a message to the husband that "your wife is in so and so hotel at so and so time". He shouldn't embellish the story with conjectures

Nah I don't think so, everyone should mind their own business most times, nothing goes hidden forever!

EFULEFU1:
I saw my best friends wife in a hotel with another man. Since then I have not been myself

Should I tell my friend?

Aproco... mind your business. Did you see them having sex?

EFULEFU1:
I saw my best friends wife in a hotel with another man. Since then I have not been myself

Should I tell my friend?

if you saw your best friend with another woman in a hotel, would you tell his wife or mind your business, talks sense to him, advice him then mind your business? If tables where turned and you won't report him to his wife, but do one of the other 2, then do dsame..... The moment he married her, she became your friend too...

What if it was a business meeting, or her husband sent her to stand in for him in a business deal! Except u caught her in the act! Hotel is not just for sex

U should be sure what kind of business she does.

There are some legitimate businesses that require people to meet in a hotel. And if the husband is aware of such business, he will tell u that he is aware and u are not a good friend for not minding ur business.

Also, if truly u know that her business venture won't put her up with another man in a hotel, please kindly do the following for ur friend.

1: carefully use ur phone to take pictures of her and the man. Don't show to the husband yet.
2: Ensure that u observe her like five times with same man or multiple men.
3: learn her schedules with the man or man. Then
This is what u MUST DO:
4: Take ur friend for a drink in that hotel exactly the time she always do her thing.
5: During ur beer taking, position the seat of ur friend towards the point where the wife makes her entrance and exit.
6: Get any topic and keep drinking.
7: Eventually, the woman will show fort with her lover and the man sees her.
8: Watch them react. If the man is accusing her and the woman denying, please keep drinking ur beer or pet ur friend but a situation the man didn't react and just greeted the wife and the man, try to deduce who they are.
9: If the man threatens to pull than earth and the girl kept on saying rubbish to make the situation look as if the husband is just trailing her(which women can do anytime by making u feel guilty. Greatest actors on earth) then
10: tell the husband u brought him here to see for his eyes and not to be told, I can then hand over the pictures u took to him.

And

Go home fulfilled

Thanks

Margy:
Better hurry tell your guy before she give am HIV

Another Hangle

chop knuckle!

Pataricatering:
Confront the wife because he is her father ? Mscheew !

don't be stupid, don't talk to me in such manner

please dont say that,
i reset and load atm's in hotels,as a married woman,if you see me with my boss coming out would u say we went to nack,

Froshloaded:

Business meeting nkor
Bleeeping meeting ni

Romanoff:
Issues like this are very sensitive.

The woman might have covered her tracks so well that it will only take being caught redhanded before you can have a case.

2. You should have greeted her and called her husband on the phone immediately to say "guy, I just stumble on madam now now for so so so and so".....



3. If you and your best friend are very close, you shouldn't have an issue telling him what you saw, you can also advise him to be vigilant. If you don't, it means you're enabling her infidelity if she's unfaithful.

what if the husband was elsewhere doing his own knacking too? Besides, a hotel is a building. They could have give there for a number of reasons. Recently my company had an admin staff retreat for a few hours at a hotel. We rented the mini conference hall and We were just 6 and two out of the 6 were the oldest being my boss and our consultant. If either of their spouses or spouse's friend had driven past at the point we were leaving , our consultant and my boss might have been assumed to have gone there to fvck and that is how an aproko person like you would have caused unwarranted problems in families.

EFULEFU1:
I saw my best friends wife in a hotel with another man. Since then I have not been myself

Should I tell my friend?

Post baits smh

I'm sure you love cheating men. Hypocrisy in Africa.

Marvieduke:


Please tell your friend abeg. I hate cheating women.

INDUSTRIALFAN:
what if the husband was elsewhere doing his own knacking too? Besides, a hotel is a building. They could have give there for a number of reasons. Recently my company had an admin staff retreat for a few hours at a hotel. We rented the mini conference hall and We were just 6 and two out of the 6 were the oldest being my boss and our consultant. If either of their spouses or spouse's friend had driven past at the point we were leaving , our consultant and my boss might have been assumed to have gone there to fvck and that is how an aproko person like you would have caused unwarranted problems in families.

At least, the husband would know about the conference and the venue, wouldn't he?

AwkaetitiBabe:
Probably a business meeting. Just saying

people are very dumb and assuming... Especially here in Nigeria.... Hotel = infidelity and immorality to 89% of Nigerians. Very nonsense thinking.

It is not in the friend's place to warn the wife. It's not his business.

micflo28:
Please confront the wife and warn her to put an end to it if she admits to it or you will tell the husband. Maybe she was sweet tongued to the fact that no one will know of the secret affair and the benefits she will obtain from it. Convince her that someone sees her secret actions and that you will tell the husband if it continues. This reality will correct her actions

Even if I catch them bonking, it's none of my business.

SarakiBukola:


Hilarious how monikers with "f" are giving the lady the benefit of doubt.


Send an anonymous SMS with full details to your friend...


IF you're a true friend.

You're very wise..
Best advice.
Buy new sim card, use it to send anonymous SMS with full details to his friend.

SarakiBukola:

Hilarious how monikers with "f" are giving the lady the benefit of doubt.

Send an anonymous SMS with full details to your friend...

IF you're a true friend.

Best advice. Do this OP

EFULEFU1:
I saw my best friends wife in a hotel with another man. Since then I have not been myself

Should I tell my friend?

My guy stay focused. This is a New Year. Just stay focused on you, your life and your business.

Where is your own wife or girlfriend? Think about that.

Romanoff:


At least, the husband would know about the conference and the venue, wouldn't he?

he's not even in the country. My boss goes to a number of meetings daily... Believe me.. After a number of few months, even if she would tell him everything, he would get exhausted hearing it all.. Besides, I noticed you only spoke of her husband knowing where she went... Is the consultant exempt from letting his wife know where he'd be or is it just women infidelity is tied to?

sleekbae:
It is not in the friend's place to warn the wife. It's not his business.

alright but when the man finds out on his own and commits murder, we will turn against the friend who didnt take any action to blame him

iPrevail:
You have involuntarily placed yourself in a difficult situation. A situation of guilty and restless conscience.
How will you drink and laugh with your friend, while you are helping his wife keep her dirty secrets? And if you spill, you may well be the catalyst that will break their marriage.
What would I do? I'd confront the wife about it and make her understand why it'll be better she tells her husband about it before I do.

It is still January and u have won the most stupid man on earth 2020.

Immediately u tell the woman such u said above, ur six feet will be seven feet. U think women are simple and merciful. Go and ask Delilah and Jezebel.
A cheating woman can kill her father (who happens to be her best love)