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Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by Nobody: 9:04am On Jan 04, 2020
this could be one of the reasons I have a strong trust issues especially with regards to girls........sorry bro,but u were always too quick to trust and believe whatever ur babe tells and that to me is a big error

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Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by issylarry(m): 9:05am On Jan 04, 2020
MaxVee:
I Am Losing My Mind, Could This Be Love Or Foolishness?

Okay, I'd be quick and brief as well.

So about 6 months ago, I met my girl on facebook, And after months wooing her to date me, she finally agreed and we started dating..

Like everything was perfect and indeed I fell deeply in love with her even before I met her.

So along the line in our relationship she told she had a best friend who is a guy and they have know each other for like 4years..and that they talk very well (calls and chat) and that they tell each other they love themselves, but if I wasn't cool with it,I could break up she would understand.

As a guy I knew I had fallen for her and I embraced her telling me about the guy after a strong assurance from her that they were not into any sort of relationship with each other.

So my girl called me like let's say a month after we started dating that there was this her friend who she hadn't met and that wanted and she was going to see him, and I was like fine, she should just be fine.

P.S:- I hadn't met with my girl even till the point she went to meet the guy...I was in the west and she was in one of the states in the East..more like a long distance relationship.

Fast forward to days after they met I became uncomfortable with the relationship between my girl and the said new guy she met..I talked to her severally about it and she was at some point swearing not having anything to do with the new guy she just met.

Fast forward to the festive season I came back and I met my girl for the first time..indeed she was everything I imagined and we flowed amazingly well.

Long story cut short in the midst of one of our long conversations I discovered she have at some point had sex severally with her said best friend...so I was like since it was before we met I forgave her and we moved on..

yesterday I asked her if she has anything with the new guy and she swore again not having anything with him that the guy has been asking her out and she refused dating him.

She said plenty of things that convinced me into believing that nothing was going between them.

P.S:- before yesterday I told her to tell the new guy she has a boyfriend and she promised to..(from the actions of my girl I could tell she loves me.) She later told me that day that she told him and she had blocked him and stuff..and trust me I did believe her.

So this morning while she was sleeping I reaching out to her phone and went straight to her WhatsApp.. opened the chat with the guy and what I saw broke me..

She was reconciling with him over the break up she instigated of which was caused by something totally different not even because she told him she had a guy..what killed my spirit was a message she wrote to the guy saying "she left me for him even though I was far much a better option"..I confronted her and she has been pleading saying she loves me but she likes him and that they haven't had anything except kissing and caressing..that she loves me so much..that she started liking him when she started talking to him more frequently and I was far away. She hadn't know me..so she got fond of him and she likes him.

I love this babe so much, I told her I forgive her..but please I need your opinions..am I blinded by love or am being foolish..

How would you handle the situation. If it was you..
La La.. please help move this to front page
Am breaking every hour.

My broda,u no fit get sense again.
Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by Nobody: 9:05am On Jan 04, 2020
You are not foolish but you are being fooled by the girl and betrayed by love and blinded by emotions .

1. Do not love girls you meet online cos the profile is still there and new guys are reaching her.

2. Prostitutes also defines girls who have no recognition thar keeping more than a partner is whoring.

3. Her best friend means fuckmate. Do not date a girl who has male best friend.

4. Fall in love but go against your heart when your brain raises suspicion.

5. Terminate the relationship or double date, to reduce the attraction.

6. Emotional Investment in such a woman is lost in the ocean of mistrust. It is worthless as the relationship can not get anywhere

So terminate, terminate, terminate or keep her as a paid LovePeddler.

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Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by ifygod20(m): 9:06am On Jan 04, 2020
My brother I will advice u to let her go,she can not be trusted the best thing that can happen to you is to move on with ur life.if u keep on dating this lady she will one day break up with you
Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by Akinh: 9:06am On Jan 04, 2020
MaxVee:
I Am Losing My Mind, Could This Be Love Or Foolishness?

Okay, I'd be quick and brief as well.

So about 6 months ago, I met my girl on facebook, And after months wooing her to date me, she finally agreed and we started dating..

Like everything was perfect and indeed I fell deeply in love with her even before I met her.

So along the line in our relationship she told she had a best friend who is a guy and they have know each other for like 4years..and that they talk very well (calls and chat) and that they tell each other they love themselves, but if I wasn't cool with it,I could break up she would understand.

As a guy I knew I had fallen for her and I embraced her telling me about the guy after a strong assurance from her that they were not into any sort of relationship with each other.

So my girl called me like let's say a month after we started dating that there was this her friend who she hadn't met and that wanted and she was going to see him, and I was like fine, she should just be fine.

P.S:- I hadn't met with my girl even till the point she went to meet the guy...I was in the west and she was in one of the states in the East..more like a long distance relationship.

Fast forward to days after they met I became uncomfortable with the relationship between my girl and the said new guy she met..I talked to her severally about it and she was at some point swearing not having anything to do with the new guy she just met.

Fast forward to the festive season I came back and I met my girl for the first time..indeed she was everything I imagined and we flowed amazingly well.

Long story cut short in the midst of one of our long conversations I discovered she have at some point had sex severally with her said best friend...so I was like since it was before we met I forgave her and we moved on..

yesterday I asked her if she has anything with the new guy and she swore again not having anything with him that the guy has been asking her out and she refused dating him.

She said plenty of things that convinced me into believing that nothing was going between them.

P.S:- before yesterday I told her to tell the new guy she has a boyfriend and she promised to..(from the actions of my girl I could tell she loves me.) She later told me that day that she told him and she had blocked him and stuff..and trust me I did believe her.

So this morning while she was sleeping I reaching out to her phone and went straight to her WhatsApp.. opened the chat with the guy and what I saw broke me..

She was reconciling with him over the break up she instigated of which was caused by something totally different not even because she told him she had a guy..what killed my spirit was a message she wrote to the guy saying "she left me for him even though I was far much a better option"..I confronted her and she has been pleading saying she loves me but she likes him and that they haven't had anything except kissing and caressing..that she loves me so much..that she started liking him when she started talking to him more frequently and I was far away. She hadn't know me..so she got fond of him and she likes him.

I love this babe so much, I told her I forgive her..but please I need your opinions..am I blinded by love or am being foolish..

How would you handle the situation. If it was you..
La La.. please help move this to front page
Am breaking every hour.
I still wonder how someone can start 2020 with stupidity ..bro I guess u need to visit any of those churches hosting 90days prayer and fasting for sense receiving deliverance ..may God help u
Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by Hoodbilonia: 9:08am On Jan 04, 2020
Dem full badoo
I dont fall in love with em
Na dia naked pics and self-service
Afts dat i Bleep dem very hard and on to the next
Social media relatnship na shit
No go get staph o.
I get the cure . 50k
Confirm cure. 10litres plus powder

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Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by Bondinus(m): 9:08am On Jan 04, 2020
Why do I feel she wants to plant so many fruits in one plot of land.
What does she do and did you tell her what you do for a living.
P.S. I have my reason for asking.
Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by MaxVee: 9:08am On Jan 04, 2020
ShagariBillions:
You are being a child, relationships don’t work like fantasies. Action speaks more than words, even though the girl won’t be blamed for being into people, no one can exclusively be dating a someone who only exist on social media. If you are willing to date her make yourself more available or you just let it go, there are different kind of people; some people can’t handle absence even they love the person especially when he was never there.
Intend bringing her to stay with me for nysc by march, all plans have been concluded
Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by MondayOsunbor(m): 9:09am On Jan 04, 2020
MaxVee:
I Am Losing My Mind, Could This Be Love Or Foolishness?

Okay, I'd be quick and brief as well.

So about 6 months ago, I met my girl on facebook, And after months wooing her to date me, she finally agreed and we started dating..

Like everything was perfect and indeed I fell deeply in love with her even before I met her.

So along the line in our relationship she told she had a best friend who is a guy and they have know each other for like 4years..and that they talk very well (calls and chat) and that they tell each other they love themselves, but if I wasn't cool with it,I could break up she would understand.

As a guy I knew I had fallen for her and I embraced her telling me about the guy after a strong assurance from her that they were not into any sort of relationship with each other.

So my girl called me like let's say a month after we started dating that there was this her friend who she hadn't met and that wanted and she was going to see him, and I was like fine, she should just be fine.

P.S:- I hadn't met with my girl even till the point she went to meet the guy...I was in the west and she was in one of the states in the East..more like a long distance relationship.

Fast forward to days after they met I became uncomfortable with the relationship between my girl and the said new guy she met..I talked to her severally about it and she was at some point swearing not having anything to do with the new guy she just met.

Fast forward to the festive season I came back and I met my girl for the first time..indeed she was everything I imagined and we flowed amazingly well.

Long story cut short in the midst of one of our long conversations I discovered she have at some point had sex severally with her said best friend...so I was like since it was before we met I forgave her and we moved on..

yesterday I asked her if she has anything with the new guy and she swore again not having anything with him that the guy has been asking her out and she refused dating him.

She said plenty of things that convinced me into believing that nothing was going between them.

P.S:- before yesterday I told her to tell the new guy she has a boyfriend and she promised to..(from the actions of my girl I could tell she loves me.) She later told me that day that she told him and she had blocked him and stuff..and trust me I did believe her.

So this morning while she was sleeping I reaching out to her phone and went straight to her WhatsApp.. opened the chat with the guy and what I saw broke me..

She was reconciling with him over the break up she instigated of which was caused by something totally different not even because she told him she had a guy..what killed my spirit was a message she wrote to the guy saying "she left me for him even though I was far much a better option"..I confronted her and she has been pleading saying she loves me but she likes him and that they haven't had anything except kissing and caressing..that she loves me so much..that she started liking him when she started talking to him more frequently and I was far away. She hadn't know me..so she got fond of him and she likes him.

I love this babe so much, I told her I forgive her..but please I need your opinions..am I blinded by love or am being foolish..

How would you handle the situation. If it was you..
La La.. please help move this to front page
Am breaking every hour.


if you love a woman and ready to dead for her . marriage her before any other person do
Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by Lastmankc(m): 9:09am On Jan 04, 2020
MaxVee:
I Am Losing My Mind, Could This Be Love Or Foolishness?

Okay, I'd be quick and brief as well.

So about 6 months ago, I met my girl on facebook, And after months wooing her to date me, she finally agreed and we started dating..

Like everything was perfect and indeed I fell deeply in love with her even before I met her.

So along the line in our relationship she told she had a best friend who is a guy and they have know each other for like 4years..and that they talk very well (calls and chat) and that they tell each other they love themselves, but if I wasn't cool with it,I could break up she would understand.

As a guy I knew I had fallen for her and I embraced her telling me about the guy after a strong assurance from her that they were not into any sort of relationship with each other.

So my girl called me like let's say a month after we started dating that there was this her friend who she hadn't met and that wanted and she was going to see him, and I was like fine, she should just be fine.

P.S:- I hadn't met with my girl even till the point she went to meet the guy...I was in the west and she was in one of the states in the East..more like a long distance relationship.

Fast forward to days after they met I became uncomfortable with the relationship between my girl and the said new guy she met..I talked to her severally about it and she was at some point swearing not having anything to do with the new guy she just met.

Fast forward to the festive season I came back and I met my girl for the first time..indeed she was everything I imagined and we flowed amazingly well.

Long story cut short in the midst of one of our long conversations I discovered she have at some point had sex severally with her said best friend...so I was like since it was before we met I forgave her and we moved on..

yesterday I asked her if she has anything with the new guy and she swore again not having anything with him that the guy has been asking her out and she refused dating him.

She said plenty of things that convinced me into believing that nothing was going between them.

P.S:- before yesterday I told her to tell the new guy she has a boyfriend and she promised to..(from the actions of my girl I could tell she loves me.) She later told me that day that she told him and she had blocked him and stuff..and trust me I did believe her.

So this morning while she was sleeping I reaching out to her phone and went straight to her WhatsApp.. opened the chat with the guy and what I saw broke me..

She was reconciling with him over the break up she instigated of which was caused by something totally different not even because she told him she had a guy..what killed my spirit was a message she wrote to the guy saying "she left me for him even though I was far much a better option"..I confronted her and she has been pleading saying she loves me but she likes him and that they haven't had anything except kissing and caressing..that she loves me so much..that she started liking him when she started talking to him more frequently and I was far away. She hadn't know me..so she got fond of him and she likes him.

I love this babe so much, I told her I forgive her..but please I need your opinions..am I blinded by love or am being foolish..

How would you handle the situation. If it was you..
La La.. please help move this to front page
Am breaking every hour.
Guy, nah new year be this, I am tired of all this boyfriend and girlfriend stuff.

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Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by mayorkent(m): 9:10am On Jan 04, 2020
Lol

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Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by DexterousOne(m): 9:11am On Jan 04, 2020
Gaggi:
She's in her whóring phase. Most men will enjoy a woman before she reaches that stage or after she passes that stage or in extreme cases, a woman who never enters such stage (very few exempt themselves).

My brother, I advise you to walk away for your own peace and sanity. It's a bad phase to meet a girl.

Truth
Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by Cregon: 9:12am On Jan 04, 2020
Why don't you date one of the good girls living at a considerable distance around you?

Long distance relationships works but most of the time it leaves at least one partner heartbroken. This is because it is mainly for fun and money.

However, as for your 'girl', STAND UP, PICK UP YOUR BED AND WALK before you ruin your life in the name of love.

If you want my honest advice, focus your energy for now on improving your life. Start or improve your business. Learn a skill. Educate yourself.
If anything, you can settle for casual friends, who knows, you may even find love from there.

Goodluck!!!
Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by Typhoonsbane: 9:13am On Jan 04, 2020
Guy you're still single,if you like yourself and your sanity tell the girl you've forgiven her,then endure your few days together, have lots of sex and role play,then carry your bag,don't even wait till you enter bus before you block her.
The truth of the matter is SHE'S A HOE.

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Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by jaxxy(m): 9:13am On Jan 04, 2020
MaxVee:
I Am Losing My Mind, Could This Be Love Or Foolishness?

Okay, I'd be quick and brief as well.

So about 6 months ago, I met my girl on facebook, And after months wooing her to date me, she finally agreed and we started dating..

Like everything was perfect and indeed I fell deeply in love with her even before I met her.

So along the line in our relationship she told she had a best friend who is a guy and they have know each other for like 4years..and that they talk very well (calls and chat) and that they tell each other they love themselves, but if I wasn't cool with it,I could break up she would understand.

As a guy I knew I had fallen for her and I embraced her telling me about the guy after a strong assurance from her that they were not into any sort of relationship with each other.

So my girl called me like let's say a month after we started dating that there was this her friend who she hadn't met and that wanted and she was going to see him, and I was like fine, she should just be fine.

P.S:- I hadn't met with my girl even till the point she went to meet the guy...I was in the west and she was in one of the states in the East..more like a long distance relationship.

Fast forward to days after they met I became uncomfortable with the relationship between my girl and the said new guy she met..I talked to her severally about it and she was at some point swearing not having anything to do with the new guy she just met.

Fast forward to the festive season I came back and I met my girl for the first time..indeed she was everything I imagined and we flowed amazingly well.

Long story cut short in the midst of one of our long conversations I discovered she have at some point had sex severally with her said best friend...so I was like since it was before we met I forgave her and we moved on..

yesterday I asked her if she has anything with the new guy and she swore again not having anything with him that the guy has been asking her out and she refused dating him.

She said plenty of things that convinced me into believing that nothing was going between them.

P.S:- before yesterday I told her to tell the new guy she has a boyfriend and she promised to..(from the actions of my girl I could tell she loves me.) She later told me that day that she told him and she had blocked him and stuff..and trust me I did believe her.

So this morning while she was sleeping I reaching out to her phone and went straight to her WhatsApp.. opened the chat with the guy and what I saw broke me..

She was reconciling with him over the break up she instigated of which was caused by something totally different not even because she told him she had a guy..what killed my spirit was a message she wrote to the guy saying "she left me for him even though I was far much a better option"..I confronted her and she has been pleading saying she loves me but she likes him and that they haven't had anything except kissing and caressing..that she loves me so much..that she started liking him when she started talking to him more frequently and I was far away. She hadn't know me..so she got fond of him and she likes him.

I love this babe so much, I told her I forgive her..but please I need your opinions..am I blinded by love or am being foolish..

How would you handle the situation. If it was you..
La La.. please help move this to front page
Am breaking every hour.


I’m sorry to tell u this bro bt here are the reg flags and even worse. The fact she slept with her best friend severally and still remains or calls him best frnd shows she has no sexual boundaries,

She just met a guy and they kissing and caressing, whilst u were away? She can’t handle a long distance relationship. She lies a lot, she’s sleeps around easily also.

My submission Ure inlove with a hoe. U better enjoy urself and run. That’s not a serious gf material ok. Enjoy. Love ko, love ni

NB: she might change later in future or u might be able to change her bt u can’t do that while I’m a long distance relationship, u can’t monitor her real progress in changing. U will be deceived again and again. Have this at the back of ur mind. Cheers.

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Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by oloriLFC(f): 9:15am On Jan 04, 2020
henriettttta:
She has too much guys as friends


And I dunno how a girl will keep a guy as her best friend when she's dating another
I have loads of guys as friends, no single lady cos of my love for football. We relate very well but at a respectable distance. so many of them but I haven't met 98% of them (I actually refused to meet) cos I respect my man. A lady in any form of relationship be it dating or married ought to respect what they both have by being careful of the opposite sex. There's nothing like a male bestie in this world of ours, something might lead to the other which will cause a strain in one's relationship

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Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by Abbesuper123(m): 9:15am On Jan 04, 2020
Nah my guy, you’re not in love you’re just being stupid � �

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Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by juniorstar(m): 9:16am On Jan 04, 2020
let me just be frank with you bro...u see ehn some babes they wey guy fit keep...the other ones ehn get their purpose. i no go talk pass dis one. na 2020 we dey ur mum u don do.
Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by MzTunechi(f): 9:17am On Jan 04, 2020
Dem don jazz this one...this ain't ordinary
Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by Nobody: 9:17am On Jan 04, 2020
MaxVee:
I Am Losing My Mind, Could This Be Love Or Foolishness?

Okay, I'd be quick and brief as well.

So about 6 months ago, I met my girl on facebook, And after months wooing her to date me, she finally agreed and we started dating..

Like everything was perfect and indeed I fell deeply in love with her even before I met her.

So along the line in our relationship she told she had a best friend who is a guy and they have know each other for like 4years..and that they talk very well (calls and chat) and that they tell each other they love themselves, but if I wasn't cool with it,I could break up she would understand.

As a guy I knew I had fallen for her and I embraced her telling me about the guy after a strong assurance from her that they were not into any sort of relationship with each other.

So my girl called me like let's say a month after we started dating that there was this her friend who she hadn't met and that wanted and she was going to see him, and I was like fine, she should just be fine.

P.S:- I hadn't met with my girl even till the point she went to meet the guy...I was in the west and she was in one of the states in the East..more like a long distance relationship.

Fast forward to days after they met I became uncomfortable with the relationship between my girl and the said new guy she met..I talked to her severally about it and she was at some point swearing not having anything to do with the new guy she just met.

Fast forward to the festive season I came back and I met my girl for the first time..indeed she was everything I imagined and we flowed amazingly well.

Long story cut short in the midst of one of our long conversations I discovered she have at some point had sex severally with her said best friend...so I was like since it was before we met I forgave her and we moved on..

yesterday I asked her if she has anything with the new guy and she swore again not having anything with him that the guy has been asking her out and she refused dating him.

She said plenty of things that convinced me into believing that nothing was going between them.

P.S:- before yesterday I told her to tell the new guy she has a boyfriend and she promised to..(from the actions of my girl I could tell she loves me.) She later told me that day that she told him and she had blocked him and stuff..and trust me I did believe her.

So this morning while she was sleeping I reaching out to her phone and went straight to her WhatsApp.. opened the chat with the guy and what I saw broke me..

She was reconciling with him over the break up she instigated of which was caused by something totally different not even because she told him she had a guy..what killed my spirit was a message she wrote to the guy saying "she left me for him even though I was far much a better option"..I confronted her and she has been pleading saying she loves me but she likes him and that they haven't had anything except kissing and caressing..that she loves me so much..that she started liking him when she started talking to him more frequently and I was far away. She hadn't know me..so she got fond of him and she likes him.

I love this babe so much, I told her I forgive her..but please I need your opinions..am I blinded by love or am being foolish..

How would you handle the situation. If it was you..
La La.. please help move this to front page
Am breaking every hour.
bro u will get hurt I was in ur exact position a while back... Still nursing my hurt... She will hurt you so bad that hamarttan will feel like heat.... Better wake up and move... Girls that lie don't ever change.. Dont be blinded...

Don't believe any bullshit story here that she may changed.. Its a lie she won't. Even if u give her ur kidney she will still break ur heart into pieces
Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by Magicians: 9:18am On Jan 04, 2020
If you are really serious about your girl tell her you gave her a month to cease every communication with the said guy n if she couldn't there'll no pointing prioritizing your relationship. Just keep aside for daily fucqs n seek a girl willing n ready for something without games.

MaxVee:
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Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by Teaorcoffee(f): 9:19am On Jan 04, 2020
The relationship ended even before it started.. You're loving with your heart and leaving ur head out

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Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by Actuarydeji(m): 9:21am On Jan 04, 2020
Pele ti e. May the Almighty God give you common sense.
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MaxVee:
I Am Losing My Mind, Could This Be Love Or Foolishness?

Okay, I'd be quick and brief as well.

So about 6 months ago, I met my girl on facebook, And after months wooing her to date me, she finally agreed and we started dating..

Like everything was perfect and indeed I fell deeply in love with her even before I met her.

So along the line in our relationship she told she had a best friend who is a guy and they have know each other for like 4years..and that they talk very well (calls and chat) and that they tell each other they love themselves, but if I wasn't cool with it,I could break up she would understand.

As a guy I knew I had fallen for her and I embraced her telling me about the guy after a strong assurance from her that they were not into any sort of relationship with each other.

So my girl called me like let's say a month after we started dating that there was this her friend who she hadn't met and that wanted and she was going to see him, and I was like fine, she should just be fine.

P.S:- I hadn't met with my girl even till the point she went to meet the guy...I was in the west and she was in one of the states in the East..more like a long distance relationship.

Fast forward to days after they met I became uncomfortable with the relationship between my girl and the said new guy she met..I talked to her severally about it and she was at some point swearing not having anything to do with the new guy she just met.

Fast forward to the festive season I came back and I met my girl for the first time..indeed she was everything I imagined and we flowed amazingly well.

Long story cut short in the midst of one of our long conversations I discovered she have at some point had sex severally with her said best friend...so I was like since it was before we met I forgave her and we moved on..

yesterday I asked her if she has anything with the new guy and she swore again not having anything with him that the guy has been asking her out and she refused dating him.

She said plenty of things that convinced me into believing that nothing was going between them.

P.S:- before yesterday I told her to tell the new guy she has a boyfriend and she promised to..(from the actions of my girl I could tell she loves me.) She later told me that day that she told him and she had blocked him and stuff..and trust me I did believe her.

So this morning while she was sleeping I reaching out to her phone and went straight to her WhatsApp.. opened the chat with the guy and what I saw broke me..

She was reconciling with him over the break up she instigated of which was caused by something totally different not even because she told him she had a guy..what killed my spirit was a message she wrote to the guy saying "she left me for him even though I was far much a better option"..I confronted her and she has been pleading saying she loves me but she likes him and that they haven't had anything except kissing and caressing..that she loves me so much..that she started liking him when she started talking to him more frequently and I was far away. She hadn't know me..so she got fond of him and she likes him.

I love this babe so much, I told her I forgive her..but please I need your opinions..am I blinded by love or am being foolish..

How would you handle the situation. If it was you..
La La.. please help move this to front page
Am breaking every hour.

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Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by OmoOshodi(m): 9:21am On Jan 04, 2020
She's a h.o.e.......you can't date her.....she's a prick lover and continue with this relationship...you may end up in Yaba left.

Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by enfash03(m): 9:22am On Jan 04, 2020
My guy... Run for your life
She will do it again, even if it's not with this same person... She will do it with another person.

She just like you, she didn't love you as she said... If she see better option, she will leave you without putting you..

You have to run before she hurt you more...

Abeg you... Please, break up with her now.
Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by Emeliegregory(m): 9:22am On Jan 04, 2020
I'd just be blunt. Break up with her. Do not be in a relationship where you can not trust your partner.
Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by isaacprinz(m): 9:23am On Jan 04, 2020
iPrevail:
I read only the first paragraph and it was enough to aid me come to the conclusion that you are indisputably foolish. People still do all that shii you wrote up there?
grin
Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by AngelicBeing: 9:23am On Jan 04, 2020
EjaikreTheViper:
Na craze dey two of una head.una go soon enter market.
Gbam cheesy
Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by Danobb: 9:24am On Jan 04, 2020
I had this same experience, she is making u her plan B..just move on becos u r blocking ur opportunity to met someone better.
MaxVee:
I Am Losing My Mind, Could This Be Love Or Foolishness?

Okay, I'd be quick and brief as well.

So about 6 months ago, I met my girl on facebook, And after months wooing her to date me, she finally agreed and we started dating..

Like everything was perfect and indeed I fell deeply in love with her even before I met her.

So along the line in our relationship she told she had a best friend who is a guy and they have know each other for like 4years..and that they talk very well (calls and chat) and that they tell each other they love themselves, but if I wasn't cool with it,I could break up she would understand.

As a guy I knew I had fallen for her and I embraced her telling me about the guy after a strong assurance from her that they were not into any sort of relationship with each other.

So my girl called me like let's say a month after we started dating that there was this her friend who she hadn't met and that wanted and she was going to see him, and I was like fine, she should just be fine.

P.S:- I hadn't met with my girl even till the point she went to meet the guy...I was in the west and she was in one of the states in the East..more like a long distance relationship.

Fast forward to days after they met I became uncomfortable with the relationship between my girl and the said new guy she met..I talked to her severally about it and she was at some point swearing not having anything to do with the new guy she just met.

Fast forward to the festive season I came back and I met my girl for the first time..indeed she was everything I imagined and we flowed amazingly well.

Long story cut short in the midst of one of our long conversations I discovered she have at some point had sex severally with her said best friend...so I was like since it was before we met I forgave her and we moved on..

yesterday I asked her if she has anything with the new guy and she swore again not having anything with him that the guy has been asking her out and she refused dating him.

She said plenty of things that convinced me into believing that nothing was going between them.

P.S:- before yesterday I told her to tell the new guy she has a boyfriend and she promised to..(from the actions of my girl I could tell she loves me.) She later told me that day that she told him and she had blocked him and stuff..and trust me I did believe her.

So this morning while she was sleeping I reaching out to her phone and went straight to her WhatsApp.. opened the chat with the guy and what I saw broke me..

She was reconciling with him over the break up she instigated of which was caused by something totally different not even because she told him she had a guy..what killed my spirit was a message she wrote to the guy saying "she left me for him even though I was far much a better option"..I confronted her and she has been pleading saying she loves me but she likes him and that they haven't had anything except kissing and caressing..that she loves me so much..that she started liking him when she started talking to him more frequently and I was far away. She hadn't know me..so she got fond of him and she likes him.

I love this babe so much, I told her I forgive her..but please I need your opinions..am I blinded by love or am being foolish..

How would you handle the situation. If it was you..
La La.. please help move this to front page
Am breaking every hour.
Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by Nobody: 9:24am On Jan 04, 2020
Just ensure you use protection whenever you wish to do 'it' with her.
I can deduce from your write-up that she is sleeping with more than 4 guys.
Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by Pedrotina11: 9:24am On Jan 04, 2020
I won't insult u bro...love is a deceptive feeling, bitter and sweet experience...I knw u love her so u claim..even if a gal loves u it doesn't stop her from cheating.. Protecting ur heart is very important bro.. U gonna hurt urself really bad..let it go nw that u haven't invested much..she loves u fyn but she ain't sincere she ain't faithful.. Been faithful and sincere is major attribute that a person decides and learns, love dosent come along with these attributes it takes a determined mind to harness and learn them..be wise
Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by yeman1(m): 9:25am On Jan 04, 2020
He he he he grin I laugh in Spanish... My brother , would u take my advice ? Leave that girl alone.. she's not d right one for u. Unless u wanna experience more bad heartbreak again..

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