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Re: She Absconded From Work, Now She Begs To Come Back by otunbadan(m): 9:32pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Never employ her back, she will cause damage on a larger scale than this ... my boss has been warning me about giving such people a second chance but it’s too a while and several very bitter experience for me to sink that lesson into my head. If it’s a business ... faithful in little is faithful in much .... lousy in little is lousy in much too ... no second chances sir Abujaexpress: 1 Like |
Re: She Absconded From Work, Now She Begs To Come Back by Mile18(m): 9:32pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
SLAP44: men thinking deep 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She Absconded From Work, Now She Begs To Come Back by Bobbyfreshh(m): 9:33pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Abujaexpress: You are right...in a way thou 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She Absconded From Work, Now She Begs To Come Back by Cecero(m): 9:34pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Oga if you're a 'disciplined employer of labour' like you said, then you don't need to ask for anybody's opinion here unless there's something else you're not telling us. You have already passed judgement here and it is not positive on her. Btw, going by the rules, she does not deserve any bit of the last salary you paid her: she absconded from duty, no notice, no resignation. It must have affected your business and she is the one that deserves to pay you. Please try to be more professional with your staff because you don't sound like you are. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She Absconded From Work, Now She Begs To Come Back by yanabasee(m): 9:34pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
czarina: I never tagged it a gender war or something..... The op tried to explain to you that he lose it when she was arguing with him, without careful examination of the documents, considering times at stake. And he also explained to you how lazy she is. I expected you to first of all fault the Secretary for a sluggish working pattern before telling the op how to handle such situations. Not telling him to work on his temper. Lazy people support themselves. I'm sure you are not lazy. |
Re: She Absconded From Work, Now She Begs To Come Back by Nobody: 9:34pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Not only does she seem to be a chronic malingerer, she also cannot seem to follow simple instructions and is overly sensitive. Why would you want her back? Call her in to resign formally, pay her any outstanding dues and bid her good luck with her new life. Take emotional resilience and competence into account when reviewing those applications on your desk. A secretary need not be attractive, and do not employ anyone out of pity. A business should be run unemotionally as you very well know. 1 Like |
Re: She Absconded From Work, Now She Begs To Come Back by Omoslim26: 9:35pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Abujaexpress: You are a nice nd approachable boss your last sec worked for over 2yrs bla bla bla who make we ask nairaland don dey tire person na soso yeye questions we jst dey see dis days wey year jst dey start oo 1 Like
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Re: She Absconded From Work, Now She Begs To Come Back by D1zion: 9:35pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Abujaexpress:I see things repeating itself again if you take her back & it'll be when you'll need her,when you'll most depends on her over the work.get a new person pls.my own take. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She Absconded From Work, Now She Begs To Come Back by Okwyjesus(m): 9:35pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Abujaexpress:If you re- engage her don't come here again for advice. 2 Likes |
Re: She Absconded From Work, Now She Begs To Come Back by Femeto: 9:36pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
She has failed woefully during her six months probation. If you like employ her again you are on your own. If everybody leaves the organization due to an excuse or the other would you make income? |
Re: She Absconded From Work, Now She Begs To Come Back by Fourwinds: 9:39pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Funkybabee:heheheheheeee ....birthday after birthday 1 Like |
Re: She Absconded From Work, Now She Begs To Come Back by Benwallt(m): 9:41pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Guy let the girl be. Your interest in her is more than just being your secretary. Here nor be kindergarten. Are there no other applicants |
Re: She Absconded From Work, Now She Begs To Come Back by Benwallt(m): 9:44pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
czarina:Guy, the girl turned him down |
Re: She Absconded From Work, Now She Begs To Come Back by frozen70(f): 9:47pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Abujaexpress: Once a staff is not ready to tolerate any correction or shouting from a boss, such person is not humble She left voluntary and disrespected you by not explaining to you why she left Let her come and put up a resignation letter and reply From there, when next she comes, you let her know that you have gotten someone. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She Absconded From Work, Now She Begs To Come Back by nicodenzzy(m): 9:49pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
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Re: She Absconded From Work, Now She Begs To Come Back by Ebenezar2020(m): 9:50pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
czarina:don't be so stupid. this is 2019 stop being stupid and foolish at the same time. the OP didn't give in to the girl's accusation, she was using that as an excuse to stay away from work. mumu try and massage your brain 1 Like |
Re: She Absconded From Work, Now She Begs To Come Back by Digmygold: 9:51pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Don't take her back. |
Re: She Absconded From Work, Now She Begs To Come Back by FRANKOSKI(m): 9:52pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
An average naija girls will tell people that her boss wanted to have her and thats why she resigned.I'VE HAD THEM PLENTY IN MY FILLING STATION. LATENESS SHORTAGE OF MONEY TAKING EXCUSE FOR CHURCH ENGAGEMENTS AND GOING TO SPEND TIME WITH BOYFRIEND. CHEATING CUSTOMERS WITH MITRE . ABEG OOOO !!! |
Re: She Absconded From Work, Now She Begs To Come Back by Fourwinds: 9:53pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
LadySarah:meaning kpomo is involved |
Re: She Absconded From Work, Now She Begs To Come Back by FRANKOSKI(m): 9:56pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
THAT GIRL WENT TO STAY WITH HER DECEMBER BOYFRIEND THAT MIGHT HAVE PROMISED TO MARRY HER , BUT LATER CHANGED MIND . you wanna try naija babes ? Call her and let her resign officially with witnesses . IF U HAVE SKELETONS IN YOUR CUPBOARD , DON'T !!! |
Re: She Absconded From Work, Now She Begs To Come Back by Taywon: 9:56pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
She thiught the grass was greener on the other side... Tell her diz phrase "dont come back!!!" |
Re: She Absconded From Work, Now She Begs To Come Back by slam7000(m): 9:56pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Abujaexpress: Did you shout at her? Did you fling papers at her? If you did, that was wrong and you need to work on yourself. You might fling the papers at the wrong employee. If you did that, you are far from being a disciplined person let alone a disciplined employer. Only bullies do that. Your secretary might be scared of you, however holding onto your key was a bit strange. I’d change the locks and if I was her, I wouldn’t come back. If I was you, I wouldn’t take her back....for your own safety and her sanity. 3 Likes |
Re: She Absconded From Work, Now She Begs To Come Back by yusufmurry: 9:58pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Abujaexpress: But you heard her said, you flung documents on her? True or false? 1 Like |
Re: She Absconded From Work, Now She Begs To Come Back by Lamanii22(f): 9:59pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Op.. Please come and employ me.. |
Re: She Absconded From Work, Now She Begs To Come Back by jendhorlee(m): 10:03pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
czarina:God bless you. God bless you. God bless you more. I can never also work under a hot tempered boss, never ! i don't care abt the amount he/she is paying me, I'll leave the Job. i can't be working in a place where I'll become restless anytime my boss shows up. you flung documents at her ? imagine. i don't care abt his excuses, i know that poor girl must have been in a difficult situation and needs money badly, that's why she's thinking of coming back, or someone somewhere has advised her to endure. smh 1 Like |
Re: She Absconded From Work, Now She Begs To Come Back by GuestLog: 10:04pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
czarina:My friend, sharrap there! Have you managed people before? Man told you his reasons and you are still giving him advice, do you even know what office pressure is all about? |
Re: She Absconded From Work, Now She Begs To Come Back by czarina(f): 10:06pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Ebenezar2020:if you had the tiniest semblance of sense in you, you'd know there's no justification for throwing stuff at an employee. But what was I expecting from someone who clearly lacked the capacity to string words together without insults at his pathetic existence? Go to bed hun, go to bed. ![]() ![]() |
Re: She Absconded From Work, Now She Begs To Come Back by ernecy(m): 10:08pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
SLAP44:abeg leave op with his problem, he thinks everyone here is 2 year old. I can't even imagine that a grown up wrote this nonsense, seeking for our opinion |
Re: She Absconded From Work, Now She Begs To Come Back by czarina(f): 10:08pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
GuestLog:You know nothing about me, so advise yourself to "shatap" . Not me. Have a pleasant rest |
Re: She Absconded From Work, Now She Begs To Come Back by ipreach: 10:19pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
"I shouted at her and flinged a document towards her" I think your hustile nature instigated fears in the young girl making her leave you. 1. You must know that she is an employee not a maid. 2. She has her right to be treated well at work. 3. You need to work on your temper, else your next secretary, will still leave you after some months. 4. She only acted based on how you treated her. 5. Recall her if you want her and feel she is delivery well in the job. 6. Allow her to go if you don't want her services anymore. 7. Goodluck 1 Like |
Re: She Absconded From Work, Now She Begs To Come Back by samtol4(m): 10:28pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Let the girl go and work elsewhere but oga work on your temperament |
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