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Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by bigpriik: 5:21pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
*ubunja will say you don't need to do anything to win a woman's love let them choose. *another lady will leave her boyfriend because he doesn't treat her right but yet you have to do nothing to make a woman love you. *An average Nigerian guy will say you need money to make a girl fall for you and yet you need to do nothing before a girl can fall you. tomorrow another guy like illegend will say you need to be mysterious, unpredictable, stingy to make a woman love you . I don confuse come tire again ..wich one man wan follow for christ sake. aren't we all confused.. 4 Likes |
Re: Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by MJBOLT: 5:32pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
trying to understand women is confusing because women themselves are confused and love causing confusion. bigpriik: 2 Likes |
Re: Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by Ifakiland(m): 5:39pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
OK lemme make it easy for you. To get a girl to love you, do opposite of what she'd expect from you to her. If it's a rich, indoor girl you need, stead of taking her to some fancy eatery to eat fried rice and chicken, take her to eat amala and ewedu at a buka or take palmy and bush meat at a bush bar. If it's a girl from a rough neighborhood, take her to a posh place, if it's a church girl, be a guy she will wanna change, if it's a hoe, be a guy dat wanna change her... Etc....do dat and see how easy each respective girl you meet will fall for you. Girls ain't the same, but yoy get them via same method....just don't rush, chill, understand her first to see who she is and be what she's not. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by Stephenomozzy(m): 5:42pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
No general law about woman matters; be yourself and go for the kind of woman whose characters you desire...Not primarily the physique, bekos if bad attitude nak you for relationship eh, you wont appreciate the figure 8 you were dying for in the early stage. Understand how she desires to be love and also make her understand how you feel loved (Read the book: Five Love Languages) Sometimes, people make advice based on their personal experiences or hear say, it doesn't make it universally-binding. Be yourself... And the right woman will value and stay with you 1 Like |
Re: Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by bigpriik: 5:42pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Ifakiland: I don hear this one tire.. |
Re: Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by bigpriik: 5:47pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Stephenomozzy: I think you are right on this one humans are wired differently. |
Re: Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by ubunja(m): 5:53pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
bigpriik:you are only confused because you haven't chosen a side to play for. Are you Blue Pill or Red Pill? The constant crossing the floor back and forth will leave you confused. If you wanna benefit from truth then stand by truth through thick and thin and only then will things become clear and you'll see results. Not this: bigpriik: 2 Likes |
Re: Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by ubunja(m): 6:09pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Ifakiland:yes. This is the summary of it. I even explained this in the writeup "Hacking The Female Mind". It's a game of Opposites. If you're not sure of what to do then just oppose what you know or what you've been told. Chances are it will work. See, women are complicated but in that their ways are opposite. Women tell you A but expect you to do Z. By telling A but expecting Z that's how women separate the Masters from the Amateurs and The Players from the Squares. The language of women is the language of Opposites. That's why a woman's NO has always been understood to mean YES. ITS the complete opposite. And because we are all raised by women we default into acting A when we must be acting Z. The opposite. Only a tiny percentage of men are raised to be Players by their mothers. But the rest, 80%+ of men are raised to be beta worker bees that will provide for women and we are fed a lie deliberately when it comes to love, dating and women. Look, If all men were raised to be Masters of Game then women would perish for no man would protect, sacrifice, provide and die for a woman. So a woman, a mother makes sure, for the sake of all women out there, that their son is a brainwashed beta mangina simp ready to do anything for a woman. That's the entirety of the mystery of women. Everything is opposite. Whatever you feel like doing to get a girl. Just oppose it and see results. Once you internalise that philosophy you'll see the world in a new light. 11 Likes |
Re: Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by Nobody: 6:15pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Lol Dont get it twisted. Now one thing you guys should understand is this.. Like ubunja rightly said, you dont need anything to WIN a woman's love which is very true. if she truly loves you she'll fall for you even.without giving her nothing. Now that is the winning stage. Shes yours truly. Now another aspect is keeping her. How Now you WON her but you need to keep her by now giving her something. Yes! No matter how a woman loves you and want to be with you, if you dont take care of her, she'll be wearied and begin to loose interest. Quote me anywhere. WE ARE LIKE THAT! forget any girl coming here to form "I dont ask my man anything" all na wash. It is natural. So you need to give her and take care of her to keep the love you won without a dime. Hope you catch. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by narit: 6:17pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Lord ubunja has spoken. I have nothing else to say. It gives me a great joy sensei, to read your post. Arigato. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by Splinz(m): 6:19pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Don't be scared to try your own method(s). Bear in mind, there's no one-way-fix anywhere. In fact, truth itself is sometimes subjective. Some like it when they're turned to AJ's punching bag. Some prefer you hawk them like Okpa. Yet some like it harder in za oda room while some like it when you're a Marlian My bro, a relationship is like a laboratory where all kinds of experiment is carried out. Mbok carry out your own and keep what works. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by xxxtedyxxx(m): 6:25pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
There is not cut-out method for getting girls. The thing with girls is keeping them attracted. Once you can get her attracted, she is yours. And mind you, there are several ways of attracting a girl: personality, fame, money, humour, mystery, health, etc Just pick the one you are good at, and apply it to your game. That's all you need |
Re: Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by kecee99(m): 6:31pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Stephenomozzy:This book, where can I download it for free? |
Re: Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by frenchtoast(f): 6:36pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
All these online 'rule of thumb' tips are just broad guidelines and aren't necessarily reliable for every situation or to be followed so stringently You know the women you're trying to attract more than ubunja, so just try your own methods as comfortably and respectfully as you can and try not to be a complete slave to all these self help lists. 1 Like |
Re: Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by ubunja(m): 6:53pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
frenchtoast:this is what we call misinformation. When a woman uses words like "respectfully" just know its BS. Because its the same women getting wet in the panties when thugs and bad boys call them anyhow and treat them anyhow. Respecting a woman will get you a friend. Not a Girlfriend. Women are attracted to power and power is never synonymous with respect. But with command. Power is respected. Power itself respects no one. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by frenchtoast(f): 7:11pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
ubunja:Don't conflate the term respect with doormat behavior Respecting a woman and maintaining 'power' are not mutually exclusive 2 Likes |
Re: Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by Nobody: 7:27pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
The truth is that women don't love. When you clarify what precise realistic response you want from a woman, then you can be advised accordingly. Do you: a) want to have regular unattached sex with her (FWB)? b) want to have unattached sex with her (one night stand)? c) want her to give you regular sex out of pity? d) want to marry her? e) want to be her maga? f) want to be her platonic best friend/brother? g) want to chop her money? The confusion arises because men usually do not know what they want before they make their move. Most times, they lie to themselves. 1 Like |
Re: Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by ubunja(m): 7:28pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
frenchtoast:while treating a woman like a doormat is what endears her to you.... A woman with self esteem will appreciate and reward a gentleman. But since the staggering majority of women have little to zero self esteem, a respectful gentleman will always lose out to a thug. Fact. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by rosy1992(f): 7:35pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Just be yourself. 1 Like |
Re: Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by nuelsam: 8:00pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
ubunja:i wish i could like this a thounsand times 1 Like |
Re: Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by Ustec: 8:25pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
ubunja:Unibuja |
Re: Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by mrssomebody(f): 9:10pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
A woman that will love u wholeheartedly will love you irrespective of how much effort u put in getting her.....it is left to you to keep being the person she fell in love with. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by czarr(m): 9:35pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
ubunja oil dey your head 1 Like |
Re: Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by Akinbahm(m): 9:40pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Jewessgratitude: Nah girl dey give guys O.T again... Take five ur head dey there....
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Re: Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by Akinbahm(m): 9:43pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
Ifakiland:Some guys would still have issue to assimilate this, at times I wonder does one av to open their skull to put things inside b4 they can grab sth easily as ABC |
Re: Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by Nobody: 9:53pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
And the eternal argument rages on. |
Re: Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by vincentjk(m): 10:02pm On Jan 05, 2020 |
My dad always told me not to put women first in order to succeed in life |
Re: Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by Tallandcute: 5:46pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
ubunja: Always spitting FIRE!!! |
Re: Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by Tallandcute: 5:46pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
vincentjk: Your Dad is a wise Man. |
Re: Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by myke92(m): 6:45pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
rosy1992: I was just waiting patiently for this. |
Re: Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by Lamanii22(f): 6:53pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifakiland: You've got sense lol.. Nice |
Re: Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by bukatyne(f): 6:57pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
ubunja: And he did it again. A woman who does not have an healthy self esteem or place a high value on herself CANNOT respect a man who places high value on her aka respect. Imagine you have a rag you use to clean the ground and a visitor picks up same rag, irons it, folds it and place it in a cupboard. Wouldn't you think that the visitor is insane or doesn't know that the rag is a rag? What would do you do? 'Ha! Ogbeni, it is just a rag. Why are you treating it like this? Throw it on the floor jare.' A respectful gentleman would not lose out if he seeks a girl with an healthy self esteem. 5 Likes 3 Shares |
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