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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by queenitee(f): 11:48pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
RonaldoVido:It would surprise you to know that a lot of Rich people are psychos and yes they drag people down, but the Rich like them and also the poor 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 11:50pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
mayten:This was all the devil's plan all along, and he's gonna be really happy with this. The devil is more than EVERYTHING bad you can think of. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 11:50pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Youthleader22: So because she got impregnated at a younger age now her life is completely useless? If the said bf had money, you all wouldn't be talking like this. Is the guy the first man to drink, smoke or impregnate outside of marriage? The fact that he's penniless doesn't mean he's entirely useless. What about the part where he acknowledges the child? Doesn't that count for something? 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Newboss(m): 11:50pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
You did well. You both are legends. She ordered for it and she got served. Do not tell her what happened. She locked you up for 3 terrible days over a simple conflict she even caused. You couldn't afford police but at least you could afford a better form of revenge. Iran should learn from this 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by spayor(m): 11:52pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
ibechris:from her response, one can deduce that the useless idiot is not remorseful...so why come on nairaland to seek help? 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 11:52pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
I slapped her for disrespecting my guy in front of our innocent child , I didn’t like the way she wa raining insult at him calling him all bad names under the sun just because he is poor. PerseDew: 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by makydebbie(f): 11:55pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Prettiedame: I watched that movie recently. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by thatigboman: 11:55pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Ifyjos:sorry to say. U are evil. That thug u used to destroy your sister's relationship, that raped u when u were 15, will be your downfall. 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by 1Sharon(f): 11:55pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Let me not even lie, I have no comment cos it's something I would do If pushed to the wall, not to a blood sister tho.. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by midnighter(f): 11:56pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
GeniusWannabe: Ohhh yeah. True, I forgot about that part of it. Gosh... the girl has really done it, hasnt she...? Anyway my perspective was more that she should focus on getting the sister well and back on track and make some holistic improvements to the situation before "confessing" whatever because there are some underlying issues here that havent fully been addressed. But youre probably right that she should come clean. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by mayten(m): 11:56pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Ifyjos: From the look of things, you actually do not feel remorseful nor need help. But just know that if your sister dies or anything happens to her,the blood is on your hands and not your guy's. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Newboss(m): 11:56pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Ifyjos: Do not do that. Don't even let anyone know, even by mistake. You did what you had to do after she did what she did. This is called justice |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by spayor(m): 11:56pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
AIIyIic:as in ehn...so unbelievable. if only I could see this babe one on one... 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by thatigboman: 11:56pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Ifyjos:not because he is poor but you and him are utterly hopeless. And u are praying to god while justifying getting physical with your elder sister 3 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by chronique(m): 11:57pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Ifyjos: You are a cursed evil child that doesn't deserve love and may you reap your evil in a million folds. On behalf of your sister, I tell you boldly that it will never be well with you until you confess your evil to both your sister and her fiance. How can anyone even have an evil satanic child like you and think he or she has a child? I spit on you. 7 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by 0monnak0da: 11:59pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
RonaldoVido: Rubbish This is simply about vengefulness. Nothing to do with any dragging people down mentality Rich people are arguably even more afflicted by the phenomenon of Make e no grow reach me. What Yoruba call Ilaara. Women can be very devastating when they are offended regardless of wealth status Your bank balance is not what determines your mortality . We have seen all manner of despicable crimes committed by rich people so leave that story. That is just your pet hate. 4 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 11:59pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
midnighter:This stuff is so messed up, and she doesn't even seem ready to do the needful. She's still trying to justify her actions. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by makydebbie(f): 12:00am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Lalas247: You still dey? |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 12:01am On Jan 08, 2020 |
0monnak0da:Bros, you deserve one chillllled Pepsi. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by queenitee(f): 12:01am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Meliian:No one said he’s useless but he’s really useless. The only thing the lady keeps saying is how he loves her. She never hinted at the fact that he has a goal or he’s trying in one way or the other to build his life or hers. He has no goal, no ambition, no plans. He’s useless and he’s planning on making her useless also. What you are doing to the lady is pure wickedness, quit pushing her towards what will spoil her life, lead her right. Allow her leave the useless guy who has no plans for his future and is just waiting for when he would hit big money as if money fly to meet people at home and focus on her life. Or did she in any of her post and replies up there hint at a point where the guy called her down to discuss his plans for his and her future and what he plan to do? Except what she keeps hammering that he wold make big money. Yes let’s say by chance he makes big money, since he has no plans for his life, he would squander it. Don’t let him spoil her life. Lead her right. No he’s not the first man to smoke, but there are lot of smokers who have plans for their life, he doesn’t have any. No it’s not because he’s an illiterate. There are many literates who went to school because everyone else did and have no planes for their life also. It’s simply because he has no plans for his life and it’s affecting the lady, because all she sees is him, she doesn’t see herself as someone who needs to plan her own life and become something also. Also, it’s one thing to have a plan, it’s another thing to work towards it. It’s not by saying it. If he keeps talking about plans without taking steps to achieve them, he’s still useless and she should leave him. Lead her right madam, except you are equally waiting for a man who will take all your life decision for you, except you are not trying to become a better version of you, except you are not striving hard to be a woman of substance, lead her right. Stop leading her the wrong way. Yes her boyfriend is a useless man. He has no plans for his life and he’s affecting her. I’m sure if he has told her family his plans for his life and hers and his ambition and how he’s working towards it, her sister won’t constantly be against him. Acknowledging the child is different from being responsible. There are fathers who are irresponsible. 10 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by queenitee(f): 12:01am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Newboss:You are wicked 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by 0monnak0da: 12:02am On Jan 08, 2020 |
GeniusWannabe:Pepsi?.?? |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by KingNom(m): 12:02am On Jan 08, 2020 |
@ ifyjos: it is very very painful you had to go through the insults because of your errors. Pst. Chris Oyakhilome says 'hurting people (most times) hurt others, BE DIFFERENT; don't allow your hurt make you hurt others' What you need do is make amends. Use the same guys and girls to call your sister's fiance ANONYMOUSLY and apologize for lying about your sister. I pray he changes his mind and make amends with your sister. If you come out and tell them, it'll further tear your entire family apart. Do that for now and when things are restored you may with wisdom later confess to your sister. You have a good heart, it's only that your were seriously hurt over the years and wrongly advised. Be strong and do the right thing dear Kindly send me a PM let's help you and your fiance stand financially 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by midnighter(f): 12:02am On Jan 08, 2020 |
0monnak0da: Thats not the point; she should be more realistic. What exactly did she hope to gain by bringing the guy around when she knows the sister cant stand him? Instead of her to focus on getting away from the "mean" elder sister she spent time and energy plotting and scheming on how to ruin her life. She's just a bag of misplaced priorities 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by spayor(m): 12:02am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Meliian:have you taken your medicine today? 5 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by chronique(m): 12:03am On Jan 08, 2020 |
dominique: I swear! Very evil sister. 3 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 12:03am On Jan 08, 2020 |
PerseDew: Why the heck was she insulting the guy? That's so unfair. Because he doesn't have money, he's not human too? He doesn't have feelings? The guy got her pregnant, despite being broke he still tries to cater for his child. Isn't that good enough? They're still together after 5 years, doesn't that count for something? Some relationships don't even last up to 6 months. My point is, both op and her sister are mean people. And if her bf's influence on her is bad, so is her elder sister's fiance's influence on her sister. I say this because, the fiance can't say he didn't know his wife-to-be arranged for her sister to be locked up. 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 12:04am On Jan 08, 2020 |
0monnak0da:Wetin you dey drink? Order anything wet you want. Drinks on me. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 12:04am On Jan 08, 2020 |
spayor: Because I'm female doesn't mean I'm your mum. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by midnighter(f): 12:06am On Jan 08, 2020 |
GeniusWannabe: Well, all the abusive words and insults would be enough to harden her. The problem was that she didnt channel her energy in the right way Another person would have gone into overdrive trying to prove the elder sister wrong instead of this kind of backward idea of "revenge" Revenge when the man is still squatting somewhere? Haba 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by 0monnak0da: 12:06am On Jan 08, 2020 |
chronique:Tomorrow morning you go wake up come dey call God God can never answer your prayers with this mentality Una go dey claim Christian and Muslim Ugandan yet so filled with hatred. Hypocrites Who are you to judge who is evil? Are you God? 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by kenfarm(m): 12:07am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Not surprise lot of female on this thread . Na their way |
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