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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 1:50pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Congratulations OP, you just gave your boyfriend something to always use against you in future. He will use this to blackmail you and always tell you how terrible a person you are. In fact he might end up using this as an excuse to not marry you. He will be like 'if you could do such a thing to your own sister, then you can kill me the day I offend you'. You are still a child and it is evident in your actions and your responses here so far. You want to present a picture of someone in love but from all that you have been saying it is more about you not wanting to leave the guy because you have a child for him, and that is childish reasoning. How come you don't think you can get someone better? You have to truly repent of this wrong that you have done to your own blood then, In your own interest, look for a way to confess your sins and make ammends. Next, dust your books, sit for your WAEC and go back to school. You can also be learning a handwork alongside going to school. Think of how to better your life and stop thinking and talking like your life is tied to that guy because you had a child for him or that you are entitled to anything. Your life is not tied to that guy and you are not entitled to anything. Best of luck! 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Vanzcharles(m): 1:51pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
If you love her as you said, why not help her out before its too late. The m8stake is done so no need for castigation when you still have time to make restitution. Ifyjos: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by CuteNbad(m): 1:52pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos:Okay,i wish you and him well.Just do what I ask you to do to get your sister her fiancé back Cus that is the most important thing right now. Take care dear |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 1:58pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Thanks a lot CuteNbad: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 1:59pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Am trying but it is not that easy . Don’t even know where to start Vanzcharles: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Mouthgag: 2:11pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
[s] Ifyjos:[/s] YOU MUST REGRET THIS FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. AMEN |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by PerseDew(f): 2:19pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
blujoi: She has a duty to take him off the street?? This only supports OP and her entitled and unremorseful self. So as she did not perform this duty is that the reason why he does not have anything tangible to his name in this space of 5 years after getting a 15 year old pregnant? 3 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Jodha(f): 2:25pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
mayten: The heart of man is desperately wicked... that's why i this life yhu don't have to trust someone... |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by DTC2(m): 2:32pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos: I like this. God bless you and your daughter |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by virago(f): 2:41pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos: Seriously are you this reetarded 4 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Chef2000: 2:43pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos I understand how you feel... your sister acted so wrongly... Can I speak with you in private, I want to help you. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by virago(f): 2:43pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Mercycity: Who should forgive who Abi how has the sister wronged her ? |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by ffo(m): 2:44pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos:Ify you have to start from the first step, 99% of the advise says you should confess and mend your ways, but you are still procrastinating, for how long will you keep procrastinating? |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by comtem2011: 3:04pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos:ok now!!!! I just weak with this response. 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ehibiggirl(f): 3:05pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos:if this your story is true That your child will beat you up as soon as she comes of age that your good for nothing baby daddy will beat and dump you in a matter of time and that your sister that you have so wronged will rise again have the best spouse and big wedding while you remain a bitter onlooker You are too wicked You joined hands with your boyfriend to beat your sister and threaten to kill her that’s why she had you both locked up. You better put self aside and do what is right before you begin to see what real torment and pain is |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by makydebbie(f): 3:09pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by comtem2011: 3:12pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos:Hahahaha, my God, na so e easy I pray you don't end up in jail with him cos he definitely has a plan to achieve those things. Pele lover girl. Prayer point: God should open your eyes so you can see. You need help my dear, cos you are lost. Take it or leave it. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by letitrainnow(m): 3:15pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Jesu, if this story is true then I'm not only dumbfounded but speechless.
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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by chaloskyx: 3:16pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
theres obviously no love in your family for your own sister to arrest you cause you slapped her. if you now confess that you were behind her breakup and depression guess what she would do to you? well you should tell her though still expect a reaction from her cause she would definitely deal with you so you should be prepared to take the fall once you confess |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ehibiggirl(f): 3:17pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Meliian:maybe when a meat seller or bitter cola hawker impregnates your sister and they both come home one day and beat you up and threaten to kill you maybe you would get up and make tea for them since your such an advocate for pedophiles and senseless siblings. Did you give a thought to what the baby daddy could have done to her while he was fighting the sister? What if they had killed her ? You’re here defending nonsense. 6 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by comtem2011: 3:22pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
chaloskyx:She slapped her elder sister and her boyfriend beat the elder sister as well. And you said she should not arrest them? 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by grandstar(m): 3:25pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Pavore9: She is better off committing suicide. She's a 20-year-old single mother with a 5-year-old child? She has no skills, not worthy of becoming anything in life, forever condemned for becoming a teenage mum and a disgrace and a financial liability as well. She better do away with herself and everyone will be happy thereafter Or should they help her? (Read Psalms 103:8-13, Psalms 130:3-4, Luke 15:17-22) Ifyjos |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by midnighter(f): 3:26pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
comtem2011: The woman verbally assaulted them first. You people should stop leaving out that detail. The elder sister is wrong too, anyway. But the problem is that this OP wont get it into her head that bringing the illiterate guy around and rubbing in her familys face doesnt make any sense. Instead of her to work on herself and bring herself and her man up to the standard that wont provoke the elder sister she's here replying everybody rubbish Look how stubborn she is! She has answered people back here, for better or for worse. At least she sticks to her guns and at least, some of the greatest people in history were also very stubborn. Instead of directing her brilliant energy towards being better shes expending all her determination and fighting spirit on a futile venture.....trying to rub lipstick on a pig....trying to dress up her situation in fancy attires when we can all see that its total rubbish On page 12 you will answer somebody that the man is working in a car-wash...they ask you "okay and what next"... No answer One page 22 you still answer a different person that the brilliant man, the next King David of our times is working in a carwash...on page 32 she will still come back to answer the same thing again...does it make sense |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Greatfullheart: 3:31pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
[quote author=Ifyjos post=85586269]My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents. My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water. You're Very Selfish why Didn't You Think Of The Consequence before Indulging in Evil |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by letitrainnow(m): 3:33pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
If you don't tell your sister now, she will hear it from one of the people you used to destroy her relationship. So tell her yourself now. If she gets to hear it outside, she might shoot or stab you to death. It will be better if you tell her and ask for forgiveness. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 3:34pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
She was beating me so My guy beat her up for self defence. he beat her with respect so it wasn’t that bad. She arrested us to proof that she has the money and can do whatever she like comtem2011: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Greatfullheart: 3:34pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
You Did Stupid Things for A Guy Who Doesn't Have Work. Now If They Learn About The Truth And They throw You Out Were Will You Go with You Baby? You've Thought About That before Supporting Your Baby Father's Evil Plan. You'll Suffer For Your Evil Deeds.
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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Riele(f): 3:35pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
I can't take it anymore oo . After reading Op's response here . I tired . No remorse whatever . She thinks bringing her problem here equates being remorse . God ! . The way she is even defending the boyfriend sef ehhh make me think , So there are still mumu people on Earth ?? 4 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Riele(f): 3:36pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Greatfullheart: The worst thing is that she doesn't think the baby daddy will ever leave her . |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Riele(f): 3:38pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos: Wow . So there's something called beating with respect ? You don't see anything bad in your sperm donor beating your sister ? . 7 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Greatfullheart: 3:38pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
Riele:Leave Her. Somebody From Outside Is Turning Her against Her Sister and She Stupidily Falls Into the Trap, i Pity Her When Her Sister Get To Know the Truth 1 Like
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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Vanzcharles(m): 3:38pm On Jan 08, 2020 |
She was beating you now, that was because you slapped her and you in turn fought her too, tgen seeing you losing the fight that triggered your baby daddy to fight for you becos he loves you am I not right? She felt insulted that an outsider would touch her so she called the police. Your baby daddy also took the opportunity to beat her up because of the insult she hauled at him is it not so? Also, you said he beat her with respect , am confused here, what do you mean to beat with respect? Also how did GE beat her font hide anything say the truth. Did he blow? Slap? Push? Please help expAnciate a little on this side of the story? Ifyjos: 2 Likes |
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