Ifyjos:
She did not love me at all because if she did , she would have support me with love and advices telling me things like having a child at tender age it’s not the end of the world , you can do better things in life instead she made me loose my confidence and motivation. Well yes you are right , she doesn’t owe me anything at all and she should have mind her business and let my guy and I leave in peace

You are such a fool... A very big one at that... Your sister was hundred percent right... You have no future with your futureless foolish no future ambition tout bf

Ifyjos,what about ur sister fiancé?is he married now,if he is still single pls call him and confess everything to him because that’s the only way u can make your sister happy.

U are not even sorry with the comments u v been replying,u still justifying ur act and pls note that ur baby daddy doesn’t love you if not he wouldn’t v instigated such evil act against someone who is taking care of his child.

Call ur parents and confess to them cos only you cannot confess to ur sister and beg for her forgiveness,u need elders to help u do that to avoid harm

Lastly ur sis is not obligated to take care of ur child cos u keep insisting that it’s her right to do so,she didn’t join u to v sex.


Summary of all this is that U my dear is that u need guidance,ur baby daddy expects ur sis to open a business for him?is that one a man?u don’t v future for urself all u think is just money and marriage.Ur life does not stop cos u v a child

you are a big curse to that family.

YOUR WICKEDNESS NOR GET PART 2 BECOS E LONG PASS SEASONAL MOVIE...... GO BEG UR SISTER AND HER FIANCE TO FORGIVE IF NOT IT WILL AFFECT YOU, UR GUY AND UR CHILD IN THE FUTURE

Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless

She will be 32 in September, yes I just couldn't wait for her to get married and leave the house because she has been an obstacle for me. I have caused her pain but I think the pain that I have caused her is not the same as the one she caused me for almost 6 years now. All the insults, humiliations, disgrace , mocking , when my baby was younger if the baby cried at night , she will kick me out of then room to sleep there just because she is going to work in the morning and she want no noises , if am doing chores and my baby is crying she will not attend to the baby and left her to cry her eyes out , if my baby run out of nappies she will insult the hell out of me did I ask you to go and open your legs , go and use one your cloth as a nappy , do you know how much she hurt and kill me alive with her words all those years and if a outsider is mocking you it hurt so bad but imagine your own blood sister insulting you and mocking me, my heart bleeds so bad. I regret what I did that's why I'm trying to fix her up and God knows that I am evil

uote author=Vanzcharles post=85618826]she senior you no b small ooo now do you realize that she go soon old, imagine if she doesn't marry at all maybe gets too old you should understand the pain you have caused her I think she has gone far with her fiance. Now, she has to start again I think she may be 32 years this year right. Age is not on her side .
Your sister might have caused you pain , I know she did that out of her disappointment in you she should not have said those words to you but do you know that this is not the time to think of those it . you said she might have ruined you but do you know you are on the verge of destroying her for life! Look at her age[/quote]

Ifyjos:
He is 29

Ifjos,Your Bf is 29,Fukking 29 and he still squats with a friend,he doesn't have a stable job,he Is not even a graduate to start with.He does Car washing. My dear,i know you're being optimistic about the the future with him BUT THE REALITY ON GROUND IS HIS FUTURE IS BLEAKED,INFACT IN REALITY HIS FUTURE IS NOTHING. pls dear,tell your parents you've made a very costly mistake,Beg them with tears,tell them to give you a second chance.Tell them to send you to school even if it's Polytechnics.

Pls for God sake graduate. It is very important for your future. Ify you're still very young.You can do it.

When they eventually give you such opportunity read for your waec like never before. Pass and gain admission to a Federal University (it will be cheaper) or even Federal Poly. Pls just Graduate. It's very IMPORTANT.

My regards to your Lovely Daughter

Ginaruby:
A lot of people blaming her.

Not mentioning the pain her sister must have caused her and her boy friend.

Some times we humiliate people feeling we are correcting them.

She should taste from her own sauce, why arrest your sister and her husband and keep them for three days. Is that not wickedness.

Anyway the both of you served well

Tell me about it. The young girl was pushed to the wall. She's already getting it hot from
judgemental Nigerian society for being an unwed teen mother and the sister is adding to her humiliation.

The sister is the type that kicks someone when they're down.

OP is hurting. Hurt ppl hurt others.

Her fiance has a house she should have go and leave with him instead of stressing my life

quote author=LilMissFavvy post=85619103]Your elder sister has every right to beat and caution you when you go wrong, especially if your parents were not doing well in training you, your sister had all the right to call you out when you began going wayward at a young age, if your baby daddy foot the bills and rent an apartment for you and baby, by now you would not stay in same house to stress your sister. [/quote]

i truly doubt the story, but if this is real, you have a wicked heart.

the guts to slap your elder sis is what i can't imagine, you even went extreme to destroy her marriage... even if she forgives you, you will face your own karma, which will come very heavy!

Haba!!! this is frankly pathetic...

i wanted to say, if you were my younger sis, i would have dealt ruthlessly with you, but God won't permit a wicked soul to be in my linage...

God forbid!!!

your own sis.... couldn't you have gotten other ways to change her mind towards him?

i bet you, that same energy you employed destroying her life, if you had channeled it in positive way, you won't be able to exhaust the reaped fruits1

oh! i weep for her, she must be going through a whole lot.

I pray for God's healing and restoration!

I don't think he is married because its only 3 months since they broke up.

vivienD:
Ifyjos,what about ur sister fiancé?is he married now,if he is still single pls call him and confess everything to him because that’s the only way u can make your sister happy.

U are not even sorry with the comments u v been replying,u still justifying ur act and pls note that ur baby daddy doesn’t love you if not he wouldn’t v instigated such evil act against someone who is taking care of his child.

Call ur parents and confess to them cos only you cannot confess to ur sister and beg for her forgiveness,u need elders to help u do that to avoid harm

Lastly ur sis is not obligated to take care of ur child cos u keep insisting that it’s her right to do so,she didn’t join u to v sex.


Summary of all this is that U my dear is that u need guidance,ur baby daddy expects ur sis to open a business for him?is that one a man?u don’t v future for urself all u think is just money and marriage.Ur life does not stop cos u v a child

Beverlyjean:


You are such a fool... A very big one at that... Your sister was hundred percent right... You have no future with your futureless foolish no future ambition tout bf

Ifyjos:
She will be 32 in September, yes I just couldn't wait for her to get married and leave the house because she has been an obstacle for me. I have caused her pain but I think the pain that I have caused her is not the same as the one she caused me for almost 6 years now. All the insults, humiliations, disgrace , mocking , when my baby was younger if the baby cried at night , she will kick me out of then room to sleep there just because she is going to work in the morning and she want no noises , if am doing chores and my baby is crying she will not attend to the baby and left her to cry her eyes out , if my baby run out of nappies she will insult the hell out of me did I ask you to go and open your legs , go and use one your cloth as a nappy , do you know how much she hurt and kill me alive with her words all those years and if a outsider is mocking you it hurt so bad but imagine your own blood sister insulting you and mocking me, my heart bleeds so bad. I regret what I did that's why I'm trying to fix her up and God knows that I am evil

You are not evil, you are just hurting.

Tell ur sister anonymously.

Acidosis:
You and your pedophilic boyfriend deserve to be re-arrested. Go and beg for forgiveness and get ready to face the consequence of your actions. You think your chimney drunken-master boyfriend will respect you for what you did to your own blood? Girl, you haven't seen anything.

That story isn't real. Don't waste your energy.

These recurrent 'sham' stories on Nairaland are really getting to be a bore. Seun, if you really lack spice to add to your forum, sell it off to some Indian guys. Thank you.

Ifyjos:
He doesn’t have his own place yet but soon. How can I go and live with him when he hasn’t paid my pride price yet ?

but you can have sex with him when he hasn’t paid your bride price abi?
Even if they donate your brain for research it will still be useless

I don't know if this is real... But if it is eh Op. I Hate you already and hope you see nothing but misfortune all your life..... Na your type person go see ,con spit!!!


What a very terrible person.


You should be thrown out of your sister's house to live with that paedophilic good for nothing you call your boyfriend!

Omo ale jatijati.

If I were that your sister.. I would forgive you but!!!! You'll cease from being my sister from that time onward

Ifyjos:

I don't think he is married because its only 3 months since they broke up.

you don't expect her to live with him na because she is not married yet. She lives a moral life

Ifyjos:
Yes sir u got it right that was what really happened. My guy didn’t beat her for the insult because if he did beat her for all the insult she gave him for the past 5 years, he would have badly beat and injure her maybe she would have end up at the hospital. But he only gave her small slaps , that was all

Ki ni daa fun e! Ko de ni ye e!!! Aye e ma baje ni!!!

You let someone slap your own elder sister. Ion know the kind of bond you and that person have I but you go slap my elder sister or sibling lasan when she's not wrong!!! Either I kill the person or I make him compatible for a wheelchair!!!


If I could send an audio message, you'd know my insides and soul is cursing you heavily

Vanzcharles:
you don't expect her to live with him na because she is not married yet. She lives a moral life

Baba reason this girl better curse na... Just download one hot curse give her!!!!!!!!!



The way I'm angry eh.. her sister hasn't even done shit to her o!!!! She didn't even face real abuse.. the hot kind of abuse!!!

Ifyjos:
So you are trying to tell me that your sister child is not your child? And u cant take care of your niece / nephew needs ?

quote author=Gloriagee post=85619331]Now you're over doing it. U were a lil bit believable at some point but now, I know ure kidding. Your daughter is her daughter, really?

Rubbish, did she tell you to play with your life by collecting prick at a very young age with your Darling guy.
My advice is, since your Darling guy is a car wash man and you can plait hair, both of you should stay together and raise your selves. I give you just one year with your Darling guy, you will come begging your sister for forgiveness.
And you have been mentioning God up and down, God has standard and he only blesses those who are obedient to his principles.
Are you even a child of God, considering the kind of heart that you have, considering that you mess up the temple of God continuously.
You're just a joke, and I don't think you can change, because you beyond redemption.
Your child is not her child in case you don't know. She is even good in even paying her fees most time, fending for her too, she owns nothing to a mother that can't think for herself apart from her Darling guy.

Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless

If this story is true then.............................

You are a witch and you are very wicked. People like you and your boyfriend deserve no sympathy. You are the typical example people MFM rain fire of God upon.

A typical - e dey do me, e dey pet me.

Your boyfriend has a network; instead of using his connection to develop himself, he uses to destroy people.

I am sorry, but you are lost; better repent and confess immediately. Else, if your sister go church for you, poverty will follow you and your future generations.

Nobody wants a liability.

FloraEC:

Lolzz, seriously your sister should start up business for you and your supposed baby daddy. Is she that extremely rich, have she not done enough by training your child in school.
How old are you again?

It's just sad.

I wish i can get in touch with your sister.
Someone should be able to locate her sister.

Your upbringing must have been very bad and your morals are totally flawed, otherwise you should know that a lady moves into her husband's house after marriage is properly conducted, your sister knows this, she is responsible. I have sisters, I know this as well. You that began opening your legs in young age and have a child should have gone to live with a man, try and change for the better, hope with this poor mindset you will bring up your child properly.

Ifyjos:
Her fiance has a house she should have go and leave with him instead of stressing my life

quote author=LilMissFavvy post=85619103]Your elder sister has every right to beat and caution you when you go wrong, especially if your parents were not doing well in training you, your sister had all the right to call you out when you began going wayward at a young age, if your baby daddy foot the bills and rent an apartment for you and baby, by now you would not stay in same house to stress your sister.

LilMissFavvy:
Your upbringing must have been very bad and your morals are totally flawed, otherwise you should know that a lady moves into her husband's house after marriage is properly conducted, your sister knows this, she is responsible. I have sisters, I know this as well. You that began opening your legs in young age and have a child should have gone to live with a man, try and change for the better, hope with this poor mindset you will bring up your child properly.

See why I admire you

Yes I choose to have sex before marriage , it's my body and choice

ote author=Ehibiggirl post=85620098]but you can have sex with him when he hasn’t paid your bride price abi?
Even if they donate your brain for research it will still be useless[/quote]

Basiljoe:
I wish i can get in touch with your sister.
Someone should be able to locate her sister.

Hahahahahaha this na gentle devilish threat o

I'm just surprised at the young girl, she is lost and spoilt. Bad company corrupted her early in life, I don't think there is hope.

healthserve:




See why I admire you

LilMissFavvy:
I'm just surprised at the young girl, she is lost and spoilt. Bad company corrupted her early in life, I don't think there is hope.

Favvy that's how the society is o. Morals is long gone

Yeah.... but morals aren't dead in all families or people.

healthserve:



Favvy that's how the society is o. Morals is long gone

LilMissFavvy:
Yeah.... but morals aren't dead in all families or people.

I can tell you're an exception. I don't need to be told that twice with you

Ifyjos:

I don't think he is married because its only 3 months since they broke up.

Then quickly call him before he starts life with another woman