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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 10:10am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Ifyjos:See you I feel bad for u sef Instead of you to beg for her forgiveness so God can forgive you you're keeping quiet Well... |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by izzygoing(f): 10:13am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Ifyjos: My dear, what u did to your own blood elder sister was very very bad, but who am I to judge you, the only thing u need now is good counseling, and also try and open up on time before it is too late. with the backlash, you are getting here if you don't make things right before your sister finds out, u might even commit suicide. 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 10:24am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Ifyjos: I am saddened by this news 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by DexterousOne(m): 10:31am On Jan 09, 2020 |
olajide8: It's worrisome These girls should get standards 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by DexterousOne(m): 10:33am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Nsarug80: This is another thing... The guy may be an adult who messed with her when she was 15 |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 10:42am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Yes I will beg her because I want to be set free and be in peace Fastestmanalive: 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 10:43am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Please don’t be , I love him the way it is and am Not ashamed of him sedutrice: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by izzygoing(f): 10:49am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Ifyjos: can you call me? let me help u since you are scared In fact, check your inbox and get back to me. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 10:49am On Jan 09, 2020 |
He did not messed up with my life at all. We are together and our relationship is strong DexterousOne: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 10:51am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Ok I will try and tell them the truth but suicide is far away from me. izzygoing: 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 10:54am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Ok thanks izzygoing: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by DexterousOne(m): 11:03am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Ifyjos: Okay then If you don't mind Can you pls indicate the age of this man who loves you so much ? I'll give him one credit tho Just one He did not run away or deny his pregnancy That's good of him Many young men will jaa 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by izzygoing(f): 11:07am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Ifyjos: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 11:10am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 11:10am On Jan 09, 2020 |
He is 29 DexterousOne: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by DexterousOne(m): 11:29am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Ifyjos: I knew it! A man who got you pregnant at 14/15 When he was already in his mid 20s is a paedo It's what it is He may "love" you as you claim But still a paedo 5 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by izzygoing(f): 12:18pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Ifyjos: woman |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by izzygoing(f): 12:27pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
[quote author=Ifyjos post=85639610]Pls r u a man or woman ? I am a woman, I just open this thread because of you, I know u are too young to understand. 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by alfa0: 12:42pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
I have tried to read in between lines in all this young girl @ ifyjos is saying... I don't think she is wicked..it's just youthful exuberance. All she needs at this point is sincere guidance. Please, people should stop insulting her.if you can mentor her and the supposed boy friend , please do...that is if you find out that the intentions of this boy is real.. But if he has been there for her since child birth,I believe they know what they want ,but they are going about it the wrong way and needs guidance at this stage.. I see this causing alot of family problem in future if it's not put under control. 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by alfa0: 12:45pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Ifyjos: Which state is all these happing in. I mean where do you reside. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Greatfullheart: 1:16pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Ifyjos:and That's You'll Suffer For Your Actions, Truth be Told when You Start Facing The Consequences your Baby Daddy Who Lead You to Do Stupid Stuff Won't Be There For You.
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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by CeterisXVII: 3:53pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
2019elections: The sister helps...why? Because the boyfriend has defaulted. The boyfriend does not feed the girl he impregnated. The sister is still the breadwinner, of the entire house. The girl's situation has not improved in 5 years, yet she still hangs around the boy who messed up her life and education. And you are asking them to respect her decision? If she wanted them to respect her decision, then she needs to be financially independent, and also be responsible enough to get accomodation elsewhere. In Naija, your family cannot be feeding you, housing you and supporting you financially, and then you start forming that "they should respect your decision", when everyone can see that the decision you have made till date, is not the best thing for you, as it hasn't worked well so far.... The sister is terrified that the guy could impregnate her a 2nd time around, and compound her problems! 5 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by CeterisXVII: 3:56pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
eyinjuege: Hmmn....you are right! 4 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by letitrainnow(m): 3:57pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
This girl � you are still here talking and replying, you never go and apologize? Pls do it now, and come back and tell us how it went. Pls be careful ooo. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by CeterisXVII: 4:26pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Ifyjos:You see why people cannot even be sympathetic towards you? You keep justifying every little wrong thing....and at the end of the day, your replies make you look stuvpid. Your daughter is also her daughter, .....who told you that? Did your sister encourage you to get pregnant at 15? You bought food for Christmas and so what? Tell me.....what about from January to December last year, and all the previous 5 years, who has been buying majority of the food, all of you were eating in that house? Your guy will be rich....how? Are you the one that designed his destiny, or are you his God? Wake up and smell the coffee. He is NOT married to you! He can still impregnate any other girl, the same way he impregnated you. What about the guy's family? Why can't they step in to support you and the baby? You have refused to give details about his own family, and you keep blaming your sister for not supporting you, enough. 3 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by CeterisXVII: 4:35pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Gippeum: There is too much sense in your post! God bless you....and thank you! 4 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by CeterisXVII: 4:43pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Ifyjos:Did the two of you swear a fetish oath? Tell us, o! Because this your statement has many meanings. Even people that were married in court registry, church or mosque can (and often do) separate after 5, 10 or 20 years. Or haven't you seen it happening?? So what makes you think your relationship will stand the test of time? 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by CeterisXVII: 4:52pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
blujoi: The boy and the girl should have thought of the consequences of their actions, when she got pregnant. The sister has absolutely NO obligation to support or empower the guy, in any shape or form. He is not related to her by blood, or by marriage. It is the boy's family that should be thinking of supporting the guy, and the child. If his family had any sense, they should have stepped in, to resolve the matter, long before now...... 8 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by 2019elections: 4:53pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
CeterisXVII: You're right bro. 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by CeterisXVII: 4:56pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
1Sharon:His life was threatened. Or didn't you read that part? So he should have ignored the death threats, and gone ahead? Would you advise your own brother, to do the same? This is Nigeria o, not America or Canada or the United Kingdom. Such threats are not a joke....! 4 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by CeterisXVII: 5:14pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Ifyjos:You slapped your older sister first! Or have you forgotten that part? Did you expect her to stand there looking at you, or did you think she will congratulate you for slapping her? And your guy beat her up too, yet you are claiming that he did so, "with respect." How do they beat up people with respect, in your place? Can you see how clueless, you sound? When your older sister started insulting you both, why didn't you and the guy just walk out on her? In fact, if your guy had any self-respect, he would have left the place immediately he sighted her, since he knows that she doesn't like him! Ifyjos:He was giving her small slaps to calm her down? He is totally stewpid!! Why couldn't he have just separated you both, and dragged you away from there? Or even called neighbours to intervene, and separate both of you? 6 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ehibiggirl(f): 5:18pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Ifyjos:uou will soon know what time and life is saying when your needs increase and you don’t have any means to meet them. You will not remember this puppy love you are talking about.focus on something that would bring you and your child out of poverty than that dirty romance with an NAF that you are harboring.you are just 20 and you have resigned to a beggarly life. You lack exposure your environment has really hindered your foresight. Chaiii odikwa very pathetic. 1 Like |
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