Michellekabod2:
I was wondering how often couples should speak to each other on phone via calls,texts,chats etc daily?weekly?bi-weekly?

kunleweb:



I'll park here. But let's start with you. How often do you consider cool/healthy and uncool/too much.

For me I'd say it depends. Too much availability is often considered weakness. Hence if mutual respect would suffer from communication, then substantially reducing it would seem cool. Otherwise as regular as both party needs to reach out, communication can flow. If mutual respect avails, then there can never be enough of the other party.


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crackkhaus:

Lol.. You never still forget?

kunleweb:

Still shivering bro. Obi na tu mo. I can't shake it off me mind bro. What's up. Hope you're chilling... If only ladies can maintain their love energy consistently. Life would be sweeter.

crackkhaus:

Some do.

Abeg try shaking it off, na play we dey play dat day.

kunleweb:

Consistency begins from 5.years to me bro. After the lady has settled in two feet down. Though why a few do, the margin's minimal except she broke and the dude get future. Then the playing field is levelled

crackkhaus:

Lol, 5years?

Well I guess that's what works for you.

kunleweb:

What. Don't tell me you're a virgin now. You haven't seen a lady super consistent for 19 months and next thing she pulls a thread... Tell me you haven't.

crackkhaus:

This can happen to the best of us, it doesn't mean there are no ladies who can remain super consistent for longer...even five years and longer.

kunleweb:



You haven't seen a lady super consistent for 19 months and next thing she pulls a thread... Tell me you haven't.

nlPoster:


Name names, thanks.

Don't imply.

kunleweb:

I know na. There are so many that are cool thesedays. Don't mind me I'm looking for fight jare. Threads are boring without fights

kunleweb:



I'll park here. But let's start with you. How often do you consider cool/healthy and uncool/too much.

For me I'd say it depends. Too much availability is often considered weakness. Hence if mutual respect would suffer from communication, then substantially reducing it would seem cool. Otherwise as regular as both party needs to reach out, communication can flow. If mutual respect avails, then there can never be enough of the other party.


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Viicfuntop:



You won’t let me rest.

MrBrownJay1:
if anyone needs a timetable for such things in their union, then this person certainly aint ready for any r/ship.... it should simply be HOW YOU FEEL and the moment it becomes a forced requirement then you are already losing.

Michellekabod2:
just wanted to get it right. I don't know what it feels like to love someone or show affection. Wanna learn how to love. I realised people show love by calling/texting. So I wanna know what's normal and not. So I don't undercall/overcall.

I am yet to be in a relationship, but I think I will be ready for a relationship end of this year/begining of next year(have a lot of issue to settle for now). And I want to learn communication so when I enter there will be no issue with it.

PS:if am to call based on my feeling then it will be once a month(under calling).

hakeem4:
once a month is better. At the beginning of the month the husband will just drop key points for the month

Viicfuntop:



You won’t let me rest.

kunleweb:



Can I ask you something.

hakeem4:
once a month is better. At the beginning of the month the husband will just drop key points for the month