Dididrumz:


We all know helping is not by force.

But is that what the op asked?

internationalman:


I guess it's only a mother one can truly depend on in this life after God

Righteousness89:

I know about that ... but it takes a whole lot..

I almost did that but I had to back out

Righteousness89:

Your bro can file for you if he has genuine reason of bringing you to US

The GOSPEL TRUTH IS THAT YOU HAVE NO BENEFIT Except from the Fact that you have someone who can send you An IV Letter to go to the US Embassy..

uchewiz:


Well the wife is already in us

CaptMarvel:
I'm just curious to know.
I would like to be more enlightened on this.

If my brother, I meant my own blood brother becomes an American citizen, I as a Nigerian, what do I stand to gain from it?

Will it increase my chances of traveling to America, will I have better chances to gain from institutions there, or and what other benefits do I stand to gain.

CaptMarvel:
I'm just curious to know.
I would like to be more enlightened on this.

If my brother, I meant my own blood brother becomes an American citizen, I as a Nigerian, what do I stand to gain from it?

Will it increase my chances of traveling to America, will I have better chances to gain from institutions there, or and what other benefits do I stand to gain.

CaptMarvel:
I'm just curious to know.
I would like to be more enlightened on this.

If my brother, I meant my own blood brother becomes an American citizen, I as a Nigerian, what do I stand to gain from it?

Will it increase my chances of traveling to America, will I have better chances to gain from institutions there, or and what other benefits do I stand to gain.

uchewiz:


Very difficult ....
My siblings and my dad went for interview. ..they still denied ..despite the fact that my bro is doing passing out parade in us army

CaptMarvel:
I'm just curious to know.
I would like to be more enlightened on this.

If my brother, I meant my own blood brother becomes an American citizen, I as a Nigerian, what do I stand to gain from it?

Will it increase my chances of traveling to America, will I have better chances to gain from institutions there, or and what other benefits do I stand to gain.

SFSNIPER:


My brother is a US Marine oh since 2009, I still dey Nigeria.

chigoizie7:



Hmmm, most people do not know what it feels like to be abroad.

Some people think that being there is easy.

Just because he changed $100 and sent to you, you think he has it all?

To be sincere, that $100 could be a lot to you down in naija. But it is nothing to him that is there. It can’t even pay his rent for a month, water, gas,electricity bills for a month.

You think it is easy for them? Surviving on their own is a big deal talk more of bringing a second party.


My brother. In as much as we rise by lifting others, but never have it at the back of your mind that anyone owes you anything. Nobody owes you shi shi.

If person dash you money, accept, if they do not, do not hold it against them, because they do not have two heads.

If person help you, be grateful, if person no come help you, nwanne move on, they do not owe you any help.


You see this mentality of entitlement? That is what is killing us in naija. This person should help me, but he is not, he is wicked. Lie lie, they are not wicked.

If they tell you what they pass through.


Shebi if you go city go hustle and ee no go well, you go see who you go borrow transport take enter villa come begin farm. You see them abroad? If ginger catch them, it is either they turn to street begger or they starve, no one send them there, this is not a case of I no wan stay again, make I go back to village, nwanne who wan give an money for ticket?

All I am saying is that, na patch patch all of us de do. Forget say when they wan visit, them go come fresh up, yes, the weather is good. They buy few new clothes. You see some of these faded color clothes, we de rock am, but you do not expect us to snap pics with them and post on social media.


Ee fit be say, ee no easy for your brother. No reason am.


Some are scared that once they bring you, you go begin mess up, if you get police case, na their head ee go land, if him talk say make him bone you and your case, people at home will call him evil.



There are so many reasons, why some won’t bring you there.



Find something and do for yourself,

You can also apply for visa for various countries, the same way that your brother did that time. Na the same head wey him carry na Im you too carry.

Isoduwa:



You don go come back?

uchewiz:

Ask your mother to join military

henryobinna:
what about father?

So you can't depend on your father...

It's shameful to see that most people these days do not recognize their fathers and efforts they put.

All they know and remember is their mothers, too bad for the fathers of this generation.

CaptMarvel:
I'm just curious to know.
I would like to be more enlightened on this.

If my brother, I meant my own blood brother becomes an American citizen, I as a Nigerian, what do I stand to gain from it?

Will it increase my chances of traveling to America, will I have better chances to gain from institutions there, or and what other benefits do I stand to gain.

Righteousness89:


The GOSPEL TRUTH IS THAT YOU HAVE NO BENEFIT Except from the Fact that you have someone who can send you An IV Letter to go to the US Embassy..

Fvckmoderators:


It doesn't have to reach 10 years.

I have cousins that migrated within 2 years despite having naked passport and no be say dem get money.

biggy26:

He can actually file a petition for a sibling visa with USCIS, form i130 for you. But the disadvantage is that it takes about 10yrs to mature, after which you get a straight green card.

akpan123:
Form 1-130

Form for siblings of US citizens. He can file

For u.

franchasng:
If you are a brother or sister or friend reading this post and you are in a better position to assist your brother or sister or friend become someone better and you fail to do it, you are a disgrace to humankind, in fact you are a pauper in mind, and don't ever think you are successful because you are broke! You are inhumane and you will regret it sooner or later, because I have seen people regret not helping people when they had the opportunity. Even Goodluck Jonathan is regretting not turning Igbo land around haven witnessed how much Igbos loved him after he was voted out as President, don't be like Jonathan, help your brothers, help your sisters, help your friends if you are privileged to. Remember time waits for nobody and wealth and success are like a visitor, they come and go no matter who you are it will never stay forever, the number of people you help become somebody is how rich you are.


Before you come for my head, my brothers are far better off than me financially so I don't need to help them but I am helping my other relatives; cousins, etc in my own little capacity and wishing to do more and for my close friends, I have helped many travel out of Nigeria as they desire to have better life, I have helped friends secure good jobs when I had the privilege of doing that in the past, I have also helped friends establish successful business that has put them on success list, and I am definitely going to help many people from my community become better as God help my financial life grow better with time.


I also desire to adopt so many poor children as my kids if things work as planned.

That is one thing I cherish about Linda Ikeji, she is a wonderful child, she single handedly lifted every member of her family out of poverty to financial freedom, something many siblings in Nigeria will never do.


May God continue to bless you Linda Ikeji, I love you for your kindness to others.

E-money is another wonderful child that has helped transform the lives of his family members.

I won't also forget Aliko Dangote, without him, Rabiu and co will be nobody today, may God bless them all that see it worthy to help their family and friends become better

IamCookie:
Yorubas' usually say , "ajumobi o ko ti aanu ,eniti oluwa ba ran sini ni seni laanu. This saying may be translated (roughly done)as , rendering assistance or helping a fellow brother or sister is not must (even if na same mother ,same father) , it is only those assigned by God to be of help to you that will make it happen)