Run for your life all they know is money no love

Wetin come dey fear u na?

maybe u are rich......divorce settlement is another cashout route for ladies....

I am guessing she just learnt about 'bigamy', poor sod. Remind her that many legally married man still have second wife and even give them shares in their will

Why do you want to enter marriage like it's a business, I am sure you are already considering how you can leave her penniless incase a divorce comes up. Stop looking for a woman that will become a breeding animal for you and in the ending is not considered your wife in the eyes of the law, go to the court and sign, If you can't do that then you don't truly love her

donbachi:
Wetin come dey fear u na?

i no dey fear oh as i don leave her go her way go find man wey go do d court wedding for her wey she go feat wear white gown like her friends as she said i just dey wonder nio

Lol, I know what you're afraid of... until you admit it I can't help you.

1StopRudeness:
maybe u are rich......divorce settlement is another cashout route for ladies....

I'm not oh just a young guy trying to fix things but I'm not poor

AryEmber:
I am guessing she just learnt about 'bigamy', poor sod. Remind her that many legally married man still have second wife and even give them shares in their will

not that she's just listening to some people at their working place who are giving her wrong advice

Offpoint:
Lol, I know what you're afraid of... until you admit it I can't help you.

what , I'm nit Afraid of anything i dont fall for dat A4 paper of a thing from day 1 , na she make me start dey buy something household things for house self in case u think i dont love her , I just dont like her telling me how she want me to marry her im a graduate but im still dat typical African man and dont ever support polygamy

I'm coming let me drink water

carpdiemz:



not that she's just listening to some people at their working place who are giving her wrong advice

Nobody is giving her wrong advice.
Opting for court marriage is no big deal.

You dont love her , thats why u feel cool, shes gone.

Anyways if you dont marry her legally in court , someone else will .
Thats just life ..

And u too , will meet another lady who does not mind trad marriage only .

I just love how life turn everyone's lives at the end .

So dont worry she wil be fine las las.

carpdiemz:


I'm not oh just a young guy trying to fix things but I'm not poor

maybe she Don go look ur future...lol

Anyways, some ladies generally feel a court wedding will not allow a guy misbehave like leaving engaging in polygamy or bigamy...

she doesn't really love u, she just want to get married for change of marital status..hence, her rigid stand.....if she loves u, she would have married u.. it's somethin she can still get from u later in the marriage

mayb she have seen your future.

carpdiemz:


what , I'm nit Afraid of anything i dont fall for dat A4 paper of a thing from day 1 , na she make me start dey buy something household things for house self in case u think i dont love her , I just dont like her telling me how she want me to marry her im a graduate but im still dat typical African man and dont ever support polygamy

You no why thieves no like police station?

you no fit tell me sey no reason... we talk like man to man

1StopRudeness:


maybe she Don go look ur future...lol

Anyways, some ladies generally feel a court wedding will not allow a guy misbehave like leaving engaging in polygamy or bigamy...

she doesn't really love u, she just want to get married for change of marital status..hence, her rigid stand.....if she loves u, she would have married u.. it's somethin she can still get from u later in the marriage

God bless you oh, I told her marriage isn't about the type of wedidng u do but the agreement in the marriage life, how many oyinbo dey do our traditional for their land when dem married each other,she's just want to wear white gown , im too way up than that . na dat A4 paper no go make me remarry or misbehave , she no just get my kinda way of reasoning nio and expose too sha

Offpoint:

You no why thieves no like police station?

you no fit tell me sey no reason... we talk like man to man

oga forget no any hidden agenda , Na court i ask her out or na there i dey take permission before i give her money or take permission from court when i wan do her. I'm just my self no girl feat tell me how she want me to marry her oh

carpdiemz:


oga forget no any hidden agenda , Na court i ask her out or na there i dey take permission before i give her money or take permission from court when i wan do her. I'm just my self no girl feat tell me how she want me to marry her oh

No wahala naw, how you love person and na where una go do wedding wan come cuz kassala?

I can't even make sense of the post...you said you have no particular reason for refraining from the court marriage yet you still refused to do it...I'm happy she left you because you are clearly not even serious. If you had given any excuse at all, the post for make sense

You don't want somebody telling you how to marry her...so she should just sit and let you play with her like a toy when you've already told everybody on planet Nairaland that you have no reason not to marry her in court

The only part where I understand you is that she started off saying that she just wants a small introduction and later on began to add jara...but at the same time I can't get over that you wrote without shame that you have no reason not to marry her legally smh abeg make we hear word...time wasters everywhere mtchew

you dont NEED a reason....if you dont want to do it then so be it....and you should free the babe (who want to do it for flimsy reasons)

midnighter:
I can't even make sense of the post...you said you have no particular reason for refraining from the court marriage yet you still refused to do it...I'm happy she left you because you are clearly not even serious. If you had given any excuse at all, the post for make sense

You don't want somebody telling you how to marry her...so she should just sit and let you play with her like a toy when you've already told everybody on planet Nairaland that you have no reason not to marry her in court

The only part where I understand you is that she started off saying that she just wants a small introduction and later on began to add jara...but at the same time I can't get over that you wrote without shame that you have no reason not to marry her legally smh abeg make we hear word...time wasters everywhere mtchew

Nigerian women dont like men that tell truth to their face , wetin concern shame with dis? ashamed of my opinion ? is not by force madam .

carpdiemz:
Nigerian women dont like men that tell truth to their face , wetin concern shame with dis? I ashamed of my opinion ? is not by force madam .

You dont have any shame, thats why you cant understand my comment

At least if its your girlfriend who came to complain "My fiance refuses to do court wedding" we could have advised her to be patient.

This one youre writing you dont have any reason is the highest level of nonsense. I mean, what kind of directionless fellow are you anyway? Who conducts their marriage without any reason

Not even that you dont have the money or that it takes too long.. something at least! Smh dont annoy me please

carpdiemz:


what , I'm nit Afraid of anything i dont fall for dat A4 paper of a thing from day 1 , na she make me start dey buy something household things for house self in case u think i dont love her , I just dont like her telling me how she want me to marry her im a graduate but im still dat typical African man and dont ever support polygamy

then make it legal and take her to court.

Why are you afraid of court marriage?

Go and marry her joor

Of all the marriages, court marriage is the most compulsory

Reichel99:
Why do you want to enter marriage like it's a business, I am sure you are already considering how you can leave her penniless incase a divorce comes up. Stop looking for a woman that will become a breeding animal for you and in the ending is not considered your wife in the eyes of the law, go to the court and sign, If you can't do that then you don't truly love her

And you broke useless ladies should stop looking for a guy that would be your bank. Simple.

funmisticqueen2:
then make it legal and take her to court.

Why are you afraid of court marriage?

Go and marry her joor

Of all the marriages, court marriage is the most compulsory

Court is not compulsory, it's just a back exit plan for broke bitches

Lightangel65:


Court is not compulsory, it's just a back exit plan for broke bitches

it's compulsory. Anything else is cohabitation.

nope, it's insurance against ungrateful men who want to suck dry some unsuspecting woman by making her the come up woman.

I really pity some ladies that rush men into marriage you rush in you rush out.... Ladies shine your eyes.. You can't force men against their plans

midnighter:


You dont have any shame, thats why you cant understand my comment

At least if its your girlfriend who came to complain "My fiance refuses to do court wedding" we could have advised her to be patient.

This one youre writing you dont have any reason is the highest level of nonsense. I mean, what kind of directionless fellow are you anyway? Who conducts their marriage without any reason

Not even that you dont have the money or that it takes too long.. something at least! Smh dont annoy me please

madam go sit down na by force, is she the one that want to marry me? she just has an agenda so taking her to court would prove I love her and not break up with her? I definitely got so suspicious cuz she has been clamoring on it wtf , I choose how I want to go about my wedding with any woman...

funmisticqueen2:
it's compulsory. Anything else is cohabitation.

nope, it's insurance against ungrateful men who want to suck dry some unsuspecting woman by making her the come up woman.

Your mama do court marriage? Insurance lol funny meme from a broke toilet trash,. I wonder what there is to suck dry in a lady, you guys are beggers.

Lightangel65:


Your mama do court marriage? Insurance lol funny meme from a broke toilet trash,. I wonder what there is to suck dry in a lady, you guys are beggers.

yes, she did court marriage. With pictures to prove.
My parents are educated, unlike yours

Bola146:
I really pity some ladies that rush men into marriage you rush in you rush out.... Ladies shine your eyes.. You can't force men against their plans

yes oh dis a girl, I just got to know in a year oh , not dat i dont love her , i got to understand her and she did to , but it seems she was just been nice cuz she wanted the marriage after i said no court marriage , dis girl turned to be a stranger to me

Bola146:
I really pity some ladies that rush men into marriage you rush in you rush out.... Ladies shine your eyes.. You can't force men against their plans

all that rushing to marriage is Bobo drink.

These men that lie anyhow