lavylilly:
SIDE CHICK:
THE NEW WITCHCRAFT IN TOWN
Being a side chick is equally like being a witch. Why do you have to steal somebody's husband when you can have your own without stealing? It’s only a witch who refuses to acknowledge what they have been blessed with but only envious of what others have.

Marriage is not a jungle. You don't need to chase a wife out of her matrimonial home just so you can become a stepmother. Being a wife is not a role where you can go and offer assistance, because some side chicks think they are doing some wives a favour by sleeping with their husbands; you are not doing them any favour, you are destroying their marriage.

The woman whose husband you want is also a woman like you, you might have different hearts but the question is, have you ever put yourself in her shoes? Do you know the kind of pains your actions are causing her? Will you be happy if someone is doing same to you?
Do you have to destroy your fellow woman’s marriage because of an iPhone? Do you have to separate the married because of your rent?

Do you know the cure to laziness is not breaking up someone’s marriage?
We are all created by God, do you think God will be happy with you? Are you becoming a blessing or a curse? Do you think the man in question is a saint? Which Saint sends you to hell? Which Saint turns you into a witch?
It takes two to tango, whatever negative news the husband is painting about the wife, he contributed to it. He has a role to play. He is refusing to work at his marriage because you have provided him an avenue or an excuse not to. You are helping him ignore his responsibility and ministry.

He goes home late or sometimes abandons his home and family because of you. He cares less about the same people he calls his family because of you. Sometimes the family is denied their basic needs because of you. There are days they have to sleep on empty stomachs because of you.

Your involvement with the man is destroying lives, lives God cherishes so much. You are ruining the bright future of the children because of your selfish greed. Every child needs the father. A man in whose steps they can follow, a man whose example they can follow, a man they can see every day and learn from. Unfortunately to such a children, out of no faults of theirs, a side chick has taken the father from them.

I know some of the readers of this message will be upset; some will be filled with anger to attack me. Well I am not happy with what you are doing and the best way to get your attention to change is this way.
If it hurts that much, you need to change. Don't become a tool for destruction because of money or some needs of yours. If the man is taken, he is taken. Look for your man. A stolen man remains stolen no matter how you decorate or rebrand it. Even if you marry him, he is still stolen man.

Michellekabod2:
if a sidechick is a witch then the husband that cheats is the devil himself. Are you aware some of this side chicks are even unaware the boyfriend is married??
The man broke his vows,he deserves more shame

Michellekabod2:
if a sidechick is a witch then the husband that cheats is the devil himself. Are you aware some of this side chicks are even unaware the boyfriend is married??
The man broke his vows,he deserves more shame

Omar09:


Most times they know their boyfriend is married. There's this our tenant that used to live with us before we quit her. She wanted to get married yet she was sleeping with a married man. She was the one who confessed he was married and swore never to have anything to with the man again. But later we saw the man visit her again. When asked she said "let me hold this one I have seen when my husband comes I'd..."

Now the story above goes to show that two people can't be mad at the same time. She could have stopped and reprimanded the man from coming to her. But no she didn't. When she told us how she knew he was married, you needed to see how she painted the man for not telling her his marital status. It was as if the man defrauded which in the actual sense he did. But what happened next, she still continued.

As for the man, I did not count him out. He will be the first to cry fowl if he catches his wife with another man.

I believe what you will hate when it happens to you, don't do it to another.

You countering that thread will cause harm given the fact women hardly read and hacking to instruction. This will give others into it more reason not to quit. Hope you see where I'm headed.

Michellekabod2:
I get your point. It just that a lot of biasness is displayed this days,women are the ones cautioned more than men. The wife is blamed for being less attractive to him or nagging,the side chick is blamed to,but the man is excused because of the stereotype that all men are polygamous...

Michellekabod2:
I get your point. It just that a lot of biasness is displayed this days,women are the ones cautioned more than men. The wife is blamed for being less attractive to him or nagging,the side chick is blamed to,but the man is excused because of the stereotype that all men are polygamous...

Michellekabod2:
I get your point. It just that a lot of biasness is displayed this days,women are the ones cautioned more than men. The wife is blamed for being less attractive to him or nagging,the side chick is blamed to,but the man is excused because of the stereotype that all men are polygamous...

Riele:
Lol . @ OP

After your one time saga with men here , you're now trying so hard to please men with your posts .

If a side chick is a witch , then the cheating dog of a man is a devil .

zclass:
How are you preparing for your exam?

Riele:


Preparations is going fine .

lavylilly:
SIDE CHICK:
THE NEW WITCHCRAFT IN TOWN
Being a side chick is equally like being a witch. Why do you have to steal somebody's husband when you can have your own without stealing? It’s only a witch who refuses to acknowledge what they have been blessed with but only envious of what others have.

Marriage is not a jungle. You don't need to chase a wife out of her matrimonial home just so you can become a stepmother. Being a wife is not a role where you can go and offer assistance, because some side chicks think they are doing some wives a favour by sleeping with their husbands; you are not doing them any favour, you are destroying their marriage.

The woman whose husband you want is also a woman like you, you might have different hearts but the question is, have you ever put yourself in her shoes? Do you know the kind of pains your actions are causing her? Will you be happy if someone is doing same to you?
Do you have to destroy your fellow woman’s marriage because of an iPhone? Do you have to separate the married because of your rent?

Do you know the cure to laziness is not breaking up someone’s marriage?
We are all created by God, do you think God will be happy with you? Are you becoming a blessing or a curse? Do you think the man in question is a saint? Which Saint sends you to hell? Which Saint turns you into a witch?
It takes two to tango, whatever negative news the husband is painting about the wife, he contributed to it. He has a role to play. He is refusing to work at his marriage because you have provided him an avenue or an excuse not to. You are helping him ignore his responsibility and ministry.

He goes home late or sometimes abandons his home and family because of you. He cares less about the same people he calls his family because of you. Sometimes the family is denied their basic needs because of you. There are days they have to sleep on empty stomachs because of you.

Your involvement with the man is destroying lives, lives God cherishes so much. You are ruining the bright future of the children because of your selfish greed. Every child needs the father. A man in whose steps they can follow, a man whose example they can follow, a man they can see every day and learn from. Unfortunately to such a children, out of no faults of theirs, a side chick has taken the father from them.

I know some of the readers of this message will be upset; some will be filled with anger to attack me. Well I am not happy with what you are doing and the best way to get your attention to change is this way.
If it hurts that much, you need to change. Don't become a tool for destruction because of money or some needs of yours. If the man is taken, he is taken. Look for your man. A stolen man remains stolen no matter how you decorate or rebrand it. Even if you marry him, he is still stolen man.

zclass:
OK. Best of luck. But don't you think social media is a distraction at this point?

Riele:


It isn't dear .

Social media only eases stress for me .

I'll be back to my books before you know it .

zclass:

Its all good. Exam is no big deal.
I'm only showing care like I do for my daughter.

uthlaw:
If you can't get 1 Leave those who can....girls full everywhere side chick is a most!

Pascopele:
If you're a married man, and your wife can identify or recognize your side chick, You're a Failure.

Only Legends Can Relate.

lasher1:
I'm sorry to say this, Side chicks are necessary to keep many married men sane these days.

The primary reason men get side chicks is sex!
Men NEED and are programmed to want sex according to Myles Monroe and if wify ain't putting out he will eventually be tempted to get it elsewhere and eventually become addicted.

A larger number of married men are struggling through sexless and loveless marriages despite their efforts to be the best husbands they can be, yet these days any man who complains about his wife not tending to his sexual needs is given a list of like 20 things to do to see if his wife will reconsider his advances. To me that's trash, do you know that with a side chick on a fair budget a man can get the satisfaction he needs without madam being affected or affecting the home front.Yes he can, he only needs wisdom to set his priorities right.

I'm one husband with a very hot secret sidie who services my engine weekly while madam keeps her once in 2months sex timetable after plenty ceremony. Im a model loyal (mumu ) husband and great father at home in every other way. I am happy how things are �

lavylilly:
What if his getting it and on a regular and still cheats? Leaving little or nothing for the woman and kids!!!!!!!!!!!!

lavylilly:
What if his getting it and on a regular and still cheats? Leaving little or nothing for the woman and kids!!!!!!!!!!!!

lasher1:

As I said Good Sex is the main reason why men stray from their homes into the hands of the side chicks. There are so many boring wives who hiss in disgust when their man tries to be adventurous in bed. They have a textbook mechanical procedure for sex which they partake in half heartedly as a duty. No man wants that no matter how regularly he gets it. Sleeping with a woman who is anxious for you to cum and leave her alone only makes a true manly man feel like a sadistic rapist. No real man likes that.

Side chicks are different, they seem to want the man, they make him feel wanted and he mistakes it for real love. They care or at least pretend to care about him asking about his day, some even pray for a good day and good fortunes for the man, extending beyond their primary sex duty. Its no mystery that a person would reciprocate love from where he receives most, where he gets his source of value and perceived strength, this for some men becomes priority and they hence focus their major resources on this person who's the sidechick. It is not right but its human psychology.

lavylilly:
are you married?