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| Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by SlimBrawnie(f): 7:38pm On Jan 15, 2020 |
I remember when this thread first started, insults were hurled on this lady, yet she maintained her calm... At the 38th page, people are insulting her with all their might so I'm not surprised at her response, there is only so much one can take... She chose who to be with, it's a choice, so her love life shouldn't be up for debate or discussion at this point. She did something wrong which she's trying to correct and that should be the focus. Enough of the judgment & blame games already, people have said worse. We move 3 Likes |
| Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 7:38pm On Jan 15, 2020 |
We are not doing any competition about marriage and we prefer to wait for the right time to come because they are so many that rushed to answer mrs see them on facing begging for money some cannot even afford #100 mtn card and they will be begging for someone to recharge their phone because free mode are killing them and what made me laugh is a married woman posted in the group begging for money to buy a water bottle for her child and she has been having sleepless night hahahahahhaha I taught married people should have everything and how comes they are still begging that means marriage is not everything , I will not rush for it first of all before marriage I want to go to tailoring school by God grace which I will do it this year because I know God will provide. I'm proud to engaged in premarital because I'm not the first neither I will be the last , we like it that way . Even now he doesn't have money and nobody has the right to insult him because it's doing better than mary on this forums Nooil: |
| Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 7:44pm On Jan 15, 2020 |
Thanks dear ,I brought my problem here because i wanted help on how to confess to my sister but some of them here all they could do is insulting my guy which I have tried to ignored them and now I have done my part by confessing and they still cannot stop talking bad about him as if they have made it in life even those jobless good for nothing people now have the guts to insult him because they are trying to form perfect life on social media which in real life they are nothing and have nothing. quote author=SlimBrawnie post=85827147]I remember when this thread first started, insults were hurled on this lady, yet she maintained her calm... At the 38th page, people are insulting her with all their might so I'm not surprised at her response, there is only so much one can take... She chose who to be with, it's a choice, so her love life shouldn't be up for debate or discussion at this point. She did something wrong which she's trying to correct and that should be the focus. Enough of the judgment & blame games already, people have said worse. We move[/quote] |
| Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 7:45pm On Jan 15, 2020 |
Ifyjos: My dear, forget forums, people will say anything to make people give them money. Do you really believe someone cannot afford 100 naira or 50 naira bottled water? Premarital sex is wrong even if other people are doing it. Getting married does not mean you'll become like other women begging for money. Moreover, God will answer your prayers if you're not engaging in premarital sex. You need Him more now than anything else. Remember the prayer of a sinner is an abomination to God. What will it cost you to get married? 10 Likes |
| Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 7:46pm On Jan 15, 2020 |
Best of luck to you too hope this year u will stop begging for recharge card and money for foods on social media at least get something doing quote author=Michellekabod2 post=85827017]still young and naive. Anyway best of luck in your endeavor and choice[/quote] |
| Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 7:55pm On Jan 15, 2020 |
They are begging because they dont have their husbands are irresponsible, they just wanted to answer mrs for the world to see them married but in reality they dont have anything , u should see a post that was posted less than an hour already 5000 comments of beggars , some people will even want to help a widow u should see how some so called married women claiming widows are doing better than them that they money should be given to them hahahahhaahhahaha some are even so desperate to go to a stranger inbox to beg for money nawa for so called married women so that makes men feel proud of my guy we are not yet married he is responsible and when we will be married he will do better . So don't come and preach me about marriage my ass..I don't care you can preach me about pre marital sex from now until 2021 nothing will change my mind , I will still doing and am not feeling guilty. Nooil: |
| Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 7:59pm On Jan 15, 2020 |
Ifyjos: Ok 8 Likes |
| Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by letitrainnow(m): 8:11pm On Jan 15, 2020 |
Ifyjos:This girl is a spoilt brat. You think life is a bed of roses. You think life gives you what you deserves/demand. Be humble so that you will be lifted up. 10 Likes |
| Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Omoshalewa04(f): 9:18pm On Jan 15, 2020 |
Nooil:God bless you for this reply... I wish there is a love reaction on nairaland. Make una live this girl and her thread may she live her life. 5 Likes |
| Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by CeterisXVII: 9:38pm On Jan 15, 2020 |
Ginaruby:Each time you make a comment, you reveal how shallow you are.  You keep saying our parents got married so early....and a girl at 14 years is ripe for marriage?  Maybe in your community, but not in mine! I have refuted your claims, but you keep insisting on peddling fiction that has no data to support it, and no basis.  You also said: "Beating up your elder sister for continually assaulting and insulting you is no crime for me...." Rea-a-ally?? Wow!  It shows the kind of home training, and values that you hold, if you can endorse beating up someone who is older than you. Obviously, things like respect and good manners are far from you. What a shame...! Thank God, I do not have siblings who think like you!11 Likes |
| Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by comtem2011: 9:49pm On Jan 15, 2020 |
Ginaruby:you just gave her justice. |
| Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by midnighter(f): 10:29pm On Jan 15, 2020 |
Lol I told you at the beginning of the thread that if you don't wise up you will end up messing up your daughter, now look at it. You want to bring a child of 5 into where you are squatting, not knowing whether you could be thrown out at any minute. Where is she going to sleep by the way? While you're having your mind-blowing morning sex I advocated for the thread to be locked, but I've changed my mind. It's a lesson in forensic psychiatry. This is how we will analyse the minds of women who help their boyfriends and husbands to commit heinous crimes. This is how it starts. A sane and literate person arguing as if they are sick, all for the sake of a guy. 7 Likes |
| Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Amhappy(f): 10:44pm On Jan 15, 2020 |
Oh Babe you went too far and staying with your guy is not a solution. The hot sex you are enjoying may bring another belle. Do your parents go to church? If yes visit the pastor/Rev to handle this reconciliation. It will take wisdom to resolve this. It may take years for them to forgive you. I had it rough in 2019 and chopped insults even from children wey i fit born. It's not new nne. Next time reply insults with success. Prove you are not an efulefu. 5 Likes |
| Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by midnighter(f): 10:49pm On Jan 15, 2020 |
Amhappy: We told her not to open up like that like that so that she wouldn't be forced to go and live with that guy, she kept replying everybody here that she must confess she is feeling guilty blah blah until she was ejected from her parents house. Where do you want her to go na She has to keep with the guy until she can go home. Or what do you suggest she does...? In the first place she hasn't even explained to the man why she is staying with him...I hope her pastor can help her sha 1 Like |
| Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Resurgent2016: 10:50pm On Jan 15, 2020 |
Nooil: You understand her case, no need arguing, she still has a lot to learn, unfortunately she's a poor listener. She'll likely learn from experience 8 Likes |
| Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by CeterisXVII: 11:26pm On Jan 15, 2020 |
Ifyjos: 7 Likes
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| Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 11:29pm On Jan 15, 2020 |
yes she is our child we can bring her anywhere we are living we will sleep on the same bed and she won’t die because you yourself you are forming rich on social media but in reality u may be squatting with someone else and sleeping on the floor u can’t even afford a mattress not even to talk about foodstuffs u might be one of those Facebook beggars too , so our living condition it is none of your business and nobody forced you to follow a illerate person like me midnighter: |
| Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 11:35pm On Jan 15, 2020 |
If my own sister I never listened to her and do u think I will listen to you a stranger from nowhere someone you living another life on social media but reality you are beggar. I don’t regret the way I choose to open up at least I have feel relieved right now . Am not regretting being kicked out of the house , it just proved that am now a grown up so I have to hustle hard for my small family ( my guy and daughter ) and your cheap talk doesn’t bother me . Say whatever you like I don’t care , the time u are wasting following and comment thrush under my post it would have been better if you kneel down asking God for a life partner coz me I’m better I have a lovely caring husband to be and a beautiful princess and u will not when u reached menopose under your papa house and nobody to marry u by then u will know how stupid u were wasting your time chatting shit on someone who has better than you midnighter: |
| Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 11:37pm On Jan 15, 2020 |
I won’t get pregnant because I did family planning and even if I get pregnant u won’t see me at your compound begging you for money to feed my children because they have a responsible father the same way he is taking care of the first child he will do the same with the second , even if we had 40 of them It’s our business Amhappy: |
| Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by midnighter(f): 11:40pm On Jan 15, 2020 |
Ifyjos: Hahahaha you are sick babe! You need medical help. I can't stop laughing. Anyway you're right, I'm also a Facebook beggar. Hope you can help me with a free hairstyle? Hahaha gosh! Thank you for providing me with a laugh to warm me up this cold evening. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 11:46pm On Jan 15, 2020 |
It’s you that seek and need medical attention as soon as possible because if you were in the right state you wouldn’t come and chat shit , you are a so called graduate but u have nothing and all u do is spending time on social media begging and insulting people why not go sell cold pure water to make money instead of being here all the time and not getting paid midnighter: 1 Like |
| Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by CeterisXVII: 11:50pm On Jan 15, 2020 |
Please people should stop calling that smoker, drunkard and paedophile, her husband. He is NOT. The guy did not pay her bride price and has not married her in any way. That word ' husband' is what a lot of girls use to deceive and console themselves, when they are in a relationship, that is not heading anywhere. Anyway, na she sabi. One day, agaracha go enter market, but e no go return.... Let her keep deceiving herself there. 6 Likes |
| Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by midnighter(f): 11:51pm On Jan 15, 2020 |
Ifyjos: See? You feel relief but was your relief the point? That's what they were trying to tell you but you wouldn't listen. When you came back to report that your family had chased you away I decided to keep quiet because I couldn't honestly congratulate you for making what I thought was a wrong decision. I decided to allow people who told you to confess to advise you well, unfortunately you couldn't even listen to them either! You spent days and weeks planning your sisters demise, instead of you to equally spend days and weeks planning how to solve it intelligently you vomited everything at once and came back to cry and wail about your daughter whom you should have thought about in the first place. If you like you can keep insulting me, it doesn't mean that all I have predicted from the beginning did not come to pass. You are not smart, that's your problem. Wise up! Anyway, let me release you. I don't want you to be late for your hot night sex hahaha please greet baba for us  6 Likes |
| Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by midnighter(f): 11:55pm On Jan 15, 2020 |
Ifyjos: Hahaha can't I beg you Is begging a crime? Let me beg my beg in peace now, at least it's better than being a condemned building that has been marked for demolition like some people  1 Like |
| Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 11:56pm On Jan 15, 2020 |
He may be a drunkard , peodophile , smoker and car washer but he is doing so much better than you I don’t know if you are a man or woman because I can’t tell from your profile but just know that he is responsible he doesn’t waste his time on social media like u are doing judging others people and you are insulting as if you will get a salary from it look at this good for nothing woman/Man U have nothing better to do go look for a job and hustle hard to have a salary at the end of the month because judging people won’t put food on your table or pay your rent. Yes let me keep deceiving myself I like it that way even if he left me ( god forbid) u will never see me at your compound begging you for food or money so stop taking Paracetamol for my headache CeterisXVII: |
| Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 12:02am On Jan 16, 2020 |
Yes begging is a crime and it’s for lazy People like you who has turned Facebook into begging instead of going out and hustle , yeah continue your begging no body is stopping you and let me continue with my handsome husband to be the man of my youth anyway let me go to bed to sastify my crown instead of me wasting a time with a facebook beggar and single person like you no boyfriend no child and you will go on Facebook please admin hide my identity please pray for me for marital settlement all My younger siblings are married I want to marry this year hahahaha that’s how u will be sending hide my id every year for prayer request for marital settlement till u reached 50 no husband no child midnighter: |
| Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by midnighter(f): 12:07am On Jan 16, 2020 |
CeterisXVII: Lmao what are you saying na, she said she doesn't need Mrs people wey dey answer Mrs dey facebook dey beg N100Anyway I agree with her on that one because Mrs is not even her problem right now hahaha Smoking and drinking money that cannot be gathered to pay for daughters school fees, you think it can get to even one small stout on your head? Anyway I told you people this girl is just a scientific experiment sent from the government to make us forget the excesses of Buhari and Co. She is not real 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by midnighter(f): 12:30am On Jan 16, 2020 |
Ifyjos: Lmao but 2 of us don't have any husband now, are we not supposed to be joining ourselves in prayer... I swear this is the funniest conversation of 2020 How can a concubine for life be bashing me for being single, is it not the difference between killing myself and suicide? Don't you think you should pity your single sister and dash me some of the drinking money? Hahaha I can't stop laughing 3 Likes |
| Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by kaziblake(f): 5:11am On Jan 16, 2020 |
Ifyjos:Family is everything. Let me tell you something, the way you present your family that is the way your Guy will take you. 5 Likes |
| Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by CeterisXVII: 5:18am On Jan 16, 2020 |
Ifyjos: 3 Likes
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| Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 6:38am On Jan 16, 2020 |
Michellekabod2:that I defend women a lot does not mean I defend stupidity. Besides, you do the same thing all the time. 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 6:46am On Jan 16, 2020 |
Ifyjos: Hmm, their reactions aren't surprising, but don't expect life to be like an African magic movie. Things less than what you did have caused permanent rift between families. Anyhoo!! Be prepared for the eventuality that some of your family members may never forgive you, or want nothing to do with you. But you need help, see a psychologist after all these. You and your elder sister may need therapy. 2 Likes |
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