Emmasnoop:







THEM not even one, oloburuku.

Small080:
Make sure you learn how to respect your husband, his friends and the family members

Make sure you know how to support him physically and financially..

Make sure you can fight for him when he is there or not

Make sure you're brilliant, no man need a fool as a wife

Make sure you're good on bed.... Men need sex doll at times

Make sure you don't marry him because of his pocket

Make sure he real food is clean that p***y

lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌

koyyes:
Sorry, they do not exist in the sh1t hole.
Only apes exist there.

Man like mike of bbn was born and bred outside of the dark cursed continent.

They plenty for obodo oyibo burku burku. My future kids will be born and bred there and they will all marry Caucasians.

Vortex369:
13) Do not settle down with a man, settle down with a fellow woman.

Cos Alpha Males are not for your types.

Idiots.

booscy:
And that's for the ladies, what about Men abi is marriage now one-sided ?

Revolva:


Seems you are out of ur senses abi

So you promote lesbianism now

Pussywar:

"Bitch" "single mum" "divorced" all your attempts to insult because you're lacking. Shame.

lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌

Chommieblaq:
why are Nairaland guys getting hyper? The list isn't saying the man should be rich, handsome, six packs or eat out always, there's is nothing unrealistic about the list, except you guys are saying that being decent is unrealistic.

Well, it also go both ways, we should alwys go for decent people irrespective of the sex.

We need to really do better in raising our kids, it's just a pity that being decent is seen as an uphill task.

Geminita1:
African men are embarrassing. While their mates are gaining grounds in science and technology, all they do is blame the govt and blame us. They never take responsibility for anything. I shudder at the thought of marrying one,bunch of sad misogynists, tueh.

Vortex369:
13) Do not settle down with a man, settle down with a fellow woman.

Cos Alpha Males are not for your types.

Idiots.

simplepee:
Make sure you settle for a man who doesn't cum in 20 seconds----very important something.


Make sure you settle for a man who is not always broke-----‐It's 'importanter'.

Don't settle for a man who will calculate and drag change with you for the money he gave for pot of soup.

Don't settle for a man who will be asking for his share from the money they gifted you.

Most importantly, don't settle down with a lazy Nigerian youth or a yahoo boy.

And pleeeeaaasse make sure you settle for a MAN not a BOY...

Dupalmer:
This type of post is the reason why a whole lot of ladies are insolent, obnoxious and only good for bedmatics then remain very single because all the men that come their way will not be be able to keep to her impossible high standards. They will only pretend for a while and have a full share of her body and leave her heartbroken to continue her search for Mr.Jesus Christ. While she's getting older and less appealing. Her exes are going for younger sweet damsels to her chagrin.

Single ladies you better be wise. There's no 100percent rosy marriage. Get into marriage and make it work. Ask our our mothers how they did it. Their formula for marriage still works till tomorrow. Even though I agree that the effort should come from both husband and wife but your commitment as the mother of the house is very important in shaping the home.

The stupid current trend of feminism is the reason for the very high rate of present day marital failures. In most cases its the ladies that take the greater loss.

It's 100times easier for a man to marry and remarry several times whether as divorcee or polygamist than for a lady to marry even once. (hard fact)

We are Africans for Christ's sake not whites.
I repeat single ladies be wise.

lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌

simplepee:
Make sure you settle for a man who doesn't cum in 20 seconds----very important something.


Make sure you settle for a man who is not always broke-----‐It's 'importanter'.

Don't settle for a man who will calculate and drag change with you for the money he gave for pot of soup.

Don't settle for a man who will be asking for his share from the money they gifted you.

Most importantly, don't settle down with a lazy Nigerian youth or a yahoo boy.

And pleeeeaaasse make sure you settle for a MAN not a BOY...

PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas.

Pussywar:

You're so dumb, you don't realise it. So its men who don't betray each other? And in which world is betrayal worst that rape? And you want to compare the number of men that rape/ harass to the number of women who do same?? Mind you I don't give a fok whether you like feminism or not. The fok

pocohantas:
Nice threads for the ladies,

But then, the male retards running amok in the section couldn't wait to hijack it.