lexy2014:


How many are they and are u still dating them?

showafrica:


Dating many men before marriage is absurd.

Biafrareform:
.

So why are you still single .

What exactly are you looking for?.

Ohhh, opp, didn't mention make sure you marry a man who is very rich

missimelda01:
Me too, these things should come naturally when you're with a reasonable man.

ultimate77:


Why are you still single? Anything you want to let us know?

NOETHNICITY:
And how many have you dated?

Geesaintagape:

Hope are not still single cos they may never come ur way again

Roon9:



And you still left them

SouthSouth1914:


So you want to keep dating until you fall into the one who doesn’t fall into this category? Aunty shift abeg..

Most ladies be bringing list as if they have anything to offer other than their bodies and empty brain!

phr0nesis:

So what made you leave them

BadRadio:
u dated loafers. y??

PrimadonnaO:



Let’s see... first one - boyfriend from school, relationship got strained because of distance, second was a cheat... third - genotype issues.

PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who is deficient in any of those 10 areas.

donbachi:
She should make sure,to understand sey,no be everytime money dey dey with man....and also make sure to hold her rubberband mouth,2 of dem no be mate.

BadRadio:
after settling-up whoring her cunt to the world, the little bitch decides to settle-down.

lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌

booscy:
And that's for the ladies, what about Men abi is marriage now one-sided ?

donbachi:
She should make sure,to understand sey,no be everytime money dey dey with man....and also make sure to hold her rubberband mouth,2 of dem no be mate.

OnPointMan:
Funniest thing is, OP might still be single

pansophist:
In as much that I agree with the poster, it can not be ignored that by default, women are convinced in their own perfection, and see men as the only gender that needs adjustment, meet certain rules, be man enough and to be an awesome partner.

Having said that, I await the day women here starts advising other women on how they can be perfect partners to their man, such as, but not limited to, equally co-financing household subsistence, not withholding/weaponizing sex, not being a manipulator, and seeing him as a human wallet, not using the kids against him, to name a few. Furthermore, women should Begin cautioning their fellow women to curtail their predisposition to "sex for cash".

Particularly in Nigeria, the upsurge of unregistered "one-woman business" locally known as oloshos has reach an alarming level, that it fears me deeply that finding a virtuous woman for the next generations will be an almost impossible task. So far, nairaland women are not writing articles about it. Right now, I'm chilling at farm city in lekki, and the number of "business women" inshore and onshore are almost uncountable.

I cant even turn my head to a 180 degree without the ladies desperately hoping that I call them to my table, flex them, take home, to ejaculate and evacuate with my money of course.. It is sickened that even if these women accuse men of sexually objectifying them, they actually and wilfully objectify themselves for cash, and that is how they role. This is not the Nigeria I know of 10 years ago, and it will get worse.

So ladies, what is good for Ada, is also good for Adamu. I'll like to see nairaland women writing articles on how they can be a better woman, that they should not just show-up, but show-up with something, that they should not be Jezebel, but be the kind of women their mothers are, so we can all make society great again.

Pansophist.

Ryan03:
so these are the only kind of ladies around you? Your female relatives must be in this lot

Dupalmer:
This type of post is the reason why a whole lot of ladies are insolent, obnoxious and only good for bedmatics then remain very single because all the men that come their way will not be be able to keep to her impossible high standards. They will only pretend for a while and have a full share of her body and leave her heartbroken to continue her search for Mr.Jesus Christ. While she's getting older and less appealing. Her exes are going for younger sweet damsels to her chagrin.

Single ladies you better be wise. There's no 100percent rosy marriage. Get into marriage and make it work. Ask our our mothers how they did it. Their formula for marriage still works till tomorrow. Even though I agree that the effort should come from both husband and wife but your commitment as the mother of the house is very important in shaping the home.

The stupid current trend of feminism is the reason for the very high rate of present day marital failures. In most cases its the ladies that take the greater loss.

It's 100times easier for a man to marry and remarry several times whether as divorcee or polygamist than for a lady to marry even once. (hard fact)

We are Africans for Christ's sake not whites.
I repeat single ladies be wise.

Osisiye:


So now you are coming here to act like a victim after you asked if I was high? I was responding to the guy who made the ”thumped” comment.

PrimadonnaO:


Let’s see... first one - boyfriend from school, relationship got strained because of distance, second was a cheat... third - genotype issues.

I’m responding because you asked as a reasonable person would.

LesbianBoy:


Kuku stay your papa house! Rubbish!

PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who is deficient in any of those 10 areas.

PreetyAngel4U:


Just because you had to settle for a 'whoring cunt' does not mean every other guy does. Only dogs go for bitches. Real men go for ladies/women. They take their time to know who they decide to spend the rest of their lives with.

PrimadonnaO:


I don’t even know any, let alone dated one.

But I see that you must be a very contemptible person who is unable to help himself. That’s why you’ve chosen to delude yourself that only loafers are capable of being decent human beings. So sorry for you.

PrimadonnaO:


I don’t even know any, let alone dated one.

But I see that you must be a very contemptible person who is unable to help himself. That’s why you’ve chosen to delude yourself that only loafers are capable of being decent human beings. So sorry for you.

Dupalmer:
This type of post is the reason why a whole lot of ladies are insolent, obnoxious and only good for bedmatics then remain very single because all the men that come their way will not be be able to keep to her impossible high standards. They will only pretend for a while and have a full share of her body and leave her heartbroken to continue her search for Mr.Jesus Christ. While she's getting older and less appealing. Her exes are going for younger sweet damsels to her chagrin.

Single ladies you better be wise. There's no 100percent rosy marriage. Get into marriage and make it work. Ask our our mothers how they did it. Their formula for marriage still works till tomorrow. Even though I agree that the effort should come from both husband and wife but your commitment as the mother of the house is very important in shaping the home.

The stupid current trend of feminism is the reason for the very high rate of present day marital failures. In most cases its the ladies that take the greater loss.

It's 100times easier for a man to marry and remarry several times whether as divorcee or polygamist than for a lady to marry even once. (hard fact)

We are Africans for Christ's sake not whites.
I repeat single ladies be wise.

asatemple:
maybe you will put it on my daughter’s finger