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Re: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by Americanboy35: 6:51pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
Well, not marry yet, but i pray to find my Godsend soulmate when the time comes |
Re: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by victorian(f): 6:53pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
godblessuyirich: Wow! 11years! ![]() And youve been the one taking care of a full grown man! Na wa o In the past i use to date broke ,poor or hustling guys .i almost made a terrible mistake marrying one ,but my eyes cleared when i asked him a simple question a day before meeting his dad . I asked , honey if im broke tomorrow , will u help and assist me with money? This is a guy ,i always stock up his fridge with lots of nigerian and foreign provisions including meats and Chicken. I always want to make sure any guy i date at least look fresh like me . This is a guy i will use my own money to cook pot of soups and stew. Guess his reply? The fool said but Babe how can i run broke? Ha! No o , i should stop such jokes . A whole Ceo, broke ke? Its impossible . I looked at this guy with shock. Then he continued and said his best friend wife bought a jeep for his best friend and the guy is living large , and envy to all of them who are his friends and he was expecting i wil buy him a car , attached to the full wardrobe of clothes and shoes i promised him so he can match my level . Cause i always say he doesnt dress rich . Mehn! That was the end of that relationship. I told him point blank , its over . Go look for another rich maga to marry. Can u imagine ? I rather remain single for life! Than marry a man i wil.be dashing money to all the rest of my life or taking care of his life style.. If a man is not rich dont fucvking come near me ! Dont even look at my direction, abeg! You are really trying and God will keep blessing you , and open more doors of prosperity for u in Jesus name.amen. Hes doing himself o. 4 Likes |
Re: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by SlayerForever: 7:03pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
godblessuyirich: Mhennn sorry about that o. God is not asleep. |
Re: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by hermesprogidy(m): 7:05pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
Is the OP married? ![]() |
Re: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by Rozaytee: 7:09pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
KingSatan:Awwwwwwn ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by Queenserah26(f): 7:11pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
Not married but i hope so ![]() |
Re: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by Viconuelle: 7:12pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
YES! YES!! YES!!!. |
Re: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by morpheus24: 7:19pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
godblessuyirich: Have you confronted your husband to tell him that you feel like a fool for all these things you are complaining about. Most women behave exactly the same in most marriages. They harbor a lot of anger, resentment without expressing this to the man then one day they up and leave with the man bewildered about what just happened. Financial problems after infidelity is the number 2 cause of marriage breakups. When a woman no longer sees the future potential of a spouse it begins to dawn on her and regret sets in as the hard wiring of females is to see men as providers, comforters and protectors. This your marriage my dear is conditional contract you are living. You say you want to find true love. If you leave your husband that is not guaranteed either. It could become worse or better of you. Is this a gamble you are willing to take? Remember, It takes two to tango and this problem is something that has two sides to the story. Reflect on yourself as well and see where your short comings emanate from, what past experiences are influencing your decisions and what kind of expectations you have. Woman up, tell your husband your feelings, lay it all down and see where the chips may fall but again you are a woman my advice will fall on deaf ears and I am about 90% sure you will not do what I just said. You will stay because of the kids and continue to suffer in silence. Na una nature! 2 Likes |
Re: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by ImaIma1(f): 7:36pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
BlackSwan: Obviously this turned out to be a bad investment. Not all men are worth struggling with. I pray that there will be light at the end of the tunnel for you. |
Re: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by Fisher007: 7:37pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
ImaIma1: Nope it is just everyone is painting a perfect picture of marriage which we all know is a lie. The rate of infidelity from mostly married people is disgusting to me, and both.husband and wife are aware. But you all come online and fool the young ones with.sweet.happy ending story. Misery loves company. Keep fooling those willing to buy your stories. When they marry finish una go dey look them talk say go.back and fix it. |
Re: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by Nobody: 7:52pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
midnighter: Cynic? I prefer... Realist. |
Re: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by Isnow: 8:03pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
KingSatan: l love this...God bless ur marriage...u will live up yo ur golden jubilee |
Re: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by Rosarie(f): 8:08pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
Yes!yes!yes |
Re: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by emecheboy2(m): 8:11pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
YES |
Re: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by Babygal2020(f): 8:13pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
ImaIma1:Marriage isn't a bed of roses. It entails love, understanding, forgiveness and ability to overlook some things. |
Re: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by ACE1010: 8:28pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
Yeah of course, my spouse died over 2 years ago, if I have the opportunity of meeting her again, I will propose without blinking.....one can hardly find her type...im still looking for the right words to describe her... I missed her so much ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by ImaIma1(f): 8:29pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
godblessuyirich: Guys will not understand when ladies say they cannot marry a "broke" guy. They only align with ladies that want to "grow with" a struggling guy. I pray everything turns out well for you. |
Re: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by ImaIma1(f): 8:33pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
Babygal2020: Who said it was. Even siblings fight but they still love each other. The fact there are disagreements in marriage doesn't mean it's not a happy one. Some people here don't want to see people say they are enjoying their marriages. Not every story will be a sad one 1 Like |
Re: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by Heavance(m): 8:33pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
KingSatan:Learning.... You just typed (spoke) words that went directly into my soul |
Re: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by Tapout(m): 8:35pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
cococandy: Lol.. ![]() |
Re: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by Explorece: 8:37pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
KingSatan: @d bolded..u rili disappointed me sir with that word, no matter what such shouldn't come out of one's mouth....so sir do u think when d real chips of life is down..do u think ur wife will love u than your family....? |
Re: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by ImaIma1(f): 8:40pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
Fisher007: Not all marriages have infidelity issues. Infidelity is not the only issue in marriage. The fact that someone says they are enjoying their marriage and they will marry the person again doesn't mean the marriage is perfect but they live through their problems. Siblings disagree and fight every time but they still love each other. You believe the sad stories without a problem but choose to question the good ones. If you think I am fooling anyone, that is your personal problem. Don't let happy marriages pepper your body. You will be fine 2 Likes |
Re: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by Zionchild22: 8:49pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
Am not sure.. |
Re: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by tck2000(m): 8:49pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
Yustash001: 1 Like |
Re: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by Joee2932: 8:49pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
No I won't. 1 Like |
Re: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by morpheus24: 8:55pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
ImaIma1: So all the millions of ladies married to men who do not have the wear with all are all "mumu's" abi or they are just not as sharp as you. Your kind should not get married at all cause its true essence has lost meaning in this generation where everyone is "living their best life" I urge you all to remain baby mamas and single mothers make una no give man heart attack. For those who stand in this sacred institution till the end, I tip my hats off to you. It is not easy to follow the path with the most resistance. 1 Like |
Re: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by Annstar(f): 8:59pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
Mouthgag:I'm not the reason for ur frustrations� |
Re: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by Nobody: 9:00pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
It is only those who have stayed 10+years married that have the authority to speak on this matter.it is only those who have experienced hardship and ease and are still married that can talk 2 Likes |
Re: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by realtalk19: 9:09pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
biggy26: It's a long,complicated story.its my past already.am in the future now.av moved on. |
Re: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by Vyolet(f): 9:09pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
LINTUNE:If the women that brag about their husbands are hypocritical, what about men that brag about their wives? Are they also saying it to pepper single guy's? I don't understand why you guys can't just be happy for others and move on with your lives. 2 Likes |
Re: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by Nobody: 9:12pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
Yes I would ![]() 1 Like |
Re: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by Nobody: 9:13pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
Capital letter No No No for me. The worst mistakes I ever made. She’s devil, if not even worst than the devil itself |
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