Arthur21:
you are a female with this moniker. You opened this moniker to troll ubunja so no one who call you a desperate lady. Your moniker dig-my-gold says it all

thats why i said he curses like a woman.. its either this moniker is handled by a woman or the guy is gay.. too
Much feminine vibe coming from him.... i wouldn't waste much time on him/her... clearly this movement is hurting alot of people... they aren't happy about it

I think it's because more people are realising marriage isn't for everyone and there's an increasing growing community of child-free people too. Most people get married to have kids.

Apart from having sex and giving birth....watin dey inside this marriage again.....make we enjoy our life who marriage help!

ubunja:
go read up on her history and family life. Then comment after knowing a little more about her.

OK,was just inquiring, don't know about her

oodua1stson:
good decision, my brother. You will progress faster and also be free. But if you find a veeerrrrryyyyyyyy good woman then you can give marriage a try

Thought I found one last year but after we lived together for some months I changed my mind

Arthur21:
OK,was just inquiring, don't know about her

yet you are here supporting her. Smh.

I struggle to make my money
I lay down few investment
I struggle to get a girls attention (based on shakara tinz)
I spend heavily just to make her my wife
I spend heavily on my poverty alleviation scheme(base on in-law matter)
I spend on bills on children school fees
She sits at home gisting
U have a Lil financial set-back
She start talking ill about u in front of ur children(poor kids the give out what they are given)
She start praying secretly that u die for her to live like a free bird ...
Left for me marriage na scam, 80% of married men I know stays out late cos of the wife attitude

Malaymoney:
I struggle to make my money
I lay down few investment
I struggle to get a girls attention (based on shakara tinz)
I spend heavily just to make her my wife
I spend heavily on my poverty alleviation scheme(base on in-law matter)
I spend on bills on children school fees
She sits at home gisting
U have a Lil financial set-back
She start talking ill about u in front of ur children(poor kids the give out what they are given)
She start praying secretly that u die for her to live like a free bird ...
Left for me marriage na scam, 80% of married men I know stays out late cos of the wife attitude

lol and some men are happy to quickly rush in

ubunja:
yet you are here supporting her. Smh.

you read right? I just asked a simple question because I know basically nothing of the couple.

Arthur21:
you read right? I just asked a simple question because I know basically nothing of the couple.

alright

Digmygold:


And will die.broke

With all your comments, I have no doubt, you are a female,and you opened this account to troll guys

pocohantas:
Very true,

Men are not interested in marriage,

That is why men spend all day in Romance section complaining of the lack of wife materials.

That is why men create numerous threads on how their gfs broke their hearts.

That is why men insult women who divorce their husbands.

That is why men encourage women to stay put with their cheating abusive husbands.

Finally, that is why men mock unmarried single ladies... One would expect them to encourage this set of women.

Because men are not interested in marriage.

The most senseless contradicting men on this forum must be these red pilling alfa males.

Shoot me when they can come up with a SENSIBLE rebuttal. Toor!

Red Pillers always trend in women's minds

davillian:

Thought I found one last year but after we lived together for some months I changed my mind

lol same here. I got married briefly and later had a girl stat with me. In few months I got tired of her. I mean why should I be tied to just one person? And everything becomes annoying later

oodua1stson:
lol same here. I got married briefly and later had a girl stat with me. In few months I got tired of her. I mean why should I be tied to just one person? And everything becomes annoying later

Lol,
She turned down my social media life
Turned down my normal hanging out with friends
Forced me to be watching African magic
Once I'm back from work I can't go any were

My life became boring
I begin sick

RisenPhoenix:


We are here trying to educate other men on how to get their masculinity back, we are not looking for wife. If we were looking for wives, why are there so many desperate spinsters still on NL?



Those are pussified men that are still not woke. We will wake all men little by little.



We advice women to stay with their husbands FOR THEIR OWN SAKES, and that of the children. If unmarried ladies cannot get husbands, what are the chances of an overused divorcee finding one?



See above.



They are mocked for their misguided belief that they will always be 'hotcake', and the attitude that they show thinking that because men toast them today, they can get a husband anytime they like. Most women do not understand that because a man chases after a woman, it does not necessarily mean that he sees her as an attractive life partner. 99 times out of a 100, he merely sees her as an easy lay for short time relief.



It has started. Many are not, and more are joining. Even those of us who are married mostly stick around for the kids and are totally indifferent to the women we married, doing our own thing and planning our own futures. And one day soon, 50 of you will hold on to a man's cloth offering to buy your own food and upkeep if the man will only let you share his name.



The only contradictions are in your diehard manner of understanding the changing dynamics that feminists have dug themselves into when even your feminist predecessors have seen the light and are abandoning the misandrist ship en masse. Google former feminists like Cassie Jaye, Lorraine Murray and Mary Kenny and LISTEN to what they are telling you. There is a mass awakening among women about sensibly rushing back to the kitchen to retain men in their lives.



Write a sensible comment first.

Superb write up I must say bro

pocohantas:


Na our Naija sisters dey cause all this see-finish na. When person go dey beg upandan for even subscription money, pikin wey them dey pay sch fees for go come online to insult im aunty.

This touched me , truly your sisters in Nigeria fall una hand anyhow

So sad really

pocohantas:


Yes, Nigerian girls could be parasitic. They beg for the simplest of things and I find that very embarrassing. I've had guys who I know are not into juvenile tantrums talk of their experiences, so I know these things happen.

However, some of you have good women in your lives or have met a few - but you never talk of them. Encourage the good ones kwanu! It won't reduce your alfaness.

While I may disagree with some of this ladies points ,you can't take it away from her, she is intelligent though uncouth

ubunja:
wait till you see the mix-up between "being" and "been".

It grinds my gears just like where and were

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MedicH:


Wimpy is not me men u got the wrong guy. I doubt if u strong in mind reach me. Have u ever held a body till it turns cold in death then u leave it and walk away like nothing happened? I am here to relax and have fun and i love my women damn this life is short. just as i love to use my brain cells in all i do. Next time u have nothing to say just lean learn to shut ur mouth and observe.


I do my thing and you do your thing.
I am not in this world to live up to your expectations, And you are not in this world to live up to mine. You are you, and I am I, and if by chance we find each other, it's beautiful. If not, it can't be helped.

I think pocohantas is a great personality i observe her inputs here from a distance i don't even follow her but that doesn't mean im head over heals sort of and even if it is, it's not ur business.

By virtue of the number of years i spent in the uni i can say I've virtually seen and interacted with more women than u but you wont find me come here to bash women and throw in hasty generalizations not minding that my mother and only sister are female because i know better. Majority of what u read here are one sided accounts and some are fictitious but hey no one is perfect.

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Pandering trash I have read in a decade

This comment should be ripped up and tossed in the garbage

Wow

Last time I read something this inane was in junior high

Captain save a H spotted

livebyday:
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Pandering trash I have read in a decade

This comment should be ripped up and tossed in the garbage

Wow

Last time I read something this inane was in junior high

Captain save a H spotted

Now tell me lol what's ur pain? Minimum wage, vat, poisonous air, lack of power or just lack of any sense of responsibility?

livebyday:


It grinds my gears just like where and were

hilarious. What grinds my gears more is the new placement of the apostrophe mark. As in: Thousand's instead of Thousands. When did you we begin to write like this?

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MedicH:



Now tell me lol what's ur pain? Minimum wage, vat, poisonous air, lack of power or just lack of any sense of responsibility?

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You just had to talk didn't you? Do not be deceived and think there is any reality in this universe that we are mental equals..

Learn how to address your betters. You are believing the hype and getting caught up kiddo..

Walk away, don't look back, I am not one of your romance section groupies who likes to converse for the sake of.

Don't quote me again

Cheers

livebyday:
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You just had to talk didn't you? Do not be deceived and think there is any reality in this universe that we are mental equals..

Learn how to address your betters. You are believing the hype and getting caught up kiddo..

Walk away, don't look back, I am not one of your romance section groupies who likes to converse for the sake of.

Don't quote me again

Cheers

I told that fellow to learn how to mind his business as I mind mine and flourish. I'm yet to understand why it's making u angry. You are bitter and I don't know why.

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MedicH:



I told that fellow to learn how to mind his business as I mind mine and flourish. I'm yet to understand why it's making u angry. You are bitter and I don't know why.

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Are you on any sort of medication?

What part of do not quote me again do you not understand?

Are you are recovering addict or something

Read this very slowly

Do not quote me again

Cheers

livebyday:



Are you on any sort of medication?

What part of do not quote me again do you not understand?

Are you are recovering addict or something

Read this very slowly

Do not quote me again

Cheers

You're perpetually empty. Rest son. You have a long long journey ahead of u.

MedicH:


You're perpetually empty. Rest son. You have a long long journey ahead of u.

You seem to want my attention..

Listen kid, using fancy words doesn't make you smart neither does acting all angst filled make you woke.

You are violating rules 2 here if you quote me again despite my asking you not to several times

We can not ever have anything to talk about, so please kindly do not quote me again... Bro!

Cheers

. As a guy use ur car do uber small,,u go know say naija women no get manners even d married ones go make u pity their husbands,,,marriage na scam

drmikeadams:
. As a guy use ur car do uber small,,u go know say naija women no get manners even d married ones go make u pity their husbands,,,marriage na scam

lol I've heard some horrible stories from some uber drivers

Jewessgratitude:



You guys should speak for yourselfs.
I don't know why you're making it look like its a taboo for an eligible spinster to be on the lookout for a man to marry. Should I be looking out for a woman? Or cant you see you're beginning to sound off?

The fact that majority of you are here to flirt away your lives doesn't mean there no decent men out there who still have sense and understand God's purpose for their lives to marry and obtain His blessings.

If we check those of you always coming here to bash women, youll likely be all these dry looking men we avoid in real life. Yes! So what's the boast about? Na una type?

You have a point too.but the guys also have there point..u might be different from other ladies but most ladies are worst..please don't feel bad.and don't make this change the kind of person dt u r

oodua1stson:
lol same here. I got married briefly and later had a girl stat with me. In few months I got tired of her. I mean why should I be tied to just one person? And everything becomes annoying later

lol....I can understand yr bitterness now

engrelvis:
lol....I can understand yr bitterness now

bitterness? Over what exactly? Not being married or what cos I've been there done that. It may interest you to know that I still smashed my ex wife couple of times after she left. I pulled the plug when it was affecting my new relationship then.


With what I've been lucky to accomplish I can still smash most of the girls that I desire. So where's the bitterness coming from? More like being thankful for life really

davillian:

Lol,
She turned down my social media life
Turned down my normal hanging out with friends
Forced me to be watching African magic
Once I'm back from work I can't go any were

My life became boring
I begin sick

that's what women do lol. But honestly bro, some girls deserve it. If you are lucky enough to find that girl you should make changes. Sadly, most of these ladies are not worth all that sacrifice