Baba u have to face the music who send u work make u feed the lady. Trap done catch u.

ambassadorgozie:
6th of January 2020 is the day I won’t forget. I work as a personal assistant/secretary to my boss who happens to be a former politician.

My boss came to work with her housemaid for her to help in sweeping, cleaning and tidying up the office being the resumption day. She instructed us on how to go about it before she stepped out from the office promising to come back in the afternoon.

We started the work immediately until afternoon time when I decided to rest and eat. While eating I beckoned the grown up housemaid to come and eat or at least rest before she continues the cleaning but she declined. After like an hour, I told her to rest small, she declined yet again. This prompted me to go close to her in order to convince her to eat something or rest.

My worst mistake and nightmare was attempting to put my hand on her shoulder in my stupid bid to convince her. Immediately my hand touched her shoulder she started shouting continuously that I want to rape her, that she will deal with me; in fact that I will get sacked. At first I told her my intention, but she wouldn’t hear me, I then resorted to pleading, I even knelt down begging her that it wasn’t my intention to rape or grab her. She couldn’t stand my talks and pleading, she called the boss immediately telling her that I want to rape her. We narrated everything to the boss, (a lawyer), when she returned. After hearing from us she said she has stayed with her maid for couple of years, thus she trust her, and it may be true that I wanted to rape her or lure her for sex. She couldn’t see my explanation, pleadings and even crying. She said she has two options; either to call police for me or to sack me. That’s how she later sacked me that day


I have been devastated and depressed since that day, not because of the sack but the allegation and accusation that was not even on my mind. The worst is that as an introvert I have no one to talk to, I am damn down.

Notes: 1. I have no intention of raping, grabbing or having sex with her
2. I will not be so stupid to rape or have sex with the housemaid in the office knowing that the boss will come at any time
3. I have not raped anyone or plan to do so in the future because I know is morally and legally wrong.

You being in introvert would have been more reason for you to keep to yourself after the girl refuse every offer you made to her. What now prompt you to go near her? Let alone touch her? Oga thank your God say the woman just relieved you of your work jejely over Sabi ABI na over caring na worry you. So carry touchlight and candle go find another work. And try mind your business if you nor want toast girl.
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ideabuilder:
Next time bros defend yourself. Don't beg. Only if you knew what begging means to lawyer. It means you admit your guilt.

If you have nothing to hide, You should have chose police station option instead of sack and pursue your case.

God knows I can go to jail to prove my innocence.

Bros there is no proving his innocence here, any body would stand on the girl's side on this case

Innocence is in the mind, action is the result

He asked her to rest, she refused

After an hour, he asked her to rest again, she refused AGAIN!!!

Then he stood up, from where HE was resting and eating while she was minding her business, then he went close to her(why), then he put his hand on her shoulder(who send am, for what reason, is she his girlfriend/wife, if she no eat how e take affect am)

Is that how you walk around putting your hands on every opposite sex's shoulder even when you barely know each other

For crying out loud, she is a girl, they were alone, they are not friends according to his story, women are more fragile than men, he could overpower her.

What if he went beyond her shoulder, women bress no far from their should ohh

I would raise concerns against you if you came close to my daughter and put your hand on her shoulder even after she refused your advances several times

His continued intentions after "shoulder touching" are still only known to him alone while his actions has made a statement


I get at least five female workers, I dey fear to dey alone with them, when one was in my office, I purposely tried to leave the office door open so all cld see and I dey quick quick dismiss long talk

Guy u b rapist

Na force say d girl go rest

You had no business being cozy with the help in an official environment mostly

You encouraged her to rest and eat and she declined. She have ended there.

You still went ahead to touch her!

Forgetting that you guys were alone there.
Moreover, she's a maid who must have been taken advantage of severally before
Also your boss is a woman and a lawyer, naturally predisposed to protecting a fellow woman.

To make it worse, you were begging, even texting that you were sorry for "your act?" What act? Begging that what?
If I was in your shoes, I'd be angry and very upset. I'd change it for even my boss.

Everything implicates you, at least if there was no attempted rape, you intended to have sex with her sooner or later.

Next time, be more careful and intentional around the opposite gender. You're lucky it didn't land you in jail.

ambassadorgozie:
6th of January 2020 is the day I won’t forget. I work as a personal assistant/secretary to my boss who happens to be a former politician.

My boss came to work with her housemaid for her to help in sweeping, cleaning and tidying up the office being the resumption day. She instructed us on how to go about it before she stepped out from the office promising to come back in the afternoon.

We started the work immediately until afternoon time when I decided to rest and eat. While eating I beckoned the grown up housemaid to come and eat or at least rest before she continues the cleaning but she declined. After like an hour, I told her to rest small, she declined yet again. This prompted me to go close to her in order to convince her to eat something or rest.

My worst mistake and nightmare was attempting to put my hand on her shoulder in my stupid bid to convince her. Immediately my hand touched her shoulder she started shouting continuously that I want to rape her, that she will deal with me; in fact that I will get sacked. At first I told her my intention, but she wouldn’t hear me, I then resorted to pleading, I even knelt down begging her that it wasn’t my intention to rape or grab her. She couldn’t stand my talks and pleading, she called the boss immediately telling her that I want to rape her. We narrated everything to the boss, (a lawyer), when she returned. After hearing from us she said she has stayed with her maid for couple of years, thus she trust her, and it may be true that I wanted to rape her or lure her for sex. She couldn’t see my explanation, pleadings and even crying. She said she has two options; either to call police for me or to sack me. That’s how she later sacked me that day.

I have been devastated and depressed since that day, not because of the sack but the allegation and accusation that was not even on my mind. The worst is that as an introvert I have no one to talk to, I am damn down.

Notes: 1. I have no intention of raping, grabbing or having sex with her
2. I will not be so stupid to rape or have sex with the housemaid in the office knowing that the boss will come at any time
3. I have not raped anyone or plan to do so in the future because I know is morally and legally wrong.

First, stop telling people you are an introvert, because an introvert find it very difficult to even start conversation with strangers.


I was an introvert while growing up, and I rarely talked to people, even my siblings, only my immediate elder bro and the one before him I talk and play with a lot then.....I don't keep friends, even my cousins don't like me much back then because I rarely talked to them or contribute in any conversation.

Back then too, I disliked women, a girl dare not come close to me talk more of raising a conversation with me because it irritates me and I was a known snub that girls in school hated me for it, saying I am too proud and arrogant and feeling like my father owned the world when my dad was not even close to rich, just an ordinary civil servant, this is how introverts behave. So stop calling yourself an introvert that go about forcing strange girls to talk with you and even tried to force your hands around her shoulder in an office, for what na If I am your boss and I catch you doing that with your female colleague, I will sack you of course!

But then, the girl is an evil girl, move on, if you are innocent or even guilty and apologized to her right there before your boss returned, she ought to have forgave you, but for her to be stone-hearted, don't worry, she will get her reward from nature, don't fight it, let it go, she will remember what she did to you when her reward comes.

Another advice from me to you is....never you apologize to anybody when you are not in the wrong. You ought to have shouted at the maid when she became serious with the rape accusation, and threatened her that the gods you serve (amadioha, sango, oranmiyan, etc) will strike her dead if she dare report you when you did not rape her, threaten her that if she dare it, that you are giving her 7 days that she will die mysteriously! That if she dare lie against you, that you will invoke the spiritual powers to strike her dead, believe me the evil spirit pushing her then will flee, and she will come back to her senses....and if at that point in your total anger and frustration if you are honest/innocent, and you pronounced curses on her, take it from me, it works like magic......powers (negative and positive) are hanging around the air all the time waiting to be commanded to action, and if you had done this immediately in your despair and heartbreak right there before her, you would have seen or heard wonders happening as we speak. Next time, don't apologize to people that wrong you, it will give them the power to even deal with you more, that's how terrible bad humans are.


Lastly, on your written English, you need to work on it, stop using abbreviations as a professional PA and secretary, it doesn't speak well okay

If you are innocent, you will be vindicated soonest and if your boss call you back, please turn down the offer, don't go back, you won't die, you will get another job....if you are innocent, your boss and the maid will get their reward in varied ways depending on the degree of their atrocities against you, so wipe your tears.


Next time, don't act too friendly with ladies or girls who refuse to be friendly....in fact, be strange to strange women....women have bad spirits hovering around them a lot...most ladies are carrying over anger and frustration and looking for who to pour them on, be careful with how you relate with ladies nowadays if you want to go far as a young man, and when next a girl tells you NO respect her no, be it online or offline. Ladies are irrational and wicked, their mind is made of steel, whenever they want to harm or deal with somebody, they don't remember mercy and that's why when their life want to turn miserable, it always turns so bad too.

All the best

Op your narration has sexual harassment written all over it.

You are not an introvert

The maid looked appealing to you

You grew concerns over her wellbeing

You decided to show you cared

When she declined, you felt rejected

You took it a step further to touch her, if that isn’t flirting I wonder what that is

At that point she deciphered your motive

You are a victim of your intentions

ambassadorgozie:
6th of January 2020 is the day I won’t forget. I work as a personal assistant/secretary to my boss who happens to be a former politician.

My boss came to work with her housemaid for her to help in sweeping, cleaning and tidying up the office being the resumption day. She instructed us on how to go about it before she stepped out from the office promising to come back in the afternoon.

We started the work immediately until afternoon time when I decided to rest and eat. While eating I beckoned the grown up housemaid to come and eat or at least rest before she continues the cleaning but she declined. After like an hour, I told her to rest small, she declined yet again. This prompted me to go close to her in order to convince her to eat something or rest.

My worst mistake and nightmare was attempting to put my hand on her shoulder in my stupid bid to convince her. Immediately my hand touched her shoulder she started shouting continuously that I want to rape her, that she will deal with me; in fact that I will get sacked. At first I told her my intention, but she wouldn’t hear me, I then resorted to pleading, I even knelt down begging her that it wasn’t my intention to rape or grab her. She couldn’t stand my talks and pleading, she called the boss immediately telling her that I want to rape her. We narrated everything to the boss, (a lawyer), when she returned. After hearing from us she said she has stayed with her maid for couple of years, thus she trust her, and it may be true that I wanted to rape her or lure her for sex. She couldn’t see my explanation, pleadings and even crying. She said she has two options; either to call police for me or to sack me. That’s how she later sacked me that day.

I have been devastated and depressed since that day, not because of the sack but the allegation and accusation that was not even on my mind. The worst is that as an introvert I have no one to talk to, I am damn down.

Notes: 1. I have no intention of raping, grabbing or having sex with her
2. I will not be so stupid to rape or have sex with the housemaid in the office knowing that the boss will come at any time
3. I have not raped anyone or plan to do so in the future because I know is morally and legally wrong.

Go chop and rest, no a no dey chop and a no dey rest...

what is soo hard in understanding her?? must u go as far as laying ur hand on her?? for what biko??

na wetin eye dey find eye dey see oo, am sorry for ur predicament but this will serve as a lesson for u. DONT EVER AGAIN OVERDO THINGS IN OTHER TO LOOK/SOUND LKKE A MESSIAH.

you have told someone first and second time and she said she's not interested, den live her and face ur work, must u touch her?? na person wey him work jo reach or wey dey stylishly find something dey do like dat o.

Shey you people dey claim say we northerners no tear eye ba, see how tear eye carry you go depressed land. The girl has every right to say that you want to rape her. Why grab someone you just met that day by the shoulder.

Nobody will believe your story. Next time, just stay as an introvert. No do pass ur level

ambassadorgozie:


hav learnt my lesson d hard way,
was being considerate

but wetin concern you with if she rests or not, to the level you touched her. Bro you're a suspect. The maid didn't accuse you wrongly. I think you put her in a situation which made her fear of being raped take advantage of her.

you were setup!!!!

ambassadorgozie:
6th of January 2020 is the day I won’t forget. I work as a personal assistant/secretary to my boss who happens to be a former politician.

My boss came to work with her housemaid for her to help in sweeping, cleaning and tidying up the office being the resumption day. She instructed us on how to go about it before she stepped out from the office promising to come back in the afternoon.

We started the work immediately until afternoon time when I decided to rest and eat. While eating I beckoned the grown up housemaid to come and eat or at least rest before she continues the cleaning but she declined. After like an hour, I told her to rest small, she declined yet again. This prompted me to go close to her in order to convince her to eat something or rest.

My worst mistake and nightmare was attempting to put my hand on her shoulder in my stupid bid to convince her. Immediately[b] my hand touched her shoulder[/b] she started shouting continuously that I want to rape her, that she will deal with me; in fact that I will get sacked. At first I told her my intention, but she wouldn’t hear me, I then resorted to pleading, I even knelt down begging her that it wasn’t my intention to rape or grab her. She couldn’t stand my talks and pleading, she called the boss immediately telling her that I want to rape her. We narrated everything to the boss, (a lawyer), when she returned. After hearing from us she said she has stayed with her maid for couple of years, thus she trust her, and it may be true that I wanted to rape her or lure her for sex. She couldn’t see my explanation, pleadings and even crying. She said she has two options; either to call police for me or to sack me. That’s how she later sacked me that day.

That was a very inappropriate behavior. I would fire you too without hesitation.

zzbrodah:
You wanted to try,if not, why would you say you wanted to convince her to eat or rest by touching her low waist.

Wetin be your own if she dey hungry.na ya daughter? Mumu kill u

This is how false accusations start o. The guy said he touched her shoulder, and it has been repeated severally on this thread. But you are accusing him of touching her waist. I pray you don't get this sort of accusations.

She didn't do well.

But this is a lesson to those guys that are quick at holding and touching a lady. I can so detest that, it's irritating. You want to greet a guy, esp., those overgrown babies, next thing is to touch you, hold you, or hug you.

Another lesson, especially to guys too. Stop persisting a lady to do some things, or answer some questions. When a lady says "NO", no try to know why, allow her biko.

O.P must be stupid. Issit your hungry. Someone refused to eat and you wanted to male it mandatory, and even went as far as touching abody. No doubt you would never insist of it was a guy.

czarr:
Wetin carry your hand go her shoulder ...i no trust you guy

Don't say so oga I had a similar and bitter experience too
Girl was walking on d street with ear phones in her ear
Car was approaching
Tap her to look her back car is coming
Next time hmmmm
She grab me on my shirt
Start rolling on d ground
Dat I have stolen her phone
I was speechless
People started gathering
U know next
What save me was Dat she didn't know I stayed in dat area so a lot of bad boys know me
They touch her pocket her phone was der
D rest of d story leave u to imagine what next sha

Believe the Op at your own peril. What's your business that you wanted to force her to eat? Who goes around touching people just to make them eat? You attempted, may be just to get intimate with her, not knowing she wasn't feeling you.
That is a lesson to all of you that go about touching people indecently.

ambassadorgozie:
6th of January 2020 is the day I won’t forget. I work as a personal assistant/secretary to my boss who happens to be a former politician.

My boss came to work with her housemaid for her to help in sweeping, cleaning and tidying up the office being the resumption day. She instructed us on how to go about it before she stepped out from the office promising to come back in the afternoon.

We started the work immediately until afternoon time when I decided to rest and eat. While eating I beckoned the grown up housemaid to come and eat or at least rest before she continues the cleaning but she declined. After like an hour, I told her to rest small, she declined yet again. This prompted me to go close to her in order to convince her to eat something or rest.

My worst mistake and nightmare was attempting to put my hand on her shoulder in my stupid bid to convince her. Immediately my hand touched her shoulder she started shouting continuously that I want to rape her, that she will deal with me; in fact that I will get sacked. At first I told her my intention, but she wouldn’t hear me, I then resorted to pleading, I even knelt down begging her that it wasn’t my intention to rape or grab her. She couldn’t stand my talks and pleading, she called the boss immediately telling her that I want to rape her. We narrated everything to the boss, (a lawyer), when she returned. After hearing from us she said she has stayed with her maid for couple of years, thus she trust her, and it may be true that I wanted to rape her or lure her for sex. She couldn’t see my explanation, pleadings and even crying. She said she has two options; either to call police for me or to sack me. That’s how she later sacked me that day.

I have been devastated and depressed since that day, not because of the sack but the allegation and accusation that was not even on my mind. The worst is that as an introvert I have no one to talk to, I am damn down.

Notes: 1. I have no intention of raping, grabbing or having sex with her
2. I will not be so stupid to rape or have sex with the housemaid in the office knowing that the boss will come at any time
3. I have not raped anyone or plan to do so in the future because I know is morally and legally wrong.

Cchuks27:


Very true. If he was confident in his argument he wouldn't have chosen to resign.

see this man, knowing the risk of jail term. Bro his small narration all odds are against him if a case should happen

ambassadorgozie:
I later begged my boss on WhatsApp but all no avail

Your message is not strong enough to acquit you. And, you didn't disappoint the woman in the first place, unless you had the intention of raping the maid truly.


See this:


"Ma, all my life, I have always worked to protect my integrity. This is important to me, for it is from it that I derive joy and pride. I did not and do not have evil, devilish intention (not even as grave as sexual assault) towards your maid; for that was never my way of life and I never pray it does!

The mistake I made, Ma, was that I tried to take a "good gesture' too far! I went too far out of my way to show hands of care! But I was only moved to care and assist a person I was meeting for the first time.

Although I don't know the lady's experience: she might have had a 'rape' or a 'near-rape' experience in the hand of somebody who first showed normal care as I did before, and that might have prompted her to act the way she did. I think that might have resulted in her feeling of insecurity and paranoia as I see it to be.

I know that in life, things happen. I have taken her reaction to my innocent gesture in good fate, and I have learnt to adjust in my relating and interacting with people. But, ma, I wanted to clarify: it is not in my thought, let alone my intention, to assault her, either sexually or in any other form. Despite all that occurred, I leave her with my best wishes. I wish her best in life.

I still remain my faithful self,
Your Name."


This is powerful than what you sent her. But, listen, if you truly had the intention fulfilling your bodily lust on her, just own up and let the matter sleep.

Which kain persuasion to eat and rest be that, that you have to go closer and touch?. I feel u wanted to shot your shoot, but you shot your feet, if truly you didnt mean to. Move on and know boundaries.

This to me sounds like a set up and the guy fall yakata
the boss wanted to sack you without having to pay the usual three months in lieu or whatever your contract stipulates.

blaze7x:
Some years back i came back from work early which was quite unusual back then and there was no light. so i strolled around my new neighborhood which was a developing area with zero commercial activities, i was so carried away in my thought to the extent that i didn't know i had covered a long distance and it was dusk, i quickly turned back to go home, on my way back i saw some children waving at me and calling me uncle. i didn't respond, as they started moving towards me i took to my heels before somebody will come out and call me kidnapper.
The point is, in this present time one has to be careful, giving thorough thought to all his actions. For me its not logical for you to move close to a lady before you convince her to eat. I just pray God helps you get it resolved

Ehen, u get sense ojere, people should learn from this writing

Those days wey I dey go school around iyana-oba, nah so women go say make u help them cross their children for that highway, omo I dey run ohh, even when I mistakenly obliged sef one or twice, my heart go dey beat fast make e no be say the woman gan kidnap the children, they go just term you useless accomplice

MrBrownJay1:
if this story is true, then you only fell into a trap that was set just to sack you, free of charge!

as for that useless lawyer you call "ex boss", who was quick to believe that you tried to rape her maid, i weep for Nigeria.

Lol weep for Ur thinking first.

If the maid was ur younger sister , will u believe ?

franchasng:
First, stop telling people you are an introvert, because an introvert find it very difficult to even start conversation with strangers.


I was an introvert while growing up, and I don't talk to people, even my siblings, only my immediate elder bro and the one before him I talk and play with a lot.....I don't keep friends, even my cousins don't like me much back then because I rarely talk to them or contribute in any conversation.

Back then too, I disliked women, a girl dare not come close to me talk more of raising a conversation with me because it irritates me and I was a known snub that girls in school hated me for it, saying I am too proud and arrogant and feeling like father owns the world when my dad was not even close to rich, just an ordinary civil servant, this is how introverts behave. So stop calling yourself an introvert that go about forcing strange girls to talk with you and even tried to force your hands around her shoulder in an office, for what na If I am your boss and I catch you doing that with your female colleague, I will sack you of course!

But then, the girl is an evil girl, move on, if you are innocent or even guilty and apologized to her right there before your boss returned, she ought to have forgave you, but for her to be stone-hearted, don't worry, she will get her reward from nature, don't fight it, let it go, she will remember what she did to you when her reward comes.

Another advice from me to you is....never you apologize to anybody when you are not in the wrong. You ought to have shouted on the maid, and threatened her that the gods you serve, amadioha, sango, oranmiyan, etc will strike her dead if she dare report you when you did not rape her, threaten her that if she dare it, that you are giving her 7 days that she will die mysteriously! That if she dare lie against you, that you will invoke the spiritual powers to strike her dead, believe me, she will come back to her senses....and if at that point in your total anger and frustration if you are honest, and you pronounced curses on her, take it from me, it works like magic......powers (negative and positive) are handing around the air waiting to be commanded to action, and if you had done this immediately in your despair and heartbreak right there before her, you would have seen or heard wonders happening as we speak. Next time, don't apologize to people that wrong you, it will give them the power to even deal with you more, that's how terrible bad humans are.


Lastly, on your written English, you need to work on it, stop using abbreviations as a professional PA and secretary, it doesn't speak well okay

If you are innocent, you will be vindicated soonest and if your boss call you back, please turn down the offer, don't go back, you won't die, you will get another job....if you are innocent, your boss and the maid will get their reward in varied ways depending on the degree of their atrocities against you, so wipe your tears.


Next time, don't act too friendly with ladies or girls who refuse to be friendly....in fact, be strange to strange women....women have bad spirits hovering around them a lot...most ladies are carrying over anger and frustration and looking for who to pour it on, be careful with how you relate with ladies nowadays if you want to go far, and when next a girl tells you NO respect her no, be it online or offline. Ladies are irrational and wicked, their mind is made of steel, whenever they want to harm somebody, they don't remember mercy and that's why when their life want to turn misery, it always turns so bad too.

All the best

I am an Introvert and I strongly disagree to what you meant by Introvert finding it hard to strike a convo.

There might be some sort of resistance but i find it more easier to start a conversation when I am happy, convenient and especially when the person I want to talk to is "alone".

It was only both of them in that office, talking from my personal experience, being alone with her it's easier to strike a convo.

djoey89:
Which kain persuasion to eat and rest be that, that you have to go closer and touch?. I feel u wantes to shot ur shoot, but you shot ur feet, if truly u didnt mean to. Move on and know boundaries.

Thank u. Well said.

MrBrownJay1:
if this story is true, then you only fell into a trap that was set just to sack you, free of charge!

as for that useless lawyer you call "ex boss", who was quick to believe that you tried to rape her maid, i weep for Nigeria.

I also think it was a trap, she wanted to sack you before, she needed an excuse, if the girl was not rough handled by you, your boss was supposed to warn her maid for wrong accusation instead of sacking you, infact she must have told the girl to do what she did, some people trust their maids more than even parents

Openbusiness:

Suffer for what? Did she lie? Was he not trying to force her to do something she doesn't want to do. She said no, he was still being pushy. Pushy until he got touchy. What does that tell you? He's lucky he only got fired. If he were he America, he would get sued for sexual harassment and can even be jailed for it. Rubbish. His motives were not genuine abeg. No need to sugarcoat anything. This guy was acting like a smooth operator playing out some playboy script. His forceful persistence proves his intentions were not genuine. If that maid wasn't a "maid", if she was your daughter and he did that to her, would you say she would suffer for reporting a man that was sexually harassing her?

Shut up jare.. If na lady touch man, will that be ur judgment?

So losing a job without no evidence of rape or real sexual harassment is worth taking food from a man mouth. Even if he had any intention, anyone shoulder may be tapped... So forget


Pray such mistake happens to ur husband too then u come online and judge..

U r just saying rubbish with no sense in ur head

ambassadorgozie:


guy dis is d truth, i know wia to go if i want sex

Let's hear Abeg! Some would have Immediate slapped you for that shoulder you touched.

You are an introvert but you don't know anything about personal space

ambassadorgozie:


d boss is a lawyer nd influential, i don't want to go dat way

You read like a fool.

Is it by force to take a break? Can't you just leave the poor girl alone? Probably been showing her unrequited affection and she decided to change it for you

[quote author=ambassadorgozie post=85883443]6th of January 2020 is the day I won’t forget. I work as a personal assistant/secretary to my boss who happens to be a former politician.

My boss came to work with her housemaid for her to help in sweeping, cleaning and tidying up the office being the resumption day. She instructed us on how to go about it before she stepped out from the office promising to come back in the afternoon.

We started the work immediately until afternoon time when I decided to rest and eat. While eating I beckoned the grown up housemaid to come and eat or at least rest before she continues the cleaning but she declined. After like an hour, I told her to rest small, she declined yet again. This prompted me to go close to her in order to convince her to eat something or rest.

My worst mistake and nightmare was attempting to put my hand on her shoulder in my stupid bid to convince her. Immediately my hand touched her shoulder she started shouting continuously that I want to rape her, that she will deal with me; in fact that I will get sacked. At first I told her my intention, but she wouldn’t hear me, I then resorted to pleading, I even knelt down begging her that it wasn’t my intention to rape or grab her. She couldn’t stand my talks and pleading, she called the boss immediately telling her that I want to rape her. We narrated everything to the boss, (a lawyer), when she returned. After hearing from us she said she has stayed with her maid for couple of years, thus she trust her, and it may be true that I wanted to rape her or lure her for sex. She couldn’t see my explanation, pleadings and even crying. She said she has two options; either to call police for me or to sack me. That’s how she later sacked me that day.

I have been devastated and depressed since that day, not because of the sack but the allegation and accusation that was not even on my mind. The worst is that as an introvert I have no one to talk to, I am damn down.

Notes: 1. I have no intention of raping, grabbing or having sex with her
2. I will not be so stupid to rape or have sex with the housemaid in the office knowing that the boss will come at any time
3. I have not raped anyone or plan to do so in the future because I know is morally and legally wrong.[/quote
My worst mistake and nightmare was attempting to put my hand on her shoulder in my stupid bid to convince her.you see those statements,that's the simple reason I will not believe you,you already ask her to eat something, rest,and she declined,what was ur hand looking for in her shoulder?

AntiWailer:


Lol weep for Ur thinking first.

If the maid was ur younger sister , will u believe ?

Ladies who have accused guys of rape have elder brothers too.