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Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by livebyday(m): 9:39am On Jan 18, 2020 |
ambassadorgozie: And you kept insisting multiple times she rest? What was your concern? It's normal courtesy to ask someone to rest once !! not twice , talkless of a third time and putting your hands on your shoulder! You sir are a liar 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by ensamy(m): 9:41am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Wetin carry you put hand for her shoulder. Na your friend or wifey ? Na small small e be wan start. From shoulder to breast to pussy. Go find another job and learn your lesson. 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Snapchat: 9:41am On Jan 18, 2020 |
AntiWailer: Let me tell you my personal experience when i was a teenager. I was about 15 going on 16, but I was already out of secondary school and working. One day, I had closed for the day, but then, I forgot something. It was dark but i had to go get it and i was lucky my house was a walking distance. When I got to my workplace, I met a young lady, possibly a teenager like me, crying at the front of my workplace. I was a bit taken aback but I asked why she was crying and tried to be nice. She was standing exactly where I need to stand to open the door. She narrated what happened and I felt for her. I tried my best to console. And i was actually sad that at that moment their was nothing I could do to help her. She didn't stop crying, she didn't move. It was getting to much. As an Introvert, am emotional most of the time too. So I did what I thought was best: I PLACED MY HAND AROUND HER SHOULDER. I didn't have any sexual intention but to console her. You know what she did, SHE WALKED AWAY, and rightly so. Would it have been right if she had accused me of rape, even when I was only trying my best to be nice. If it had gone that way, I swear I would have been sad for the rest of my life. Do you know I have never thought about this since the incident until now? 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by ambassadorgozie(m): 9:42am On Jan 18, 2020 |
FortuneDeGreat: tanx a bunch, dat guy post hit my chest, some people can be so callous |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by franchasng: 9:42am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Snapchat:You maybe right because there are different levels of introvert. Mine was extreme level mixed with male-chauvism and religious-extremism based on excessive desire to adhere to every pint of early-childhood-inculcated religious-doctrines 2 Likes |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by twosquare(m): 9:42am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Maybe the boss's husband dey f.uvk the maid via rape sef, reason she is paranoid, but op fumble...mind your business next time...ladies are not that interesting. When you know this truth, it will save you from a lot of things. Also, it might be a planned work. Cc. ambassadorgozie |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by livebyday(m): 9:43am On Jan 18, 2020 |
ambassadorgozie: By putting your hands on her shoulder? There is something wrong with this picture . Please sit down and read that nonsense you typed again very slowly Your intention was to cajole a.hiuse maid by placing your hand on her shoulder? A house maid who works for your boss, whom you had earlier verbally asked to rest twice and she refused and you went a third time to cajole?? Are you sure you knew why you are employed? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Moniya4Real(m): 9:43am On Jan 18, 2020 |
StrongandMighty:May wisdom not depart you bro. |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by moadxist2(m): 9:43am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Guy, I can't stop laughing. You wanted her to eat and she refused, na ur stomach, na by force, besides whatever u had to say, must u touch her? 2 of u alone in the office, this is the result of xvideos and their nonsense "personal assistant knacks maid in bosses office" u too dey watch. Anyway, that one as gone, check for vacancies on the vacancy section and move on. The maid is probably flexing now. |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by dvkot(m): 9:45am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Why are you over forcing her to come and eat and rest, she refused twice and you still went and touch her. Is ur fault oga |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by livebyday(m): 9:45am On Jan 18, 2020 |
ambassadorgozie: You do know this nonsense story doesn't make sense right ? Boundaries exist for a reason and you clearly are used to crossing them This is a well deserved lesson ..I have a deep feeling you are actually a molester and have escaped this heinous act in the past 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by ambassadorgozie(m): 9:45am On Jan 18, 2020 |
AMI3:tanx alot, am considering dat |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by nedekid: 9:46am On Jan 18, 2020 |
czarr:E bi like say to chop watery beans 3 times a day de hungry you |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Olaolex: 9:46am On Jan 18, 2020 |
May GOD help you |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by livebyday(m): 9:46am On Jan 18, 2020 |
nnamdiosu: Habba bro he is obviously a liar Nothing adds up about his story Forget him , it's probably karma for an act he may have committed in the past and escaped |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Delonn(m): 9:46am On Jan 18, 2020 |
ambassadorgozie: |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by ambassadorgozie(m): 9:48am On Jan 18, 2020 |
livebyday: guy all dis ur yarn nd names won't fetch u money, i know i made a mistake, don't conclude bc u don't know me nd u wia not dia, much regards nd have a great weekend |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by mechanics(m): 9:48am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Just forgive and forget. |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by lonelydora: 9:48am On Jan 18, 2020 |
ambassadorgozie: The text you sent to your boss shows you are not a serious person. Women lawyers don't joke with rape. 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Fivepercent: 9:49am On Jan 18, 2020 |
This one is not alcohol problem. Just move on and learn boundaries. In a work/professional setting, don't get sentimental....She was being professional...you were less than professional but I won't judge. I just ask that you learn from this and always do ONLY what is required of you. ambassadorgozie: |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by livebyday(m): 9:49am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Carinaflo: I actually believe he isn't as innocent as he claims His story does not add up , and the messages are pretty much self explanatory. He may a penchant for touchy feely , sleepy Willy and always escaped in the past But there is always a day of reckoning |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by StrongandMighty: 9:49am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Moniya4Real:Amen bro & you too |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by ambassadorgozie(m): 9:50am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Fivepercent: noted with tanx |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by livebyday(m): 9:51am On Jan 18, 2020 |
DAVE5: Very well.said He is a closet rapist .. he doesn't respect boundaries . His day of reckoning has come , Lord knows what some ladies have suffered from him in the past Waste not your pity on this one Your comment is the best |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Nobody: 9:51am On Jan 18, 2020 |
You are veeeery wise. Many people hit the nail on the head, but you hit it most succinctly. If it were a fellow guy, would he have pushed that much? That is what informed the boss' decision i'm sure. I would have also concluded same if i was the boss mikezuruki: |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by charlesm91(m): 9:52am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Next time when having a closure with someone you’re not familiar with never get so close with the body contact. I never do that with any lady most especially when we’re not that’s close, no matter how friendly our meeting may be. People react differently to things and so you couldn’t control your subconscious to know that the maid is not on familiar terrain as you which led to the misunderstanding unfortunately. |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Snapchat: 9:52am On Jan 18, 2020 |
franchasng: Now I see your POV sir and I understand better now. |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Ebidosia: 9:53am On Jan 18, 2020 |
ambassadorgozie: Your colleague is not your friend. Learn to mind your business next time. Forget that job, it's gone. |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Nobody: 9:54am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Funny dude.... greeting your boss good "pm" ma.... children of nowadays |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by livebyday(m): 9:55am On Jan 18, 2020 |
ambassadorgozie: Well let me be blunt , you are uncouth , and a serial sex offender and I do hope your name gets into the sex offenders registry . You don't deserve the job and I am glad it had been taken away . Next time you learn to respect boundaries of ladies .. This is something you have done in the past and gotten away with it. Not in 2020. Go and seek counselling there is something very wrong with you . Maybe from your secondary school days you used to molest girls ? You claimed to be an Introvert, which is a lie because the way you went at a house maid you claimed you just met three times to east shows you are no Introvert. You went a third time and boldly placed your had in her shoulder, another lie , you probably tried to groop her . You should be locked away. Cheers 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Nobody: 9:56am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Funny dude.... greeting your boss good "pm" ma.... children of nowadays. Why won't a reasonable boss sack you? Grabbing a lady inappropriately. You even get luck sef, that's if your story is even true |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Nobody: 9:57am On Jan 18, 2020 |
ambassadorgozie: Bro if it was your Madam, working for that long and you told her to try and get some rest but she refused and insisted on getting the job done. Would you even dream of reaching for her Shoulder when she was unaware working? Or you felt the maid doesn't deserve the same courtesy you would give to a superior? Listen, The only thing to learn before you pick yourself up and find another job. Respect others space. All these people here Telling you you did nothing wrong will lead you to bigger problems. Just accept this one is your fault and going forward you will know how to behave be it to a maid or Boss. Jobs are not so easy to come by but focus on it, register a gym to help with depression And hopefully you will get a job. 1 Like |
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