iamballo:
Hello fellow nairalanders, I'm a regular here even a lot of u guys kws my story here long b4 I got married in 2017. The issue now is that my marriage is on d line bcus of my wife cunning act lately, there is dis man I hv been suspecting that my wife is having affair with but b4 now I don't hv any tangible evidence abt dem dating or whatever & anytime I raised d issue she always talk her way out of it which I always believe.
Two days ago I borrowed my wife phone to send some msgs to my clients & few msgs was sent back to me thru her phone so as I was going Tru d inbox to check d msgs d tin I saw almost makes me fainted. A conversation between her & d man. I hv attached a screenshot of their conversation below.
please what's d best way for me to handle this situation because I'm down & devastated at d moment.
please I will really appreciate if this can get to the front page for wider views.

zed7:
A figment of your imagination. How can your wife store his name as sugar daddy. All these jobless Nigerian youth.

iamballo:



I am d one who changed d name to sugar daddy. She didn't save it with any name

zed7:

We must look stupid to u abi? That's a screenshot. Changed it how?

iamballo:


I have to save d man number with something b4 I post it here so that his number will not be shown here cuz my wife did not save d number with anything & I am even using her phone to post this thing. Get it or get lost

decatalyst:
Sorry to say, your wife is gone.

She stay up late to have an unholy conversation with a man.

Both of you need to sit...at the dead of the night, tell her to confess all she has done...tell her the only thing that will save her from shame is to tell it all, because you have evidences already. Listen attentively to all the stories and the reason for doing them all.

Do a self appraisal of where you have failed and search yourself to know if you can forgive and move on. Otherwise, go your way and don't kill somebody.

izzou:


Your wife saved his number with SUGAR DADDY?
And your wife still is on 2go?

iamballo:
8Actually I am d one that saved d number with sugar daddy & she is not on 2go I am

iamballo:


I have to save d man number with something b4 I post it here so that his number will not be shown here cuz my wife did not save d number with anything & I am even using her phone to post this thing. Get it or get lost

So if I may understand, you saved the number as SUGAR DADDY on her phone, took a screenshot and sent to your phone, and............. I don't understand how the 2go is on your phone, but you're using her phone to post this

iamballo:
Hello fellow nairalanders, I'm a regular here even a lot of u guys kws my story here long b4 I got married in 2017. The issue now is that my marriage is on d line bcus of my wife cunning act lately, there is dis man I hv been suspecting that my wife is having affair with but b4 now I don't hv any tangible evidence abt dem dating or whatever & anytime I raised d issue she always talk her way out of it which I always believe.
Two days ago I borrowed my wife phone to send some msgs to my clients & few msgs was sent back to me thru her phone so as I was going Tru d inbox to check d msgs d tin I saw almost makes me fainted. A conversation between her & d man. I hv attached a screenshot of their conversation below.
please what's d best way for me to handle this situation because I'm down & devastated at d moment.
please I will really appreciate if this can get to the front page for wider views.

iamballo:
Hello fellow nairalanders, I'm a regular here even a lot of u guys kws my story here long b4 I got married in 2017. The issue now is that my marriage is on d line bcus of my wife cunning act lately, there is dis man I hv been suspecting that my wife is having affair with but b4 now I don't hv any tangible evidence abt dem dating or whatever & anytime I raised d issue she always talk her way out of it which I always believe.
Two days ago I borrowed my wife phone to send some msgs to my clients & few msgs was sent back to me thru her phone so as I was going Tru d inbox to check d msgs d tin I saw almost makes me fainted. A conversation between her & d man. I hv attached a screenshot of their conversation below.
please what's d best way for me to handle this situation because I'm down & devastated at d moment.
please I will really appreciate if this can get to the front page for wider views.

zed7:
A figment of your imagination. How can your wife store his name as sugar daddy. All these jobless Nigerian youth.

walex2:
why do peope like to fabricate lies on faceless forum seeking uselss attention? your own wife will store a number with sugar daddy? who is using 2go again at this again? your screeshot shows 31st of december and you are seeking advice today

Vyolet:
I know this is another woman bashing thread and it is fake, I don't understand how your wife will save a man's name as Sugardaddy when you are not yet dead.

In the event that it is true, yes your wife is already cheating even if it's not physical yet, she is doing it emotionally. (she is wrong in all shade because it will eventually backfire, those two will eventually beat each other after all the I miss you, I love you. )

Now, back to you oga, what did you do to her? What has changed about you since you got married? Have you stopped looking good, listening to her, dressing sexy, praying for her, being romantic? Did you become stingy with your money and dickus at a time? Check yourself very well and see what you are doing wrong.
Go on your knees and pray hard, pray hard, talk to her, beg her so you can save your marriage.

OlawaleBammie:
Hmmm, should I marry