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Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Acidosis(m): 9:57am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Don't forget the rule that says you should mind your business 80% of the time. You cannot help someone by force. You asked her to rest/eat the first time and she refused. You asked again, still she refused. Why didn't you let her be?! You told her to come and eat? Eat where? From your plate? You told her to come and rest? Rest where? You have a bed for her? These questions are not without an intention. Just let go and move on. If you try to take up this case, the above statements from you will keep you in jail for at least 6 months. There is no witness or recordings, but your words will be used against you. 3 Likes |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by livebyday(m): 9:59am On Jan 18, 2020 |
ensamy: Forget that rapist liar Who asks their wife to eat three times ? Maybe once or maximum twice!! But thrice? And to add salt to the lie he put his hand on her shoulder a third time ? Someone he said he just met ? This guy is a rapist and a pathological liar 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by livebyday(m): 9:59am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Acidosis: Forget that rapist liar Who asks their wife to eat three times ? Maybe once or maximum twice!! But thrice? And to add salt to the lie he put his hand on her shoulder a third time ? Someone he said he just met ? This guy is a rapist and a pathological liar |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Nobody: 10:00am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Next time mind your business. Personally in such scenario I would think of the worst too. The lady was simply doing her job and you stressing her to rest and eat? Is she not old enough to know when she needs a break? If it were a man, would have gone that far to persuade him to stop working? Learn to respect people's stand next time. 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Nobody: 10:00am On Jan 18, 2020 |
You should be sincere to yourself at least once a year. ![]() You moved close to her and your greatest mistake was that you touched her. You kept telling her to rest, for like three times. You even begged her to eat. Are you her nanny or Manny ( a man nanny should be manny so I think) Is she a baby? Be sincere to yourself you were attracted to her. Simple. If she was hungry she would eat and if tired she would stop and rest. Are you a Manny ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by akinsmyk(m): 10:00am On Jan 18, 2020 |
I blame you 100%. You are so insensitive and careless. No sane lady will accuse you of rape just like that. You don't know where the maid is coming from, maybe she's been raped before hence the panic when she probably remember how it began in the past. Her telling you NO twice is enough reason for you to let that lady be. What exactly is your own if she doesn't wanna eat and rest. She's probably focus on the reason why she was at the office. You may probably not have the mind of raping her but you sure do want to make her see you as a nice person or that she likes you which at the end of the day might be pointing to you wanting to date her. You don't need a seer to tell you problem is looming but you ignored it. Someone you suggested eating and resting to twice and she didn't answer, you're to leave her alone. Go search for another job man |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Nobody: 10:01am On Jan 18, 2020 |
livebyday:A creep |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by elmagnifico411(m): 10:01am On Jan 18, 2020 |
I think u got sacked cos of the endless begging and crying.. that was a terrible mistake,bruv. u immediately started begging the yeye maid, trying to convince her otherwise. That’s messed up! Guy, a maid is a maid oh, not a boss. Why would u be begging somebody u can win with your words? You could have been like; are u an idiot? Rape this dirty u?? I would never bring myself down to do that rubbish! U stink! You’re ugly! To even think that I want to rape u is total foolishness. Go ahead and call the boss foolish woman that I was having pity for cos she’s not eaten since morning!” Matter for no reach where dem go dey sack u. Even she’s gone hard to report , you’d still have stood tall firing from all cylinders and tell your oga to call the police if that’s what she wants , but police must interrogate her maid too.. U caused that sack oh! Begging like a chicken. Person dey influential no mean sey u Na nobody. Your boss would have had to think again, but u just dey cry anyhow. Life isn’t fair. You’ve got to go out here and take whatever is yours . No do that mistake again. Unless u dey lie sha. 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by ambassadorgozie(m): 10:02am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Bluepink: i know i made a mistake, dat influenced my pleadings, tanx for d advice |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Basher8583: 10:02am On Jan 18, 2020 |
ambassadorgozie: Bro your story does not add up. Who begs someone to come and eat. Na you dey take paracetamol for another person's headache? Truth be told na Yash you wan Yash the girl but you did not envisage such resistance. |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by makydebbie(f): 10:02am On Jan 18, 2020 |
HarunaWest: I'm telling you, typing this stupid shorthand for your boss. |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by DAVE5(m): 10:03am On Jan 18, 2020 |
livebyday: Lol, no mind me ojere, the op go don learn him lesson; the hard way though In as much as we observe due diligence in our doings we must also pray against falling prey to traps ohh cos no matter how careful you are, anything can befall you at any time |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Nobody: 10:03am On Jan 18, 2020 |
ambassadorgozie: Next time you will learn how to focus on your job. na so u na dey start |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by ambassadorgozie(m): 10:04am On Jan 18, 2020 |
elmagnifico411: i have no reason to lie, tanx alot 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by livebyday(m): 10:04am On Jan 18, 2020 |
AwkaetitiBabe: Yeah It's his type that rape his elder brothers house maid believing she will never talk out of fear of loosing her job You asked her to eat thrice ?? Even married men don't pester their wife that much.. You nor asked her to come and rest? Where is it a hotel or an office ?? This guy is a serial rapist who has been escaping but this time.karma caught up with him He deserves to be arrested 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by arukwe123(m): 10:05am On Jan 18, 2020 |
livebyday:why you carry this matter for head like this. I blame the OP for his stupid behaviour but dont conclude like that. You dont know him to judge like that. Drop your contribution and move on. |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by livebyday(m): 10:05am On Jan 18, 2020 |
ambassadorgozie: Hahahahahahahaahaha Imagine this nonsense Better go and seek forgiveness for all your past deeds so you may get a new job coming eventually or else you will wait a very long time |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Nobody: 10:05am On Jan 18, 2020 |
ambassadorgozie:Guy you are guilty. An innocent man fears no accusation cos I see no reason y you'd plead and cry. If your intentions were clear, you would have confidently shut her down. Next time you'll learn to keep ur hands to yourself. Personally I would have landed you a defining slap |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Karleb(m): 10:06am On Jan 18, 2020 |
That's one of the hard thing about being a guy. No one would have believed you if it were otherwise. Take heart! 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Olaolex: 10:06am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Idimuguy:best post ever. |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by sweetrace(f): 10:06am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Lamanii22: In Nigeria, being kind is treated as a crime. 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Nobody: 10:07am On Jan 18, 2020 |
livebyday:Lolzz.. I think he overestimated his charm |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by livebyday(m): 10:07am On Jan 18, 2020 |
arukwe123: Bro I had a friend whose house girl was raped by someone like this and infected with hiv The poor girl never said anything out of fear till she fell ill and was taken to the hospital! It was when test results came out we confronted her she was just 13 , after a long cajoling and questioning we found out it was the husbands younger brother who has been molesting her for months I still get so mad anytime I remember that incident The little girl is late today 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Nobody: 10:08am On Jan 18, 2020 |
ambassadorgozie: The same line we always give any girl we want to cheat... Sex is impulsive at times. I no believe u at all 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by cutefy: 10:08am On Jan 18, 2020 |
This is the one reason why it's highly risky to become informal and jovial with ladies except she's your sibling or spouse. These superhumans can bring you down from the sky to the grave within a 60s. If only you had maintain strick formalities... If only you had faced ur business... If only you had shut ur mind against her feelings... ... this problem won't have happened. Lesson learnt bro... thanks for sharing ur experince. May God help us. |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by livebyday(m): 10:08am On Jan 18, 2020 |
AwkaetitiBabe: Charms indeed This one is a serial rapist ..Lord knows how many innocent house girls he has done this two since his secondary school days But karma has come for him finally |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Omizu47(m): 10:08am On Jan 18, 2020 |
I honestly don't feel sorry for u. I think you deserve what you got. U call somebody com eat e say no, tell her to rest she no gree.. U nor fit use ur brain say she no want and make everyone dey their dey... U carry hand go dey put on top her body. Thank God say u nor dey Sanko by now. Use this take learn lesson for next time make u learn to mind your business and keep ur unnecessary kindness to your self... |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by victorazyvictor(m): 10:08am On Jan 18, 2020 |
ambassadorgozie: Since you can't see woman and remove your eyes, your village ppl really discovered your weakness and they have used it to do new year for you. Na by force to chop? To eat is not important. If you like no go start fasting and praying for God's intervention so that u can be vindicated. |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Basher8583: 10:09am On Jan 18, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1: Wetin consign Nigeria for this useless case of a man that can't mind his business. So the housemaid does not know where to get food when hungry abi. He asked the first time and she politely declined. Why then force her to eat. Keep crying for Nigeria oh. Cry cry Bush baby |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by AMI3(m): 10:09am On Jan 18, 2020 |
UnknownQueen: i believe the guy may b innocent. the guy must have sympathised with these reason: she is a maid, she did eat when she suppose to eat , relax when she suppose to relax looking at her and her age being a maid is worrisome . and the guy being a compassionate guy was just trying to extend the hand of kindness to her but she took it wrongly. I hate working for people. even when rhe guy was begging hee 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by ambassadorgozie(m): 10:09am On Jan 18, 2020 |
AwkaetitiBabe: she was screaming, i was begging cos i shouldn't hav gone close to her, adirom guilty |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by sweetrace(f): 10:11am On Jan 18, 2020 |
The housegirl has her boss eating from her palm. It may be diabolical or simply knowing what buttons to press to get her way. Either way, you need to forget about them and focus on getting another job. I know you think you need her recommendations, but you can get another job without it. |
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