J111333:
A girl kissed you deeply twice and you're still asking her to be your girlfriend?
Soon, she will sleep with and you'll still be asking her out.
These kids sef.

marttol:
I don't understand

J111333:
Start treating her as your girlfriend and if she continues to misbehave, relegate her to the role of sidechick else you'll be friendzoned to the extent that you'll be making the bed she sleeps with her boyfriend on and switching on/off the lights for them.

Jewessgratitude:
Dont even waste your time.
The girl is just using you to catch feelings.

Offpoint:
Guys make I tell am?
Should I tell him?
Make I break the news?
Should I break the news?

marttol:
break am o

Offpoint:

I no fit talk am, but check dictionary.com for the word "Friendzone"

marttol:
I don't understand in what way?

Jewessgratitude:


Ah ah..what don't you understand? A girl who's into you will never tell you she wants to be just friends with you.

The reason she doesn't complain when you touch her is prolly cause she's enjoying it for now that there's no main boo.
She's still waiting for that main guy that meets her criteria. Sort of using you to pass time.

Try asking her her spec. Then see if you fall short or not. but if she refuses to tell you, run! It means she doesnt want you to know cause you dont fit in and might feel bad. So stick to being just friends like she said and get yourself someone that truly fancies you.

marttol:
ok...but she allowed me kiss her...anyways she go meet me there.

Offpoint:

Those who kissed you as a baby, does it mean they were in love with you?

I sey make you check the meaning of friendzone, you dey tell me say she kissed you.... guy I go knack you jazz o

marttol:
She has kissed me two different times...I mean a deep kiss but she kept on saying she only wants me as a friend...if I ask her did she have feelings for me.. her reply is that she only like me as a friend...what do I do??

marttol:
ok ma'am


She is in for it...I'll use the guys code for her

J111333:
A girl kissed you deeply twice and you're still asking her to be your girlfriend?
Soon, she will sleep with and you'll still be asking her out.
These kids sef.

Jewessgratitude:


Why?
Please dont do anything out of place. Ok? She hasn't committed any crime by not being attracted to you. Its a normal phenomenon. You can't force people to like you against their wish, it won't work.

She hasn't done anything wrong here rather you have been the one tormenting yourself unecessarily by getting too close and emotional to someone whom you have no idea what they feel for you. And to think she even gave you a hint which was clear enough to let you know nothing for you, but you still wanted to go ahead until I advised you against it. Now you want to seek revenge or what exactly do you mean by "she's in for it"? My dear, drop it. Exert your energy on something else.

marttol:
but why is she giving me false hope?

Jewessgratitude:


She's not giving false hope cos she already told you. Shes only using you and since you're not putting up any resistance she'll only believe you're enjoying it hence she'll continue but if you dont want it. Then stop her the next time she tries it and tell her you have a girl friend and can't afford to be cheating on her, and see her reaction. But can you?

Just stop her from coming around you if she's not interested in a relationship with you as you are the one that is going to suffer it especially now that you know she doesn't have interest cos you'll start feeling unecessarily hurt and jealous. Which could lead you to do something despicable.

Avoid her!

marttol:
wow... thanks boss...

She always feel comfortable around me...I tried playing with her hair today,she loves it...I tried treating her as a gf...no complain actually,but when I asked her last night that does she have feelings for me.. she said she only wants me as a friend...that's for this advice...I go do like that.

marttol:
wow... thanks boss...

She always feel comfortable around me...I tried playing with her hair today,she loves it...I tried treating her as a gf...no complain actually,but when I asked her last night that does she have feelings for me.. she said she only wants me as a friend...that's for this advice...I go do like that.

marttol:
She has kissed me two different times...I mean a deep kiss but she kept on saying she only wants me as a friend...if I ask her did she have feelings for me.. her reply is that she only like me as a friend...what do I do??

marttol:
I don check am already...


But the girl go suffer for my hand o

J111333:
Start treating her as your girlfriend and if she continues to misbehave, relegate her to the role of sidechick else you'll be friendzoned to the extent that you'll be making the bed she sleeps with her boyfriend on and switching on/off the lights for them.

Jewessgratitude:


Why?
Please dont do anything out of place. Ok? She hasn't committed any crime by not being attracted to you. Its a normal phenomenon. You can't force people to like you against their wish, it won't work.

She hasn't done anything wrong here rather you have been the one tormenting yourself unecessarily by getting too close and emotional to someone whom you have no idea what they feel for you. And to think she even gave you a hint which was clear enough to let you know nothing for you, but you still wanted to go ahead until I advised you against it. Now you want to seek revenge or what exactly do you mean by "she's in for it"? My dear, drop it. Exert your energy on something else.