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Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by IMASTEX: 12:35am On Jan 19, 2020 |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by nnamdiosu(m): 12:39am On Jan 19, 2020 |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by lekonso: 4:41am On Jan 19, 2020 |
What you did was wrong. Why did you touch her? after declining your invitations two times you should have left her alone. You have learnt your lessons in a hard way. May be she was not hungry, do you want to force her to eat? 2 Likes |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by romenna: 7:29am On Jan 19, 2020 |
You deserve to be sacked. You don't know how to mind your business yet 2 Likes |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by igolima: 8:02am On Jan 19, 2020 |
So, she declined you offer twice but you no gree hear word abi ![]() You now went close to her and attempted to put your hand on her shoulder in an bid to convince her ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by ambassadorgozie(m): 8:33am On Jan 19, 2020 |
MezieFresh: oil dey ur head, happy sunday 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by MERCHANDISER: 8:52am On Jan 19, 2020 |
ambassadorgozie:i'll advice you.Having read through all these pages,disregard those comments from Guys here condemning and castigating you,they have VERY poor sense of judgement and Acumen. If touching a ladies shoulder is a sexual molestation ,then i will be suing all the ladies in my locality and work place for sexual harassment on a daily basis. Your greatest undoing is persistent begging to take your food.Perhaps,she thought you spiked the food with a stimulant(drug). Another thing you did wrong was begging her not to call madam or that feeling of guilt.If i were you,i would have given her a dirty slap imidiately she started raising alarm and start insulting and threatening her that i'll deal with her and lock her up for falsefuly accusing me of rape,do you think i'm sex starved or pervert that i'll be lusting after you,Are you stupid?Do you thing i'm in the same level with you,i'll give her a very severe warning.(fear sef go catch her)and i will text your madam that she's accusing you of rape just because you told her to come and eat. She(your madam) would have believed you.But u bleeped up. It's from your madam's response you'll know whether you'll tender your resignation letter and walk out with your head high 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by MERCHANDISER: 8:56am On Jan 19, 2020 |
If i be you the way i go take re-arrange the story sef...na she dem go sack but unfortunately u aint street smart. For shoulder touching,i will say i brought the food to her and tap her lightly to come and eat; an act of benevolence. |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by ambassadorgozie(m): 9:13am On Jan 19, 2020 |
MERCHANDISER: thanks for your timely input, but am not going back there again, just trying to move on nd look for another job |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by BOSMANARIS(m): 10:02am On Jan 19, 2020 |
Seriously, I believed you but why put your hand across the shoulder if you aren't nursing any intention. You will need strong signal of assurance and approval before you can put your hand across your girlfriend's shoulder not to talk of a stranger. IN NIGERIA, REMEMBER, WE BELIEVE WHAT A LADY SAYS MORE THAN THE GUY. Sorry about the lose. I pray God Almighty gives a better one. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by MERCHANDISER: 10:40am On Jan 19, 2020 |
SlayerForever:op you should disregard comments from kids like this....They just want to feel among. Seun it's high time we had an age restriction before registering on nairaland.All these kids less than 20yrs likr this stupid young man i quoted should be barred from accessing this forum |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by SlayerForever: 11:18am On Jan 19, 2020 |
MERCHANDISER: You better respect yourself this Sunday morning. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by ambassadorgozie(m): 1:21pm On Jan 19, 2020 |
MERCHANDISER: you don't need to stress ursef, just ignore him, happy sunday sir |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by ambassadorgozie(m): 1:23pm On Jan 19, 2020 |
BOSMANARIS: thanks, GOD bless you |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by thatigboman: 3:17pm On Jan 19, 2020 |
ambassadorgozie:which is still very wrong. It's sexual harassment. In advanced countries, u can go to jail for that. Wish u all d best. |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Spyron(m): 3:40pm On Jan 19, 2020 |
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Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by addexx: 5:53pm On Jan 19, 2020 |
ambassadorgozie:k I respect your good intentions and all but I think you should also learn from this. You dont just go about touching everyone you see, some people are a ticking time bomb waiting to explode. Not that it is bad showing affection but timing and rapport should be first considered. I noticed also you did a very poor job in defending your integrity. You even begged ![]() I wish you greater opportunities, emotional healing and justification mate. 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by ambassadorgozie(m): 7:40pm On Jan 19, 2020 |
addexx: thanks for the wise counsel, may GOD continue to uplift you |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Queenmark: 7:53pm On Jan 19, 2020 |
ambassadorgozie: Well I won't lie but this your story get as e be. Why are you going to touch her all in a bid to get her to rest. I bet you won't be bothered if it was a guy. Truth is you over stepped your boundary. I believe the lady has experienced rape before that made her scared. What you did is totally wrong. |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by CeterisXVII: 10:25am On Jan 20, 2020 |
richPHAROAH:You have NO sense, no shame and absolutely zero respect for yourself. One day you will land in trouble. You are so sex starved that you fvck girls in the office? Disgrace and humiliation is knocking on your door. You don't even have the dignity to restrict that rubbish to your house, you carried it to the office..... 2 Likes |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by CeterisXVII: 10:28am On Jan 20, 2020 |
MezieFresh:It is sexual harrassment. Your shoulder is still one of your body parts. You do not have any right to touch a stranger (who is a member of the opposite sex), on any part of their body, without their permission. Only crude illiterates do such things. Do it abroad and see if you don't land in trouble. MiddleDimension:What are you saying? Do you have sisters or female relatives? Why should a total stranger start putting his hands on their body? For what? Haba!! People need to learn to respect boundaries! You asked a girl to eat. She declined. You asked a 2nd time. She still said NO. What part of the word NO, didn't you understand? Despite hearing her say NO twice, you still went and put your hands on her shoulder......the shoulder of a total stranger.. ..for what??! ![]() He is lucky she did not give him a dirty slap, right on the spot. What gave him the right to touch any part of her body? A lady he was not friendly with, or even related to? ![]() What he did can be interpreted as forcing unwanted sexual advances upon a lady, in a way that could lead to sexual harrassment. |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by CeterisXVII: 10:51am On Jan 20, 2020 |
DenreleDave:That is how you people make mistakes that will land you in trouble, or in a police cell. You have absolutely NO right to touch any part of a person's body, whether it is the shoulder or the back, WITHOUT their permission, especially if they are members of the opposite sex! The woman was a total stranger to him! She was not his relative or close friend. So why touching her? Please remove all those wrong notions from your head. If you go and touch a total stranger next time, because of this your fake idea that "anyone shoulder may be tapped...." like you said, ah..... 2 things will happen. The woman will either scream at you and humiliate you thoroughly; Or she will give you a very dirty slap! If it was abroad, not only will you get sacked, you may also be prosecuted. So stop talking like a trader in Tejuosho market....you know those illiterate boys that grab women's hands shouting "aunty come and check." One of them grabbed a woman's arm in front of me one day, and she gave him a dirty slap, before adding a flying kick that tumbled him to the ground. It turns out she was an army officer in mufti. By the time she called up her fellow soldiers, the guy and the rest of his fellow traders lay on the ground, begging for mercy! 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by CeterisXVII: 11:07am On Jan 20, 2020 |
logon599:Your post make sense, die! ![]() thatigboman:Help me tell dem, o! ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by CeterisXVII: 11:14am On Jan 20, 2020 |
Basher8583:Stop sounding clueless. Not all rapes involve violence. Once a woman says NO, and you still go ahead to force your attentions or body on her.. .it is RAPE! Lack of consent, is what makes the sexual act, a rape case. 1 Like |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Basher8583: 11:19am On Jan 20, 2020 |
CeterisXVII: Olodo... No be violence you go take have your way? Or can you explain to me the non violent aproach of forcing yourself on a woman that does not consent. Infact for you using the word force alone is violence |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by richPHAROAH: 11:40am On Jan 20, 2020 |
CeterisXVII:yes i Bleep anywhere i have chance to. i bleeped a hoe in the bank toilet yesterday. no shame here bro. i can even Bleep infront of ur mom |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by CeterisXVII: 11:51am On Jan 20, 2020 |
Basher8583:Mumu....violence does not need to be involved in a rape case. Google it. It is lack of consent, that determines if the act is rape, or not. What if a woman is drugged or under alcoholic influence? Even if there is no violence, it is still rape because she didn't give her consent, even though no violence was involved. Some women get paralysed by fear when a man tries to have unwanted sexual relations with them, so the use of force will be unecessary. Not all women can struggle. Use your head and read up such cases on the internet. |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by CeterisXVII: 11:52am On Jan 20, 2020 |
richPHAROAH:
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Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Nobody: 11:59am On Jan 20, 2020 |
Sarang: hello sis, you aint replying me anymore..... you promised to help me please help me |
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by litaninja(m): 12:10pm On Jan 20, 2020 |
Oshey. Bleeding heart. Na you kind pass. You dey beg grown adult to chop ![]() You press bress jor. |
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