victorian:










Dont get me wrong cause im a great cook.

But how do a babe visit for the first time and u want her to cook?

You don't need to want her to... some girls love home cooked foods and will locate ur kitchen to do a little something. Depending on how comfortable u both are with each other i guess.

dick size obviously

Simplecity:
did he fxck you??

i wanted to ask same question. Did she say she got bleeped

fx45:
I know plenty of girls that happily volunteered to do the cooking on their first visit. So what exactly is your point?

Well all girls cant be the same .

I dont feel i should cook for the first time of going on date with a guy , and the date most times is ,his home .
I have not even made up my mind fully that i want to date him. We are still trying to get to know each other..
Its not like im starving and its not like im going for cooking auditon in the guy's house to clinch a prize of knowing if i can cook first day of hanging out with him.

Cmon? Cooking on first date is just too much!

My brain is still trying to figure out if we can start a relationship or not? He is alreadu jumping the gun ,by saying i should go cook?

On first date, i dont stay for long hours . Few hours with him, i have already known if i want something serious or not , and i must get back to my own home that same evening . No matter how gushingly attractive his home looks like , even if he stays in a duplex. Im going home that day and i aint cooking .

Thats me anyways .


Inbetween the ones i bend my rules for and cook for? Where did it take me?
Nowhere . After sweating and all.
To see how annoying it is
One of my stupid ex said he misses my stew and soups , that can he give me money to prepare different pot of soups and stews every week. That his newly married wife dont know how to cook.

I look this guy with hate . But i calmly replied , im busy in weekends cooking for my man .sorry i no send u marry woman wey no sabi cook. Thats your cross.

He doesnt even think i can poison his pots of stews and possibly wipe out his new family .

No wonder one gets to see storyline of family of 5, wiped off after taking dinner

Anyways , i dont cook on first date ! Thank God that era of my life is over!!!

Chai! Thank you Jesus! I thanK God o!

Babara1994:

She ate all the food in my house.

.This guy is more than funny

HRHQueenPhil:
His toilet was rusted brown.. Said its cos of the water. Felt like throwing up.. Also wen he took off his shirt, I saw he was super thin... Yuck!!

why did he take off his shirt?

iRyan:

You don't seem to know what you are talking about.
There seems to be an inability to separate addiction from a mere habit. Everyone has a habit that can lead to an addiction if left uncontrolled. Smoking is a habit that can lead to an addiction, IT IS NOT AN ADDICTION. Stop posting misinformed opinions
Browsing through naira land feed can also lead to an addiction.
I can bet my life that a majority of users of this forum are addicted to it but they'd be the first to call smokers out for being addicted

So if you claim smoking is not an addiction but a habit, Please tell me, is smoking a good or responsible habit?

pocohantas:
As usual, the males who grow vaginas in their spare time have arrived to derail the thread.

Pocohantas , they only babe I luv in dis forum. Ur stubbornness the even high me

dairykidd:

You don't need to want her to... some girls love home cooked foods and will locate ur kitchen to do a little something. Depending on how comfortable u both are with each other i guess.

Thats why i said not every woman or girl is the same .

Kalixx:


90% of Nigerian girls do not smoke and about 90% of them are irresponsible.

Bros who give u brain lyk dis. Most of my area gals in jos de act bluefilm now buh dey don't smoke. Google compromiseagents u will see Dem

It's only on this NL you will see guys hijack a thread that is clearly supposed to be dominantly for ladies. And when it's a guy's threads, the ladies are usually respectful.

I swear, the kind of guys we have on this NL are 'special'. Especially in romance and politics sections.

victorian:
Well all girls cant be the same .

I dont feel i should cook for the first time of going on date with a guy , and the date most times is ,his home .
I have not even made up my mind fully that i want to date him. We are still trying to get to know each other..
Its not like im starving and its not like im going for cooking auditon in the guy's house to clinch a prize of knowing if i can cook first day of hanging out with him.

Cmon? Cooking on first date is just too much!

My brain is still trying to figure out if we can start a relationship or not? He is alreadu jumping the gun ,by saying i should go cook?

On first date, i dont stay for long hours . Few hours with him, i have already known if i want something serious or not , and i must get back to my own home that same evening . No matter how gushingly attractive his home looks like , even if he stays in a duplex. Im going home that day and i aint cooking .

Thats me anyways .


Inbetween the ones i bend my rules for and cook for? Where did it take me?
Nowhere . After sweating and all.
To see how annoying it is
One of my stupid ex said he misses my stew and soups , that can he give me money to prepare different pot of soups and stews every week. That his newly married wife dont know how to cook.

I look this guy with hate . But i calmly replied , im busy in weekends cooking for my man .sorry i no send u marry woman wey no sabi cook. Thats your cross.

He doesnt even think i can poison his pots of stews and possibly wipe out his new family .

No wonder one gets to see storyline of family of 5, wiped off after taking dinner

Anyways , i dont cook on first date ! Thank God that era of my life is over!!!

Chai! Thank you Jesus! I thanK God o!

What a treatise! So long a letter... Because of cooking God epp us!

Despite your exceptional culinary skills your ex still went to find someone else to marry... Obviously there are plenty things you need to fix about yourself. It's not just about knowing how to cook.

Despite leaving you for someone else, you still manage to keep in touch with him on a regular... God epp us!

fx45:
What a treatise! So long a letter... Because of cooking God epp us!

Despite your exceptional culinary skills your ex still went to find someone else to marry... Obviously there are plenty things you need to fix about yourself. It's not just about knowing how to cook.

Despite leaving you for someone else, you still manage to keep in touch with him on a regular... God epp us!

Keep in touch with him on regular basis?

God forbid !

*spits*

Tell us d full story oo, shey u con allow him Bleep abi u japaa

vanida6:
hear em saying on d phone I will fvcck d bitcch wen she come today e did not notice I was closed nah my first and last visit be dat ooh

omotowo2:
why did he take off his shirt?

It's bcoz they wanted to do the do.

victorian:
Keep in touch with him on regular basis?

God forbid !

*spits*

Pouring spit everywhere doesn't change anything. How come your married ex still feels cool to ask you to come and cook for him? I mean, he didn't just pop out from the blues to make such a request... Okafor's Law seems to be in play here.

bjgurl:
The only thing in there head is s*x for the first time fah, it's not too decent for me, I can't date a guy whose intention is to f**k me on my first visit lmao

u prefer it in ur subsequent visit does it make any meaning?

foleskay:


Shut tha hell up! You don't hv to generalize, that means your brothers are also stupid. Olodo

not only her brother but her father too.

Pacesetter123:
.This guy is more than funny

That's why I don't toast women with big stomach. I'm getting wiser in 2020.

Smartchoiice:

So please always delay gratification in any form especially when it comes to women

I'll give it a try. Good advice.

Babara1994:

I'll give it a try. Good advice.

Trust me.... You'll have everything and more.

fx45:
Pouring spit everywhere doesn't change anything. How come your married ex still feels cool to ask you to come and cook for him? I mean, he didn't just pop out from the blues to make such a request... Okafor's Law seems to be in play here.

Because im an easygoing lady .

Some come looking for me in my office, eithr begging for forgiveness or they feel i would want to date again.

I behave calm so they can say whats in their mind .

Before showing them the door.

I dont bite or flare up when some come knocking at my door while.working . Negative attitudes take so much energy from me and i dont need it. They dont even deserve my flaring up or insults . Na headache to me.

If u like quote okafor law from now till next year.

vanida6:
hear em saying on d phone I will fvcck d bitcch wen she come today e did not notice I was closed nah my first and last visit be dat ooh

Viva madridsta

dilodavid:
A pvssy fvcked can't be unfvcked.

ill start from inside out

fx45:
Pouring spit everywhere doesn't change anything. How come your married ex still feels cool to ask you to come and cook for him? I mean, he didn't just pop out from the blues to make such a request... Okafor's Law seems to be in play here.

confirmed

Funkyswagzz:


Just say ur lookin for a decent guy that don't smoke.. there are so many guys out there hustling and smoke. Nigerian mentality is so obscure.. I don't get it

I agree with her I have never seen a responsible Nigerian man that smokes

GeneralPula:


Taah

Smoking has no associate with being responsible!

Not a lot of people smoke, but lots ain’t even responsible!

Make I tell you one coded truth!

About 70% of the most responsible men in the whole world are smokers!

especially hemp smokers.

bjgurl:


I'm not your mate, I have dignity

I’m not talking about myself girl... I’m talking about you being in the scenario... and I not my mate You kidding me? If you not my mate n u not married... baby it’s menopause calling.

omotowo2:
why did he take off his shirt?

it's his house na..

Suspense12:
A lot of things can make a lady run from visiting a guy at home...things like the guy forcing himself on her, stylishly asking her to do some chores for you-wash clothes, plates, clean the house, cook.


But come to think of it, there was this lady that came to visit a friend of mine. The guy then asked her to cook when she said she was hungry. In short, she made a mess of the guy's kitchen. She was a lousy cook! And anytime she says she wants to come over, the guy go sharpaly disappear for house.

Aproko are you a lady ni, seat back and read simple engrish you don't understood nawaoooo. Men mouth too dey fastward these days.

Funkyswagzz:


Just say ur lookin for a decent guy that don't smoke.. there are so many guys out there hustling and smoke. Nigerian mentality is so obscure.. I don't get it

Is not her forth environment they say influence alot. She most have seen it all from her environment which to all smokers are not responsible.