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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by favour32(m): 6:40pm On Jan 21, 2020
If two people agree to marry then make e happen.
But,
if one nor agree for marriage even after pregnancy why force dem to marry?
If u force marriage na chaotic or turbulence na u create for dem so.

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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by lexy2014: 6:40pm On Jan 21, 2020
sholarr12:
Often times when a man impregnates a woman, and the man does not want to marry the woman, even if he is ready to take responsibility for the child, the man will still be forced by the woman's parents to marry her.

Forcing a man to marry your daughter may come with its disadvantages.

That brings us to the question: should a man be forced to marry a woman?

Should a man impregnate a woman if he doesn't have d intention of marrying her?

Meanwhile, have u recently impregnated anyone u didn't intend marrying & d above is ur case?
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Nobody: 6:41pm On Jan 21, 2020
GrammarNazi1:

That's...

Sorry oo. English prefect!

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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 6:42pm On Jan 21, 2020
sholarr12:
Often times when a man impregnates a woman, and the man does not want to marry the woman, even if he is ready to take responsibility for the child, the man will still be forced by the woman's parents to marry her.

Forcing a man to marry your daughter may come with its disadvantages.

That brings us to the question: should a man be forced to marry a woman?
The answer is no
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by TheRedpillguy: 6:43pm On Jan 21, 2020
zakir007:
If he can't keep his ubunja in check, he mist be ready to tcontrol what comes of it
Which is paying for child support. Not marrying the woman

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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by DRSEGUNBABA: 6:44pm On Jan 21, 2020
Yes or we shouldn’t impregnate women we don’t want to marry.
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by sholarr12: 6:47pm On Jan 21, 2020
lexy2014:


Should a man impregnate a woman if he doesn't have d intention of marrying her?

Meanwhile, have u recently impregnated anyone u didn't intend marrying & d above is ur case?
Get sense.
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by GoodFaith: 6:47pm On Jan 21, 2020
I think the girl's father need to put a gun on the boy's big and small head
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Nobody: 6:47pm On Jan 21, 2020
Why are Nigerians still backward in thinking at this present age? This is shameful.

Any adult has the freedom to bang anybody he/she wants to bang if the other party consented to it and has attained the age of consent. Whatever comes out from such freedom is the responsibility of both partners.

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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by sholarr12: 6:47pm On Jan 21, 2020
hybridblood07:
Let's be realistic with ourselves, why impregnate a woman you wouldn't marry...
How would you feel if such happens to your sister or daughter?
You lack sense.
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Nobody: 6:49pm On Jan 21, 2020
sholarr12:

You lack sense.
He has sense. Only God know how many u done chop escape
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by eph12(m): 6:49pm On Jan 21, 2020
lexy2014:


Should a man impregnate a woman if he doesn't have d intention of marrying her?

Meanwhile, have u recently impregnated anyone u didn't intend marrying & d above is ur case?
Should a lady become pregnant for a guy that has never shown interest in getting married to her?
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Ijawwomaninoyo: 6:49pm On Jan 21, 2020
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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Chochovini: 6:50pm On Jan 21, 2020
raphroye:
A lot of women deliberately get pregnant to trap men
. Truth is if a woman want to get a man she will get nomatter what even without using pregnancy as a ploy. Fear women!

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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by femmyapson(m): 6:50pm On Jan 21, 2020
stupidity:
this guy sef, I hope you are now a professor of English and corrections in Cambridge. angry

No vex..his username says it all
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by zakir007(m): 6:51pm On Jan 21, 2020
TheRedpillguy:

Which is paying for child support. Not marrying the woman
yes
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Rigidbuildings(m): 6:52pm On Jan 21, 2020
Matrimonous:
Shame on the girl who went spreading her legs for the man that doesn't want to marry her and devil is the man that sleeps with a girl he has no intention of marrying.


I disagree with that. You may have the intention to marry her, but then you are not ready for MARRIAGE as of when she got pregnant.

Lots of circumstances may warrant that. e.g
your financial state
Your current plans
Education.....etc

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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by mimimile93: 6:52pm On Jan 21, 2020
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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Nobody: 6:53pm On Jan 21, 2020
I will actually say yes.

The advantage outweighs the disadvantage.

There is something people seems not to take into consideration here.

I have seen a married man(no,many) who went about looking for that woman and child he denied when pregnant because years after marriage, he couldn't father any other child again.

When we are in our teens or early twenty, we assume we have it all and can do magic with wands, but the truth is that life never meet us the way we planned it most of the time.
U will marry, assume u are ok afterall u have fathered a child before but nothing nothing and your wife is 100% okay or she might be having miscarriages, u might give birth and the baby dies.
That is when u will stat saying had I known.

It also help make men responsible.
U don't want a tie with the lady, use raincoat. Even if the lady insist, it will make u use your sense.

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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by davo90tico(m): 6:54pm On Jan 21, 2020
sweetonugbu:
Was davido and wizkid forced to marry those ladies they impregnated?.
Simply put money stops nonsense bro
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by saajus: 6:55pm On Jan 21, 2020
Capital No. You never use mistake to correct a mistake.
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by tchidi066(f): 6:56pm On Jan 21, 2020
No n no... Marriage should be between two individuals that can tolerate and understand each other, not the other way round. When it's being enforced it could result to resentment and ill treatment, in worse scenarios, death through domestic violence.

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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Chochovini: 6:57pm On Jan 21, 2020
Rogosa:

Thats American English, So the guy is correct!
. I thought as much.

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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Osobi32(m): 6:58pm On Jan 21, 2020
EniHolar:
If you can't WED her, don't BED her.
let me not say what's on my mind..... U look like a decent girl.
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by kurlz(f): 6:59pm On Jan 21, 2020
Matrimonous:
Shame on the girl who went spreading her legs for the man that doesn't want to marry her and devil is the man that sleeps with a girl he has no intention of marrying.

One of the sanest comments I've ever read here on NL.
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Trovet: 6:59pm On Jan 21, 2020
sholarr12:
Often times when a man impregnates a woman, and the man does not want to marry the woman, even if he is ready to take responsibility for the child, the man will still be forced by the woman's parents to marry her.

Forcing a man to marry your daughter may come with its disadvantages.

That brings us to the question: should a man be forced to marry a woman?
you already say it comes with disadvantages so what else are you asking again?
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Soulmender: 6:59pm On Jan 21, 2020
Forced marriage is one of the prevailing causes of domestic violence in our society today. To avoid this, we all should try to connect with people we know we can live with in case of any eventually (pregnancy )
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Prettiedame: 7:00pm On Jan 21, 2020
The use of "force" already shows it is wrong

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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Korllami007: 7:01pm On Jan 21, 2020
GOFRONT:
Why should I be forced to marry a lady I did not Love??
But you love to shook prick inside her pvssy.
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Nobody: 7:01pm On Jan 21, 2020
Takeproft:
Why are Nigerians still backward in thinking at this present age? This is shameful.

Any adult has the freedom to bang anybody he/she wants to bang if the other party consented to it and has attained the age of consent. Whatever comes out from such freedom is the responsibility of both partners.
U give women belle in the West, u must pay child support.
Guys end up in jail because of that.

U have 3 babymama, u will work your ass off pay for your mistakes even if u see those women in the hands of other men.

Women milk that opportunity while u continue to suffer for yrs.
This is even better than child support.

U guys talk anyhow bc in Nigeria, a man can deny a pregnancy and a child, resurface after 30 yrs and instantly claim that child.
Lazy men.

U take responsibility for your actions

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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Rushna27(f): 7:06pm On Jan 21, 2020
sholarr12:
Often times when a man impregnates a woman, and the man does not want to marry the woman, even if he is ready to take responsibility for the child, the man will still be forced by the woman's parents to marry her.

Forcing a man to marry your daughter may come with its disadvantages.

That brings us to the question: should a man be forced to marry a woman?

A capital NO cos dey might both regret dia action and life is very paramount... moreover, u don't endure wot u are supposed to enjoy since marriage has no graduation date....

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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Marry Ladies After Impregnating Them? by Kokaine(m): 7:06pm On Jan 21, 2020
sholarr12:
Often times when a man impregnates a woman, and the man does not want to marry the woman, even if he is ready to take responsibility for the child, the man will still be forced by the woman's parents to marry her.

Forcing a man to marry your daughter may come with its disadvantages.

That brings us to the question: should a man be forced to marry a woman?
Yeah.... He should marry her.
Who will now marry her?

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