Babygal2020:

He stopped replying my greeting, never replied my message nor picked my call.

Probably wary of getting more insults.

Babygal2020:

I have left him in peace. I have a lot of things to think about.

Good. Next time, please remember not to push a friend to the wall all in the name of "I am pregnant so I can behave anyhow with no consequences".

RisenPhoenix:


Probably wary of getting more insults.



Good. Next time, please remember not to push a friend to the wall all in the name of "I am pregnant so I can behave anyhow with no consequences".

I have left him in peace. He is neither my husband nor my brother..... Thank you for your contribution.

Babygal2020:

I have left him in peace. He is neither my husband nor my brother..... Thank you for your contribution.

Better I'm sure he wunt miss u and u too don't care again.. So make una stay una lane..... When u give birth, if he is like me, I may just come greet but wunt eat coz I hate insult in my life... Especially when I eat from the person dt insult me, chai e dey pain


But I hope he shud just forget the past and move on better... In life we will have grudges but it's always safe to settle them so as to av peace of mind...

Try visiting him with ur husband, u shud av done dt since dear..

Safe delivery

Pregenancy always turn me to a warrior,i remember my last pregenancy i fought a driver that dared stop his bus on the highway insisting he wont go again i fought him and made sure i disgrace him,it was after the fight that my househelp was shouting that i was pregenant oooo,what of my boss if he give me one i give him five i even resign whenni couldnt take what i have been taking for years .but on a normal day i am so calm like ice water.

So that lady that is been a voltRon about pregenancy not changing women is wrong.that it did not change you means you are the exception.

Poster you must be a saint to beg,some friends dont know when you are tired,they come at odd hours expecting you to serve them and they will hardly bring even if na suya,lai lai oooo i can only serve the friend that supply me with youghort and suya others are on their own.

Thank you Ma.... What pains me is that we had never had any issue before the said one. I have known him for about two(2) years. Normally, I'm a very calm person. I have never quarreled with anyone where we live. And it's not as if I'm not remorseful, I have apologized to him. I have let him be in peace. After all, he is not my husband.

ambient:
Pregenancy always turn me to a warrior,i remember my last pregenancy i fought a driver that dared stop his bus on the highway insisting he wont go again i fought him and made sure i disgrace him,it was after the fight that my househelp was shouting that i was pregenant oooo,what of my boss if he give me one i give him five i even resign whenni couldnt take what i have been taking for years .but on a normal day i am so calm like ice water.

So that lady that is been a voltRon about pregenancy not changing women is wrong.that it did not change you means you are the exception.

Poster you must be a saint to beg,some friends dont know when you are tired,they come at odd hours expecting you to serve them and they will hardly bring even if na suya,lai lai oooo i can only serve the friend that supply me with youghort and suya others are on their own.

Babygal2020:
Thank you Ma.... What pains me is that we had never had any issue before the said one. I have known him for about two(2) years. Normally, I'm a very calm person. I have never quarreled with anyone where we live. And it's not as if I'm not remorseful, I have apologized to him. I have let him be in peace. After all, he is not my husband.

Someone suggested you go see him together with your husband. Why haven't you explored that option yet?

sacx:


Someone suggested you go see him together with your husband. Why haven't you explored that option yet?

Must I go meet him with my hubby? I said I have apologized to him. My hubby has talked to him concerning this issue. I have better things to think about.

Babygal2020:

Must I go meet him with my hubby? I said I have apologized to him. My hubby has talked to him concerning this issue. I have better things to think about.

Lol, not necessarily. You are just angry that he ignored you. Tendered apologies should always match the nature of offence. We don't know what transpired, so we can't be a ready judge. But if you are convinced the text message was enough to placate him, then so be it.

He may not necessarily be holding grudge towards you, just taking precautions to avoid a repeat. You seem to enjoy his company when he is around, which explains your present anger. Learn from this and control your temper.

sacx:


You seem to enjoy his company when he is around, which explains your present anger.

Not really at the above, I have known him for a while now. I only used a harsh tone on him, I didn't use an abusive word. I just don't like someone bearing grudges against me.

Babygal2020:

Not really at the above, I have known him for a while now. I only used a harsh tone on him, I didn't use an abusive word. I just don't like someone bearing grudges against me.

It's okay. Since you already sent an apology, you can rest with it. You can't get everyone to like you. Though I still think it's important you talked it out with him whenever you meet. The best way to resolve differences is by communicating. When you do, also let him know you are not happy about how he ghosted you despite the apology. If after exploring that avenue of reconciliation and there is no change of attitude, you can simply ignore.

From the way I see it, OP doesn't really feel sorry for her actions. She some how feels the man shouldn't have remained "angry" with her, not really because of severity of her actions, but because of "how caring" she was towards him.

OP, until you let go of that pride and take full responsibility for your actions/inactions towards this man, you may never truly apologies to him.

Thank you sir

sacx:


It's okay. Since you already sent an apology, you can rest with it. You can't get everyone to like you. Though I still think it's important you talked it out with him whenever you meet. The best way to resolve differences is by communicating. When you do, also let him know you are not happy about how he ghosted you despite the apology. If after exploring that avenue of reconciliation and there is no change of attitude, you can simply ignore.