Divinelady:
. How is he a bad friend? Cos he wants to help a friend who is in need?

vincentjk:


When I've been offering him help but told him to return the 3k and he decided to avoid me

Just like owning a transaction shop and a friend asked for loan and you granted him

You're the one being stupid

mtinfx:
Lol girl is a thief

MedicH:


Hmm ur gini? U say wetin? Rips ko rest in peaces ni!

izospindle:
A Friend Wanted Me To Lend Him Money I Told Him This. Am I Wrong?

So a friend of mine told me that his girlfriend is about to lose her admission, because school fee deadline is tomorrow. He asked me to lend him 70k.

I know how he loves this girl so I asked him to fill a form before I give him the money. Am I wrong for doing that?

He started saying a whole lot of things and has not spoken to me since. Note this is half of all my savings and I have a purpose for this particular fund just that the time has not come.

Advice is needed please

Davash222:

That uncle is well packaged fool!

70k wey e suppose use buy 3 weeks old Broilers dey train, na em e wan use dey train one local fowl for school.

Divinelady:
. How is he a bad friend? Cos he wants to help a friend who is in need?

Sarah20A:
1st Timothy 5vs8,proverbs 31vs 28to 31,Titus 2vs 5,genesis 1vs 27.and please keep your 5k to yourself or for those who need it more than I do you 21st generational broke ass men wants women to be taking care of all your responsibilities and still want to eat your cakes and have it back.

izospindle:
A Friend Wanted Me To Lend Him Money I Told Him This. Am I Wrong?

So a friend of mine told me that his girlfriend is about to lose her admission, because school fee deadline is tomorrow. He asked me to lend him 70k.

I know how he loves this girl so I asked him to fill a form before I give him the money. Am I wrong for doing that?

He started saying a whole lot of things and has not spoken to me since. Note this is half of all my savings and I have a purpose for this particular fund just that the time has not come.

Advice is needed please

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Davash222:

That uncle is well packaged fool!

70k wey e suppose use buy 3 weeks old Broilers dey train, na em e wan use dey train one local fowl for school.

payperpost:
OP, the guy dey borrow your John Thomas for use in the other room?

RisenPhoenix:


Same here. I have noticed that Nigerians in general don't repay loans unless they are forced to. I will never loan out money ever ever again.



Hah. He'll pay in your dreams. I have people whom I see regularly, owing me money for over 10 years. They don't even act as if they owe me money. I don't bear grudges sha, but they know; because I have told them korokoro; that even if I see them writhing on the floor dying in hunger pains, I will not help them with shishi.

Carlyboi:
lol they won’t even act like it...but you know one funny thing is almost everyone talks bout and detest this so conversely it seems they don’t so how come we have loan defaulters aplenty among us in other words some of the people complaining bout people not paying their them loans back on here do that shit secretly but they talk bout it publicly like some kinda saint lord knows I hate owing people money and keep my word and what’s funny is some people that shit like it’s nothing they just let time fly and write off the loan in their fvcking heads not like you told them hey you can keep the damn money....still got a guy owing me since damn 2018 I had to breathe down his neck before a paid a lil over half of my money but this dude told me I wud get it back in a week at most and I had todo it cos he was sounding suicidal was just trying to be there for a brother....my remaining cash has not been paid up till this moment

RisenPhoenix:


I don't really know the psychology behind it, I just know that Nigerians don't like to repay debt. And the annoying thing is that, they play you for a fool and start dodging or blasting unbelievable lies instead of coming on the due date to apologise for not having the money and maybe asking for an extension. I made a vow never to lend money to any Nigerian. If I have money, think it's a good cause, and I pity the person, I will just donate what I can, but lend? No freaking way!

25tolife:
bread winning is also an assistance Hope you know that.

Sarah20A:
if bread winning is an assistance as you claimed and not a responsibility then,please permit me to say "men like you are as useless as the kobo when it comes to family roles.

Davash222:
The foolish girl no get parents
You’re even a bad friend for trying to borrow your friend money to pay for a ‘girlfriend’ school fees.
Shame on you both!! You and your friend should use that money and buy sense!

Naughtysite:

Please don't comment on every issue.

loswhite:
When you give birth to your son advice him to borrow money to pay his girlfriend school fees

Divinelady:
mumu...

We4all:


No, you're not wrong. But I have one question for you, and I need you to answer genuinely: If the tables were turned, and he asked the same of you, what would you make of it?

By the way, did you ask him to fill a form because you don't trust him to pay you back? Or were you concerned about his motive for requesting a loan from you? Either way, what he does with the money shouldn't be your problem as long as he can afford to pay you back.

Guy, life can be brutal, and no one knows what will happen in the next minute. So if I were you, I'd rather have my friend owe me one than the other way round. Just my two cents.