bukatyne:


@bold:
This is not about her husband.

Au contraire, yes she’s cheated mentally, but that’s only cos her needs aren’t being met in the bedroom by the said husband.

At the end your husband will catch you cheating and he will send you packing, why don’t you buy a diido if you aren’t satisfied.

nwanneni:
32 years with 4 kids already and possibly still counting
Jobless aunty them.Na work you need,not advise or insult.
That man money go don suffer for your hand walahi.
I can't imagine myself marrying a woman that doesn't have any economic value.
Just stay at home,fùck missionary as usual,cook,clean,chop,born,get fat with stretch mark,tie wrapper,smell,go saloon to gossip,suspects me cheating,grow armpit hair and toto hair too,steal money,investigate and know.all my property and ration in her head,sleep,snore,fùck again and the cycle continues.
Spits!
I go just run that house or use you like rag,ode.

What has she done to you? Do you even know who she is?

You're a very badly behaved person.

Madam communication is what you need here. Let your hubby knows how you feel presently.
Good luck.

Porn. Ditch them. Delete your porn stash. Every masturbator has one.

Unfortunately, if you keep entertaining those thoughts in your mind it is is only a matter of time before you cheat on your husband and when you take that step... bye bye.

Ask your husband to give you head. If he says no, then he says no. You'll have to live with that.

If you continue along that path you've described, you will ruin your marriage and your own life too.

If you are a sex addict, you need to see a trained professional to help you. Preferably a woman who isn't a lesbian otherwise you'll have added more problems for yourself.

Keep your mind busy during the day time.

Guard your thoughts when you are alone, nay ALWAYS.

Ditch your porn stash.

Get off the internet and all social media.

Ditch your porn stash.

Did I mention that you should also ditch your porn stash? No?

Well, DITCH YOUR PORN STASH!!!!!

All the best and I hope your husband gives you head soon enough.

Kathleens:
I have to create another account for this reason, please i need all the advices I can get to save my marriage and sanity. Recently I have been feeling so Hot after I stopped my baby from breastfeeding. My hubby tries his own possible way to satisfy me but after the sex I will still masturbate to pleasure myself cause I will be fantasizing about someone going down on me with their tongue (I have never experienced that in my entire life) my hubby doesn't do that. This has made to fantasize about other guys giving me the pleasure I need, i went as far as searching the internet for gigolos and having this fantasy with them on my mind. This is crazy, I even contacted one and we fixed a date (he promised to go down on me really hot with his tongue) but I bluffed it cause I really don't have the courage to cheat on my hubby though I have cheated on him a million times on my head. I can't even imagine doing it physically but the thought is always on my head. I need to stop this and the frequent masturbation before it ruins me.

I need all the advices including insults, maybe the insults will reset my head. I am 32 years with four kids. Thank you

When the time comes for you ladies to use your manipulative skill to actually get something without hurting anyone, y'all just dull out of it. As if it only works when someone will take the hit.

Communication is the key. Have a wonderful talk with your hubby. Tell him about your crazy thoughts. You'd be surprised how shit will work. Tell him you are getting the Head with or without him.

MajorWarren:


Au contraire, yes she’s cheated mentally, but that’s only cos her needs aren’t being met in the bedroom by the said husband.

Remember her needs have changed?

The husband needs to be updated.

PrimadonnaO:


What has she done to you? Do you even know who she is?

You're a very badly behaved person.

And what do you think I will lose if a tiny blip on the internet thinks I'm badly behaved for calling her out for who she is?Not really.

nwanneni:
[s]Of course I know the man(your sole provider) is not poor na,that's why yo have all the time in the world to be hòrny while dude is hustling his head out.
I don't need a soothsayer to tell me you have little to zero economic importance na
They are self explanatory;32 years old,4 kids,always horñy(something a job clearly solves),etc....
You must be out of your mind to think I'm frustrated.
Have a good evening,dear stay at home mom.
[/s]

Dumb post. Nothing wrong with being a stay at home mom.

The lady called you a kid. You probably are one.

You think everyone should want what you want and if they don't, you kick up a fuss and throw a tantrum like you just did.

Grow up son. Everyone ain't going to live life the way you want. Stop castigating her for her career choice which she didn't mention anyway.

Sometimes, if you don't have positive things to say, best be quiet.

Madam, you can do away with all sorts of fantasies in your brain, it won't lead to any good.
Talk with your husband and tell him how you want him to handle you, if you didn't mention it, how will he know.
Think of how he will feel if he finds out you desire cunninglingus but you never mentioned it to him. The guy outside will not do it better, he will only destroy you and you will have everything to lose in the end.

nwanneni:
Of course I know the man(your sole provider) is not poor na,that's why yo have all the time in the world to be hòrny while dude is hustling his head out.
I don't need a soothsayer to tell me you have little to zero economic importance na
They are self explanatory;32 years old,4 kids,always horñy(something a job clearly solves),etc....
You must be out of your mind to think I'm frustrated.
Have a good evening,dear stay at home mom.

It is not out of place for a 32year old woman to have 4kids, it depends on what age she got married or if she has multiple births. There are women who at 32 are already done with childbirth and they even have more than 4.

The number of kids she has does not define her financial status, she may even be the one providing the largest percentage in the house upkeep.

The fact that you have a job does not mean you can't get Hot, it's nature and there's no way you will cheat it.

healthserve:
The most important thing is what I want to hit on before this thread degenerates into a squabble. And it is take it easy on yourself. Your high moral standards and etiquette along with your principles, beliefs, values and self expectation has placed you on a pedestal where you expect yourself to act in a certain manner and form. So to win this war, you must first and foremost win the battle in your mind. Yes, every thing goor or bad in this instance is in your mind and to end this struggle the battle must first be won in your mind. Hence I recommend this tips:



1. You'll make new resolutions and you'll fail yourselves many times. But be prepared to forgive yourself before you fail. Being able to pick yourself back up and move forward is one of the routines you should embrace enroute your destination to get healing.


2. The mind is the largest sexual organ. Stop feeding your mind with crazy sexual stuff. Infact Place rules on yourself not be participate in anything sexual outside your hubby.



3. After you've forgiven yourself, adopt the belief that marriage isn't all sex sex and sex. And you'll sacrifice what you don't receive but stay contented. Mental contentment is one of the sure ways to deal with mental wandering. To win this war, you must treat yourself with love and kindness and not condemn yourself in anyway however bad, lest through your own cycle of thoughts you slip into being guilt tripped by your mind and loose focus on healing beyond scars



4. Try new things and fill up spare hours. Place yourself in a new fellowship or activity group where you'll use more of your free time to practice. The rule for change has always remained the same and one I recommend to myself many times is to replace a bad habit with many good habits and practice. Spend more time on activities to have your mind filled up.


5. What you feed your mind matters. In place of sexual arousing information, try spiritual affairs so the sector of your mind producing this thoughts would be flooded with light and you can fix the gaps within your walls and have the breech sealed.

Applause...!

Vyolet:

It is not out of place for a 32year old woman to have 4kids, it depends on what age she got married or if she has multiple births. There are women who at 32 are already done with childbirth and they even have more than 4.

The number of kids she has does not define her financial status, she may even be the one providing the largest percentage in the house upkeep.

The fact that you have a job does not mean you can't get Hot, it's nature and there's no way you will cheat it.

Yes,but you don't fantasise over sex if you are actively engaged,so much so that one is contemplating cheating.Its stay at home moms that do most of the cheating,trust me.
If she is all that you say at 32,trust me she won't have 4 children.
When did she finish school,serve,find a career,build it and have the kids then?
Or if she owns her own business like you might claim,I hope you know it takes even longer and doesn't tolerate excess baggage for someone that wants to succeed in it,especially kids.
Trust me,successful women that can afford to be independent can't have 4 kids at 32.It's a trait reserved for careless street skanks or stay at home moms.
If she is the one providing for the family like you say,make I bend!Provide fire.
She said to me and I quote;did I talk to you about "our" finances?bread winners usually talk in the first person singular.
"Our" is mostly used by dependants.
Defend her all you want,this woman makes no damn income,finish!

Kathleens:
I have to create another account for this reason,

Hahahhahahahaha. You must be one of the active NL misandrists on this section constantly insulting men and forming 'girl power' - Now you created another profile to confess your sexual frustration

This is why il never take women seriously on this forum. Sexually starved pigs!

nwanneni:
32 years with 4 kids already and possibly still counting
Jobless aunty them.Na work you need,not advise or insult.
That man money go don suffer for your hand walahi.
I can't imagine myself marrying a woman that doesn't have any economic value.
Just stay at home,fùck missionary as usual,cook,clean,chop,born,get fat with stretch mark,tie wrapper,smell,go saloon to gossip,suspects me cheating,grow armpit hair and toto hair too,steal money,investigate and know.all my property and ration in her head,sleep,snore,fùck again and the cycle continues.
Spits!
I go just run that house or use you like rag,ode.

you must come from a place where poverty holds sway and a place with many late bloomers..

I have a sister with 3 kids at 36, double Degree (Accoutancy LCU ibadan, and Law University of Liverpool) currently having her masters in Business Law and corporate governance and have a booming Shipping business in UK and ooh! she has her own mortgage, cars and her husband is an Accountant of class

Stop boxing your brain and using failures to compare your life as yardstick, 4 kids at 32 is perfectly normal, even if you come from a state with 70% poverty aspire to be that 30% living above poverty


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Kathleens:
I have to create another account for this reason, please i need all the advices I can get to save my marriage and sanity. Recently I have been feeling so Hot after I stopped my baby from breastfeeding. My hubby tries his own possible way to satisfy me but after the sex I will still masturbate to pleasure myself cause I will be fantasizing about someone going down on me with their tongue (I have never experienced that in my entire life) my hubby doesn't do that. This has made to fantasize about other guys giving me the pleasure I need, i went as far as searching the internet for gigolos and having this fantasy with them on my mind. This is crazy, I even contacted one and we fixed a date (he promised to go down on me really hot with his tongue) but I bluffed it cause I really don't have the courage to cheat on my hubby though I have cheated on him a million times on my head. I can't even imagine doing it physically but the thought is always on my head. I need to stop this and the frequent masturbation before it ruins me.

I need all the advices including insults, maybe the insults will reset my head. I am 32 years with four kids. Thank you

Stop feeling guilty over having emotional and sexual need, if you keep repressing it you would one day explode and do it with who you wouldnt like, the sooner you get it done the better, and if you can get you husband to perform it as he swore a marital oath to make you happy then fine if not you must find a way to get it done for your sanity

People dont understand the Psychology of sex, thats why they always want to supress it or pray its urge disapear, If you've read about marsslows hierachy of need you would understand just like food, sex is also a need that its urges are involuntry and you must satisfy it one way or the other, you cant repress it for too long

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solmusdesigns:


you must come from a place where poverty holds sway and a place with many late bloomers..

I have a sister with 3 kids at 36, doulble Degree (Accoutancy LCU ibadan, and Law University of Liverpool) currently having her masters in Business Law and corporate governance and have a striving Shipping business in UK and ooh! she has her own mortgage, cars and her husband is an Accountant of class

Stop boxing your brain and using failures to compare you life as yardstick, 4 kids at 32 is perfectly normal, even if you come from a state with 70% poverty aspire to be that 30% living above poverty


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lol,at your age you still dey do "I have a friend".
A statement associated with failure worldwide.
I thought you wanted to tell me your age,the number of kids you have and the value you possess,not some third person crap any fool can concuct.
I turned 28 this year and boy I am grateful,atleast I afford not to use another person as reference,unlike you.
Face your website business in peace,university of liverpool and then?

nwanneni:
lol,at your age you still dey do "I have a friend".
A statement associated with failure worldwide.
I thought you wanted to tell me your age,the number of kids you have and the value you possess,not some third person crap any fool can concuct.
I turned 28 this year and boy I am grateful,atleast I afford not to use another person as reference,unlike you.
Face your website business in peace,university of liverpool and then?

Gotta quote this for posterity.
I have always known whenever I read from a jobless Nigerian yoot that still feeds from mama's crumps.

nwanneni:
Yes,but you don't fantasise over sex if you are actively engaged,so much so that one is contemplating cheating.Its stay at home moms that do most of the cheating,trust me.
If she is all that you say at 32,trust me she won't have 4 children.
When did she finish school,serve,find a career,build it and have the kids then?
Or if she owns her own business like you might claim,I hope you know it takes even longer and doesn't tolerate excess baggage for someone that wants to succeed in it,especially kids.
[b]Trust me,successful women that can afford to be independent can't have 4 kids at 32.[/b]It's a trait reserved for careless street skanks or stay at home moms.
If she is the one providing for the family like you say,make I bend!Provide fire.
She said to me and I quote;did I talk to you about "our" finances?bread winners usually talk in the first person singular.
"Our" is mostly used by dependants.
Defend her all you want,this woman makes no damn income,finish!

There are financially independent women, who are 32 with more than 4kids, what faces you may be backing someone else and vice versa, it all depends on people you have met and mingled with.

You are sounding like being an housewife is bad, someone has to keep the home front while the other brings home money, it shouldn't matter who brings in more money but ofcourse, no man would want to cater for the home while his wife goes out to bring money hence the woman always have to be the one at home taking care of things.

Every family has what works for them, there is no standard to how a family should live their lives, a family can work better if both husband and wife work, only the husband works or only the wife works, just pick what works for you and stick with it.
Do note that what you choose to work with is exclusive to you and shouldn't be forced on someone else.

nwanneni:
lol,at your age you still dey do "I have a friend".
A statement associated with failure worldwide.
I thought you wanted to tell me your age,the number of kids you have and the value you possess,not some third person crap any fool can concuct.
I turned 28 this year and boy I am grateful,atleast I afford not to use another person as reference,unlike you.
Face your website business in peace,university of liverpool and then?

you are truly a kid, i bet if we exchange Instagram id and you see for yourself you would understand you prolly can measure up to my subordinates..

But your rant isnt about me and am not a Lady so i brought a refrence of similar age who is my sister , to prove that you are not only childish but poor mentaly if you think at 32 you shouldnt have 4 kids and be finacially stable

PS: at your age i have succesfully resided in three continents and owned businessesyou are here throwing tantrums based on your underachieving life.. dude read your comments again when the alchohol or drug you took wears off and see how dumb and poor you sounded

Vyolet:

There are financially independent women, who are 32 with more than 4kids, what faces you may be backing someone else and vice versa, it all depends on people you have met and mingled with.

You are sounding like being an housewife is bad, someone has to keep the home front while the other brings home money, it shouldn't matter who brings in more money but ofcourse, no man would want to cater for the home while his wife goes out to bring money hence the woman always have to be the one at home taking care of things.

Every family has what works for them, there is no standard to how a family should live their lives as, a family can work better if both husband and wife works, only the husband works or only the wife works, just pick what works for you and stick with it.
Do note that what you choose to work with is exclusive to you and shouldn't be forced on someone else.

Leave the unfortunate kid alone.
Him and his backup singer up � there are always stirring the hornets net out of misplaced frustration with the female gender.

nwanneni:
I don't do instagram and I do business too.
Bruv no make noise,I dey go MY HOUSE soon.
You can show us yours so we can see how successful you've become,ode.
If I tell you what my sister is I'm sure you'll faint
And there's no way she's having 4 kids at 32.
See them

like i said you are a kid so bug off my mention.. posting laughing smilling face doesnt change the poverty mindset you just openly exhibited online

take your L and fvck off