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Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by biggy26: 10:43am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Bola146:Don't mind him joor, there are still honest girls like you around. |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by LordGuru1: 10:45am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Naturally, the fallen human nature is very selfish. For a human being to genuinely love another human being, he or she must first have genuinely loved and submitted to the our Creator and HIS rules first. This is why only genuinely bornagain Christians enjoy marital life the most. Stop wasting your precious time/life trying to find love without first submitting the control of your heart to Holy Spirit that sees into all hearts. Surrender your life to JESUS today, you can never find true Love/Spouse outside HIM. 1 Like |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Savagethe21st(m): 10:47am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Nothing last forever...No strings attached is always the best. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8xIeDaMpmCY Hey I'm a teen producer from lagos doing it all on his own and I'll appreciate if y'all check my beats out and show some love(subscribe).I'm not trying to be annoying just wanna pursue my dreams |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Nobody: 10:48am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Logan95: If she developed it before the age of 12, chances of her outgrowing it are very high. I had a classmate who suffered from epilepsy as well. He's been seizure free for 2 years now. Medications should be taking regularly, at least to reduce the epilepsy seizures. You also need to give her a peace of mind since the seizures are triggered by stress and emotions. If an argument occurs, which is totally normal try and discuss it calmly. You do not have to react immediately, you can talk things out later when everyone is calm. As for her depression, I think knowing she's not the only one going through this might help. I'm sure there are a lot of communities she can join online. |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Nobody: 10:51am On Jan 25, 2020 |
AfroKnight: Your ignorance is astounding 3 Likes |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Snipper007: 10:53am On Jan 25, 2020 |
[s] Toluwashe778:[/s] Another trash from an emotional blackmailer |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Nobody: 10:53am On Jan 25, 2020 |
frozen70: Can you state truthfully that you have never ever fake cried, or exaggerated an illness or pretended some emotional breakdown just to manipulate a male member of your family or bf into doing something you want? If yes, then you must be an extreme outlier from the norm. Women do this routinely. It is their version of a child's tantrum. They jnow most men get scared at the sight of a woman crying or fainting. |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by OkikiOluwa1(m): 10:57am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Davash222:Nope. I disagree. Time will reveal if this girl the op is talking about is dishonest. Let the op go & apologise. The op has no concrete evidence against her. Most girls in Nigeria today are bad. Blame the hardship & bad parenting. But the op hasn't given himself a good case here |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by wiseGD: 10:58am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Davash222:This mentality never fetches anything good. What you desire, you might never get because you don't even believe you CAN have it. That the most you have seen have broken trust or made you wary DOES NOT MEAN THAT THAT LESSER PERCENTAGE YOU HAVE BEEN LONGING/PRAYING FOR DOESN'T EXIST. Your 'I already know who you are' and 'You're no different from them' is a GUARANTEE it will elude you. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Snipper007: 10:59am On Jan 25, 2020 |
OkikiOluwa1: Op if you want to become a dullard (woman rapper) then take the advice above |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Nobody: 10:59am On Jan 25, 2020 |
AfroKnight:Bros you have a very mature brain and way of reasoning I learnt a lot from you I need this kind of mentality 1 Like |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Ogilinsaka: 11:03am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Davash222: Scorned bitter leaves of a man! |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Nobody: 11:04am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Tallesty1:sucking your cap and opening her legs for you doesn't mean she's honest or can't cheat on you |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by biggy26: 11:05am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Logan95:Guy, leave emotions for now, that can be sorted. Handle her seizures first, spiritually or medically. Lost a Kenyan girl recently who had seizures and no one was there to help during the attack. Show love by helping with her situation, otherwise you will end up a frustrated husband. |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Tallesty1(m): 11:07am On Jan 25, 2020 |
positivevibez:There's more to dating than the emboldened but you lots can't look beyond your nose. |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Adakintroy2: 11:08am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Blind generations. By their actions they write the bible themselves. " a good woman is hard to find" |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Nobody: 11:11am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Adakintroy2: And that was even biblical times. These days it's impossible. Just compare your grandmother's set with today's set to see how each successive generation is degenerating. I fear for our sons. |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by richard870(m): 11:13am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Davash222:And what in the world makes you think you are?....co ward!!! |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Ninokingz1(m): 11:14am On Jan 25, 2020 |
]My people, Something really terrible just occurred now. I have dated my girlfriend for about 6 months, she is the most open individual I've ever met... She has told me most of her secrets. She is a very beautiful and intelligent girl and what really made us thick is that I was there when she had seizures in the past. To the issue, She answered a call today and I felt suspicious and I decided to confront her immediately, but as she was trying to explain, I cut in and acted with mistrust and accusations that I suspect cheating. This was a major catalyst and it triggered her seizure. I started apologizing immediately to calm her down, she passed out for some minutes after she tried to use her clothes to suffocate herself. She woke up irritated and I asked her to explain what is happening in her social world. She said it was really nothing and that she feels I don't trust her that's why she reduced telling me personal stuff. That there is no connection between her and the guy. She said she has forgiven me but she has to leave my house that moment. I asked that I drop her but she refused and packed her belongings that has been here. She later accepted that I'd drop her because I could not stand the shame of her going alone but my car battery decided to die and she eventually entered bike home. She left by saying she needs space but I feel I've lost her because I'll be once guilty of inducing her seuzures. Ladies and gentlemen, red pillers, kindly advice me on how to handle this issue. N:B kindly put into consideration that she is really emotional and her peculiar challenge. I so doubt that you really get the right words you yearn for here. You know your girl more than anybody in this forum so if I am you, I will follow my feelings and not emotions. I do wish you well with any action you wish to employ. |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Beverlyjean(f): 11:14am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Logan95: It simply shows that she herself knows she has the tendencies ....her shock was that she's dint know u were gonna notice it too |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Nobody: 11:14am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Logan95:she got the seizure because she got caught 1 Like |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Nnamebuka: 11:30am On Jan 25, 2020 |
chigoizie7:Pls nwanne mmadu do you have the address of the hospital that cures epilepsy in India and the possible cost? Really need to do something about my elder brother's own. I fear his life hangs in the balance cos of this. I also think that his being given to a lot of wine is a contributory factor. Although my research shows that alcohol has little or no effect on the trigger. |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Nnamebuka: 11:35am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Logan95:You are a nice guy regardless. Your type are rare in Africa mostly because we only love with condition. Pls seek her out no matter how she tries to shut you out and reassure her of your support. Trust me this incident would strengthen your relationship more if it didn't break it. |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by slimjohn2k5: 11:35am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Never trust any man around your girl, not even her brother |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Nnamebuka: 11:42am On Jan 25, 2020 |
AWFCNAIJA:Pls bro what's CBD oil and where can I get it? I have a patient amongst my siblings |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Fantazy(m): 11:44am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Bola146: That's fact, though this thread ain't a contest between 'man' and 'lady' |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by rapid101(m): 11:47am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Davash222:Oga shot up u de gam so so olosho no mean say all girls re same. there re 1000 and 1 hard working and loyal Nigeria girls out there. solve ur issue and don't affect others wit ur bad luck 1 Like |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Jokkarm2: 11:49am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Oga is like you are new in this game, all that her forming is cover up. no girl is honest and no man is honest. just behave as if nothing happens and try bring her back but don't beg her, if you do , she has gotten you well. just be diplomatic, but inside you , know who you are dating. girls these days, if you try to ask to know the wrong thing they are doing, they will pick offence and say is over while they are doing the wrong thing. what i do now is follow every girl according to the format . if you say na pet, i go pet you like dog. if na to just dee look, i go just dee look but inside me i know who to marry when is time. |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Fantazy(m): 11:52am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Tallesty1: That's not true! Let ANY girl see an opportunity to cheat if she will not surprise u |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by FRANKOSKI(m): 11:55am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Send her best friend to go and tell her how miserable you have become. SHE'LL CALL YOU IMMEDIATELY. |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by AWFCNAIJA: 11:55am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Nnamebuka: There are some sellers here on Nairaland. Search for them you would them. |
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Nnemuka(f): 12:00pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
franchasng:Everything to you Average Nigerians is about money This oga is even asking him to make money first, then buy car battery oh chim |
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