Octopusssy:

Peppery preek? Or peppery husband?

Peppery farm, perhaps?? Peppery vehicle?


You can't help but love Yoruba language

The preek of pepper is that green leave we throw away, just let you know that am fire in bed...

Is it not the same comment you referred to as teenagers' comment? You can requote if it pleases you.

Realtalk20:


Did you read the comment I quoted at all?

You obviously didn't

Dm me when you're ready to cheat on your hubby.

nwanneni:
32 years with 4 kids already and possibly still counting
Jobless aunty them.Na work you need,not advise or insult.
That man money go don suffer for your hand walahi.
I can't imagine myself marrying a woman that doesn't have any economic value.
Just stay at home,fùck missionary as usual,cook,clean,chop,born,get fat with stretch mark,tie wrapper,smell,go saloon to gossip,suspects me cheating,grow armpit hair and toto hair too,steal money,investigate and know.all my property and ration in her head,sleep,snore,fùck again and the cycle continues.
Spits!
I go just run that house or use you like rag,ode.

Yes, many women are insatiable evil souls. He loves her too much, pets her not to work. Nobody is perfect, instaed of them to focus on your many massive area of greatness, Satan would deceive them to magnify and focus on just one area of your inadequacy as if they too are perfect. Do you know how many men have died from Burantachi, Penis elargement drugs and Surgeries? They often allow themselves to be used by satan to detroy men. Imagine, the innocent husband slave away day and night providing for her and children. And all this evil wife could reward this wondeful guy with is cheating on him emotionally. She has one of the rare greatest Men (an uncrushable Soul) to ever walk the earth as husband, she doesn't deaerve him. A whole image of the great Creator of heaven and earth, to suck... Only men that don't know who they truly are do such. May violent destructive Amadioa fire that your useless stinking toto.

Sigala:
Enjoy the bumpy ride? She's here seeking for help on how not to cheat on him but you feel like the cheating is inevitable, if you don't have advice that could help, just don't post

Oh please, stay away from my mentions with your literal mind

iceybux:
May Such Karma Locate U Were Ever U Would Be Or Whom U Will Settle Or Already Did With.

E pain am


Common Geddifok!

cerpvad:
Is it not the same comment you referred to as teenagers' comment? You can requote if it pleases you.

Go back a real the comment I quoted again
Read it again slowly , very slowly

Your hubby na to just insert do the do and cum out. Sorry oh.. Tell him wetin you want, teach him how to do it abi him be pastor.
Wetin be gigolos na....?

Nairaland don become where dem dey solve family problems

You never said your husband was poor in bed. U said you are always hot and feel like practising what you fantasize..
You said your hubby tries to satisfy you.

Your case is a clear evidence of 'thoughts'.

It is degenerating to what spiritual people attach spiritual attack to.
Nd to what psychologists refer to 'sexual insatiable thought'

The only persons you need here is you and your thoughts.

From experience, until you confess it to your husband and you both seek a medical/psychological/spiritual help from respected persons or confess to a very mature marred person outside your husbnd, who is confidential, experienced and can put yu on the right path, my sister you are just an hour Close to cheating.

Until u cheat, if you dont take the aforementioned precautions , you won't be satisfied.

You need Jesus, the Prince of Peace. When He comes into your heart, life and home, you will experience sweet rest.

I dont know how true this topic is (either for TRAFFIC or not) its a true life situation
@ Kathleens.. The beginning of the issue is LUST, this can happen to anyone under the earth as long that HE/SHE is HUMAN
Now listen... Ur topic shows that u are deep in it.. even after 4 issues.. to overcome this takes time and discipline, the funniest things is that, even u inform ur hushand about it and He complies to go down on it after a while u will no longer be satisfied.
Am a Christian this is my opinion to control it (not overcome)
1.DONT WATCH PORN ANYMORE (at least for 365 day).. (u may be tempted to watch sometimes but feel regretful after d watch) Ceiling fan dont stop at once when u off it.. its stop after some moment)
2. If u are christian? get the bible and someone to teach u (Maybe atttending Bible Study) and tell the Teacher to give u assisgnment of the topic & that u want to build up your spiritual life. (Be sincere to urself)..
(If not a christian, am sorry) contact me... i dont want to be too religious on dis platform..
3.Occupy ur self with the word of God and meditate...U NEED ANODA person'S help... u cant help urself (IF the the feeling comes .. dont be afraid Its is Normal: 'BRAIN REACTION" just continue to pray (in the Holyghost is better) .... its comes slow from the beginning it will go slowly.. Life is PROCESS.. NO MAGIC
4. LASTLY, listen to good sermon at ur quietness.. I SAID quietness ALONE (LISTENING Controls it better)... CONTACT ME FOR GOOD SERMONS
HABIT IS HABIT only the WORD OF GOD AND PRAYER CONTROLS IT to 0% not (disappear)
THESE STEPS IS DEEP .. other things will be striking and uncovered from the root
MAY GOD DELIVER US FROM OURSELFS AND EMPOWER US TO DO THE RIGHT THING ALWAYS (amen)

@kathleens the truth is that you lack purpose for ur life. I suggest u get one fast and think of the 4 mouths uve brought into this world. Learn how to build your income to be able to take care of that responsibility in case anything happens to ur husband.

It's only a rich person dt has the luxury of cheating. If ur caught and sent packing u can always rent a flat, take care of ur kids & get all the blowjobs u want. It's a free world.

Kathleens:
I have to create another account for this reason, please i need all the advice I can get to save my marriage and sanity.

Recently I have been feeling so Hot after I stopped my baby from breastfeeding. My hubby tries his own possible way to satisfy me but after the sex I will still masturbate to pleasure myself cause I will be fantasizing about someone going down on me with their tongue (I have never experienced that in my entire life) my hubby doesn't do that.

This has made to fantasize about other guys giving me the pleasure I need, i went as far as searching the internet for gigolos and having this fantasy with them on my mind. This is crazy, I even contacted one and we fixed a date (he promised to go down on me really hot with his tongue) but I bluffed it cause I really don't have the courage to cheat on my hubby though I have cheated on him a million times on my head. I can't even imagine doing it physically but the thought is always on my head. I need to stop this and the frequent masturbation before it ruins me.

I need all the advices including insults, maybe the insults will reset my head. I am 32 years with four kids. Thank you

the truth is, don't feel bad at all. its never a bad thing to have the desire for blowjobs down there, its normal.

First and foremost, am not yet married, but one deep truth I know is that, communication is key in relationship and marriage. Have u asked him about MouthAction and ur desire for it? when u did, what was his reply??

healthserve:
The most important thing is what I want to hit on before this thread degenerates into a squabble. And it is take it easy on yourself. Your high moral standards and etiquette along with your principles, beliefs, values and self expectation has placed you on a pedestal where you expect yourself to act in a certain manner and form. So to win this war, you must first and foremost win the battle in your mind. Yes, every thing goor or bad in this instance is in your mind and to end this struggle the battle must first be won in your mind. Hence I recommend this tips:



1. You'll make new resolutions and you'll fail yourselves many times. But be prepared to forgive yourself before you fail. Being able to pick yourself back up and move forward is one of the routines you should embrace enroute your destination to get healing.


2. The mind is the largest sexual organ. Stop feeding your mind with crazy sexual stuff. Infact Place rules on yourself not be participate in anything sexual outside your hubby.



3. After you've forgiven yourself, adopt the belief that marriage isn't all sex sex and sex. And you'll sacrifice what you don't receive but stay contented. Mental contentment is one of the sure ways to deal with mental wandering. To win this war, you must treat yourself with love and kindness and not condemn yourself in anyway however bad, lest through your own cycle of thoughts you slip into being guilt tripped by your mind and loose focus on healing beyond scars



4. Try new things and fill up spare hours. Place yourself in a new fellowship or activity group where you'll use more of your free time to practice. The rule for change has always remained the same and one I recommend to myself many times is to replace a bad habit with many good habits and practice. Spend more time on activities to have your mind filled up.


5. What you feed your mind matters. In place of sexual arousing information, try spiritual affairs so the sector of your mind producing this thoughts would be flooded with light and you can fix the gaps within your walls and have the breech sealed.

u are preaching sermon, when someone is talking about konji

chiemmanuel:
If you can, get a remote controlled vibrating pant, it gives multiple orgasms, and feels like a tongue
If not ask him his opinion about MouthAction
I didn't like it earlier but I found a way to pleasure my partner and make it enjoyable for both of us

which way did u find

Oga Sir, show us way na. Honestly Am not yet married, but I ought to learn so I don't av issues tomorrow

Reply bro

As usual, some boys here are already cussing at her. Others advising she manage, only a handful giving sensible advice.
Had it been a man whose wife is lazy in bed, it would have been a different story. Or you think she has no right to ask for her sexual needs to be met?
That's why relationship counsellors advice intending couples to talk about everything, especially sex... Your fantasies, fetishes, kinks etc so you know what you can handle and what you can't.

Chi59:
As usual, some boys here are already cussing at her. Others advising she manage, only a handful giving sensible advice.
Had it been a man whose wife is lazy in bed, it would have been a different story. Or you think she has no right to ask for her sexual needs to be met?
That's why relationship counsellors advice intending couples to talk about everything, especially sex... Your fantasies, fetishes, kinks etc so you know what you can handle and what you can't.

She says the man treats her well..his stroke game is good (which also implies he's not a one minute man)yet her major issue is that the man doesn't lick her cunt?? After multiple kids her problem is cunt licking?? She is selfish, and if you support her same applies to you.

divineappo:
which way did u find

Oga Sir, show us way na. Honestly Am not yet married, but I ought to learn so I don't av issues tomorrow

Reply bro

when you are ready, let me know

Kathleens:
I have to create another account for this reason, please i need all the advice I can get to save my marriage and sanity.

Recently I have been feeling so Hot after I stopped my baby from breastfeeding. My hubby tries his own possible way to satisfy me but after the sex I will still masturbate to pleasure myself cause I will be fantasizing about someone going down on me with their tongue (I have never experienced that in my entire life) my hubby doesn't do that.

This has made to fantasize about other guys giving me the pleasure I need, i went as far as searching the internet for gigolos and having this fantasy with them on my mind. This is crazy, I even contacted one and we fixed a date (he promised to go down on me really hot with his tongue) but I bluffed it cause I really don't have the courage to cheat on my hubby though I have cheated on him a million times on my head. I can't even imagine doing it physically but the thought is always on my head. I need to stop this and the frequent masturbation before it ruins me.

I need all the advices including insults, maybe the insults will reset my head. I am 32 years with four kids. Thank you

can you see the effect of washing porn?

i pity men and unfortunately i am of them

nwanneni:
32 years with 4 kids already and possibly still counting
Jobless aunty them.Na work you need,not advise or insult.
That man money go don suffer for your hand walahi.
I can't imagine myself marrying a woman that doesn't have any economic value.
Just stay at home,fùck missionary as usual,cook,clean,chop,born,get fat with stretch mark,tie wrapper,smell,go saloon to gossip,suspects me cheating,grow armpit hair and toto hair too,steal money,investigate and know.all my property and ration in her head,sleep,snore,fùck again and the cycle continues.
Spits!
I go just run that house or use you like rag,ode.

you have said it all

a woman with 4 kids, all what she thinks about is mouth action and how to cheat on the innocent man

God should save us from her type

Kathleens:

I need all the advices including insults, maybe the insults will reset my head. I am 32 years with four kids. Thank you

[color=#770077][/color]Stop your hunt for satisfaction on social media and talk to your husband about your fantasies. You'll be surprised that he has been fantasizing about the same thing too. Have a pillow talk with him and am sure the result will be another baby or cloud 9 for you. Thank me later

nwanneni:
32 years with 4 kids already and possibly still counting
Jobless aunty them.Na work you need,not advise or insult.
That man money go don suffer for your hand walahi.
I can't imagine myself marrying a woman that doesn't have any economic value.
Just stay at home,fùck missionary as usual,cook,clean,chop,born,get fat with stretch mark,tie wrapper,smell,go saloon to gossip,suspects me cheating,grow armpit hair and toto hair too,steal money,investigate and know.all my property and ration in her head,sleep,snore,fùck again and the cycle continues.
Spits!
I go just run that house or use you like rag,ode.

Dont you know some men want their wives like that.

Full time housewife just cook ,eat , wait fo him to come home and Bleep his brains out then keep his wife breeding like rabbits.
Thats the dream of quite a number of nigerian men .
And such kind of marriages is so frustrating to ladies like me , who loves to add value in the lives of people out there and make money every day of our lives.
I got so frustrated of such men coming my way last year and few years back.
So dont blame her. Her husband has suceeded in turning his wife into insatiable sex machine.
Op has so much spare time to feel Hot and craves for more sexual fantasies out there.

Las las , she will go out there for more fuccks and sucking

Kathleens:
I have to create another account for this reason, please i need all the advice I can get to save my marriage and sanity.

Recently I have been feeling so Hot after I stopped my baby from breastfeeding. My hubby tries his own possible way to satisfy me but after the sex I will still masturbate to pleasure myself cause I will be fantasizing about someone going down on me with their tongue (I have never experienced that in my entire life) my hubby doesn't do that.

This has made to fantasize about other guys giving me the pleasure I need, i went as far as searching the internet for gigolos and having this fantasy with them on my mind. This is crazy, I even contacted one and we fixed a date (he promised to go down on me really hot with his tongue) but I bluffed it cause I really don't have the courage to cheat on my hubby though I have cheated on him a million times on my head. I can't even imagine doing it physically but the thought is always on my head. I need to stop this and the frequent masturbation before it ruins me.

I need all the advices including insults, maybe the insults will reset my head. I am 32 years with four kids. Thank you

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Email/call/text me.

2sexycom:
get a job

so that her male colleagues would be giving her mouth action abi

nwanneni:
Of course I know the man(your sole provider) is not poor na,that's why yo have all the time in the world to be hòrny while dude is hustling his head out.
I don't need a soothsayer to tell me you have little to zero economic importance na
They are self explanatory;32 years old,4 kids,always horñy(something a job clearly solves),etc....
You must be out of your mind to think I'm frustrated.
Have a good evening,dear stay at home mom.

But you’re very stupid anyway! I pity for the useless innocent girl that will marry an animal without a common thinking faculty like you.

I honestly agree with the op, you’re brainless.

Op, thanks for sharing your situation because I believe directly or indirectly here, on nairaland, you will find some genuine answers. Nobody is perfect, we’re guilty in one way or the other.

I will advise:
1. Please don’t cheat on your husband because is a sin against God and man.
2. It can break your beautiful home.
3. Please share your situation with your husband, he’s your better half, I believe he loves you and he will not judge you.
4. Please teach him exactly what you want him to do, you never can tell, he can even do it better than the guys out there.
5. Please give your life to God if you haven’t yet, because am sure he will give you more peace.
6. Please stay away from people or situations that’s putting those ideas into your head.

I pray to God to help.....

bonnyhope:


can you see the effect of washing porn?

i pity men and unfortunately i am of them

omo porn is not good for women o. it destroys them. that is how one of my guy gf watch all that shit and was bold enough to tell him that he wants him and 3 of his closest friends to Bleep her. omo she was serious with it till they broke up o. and this girl dey watch gangbangs almost 24 7. the guy dont talk tire

nwanneni:
32 years with 4 kids already and possibly still counting
Jobless aunty them.Na work you need,not advise or insult.
That man money go don suffer for your hand walahi.
I can't imagine myself marrying a woman that doesn't have any economic value.
Just stay at home,fùck missionary as usual,cook,clean,chop,born,get fat with stretch mark,tie wrapper,smell,go saloon to gossip,suspects me cheating,grow armpit hair and toto hair too,steal money,investigate and know.all my property and ration in her head,sleep,snore,fùck again and the cycle continues.
Spits!
I go just run that house or use you like rag,ode.

Thank you so MUCH!!!!

bonnyhope:


so that her male colleagues would be giving her mouth action abi

you get sense, i actually stopped my fiancee from working because of that. i know most male bosses always try to Bleep their subordinates but keeping her idle in the house is not a good thing too. cos all she wil be thinking of is sex . the whole thing tire man pikin. hoes of these generation are a pain in the ass

chiemmanuel:
when you are ready, let me know

I sent u DM now

Neoteny:


Girl, your hubby has mentally slept with a billion other fantasy women, perhaps including your friends.

It's perfectly normal to fantasize and explore self-gratification, and sometimes it's not even because of poor physical sex. Sometimes it's fun to mentally explore the range of possibilities.

Don't go overboard and hook men from outside, talk to your hubby... he's your husband for fukks sake.

Tell him your frustrations, let him watch a few skin flicks to egg him on, and be a bit patient while he discovers the joy of eating cunt.

You need to understand that there's nothing wrong with his resistance, some girls don't like sucking pricks, some men are put off by the thought of eating cunt, cos we all know cunt ain't pretty, with all that oozy cunt juice and strange smell, so it takes a lot of courage for some men.

Me, i love eating cunt, cunt goo and all, and there's no better experience than seeing your woman squirm and scream in joy. But we ain't all the same. For instance, i do anal sometimes, but some men can't, some women love it but most women are disgusted by it. There's no rulebook about sex, it's all about how adventurous and honest about it one is.

Talk to him and ease him in, and if he refuses and you can't live like that.... heck, cheat.

you sure say no b gay you be?