Wilson125:
We are just 5!months in the relationship, everything is going fine, the love keeps growing even stronger, but the problem now is, the more i get to know her, it seems to be killing my trust for her, she keeps telling me a different person from the One she has been acting, she told me she had been in just 2 relationship, which i am basically the 3rd person according to her, but only few of her sexual experience was actually with these 2 guys, the rest are with some random male friends n different stories, sometimes i get to realize she was cheating on either of those guys she was dating at that moment, with the way she was carrying herself, i actually saw her to be the kinda person she was portraying which got me trusting her, lately i’ve been in doubt, her Past doesn’t match who i think she is, with the nature of my job that keeps me away, i am scared if she can actually be faithful, i know they say people do change but it’s kinda becoming hard to believe, she has given me the impression that some of the things she told me back then were lies.. I really do love her and everything is fine except for the diminishing trust and i think this will be a problem, don’t know if i should confront her about this or i should just over look (which is hard )? She has become so comfortable that she tells me a lot, i feel if i should put it to her,she may start being conscious of it, which will be her coating herself just to be who she wants me to see.. or should i just quit at this early stage?

Note: she has started she’s no longer the person she used to be back then..

Will really appreciate your advice..

Davash222:
Hoes don’t change. Even if she repents and start Evangelism, she’ll still be Hoeing religiously. A Hoe is a Hoe ad infinitum!

Davash222:
Hoes don’t change. Even if she repents and start Evangelism, she’ll still be Hoeing religiously. A Hoe is a Hoe ad infinitum!

Reichel99:
Swear you have never cheated on your girlfriend before. You guys can't take half of what you give.

Davash222:

Nigerian men don’t cheat.

Davash222:

Wetin we wan use cheating achieve

Reichel99:
You guys that can cheat for Africa, mtscheww....

Davash222:

Nigerian men don’t cheat.

Wilson125:
We are just 5!months in the relationship, everything is going fine, the love keeps growing even stronger, but the problem now is, the more i get to know her, it seems to be killing my trust for her, she keeps telling me a different person from the One she has been acting, she told me she had been in just 2 relationship, which i am basically the 3rd person according to her, but only few of her sexual experience was actually with these 2 guys, the rest are with some random male friends n different stories, sometimes i get to realize she was cheating on either of those guys she was dating at that moment, with the way she was carrying herself, i actually saw her to be the kinda person she was portraying which got me trusting her, lately i’ve been in doubt, her Past doesn’t match who i think she is, with the nature of my job that keeps me away, i am scared if she can actually be faithful, i know they say people do change but it’s kinda becoming hard to believe, she has given me the impression that some of the things she told me back then were lies.. I really do love her and everything is fine except for the diminishing trust and i think this will be a problem, don’t know if i should confront her about this or i should just over look (which is hard )? She has become so comfortable that she tells me a lot, i feel if i should put it to her,she may start being conscious of it, which will be her coating herself just to be who she wants me to see.. or should i just quit at this early stage?

Note: she has started she’s no longer the person she used to be back then..

Will really appreciate your advice..

Reichel99:
Swear you have never cheated on your girlfriend before. You guys can't take half of what you give.

Davash222:
Hoes don’t change. Even if she repents and start Evangelism, she’ll still be Hoeing religiously. A Hoe is a Hoe ad infinitum!

PrimadonnaO:

She just had friends I wouldn’t keep. At this time, too, I already had a boyfriend and was kissing and doing things I used to judge other people for. Lol. So, yes, I wasn’t feeling all self-righteous anymore... and I had done a bit of growing up.

PrimadonnaO:

One a particular Saturday, I was unable to clean the house as it was my turn... because I went out very early for evangelism in the morning... and had a whole lot of other engagements for the day.

truthsayer009:
Pastor Miss & kisser, I hail oooooh



After kissing & doing the "DO", you will now be doing evangelism



Hell Fire is doing press up

PrimadonnaO:



Lol. Nope. You're cojoining events that didn't happen at the same time.

All of those kissing ended in 200 level. That was when my boyfriend graduated, even though we still kept up with the long distance.
So you see, they are isolated cases. But by 300 level 2nd semester, I let go of whatsoever would hurt my faith and spiritual life.

I'm not one of those people who would club (I don't club, anyway) on a Saturday, and turn up in church on Sunday singing to the high heavens. My conscience would prick me to the high heavens.

Wilson125:
We are just 5!months in the relationship, everything is going fine, the love keeps growing even stronger, but the problem now is, the more i get to know her, it seems to be killing my trust for her, she keeps telling me a different person from the One she has been acting, she told me she had been in just 2 relationship, which i am basically the 3rd person according to her, but only few of her sexual experience was actually with these 2 guys, the rest are with some random male friends n different stories, sometimes i get to realize she was cheating on either of those guys she was dating at that moment, with the way she was carrying herself, i actually saw her to be the kinda person she was portraying which got me trusting her, lately i’ve been in doubt, her Past doesn’t match who i think she is, with the nature of my job that keeps me away, i am scared if she can actually be faithful, i know they say people do change but it’s kinda becoming hard to believe, she has given me the impression that some of the things she told me back then were lies.. I really do love her and everything is fine except for the diminishing trust and i think this will be a problem, don’t know if i should confront her about this or i should just over look (which is hard )? She has become so comfortable that she tells me a lot, i feel if i should put it to her,she may start being conscious of it, which will be her coating herself just to be who she wants me to see.. or should i just quit at this early stage?

Note: she has started she’s no longer the person she used to be back then..

Will really appreciate your advice..

truthsayer009:


LMAOOO don't mind me, I was just teasing you.

Anyway, I am just waiting for the part where you eventually break Freda's head with a bottle of Fanta. Your stories are dramatic & real, I just like way you portray people in honest light & even your friends, no sugar coating from any side.

Kudos.

Edit: One more thing, please beware of people who project their lives into you. That woman who says "she never expected faithfulness from her husband". It's called projection, they go through a bad phase & it creates a stamp in their minds, while low key they want every one else to have that same experience. Even when you tell them of how things are going well in your family, their response is "Hmm, are you sure?".

If she doesn't expect faithfulness, then why get upset anytime the husband cheats? Why not just say "Ah, It's normal jare, let's move on with life".

Wilson125:
We are just 5!months in the relationship, everything is going fine, the love keeps growing even stronger, but the problem now is, the more i get to know her, it seems to be killing my trust for her, she keeps telling me a different person from the One she has been acting, she told me she had been in just 2 relationship, which i am basically the 3rd person according to her, but only few of her sexual experience was actually with these 2 guys, the rest are with some random male friends n different stories, sometimes i get to realize she was cheating on either of those guys she was dating at that moment, with the way she was carrying herself, i actually saw her to be the kinda person she was portraying which got me trusting her, lately i’ve been in doubt, her Past doesn’t match who i think she is, with the nature of my job that keeps me away, i am scared if she can actually be faithful, i know they say people do change but it’s kinda becoming hard to believe, she has given me the impression that some of the things she told me back then were lies.. I really do love her and everything is fine except for the diminishing trust and i think this will be a problem, don’t know if i should confront her about this or i should just over look (which is hard )? She has become so comfortable that she tells me a lot, i feel if i should put it to her,she may start being conscious of it, which will be her coating herself just to be who she wants me to see.. or should i just quit at this early stage?

Note: she has started she’s no longer the person she used to be back then..

Will really appreciate your advice..

MrCork:



Gina2019 said she' single & ready to mingle.
...bro please date her!

PrimadonnaO:


Thanks... I intend to get back to completing the Freda story. We'll see if I broke a fanta bottle on her head.

Yes... about people projecting their lives into me. I'm really struggling with the narrative people so wilfully accept that "all mean are cheats." I'm trying not to allow it sink into my consciousness. But everywhere you turn to... that's the mindset... and sadly, too... there are just as many men cheating, thereby lending credence to this narrative.

truthsayer009:


Yes the narrative is real, the worst is that cheating even has little to do with religion but more of self control. I found out from my ex-friend that the married head Pastor of my church was toasting her. It really doubted her at first, later I thought What would she gain from defaming this Man? Nothing. Even me I keep asking myself, will I cheat when I marry? I haven't come to terms with that answer yet.