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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by SilentVboy: 7:34pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
Respect55:I really do admire your strong stand. And it paid off for u. Or else she would have nailed u with someone's child. Take care bro. I too learned to silence those that such treatment apply too. 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 8:48pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
SilentVboy:I just believe my Chi is still much alive. Even at that, I wasn't even going to have her body if this didn't happen. I had always taken charge of things all along. 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Next2Bezee(m): 8:59pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
Respect55: Do you see this life? In certain areas, it is not as complicated as people think it is. I applaud your reaction, Respect55. The girl is already down and you didn't kick her, but you also will not take her back under any circumstances. I know it must not have been easy for you as you made it seem, but you worked through the grind. May success continue to find you till you tire. Kudos. 5 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Kendumazy(m): 9:28pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
Keep being strong bro. 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 9:49pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
Next2Bezee:Thank you. Of a truth, there haven't been any easy moment with me whenever I reflect on what could have being. More difficult is that I'm yet to come to terms as to what I did to deserve this. Funny world we live in. How everything will seem rossy and easy and the next moment, all crashes to the gutters. I just took a decision as a man and I allowed reason to come before emotion. More problems for me because of how I see girls now. It has not been easy with me all these while. Let me not lie 2 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by TheExclusive: 9:50pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
Respect55: You have earned my respect 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 9:50pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
Kendumazy:It's well |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 9:52pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
TheExclusive:Respect to u 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by luscioustrish(f): 11:19pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
Respect55: Hmmm...it will end in praise eventually, hope you're fine though? 3 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 9:48am On Jan 26, 2020 |
luscioustrish:I'm coping 2 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Sleevia: 12:47pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
Respect55:it will pass bro. You are a good person no doubt. |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 1:09pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
Sleevia:I appreciate. Seeing her serving back seat on sundays break me. 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by CsRockefeller(m): 1:50pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
Respect55: You're a perfect gentleman just like me. But, sometimes, our persona is our weakness especially when those around us are carnivores, they will always seek to break us and devour us. It's well. Keep being you. 2 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Sleevia: 3:01pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
CsRockefeller:I am best of both worlds. I used to be extremely cool no matter how provoked but now, despite maintaining that cool headed personality, I take the fight to whomever abuse or take it for granted so much that people now say I have hot temper. Nothing angers me more like being made a fool. 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Sleevia: 3:28pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
Respect55:I know bro. You are already making me feel pity and emotional even when I know of the reverse were to be the case, she will not even feel any pity on you. My ex NEVER said sorry until after 3 years ONLY because her bet failed. That is what girls do. The never feel pity for the damages of their wrong because their brain is their emotions. But here you are still feeling sorry for her. This life sha 5 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 3:35pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
Sleevia:It's natural to feel pity for someone in an unfortunate condition. One just have to be careful not to turn her undoings into hatred. She did wrong and landed in a poo but u just have to guard ur anger lest it turns to hatred. I feel pity for her because I never hated her. 3 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 3:40pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
CsRockefeller:Very much. She is already down like someone earlier said. No need kicking her. It's true we have parted for ever, but her condition is really pitiable. Even her parents as Sunday school teachers in same Church must be passing through a lot. Her condition is really pitiable. |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Sleevia: 3:43pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
Respect55: Yeah, the ex I talked about in the post before this comment of yours resulted in me hating women for 3 years. She couldn't understand why I could not forgive her. And to make matter worse, she did her nonsense around same time I lost my mum and it was damn painful. |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 3:59pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
Sleevia:Sorry for the loss. My condolences. I can attest to what u are saying. The way I look at girls now has totally changed. I just pray it doesn't turn to hatred too because such mindsets have the tendency of following one into marriage |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Kendumazy(m): 8:00pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
Respect55: Seems you guys still attend the same church. Right? Why not look for another church to attend for the main time or permanently in order to quicken your healing process. What is actually breaking you down is the sight of the pregnancy in her. Bro, you are strong though and you have been strong enough to this point but this her pregnancy stage is harder for you than the cheating stage if i must be honest with you. Please, help yourself to stop seeing her for a very long time. This will quicken your healing process. 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 8:16pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
Kendumazy:I have healed. Can't change church because of her. Actually it's no more because of me, I just pity her. She might not get back to her best to be honest with u. I'm strong 2 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Kendumazy(m): 8:21pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
Respect55: Good to hear that. Stop pitying her. Program your mind to start seeing it as it's her loss rather than pitying her. All the very best! 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 8:53pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
Kendumazy:This is lovely. I appreciate 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Sleevia: 9:08pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
Respect55: Just control it. There are still good girls out there, just rare. Also, make sure the next girl is one with independent mindset and like to hustle like you are doing. We often get into problems when we start dating girls who are not doing anything but hoping Alan will drop from the sky to magically take away all her problems. Those kind of girls are Always a problem as soon as you start footing bills. 4 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 9:18pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
Sleevia:Local man is not doing again bro. Time for marriage o will just pick one and hope for the best. |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by CsRockefeller(m): 10:39pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
Respect55: Don't just pick one, pick the best. Many rubbish are out there these days. Sincerely, I like your composure. You will make a great husband and father. 4 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Sleevia: 4:07am On Jan 27, 2020 |
Respect55:that is risky bro. Very risky... You can't just pick a girl and get married to her... Even my current girlfriend, by God's grace, we are going to have a serious talk in a few months time. 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Sleevia: 4:08am On Jan 27, 2020 |
CsRockefeller:the way he handled the whole thing is what I love the most. I don't have that patience under such circumstances, except I was not too invested in the girl. 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by TheExclusive: 11:07am On Jan 27, 2020 |
Sleevia: Even if you date her for 10 years, girls always have that opportunistic mindset, they will keep displaying one attitude or the other. Even twins quarrel, talk more of girlfriend. There will always be issues. |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 12:07pm On Jan 27, 2020 |
Sleevia:I know it's risky but that's why I said I would hope for the best. Happy to hear yours is going fine. 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Sleevia: 10:18am On Aug 10, 2020 |
Hey man, how are you doing? Been a year already, I think? How is life and how is the lady? I trust you are stronger than ever now. Thanks for sharing this amazing story. |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by adajoe555: 10:25am On Aug 10, 2020 |
Respect55: she doesn't deserve you, forget about her. 1 Like |
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