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Is Forgiving And Accepting A Cheat, Weakness Or Strength? by Nobody: 8:37pm On Jan 26, 2020
Forgiving and accepting back a partner who cheated, is it weakness or strength?
Re: Is Forgiving And Accepting A Cheat, Weakness Or Strength? by IamSalt: 8:38pm On Jan 26, 2020
undecided



Both mahn, both.

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Re: Is Forgiving And Accepting A Cheat, Weakness Or Strength? by donstan18: 8:41pm On Jan 26, 2020
It's a personal choice.

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Re: Is Forgiving And Accepting A Cheat, Weakness Or Strength? by Nobody: 8:42pm On Jan 26, 2020
It is a sign of strength. It is very difficult for a man to forgive a cheating spouse compared to a Lady forgiving a Man.

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Re: Is Forgiving And Accepting A Cheat, Weakness Or Strength? by ogashman(m): 8:48pm On Jan 26, 2020
everyone deserves a second chance.
first time can be termed a mistake but a repetition signifies a confirmation.

u can forgive a first timer but not a serial cheat

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Re: Is Forgiving And Accepting A Cheat, Weakness Or Strength? by Oluneutral: 8:53pm On Jan 26, 2020
Forgive but do not accept back!

Because if a cheat do not kill him/herself, s/he will definitely kill his/her spouse.


Forgive is strength.
Accepting back is weakness.

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Re: Is Forgiving And Accepting A Cheat, Weakness Or Strength? by EkunKekere: 9:26pm On Jan 26, 2020
If you're doing it because you're afraid you'll never find someone else if you let the cheater go, then it's a sign of desperation and therefore, weakness.

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Re: Is Forgiving And Accepting A Cheat, Weakness Or Strength? by bdchange(m): 9:57pm On Jan 26, 2020
A person who cheats on you has broken whatever trust you have with them, so why being with such a person whom you can't trust. And nothing like a mistake in cheating especially when the person was caught.

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Re: Is Forgiving And Accepting A Cheat, Weakness Or Strength? by AfroKnight: 10:22pm On Jan 26, 2020
It is a sign of strength to forgive.

It is a sign of weakness to continue to accept a perpetual unrepentant cheat.

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Re: Is Forgiving And Accepting A Cheat, Weakness Or Strength? by Tajbol4splend(m): 10:23pm On Jan 26, 2020
It is insecurity

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Re: Is Forgiving And Accepting A Cheat, Weakness Or Strength? by Heroclitus(m): 11:40pm On Jan 26, 2020
Nothing is universally right or wrong

For those that forgive,there are many underlying factors and reasons why they still believe giving it a second chance is worth it


Some eventually did not forgive, probably because they are those strict type who wouldn't compromise, those that wouldn't bend their principles and rules even if the whole is at stake


Both has nothing to do with either strength or weakness, maybe with situation ethics tho



I'm sorry I couldn't answer the question

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Re: Is Forgiving And Accepting A Cheat, Weakness Or Strength? by Nobody: 11:55pm On Jan 26, 2020
To cheat is a big crime. To forgive a cheat is pure weakness.

We had good times together

We played, joked, kissed and loved each others dearly.

You made me not have sex with you for good 8 months and a guy was able to convince you to have sex with them for just 2 weeks.

You don't love the person anymore. Cheaters have to be foregone.

Don't go back to them. They will still do it again. Tell me one person in this world that stops an addiction to something in just a day.

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Re: Is Forgiving And Accepting A Cheat, Weakness Or Strength? by Martinez39s(m): 12:08am On Jan 27, 2020
It's a costly ignorance. Never forgive a cheating spouse. wink

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Re: Is Forgiving And Accepting A Cheat, Weakness Or Strength? by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:57am On Jan 27, 2020
Whatever it is you do, it certainly can't be anything but WEAKNESS.... as there is nothing related to strength when you lower yourself to stay with A DECEITFUL/DISHONEST/UNTRUSTWORTHY/DISRESPECTFUL/UNFAITHFUL partner.

...Only a very weak low self esteem insecure (or very desperate) person could do that

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Re: Is Forgiving And Accepting A Cheat, Weakness Or Strength? by emkz: 5:35am On Jan 27, 2020
Forgive them. That is a must.

If you wish to continue with them, that is your personal choice to. It does not make you a weak man but a pragmatic one. What applies to one person does not apply to all, what benefits one person may harm another person. Find what is best for you and stick with it.

As for me, I can forgive a cheating partner, but that relationship is dead afterwards because there can be no trust and respect. and We shall part ways and we shall not be friends for any reason.
Re: Is Forgiving And Accepting A Cheat, Weakness Or Strength? by Nobody: 6:01am On Jan 27, 2020
freedomest:
Forgiving and accepting back a partner who cheated, is it weakness or strength?
depends on the situation and the couple involved.

If it is a relationship, definitely a weakness, but if it is a marriage, accepting a cheat without making sure there are consequences of such behavior is weakness.

Truly forgiving a cheat is strength, but forgiving and forgetting is a weakness.
Re: Is Forgiving And Accepting A Cheat, Weakness Or Strength? by moorevic(m): 3:27pm On Jan 27, 2020
Stupidity
Re: Is Forgiving And Accepting A Cheat, Weakness Or Strength? by Nobody: 3:39pm On Jan 27, 2020
MrBrownJay1:
Whatever it is you do, it certainly can't be anything but WEAKNESS.... as there is nothing related to strength when you lower yourself to stay with A DECEITFUL/DISHONEST/UNTRUSTWORTHY/DISRESPECTFUL/UNFAITHFUL partner.

...Only a very weak low self esteem insecure (or very desperate) person could do that
Why is forgiving a person with those qualities necessarily a sign of low self esteem? Why do you feel it isn't cool to give someone a second chance?
Re: Is Forgiving And Accepting A Cheat, Weakness Or Strength? by Omar09(m): 5:18pm On Jan 27, 2020
freedomest:
Forgiving and accepting back a partner who cheated, is it weakness or strength?

That is a sign of strength. I give it to those who can accept a cheating partner.
I can not accept a cheating partner.
I am weak in that aspect.

Strong people accept cheating partners.
And it's OK to be a weak person.
I am a weak person when it comes to that.

NwaAmaikpe.
Martinez39
Ubunja

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Re: Is Forgiving And Accepting A Cheat, Weakness Or Strength? by ubunja(m): 5:32pm On Jan 27, 2020
Omar09:


That is a sign of strength. I give it to those who can accept a cheating partner.
I can not accept a cheating partner.
I am weak in that aspect.

Strong people accept cheating partners.
And it's OK to be a weak person.
I am a weak person when it comes to that.

NwaAmaikpe.
Martinez39
Ubunja
a woman who cheats must never be accepted back. But a man can be accepted any day.

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Re: Is Forgiving And Accepting A Cheat, Weakness Or Strength? by Blackmiserable(m): 6:04pm On Jan 27, 2020
ubunja:
a woman who cheats must never be accepted back. But a man can be accepted any day.
Why?
Re: Is Forgiving And Accepting A Cheat, Weakness Or Strength? by CAPSLOCKED: 6:14pm On Jan 27, 2020
Omar09:


That is a sign of strength. I give it to those who can accept a cheating partner.
I can not accept a cheating partner.
I am weak in that aspect.

Strong people accept cheating partners.
And it's OK to be a weak person.
I am a weak person when it comes to that.
Martinez39s
Ubunja

I'VE TRIED THAT BEFORE. SEVERALLY.
SOMETIMES IT GOES WELL, OTHER TIMES, IT LEAVES YOU REGRETTING EVERYTHING.

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Re: Is Forgiving And Accepting A Cheat, Weakness Or Strength? by ranmoor: 6:30pm On Jan 27, 2020
It is stupidity! People apologising doesn't mean they are sorry, it's just a way of manipulation! It's only a self centered partner with no empathy that cheats. I can forgive anything but not a cheating partner!! Spit*

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Re: Is Forgiving And Accepting A Cheat, Weakness Or Strength? by chigoizie7(m): 6:39pm On Jan 27, 2020
Forgiveness is strength, but be wise in your decisions.
Re: Is Forgiving And Accepting A Cheat, Weakness Or Strength? by Omar09(m): 6:44pm On Jan 27, 2020
ubunja:
a woman who cheats must never be accepted back. But a man can be accepted any day.

Did you spot the sarcasm?
Re: Is Forgiving And Accepting A Cheat, Weakness Or Strength? by Omar09(m): 6:44pm On Jan 27, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:


I'VE TRIED THAT BEFORE. SEVERALLY.
SOMETIMES IT GOES WELL, OTHER TIMES, IT LEAVES YOU REGRETTING EVERYTHING.

Then try being weak for a change and don't accept them.
Re: Is Forgiving And Accepting A Cheat, Weakness Or Strength? by CAPSLOCKED: 6:47pm On Jan 27, 2020
Omar09:


Then try being weak for a change and don't accept them.

SOMETIMES YOU JUST "FEEL" LOVE FOR ONE OR TWO THINGS ABOUT YOUR PARTNER, AND DECIDE TO GIVE THEM ANOTHER CHANCE.

WE CAN'T ALWAYS HAVE EVERYTHING 100%.

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Re: Is Forgiving And Accepting A Cheat, Weakness Or Strength? by Omar09(m): 6:49pm On Jan 27, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:


SOMETIMES YOU JUST "FEEL" LOVE FOR ONE OR TWO THINGS ABOUT YOUR PARTNER, AND DECIDE TO GIVE THEM ANOTHER CHANCE.

WE CAN'T ALWAYS HAVE EVERYTHING 100%.

I know. I personally don't. You can't cheat n I will give a second chance. I don't feel "love". Not even for anything.
Re: Is Forgiving And Accepting A Cheat, Weakness Or Strength? by CAPSLOCKED: 6:54pm On Jan 27, 2020
Omar09:


I know. I personally don't. You can't cheat n I will give a second chance. I don't feel "love". Not even for anything.

ALL MAN DON WISE UP cheesy
Re: Is Forgiving And Accepting A Cheat, Weakness Or Strength? by Omar09(m): 6:55pm On Jan 27, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:


ALL MAN DON WISE UP cheesy

Definitely!
Re: Is Forgiving And Accepting A Cheat, Weakness Or Strength? by IamPlato(m): 6:59pm On Jan 27, 2020
Accepting A Cheater Back Is No Weakness...


The Weak Will Lose Their Cool when They Hear Of Cheating but The Strong Will Keep A Smile

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Re: Is Forgiving And Accepting A Cheat, Weakness Or Strength? by Skmoda360(m): 7:01pm On Jan 27, 2020
freedomest:
Forgiving and accepting back a partner who cheated, is it weakness or strength?
Weakness and stupidity if married undecided

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