Loooooooogstory:
I must say I am seriously concerned about advice most people profere when it comes to marriages that seems to be going through trials and tribulations.

Most comment will be quick to suggest a woman leave a marriage without considering the influence it has on the kids (both in academics and societal relationship) when they grow up.

But when it's a man's case, these people don't suggest the man leave the marriage or Union. But the thing is, Nairaland is supposed to be a problem solving platform and not a problem creating arena.

Shibaraba:

Nairaland is what you make of it .If you want it to solve your problem we dey. If you want it to escalate it we dey. For we are just texts. My moniker is just a moniker. It doesn't reflect who I am. Thus those bomboclaat clamouring for divorce don't even have husbands. Some are old newspapers. Others have divorced and want others to be like them. Others are just trolls. Some abusing machines and liars. So when you come here have it in your mind that you've come to read some lies and move on. You hear?

healthserve:
Can we move this thread to front page please do it acts as a s disclamier to people who post threads on marriage and romance related issues so they can ensure greater care.


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Shibaraba:


Bros na everywhere. I said it the other day them think say na lie. Nairaland Don make me sack people, end friendships, scatter relationships. I say one Wey dey always dey talk about children and husbands for here dey talk pack out and divorce like say she be mother Theresa na one hotel she dey work. Na one of the gatemen for there dey flat her.
Make I cover her name but I go name the hotel. Lyta hotel for gowon estate. She can obtain? Flash smile at every fine Bobo. If you want pay she go make sure she collect 1k join. But for nairaland she be millionaire with kids .Independent lady. Person Wey be say just a ride in my benzema she go open.
Make we dey careful especially for marriage matter.

Shibaraba:


Bros na everywhere. I said it the other day them think say na lie. Nairaland Don make me sack people, end friendships, scatter relationships. I say one Wey dey always dey talk about children and husbands for here dey talk pack out and divorce like say she be mother Theresa na one hotel she dey work. Na one of the gatemen for there dey flat her.
Make I cover her name but I go name the hotel. Lyta hotel for gowon estate. She can obtain? Flash smile at every fine Bobo. If you want pay she go make sure she collect 1k join. But for nairaland she be millionaire with kids .Independent lady. Person Wey be say just a ride in my benzema she go open.
Make we dey careful especially for marriage matter.

healthserve:

People should be careful. I know someone here who's na office bbae but a confirm original let me not use the word . But yet the are the persons people worship here. Extremely popular persons but makes and females who haven't figured out their own messed up life

crackkhaus:

Lol

If you know, you know

healthserve:

I knew I was looking for someone for days.but my days off made me forget whom it was I was trying to holla. What's up bro

crackkhaus:

I'm good, man..
Just finding your banter with the other dude interesting, and true to the fact, both of you are not far from the truth regarding some of the chics here.

Loooooooogstory:
I must say I am seriously concerned about advice most people profere when it comes to marriages that seems to be going through trials and tribulations.

Most comment will be quick to suggest a woman leave a marriage without considering the influence it has on the kids (both in academics and societal relationship) when they grow up.

But when it's a man's case, these people don't suggest the man leave the marriage or Union. But the thing is, Nairaland is supposed to be a problem solving platform and not a problem creating arena.

Loooooooogstory:
I must say I am seriously concerned about advice most people profere when it comes to marriages that seems to be going through trials and tribulations.

Most comment will be quick to suggest a woman leave a marriage without considering the influence it has on the kids (both in academics and societal relationship) when they grow up.

But when it's a man's case, these people don't suggest the man leave the marriage or Union. But the thing is, Nairaland is supposed to be a problem solving platform and not a problem creating arena.

Fountainofyouth:
As usual, the debate will entirely be about ladies, there are some males that are a disappointment when you meet them offline, but do you see ladies whine about it here? No, instead they move on, you guys should grow up and stop taking monikers and comments serious, as someone recently advised me

healthserve:



Allow me quote you directly. Males don't comment or project themselves as enigma unlike their counterparts here hence the issue at hand.

Shibaraba:


Bros na everywhere. I said it the other day them think say na lie. Nairaland Don make me sack people, end friendships, scatter relationships. I say one Wey dey always dey talk about children and husbands for here dey talk pack out and divorce like say she be mother Theresa na one hotel she dey work. Na one of the gatemen for there dey flat her.
Make I cover her name but I go name the hotel. Lyta hotel for gowon estate. She can obtain? Flash smile at every fine Bobo. If you want pay she go make sure she collect 1k join. But for nairaland she be millionaire with kids .Independent lady. Person Wey be say just a ride in my benzema she go open.
Make we dey careful especially for marriage matter.

Fountainofyouth:
As usual, the debate will entirely be about ladies, there are some males that are a disappointment when you meet them offline, but do you see ladies whine about it here? No, instead they move on, you guys should grow up and stop taking monikers and comments serious, as someone recently advised me

Loooooooogstory:

Most comment will be quick to suggest a woman leave a marriage without considering the influence it has on the kids (both in academics and societal relationship) when they grow up.

But when it's a man's case, these people don't suggest the man leave the marriage or Union. But the thing is, Nairaland is supposed to be a problem solving platform and not a problem creating arena.

Loooooooogstory:
I must say I am seriously concerned about advice most people profere when it comes to marriages that seems to be going through trials and tribulations.

Most comment will be quick to suggest a woman leave a marriage without considering the influence it has on the kids (both in academics and societal relationship) when they grow up.

But when it's a man's case, these people don't suggest the man leave the marriage or Union. But the thing is, Nairaland is supposed to be a problem solving platform and not a problem creating arena.

Mstick:
On nairaland when ever a woman brings an issue concerning her marriage/husband the men on this forum always want to,
1)hear from her husband
2)suggest she isn’t submissive or contributing financially to the family.
3)run her down physically and emotionally

When it’s a man they don’t
1)want to hear from his wife after all women are evil
2)they don’t even care if he loves his wife or even contributing in any way to his family.
3)they don’t care even if he’s at fault, he’s a man and it’s his “god given right”.


I will give you an example, a “man” created a topic about how his wife emasculates him, none of the “men” commenting on that topic cared about the woman’s side of the story. Over 30 pages of insults and name calling till she comments and gave her side of the story, the “men” still kept on insulting her and picking her statement.

Later on OP commented and said truly she’s his wife and he lied, as a normal human you would expect the “men” that insulted her to apologize but no they insisted that OP was being manipulated by his wife.

Loooooooogstory:
I must say I am seriously concerned about advice most people profere when it comes to marriages that seems to be going through trials and tribulations.

Most comment will be quick to suggest a woman leave a marriage without considering the influence it has on the kids (both in academics and societal relationship) when they grow up.

But when it's a man's case, these people don't suggest the man leave the marriage or Union. But the thing is, Nairaland is supposed to be a problem solving platform and not a problem creating arena.

Most comment will be quick to suggest a woman leave a marriage without considering the influence it has on the kids (both in academics and societal relationship) when they grow up.

Mstick:
On nairaland when ever a woman brings an issue concerning her marriage/husband the men on this forum always want to,
1)hear from her husband
2)suggest she isn’t submissive or contributing financially to the family.
3)run her down physically and emotionally

When it’s a man they don’t
1)want to hear from his wife after all women are evil
2)they don’t even care if he loves his wife or even contributing in any way to his family.
3)they don’t care even if he’s at fault, he’s a man and it’s his “god given right”.


I will give you an example, a “man” created a topic about how his wife emasculates him, none of the “men” commenting on that topic cared about the woman’s side of the story. Over 30 pages of insults and name calling till she comments and gave her side of the story, the “men” still kept on insulting her and picking her statement.

Later on OP commented and said truly she’s his wife and he lied, as a normal human you would expect the “men” that insulted her to apologize but no they insisted that OP was being manipulated by his wife.

Fountainofyouth:



I'd assume @emboldened is a joke, and you just want to rant for the sake of it.

Mstick:
On nairaland when ever a woman brings an issue concerning her marriage/husband the men on this forum always want to,
1)hear from her husband
2)suggest she isn’t submissive or contributing financially to the family.
3)run her down physically and emotionally

When it’s a man they don’t
1)want to hear from his wife after all women are evil
2)they don’t even care if he loves his wife or even contributing in any way to his family.
3)they don’t care even if he’s at fault, he’s a man and it’s his “god given right”.


I will give you an example, a “man” created a topic about how his wife emasculates him, none of the “men” commenting on that topic cared about the woman’s side of the story. Over 30 pages of insults and name calling till she comments and gave her side of the story, the “men” still kept on insulting her and picking her statement.

Later on OP commented and said truly she’s his wife and he lied, as a normal human you would expect the “men” that insulted her to apologize but no they insisted that OP was being manipulated by his wife.