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Re: Singles Drop Your Fears About Marriage And Let The Married Ones Clear Your Doubt by Hamachi(f): 9:37am On Jan 29, 2020 |
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Re: Singles Drop Your Fears About Marriage And Let The Married Ones Clear Your Doubt by Annstar(f): 4:24pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
bukatyne:my dear I have been doing that.. I just pray he shows up soon 1 Like |
Re: Singles Drop Your Fears About Marriage And Let The Married Ones Clear Your Doubt by bukatyne(f): 7:24pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
Re: Singles Drop Your Fears About Marriage And Let The Married Ones Clear Your Doubt by addictiv(m): 8:04pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
The fear of loosing the initial attraction along the line and the marriage turning to a brother/sister kind of relationship where we no longer get attracted to each other and just cohabiting and focusing on work and kids 4 Likes |
Re: Singles Drop Your Fears About Marriage And Let The Married Ones Clear Your Doubt by bukatyne(f): 8:11pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
addictiv: You keep working at it and the attraction keeps growing. |
Re: Singles Drop Your Fears About Marriage And Let The Married Ones Clear Your Doubt by vickydankal(f): 8:31pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
Hamachi: Cheating ? I think you have a problem if you end up getting married to your enemy. Cheating is avoidable , that’s if both parties play by the rules 1 Like |
Re: Singles Drop Your Fears About Marriage And Let The Married Ones Clear Your Doubt by vickydankal(f): 8:34pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
Davash222: Face your fears . What are you afraid of about getting married to a Nigerian girl ? Getting fat Lazy Becoming shapeless etc Whatever it is, there are few ladies in Nigeria and in diaspora who possesses the mindset on a white girl. |
Re: Singles Drop Your Fears About Marriage And Let The Married Ones Clear Your Doubt by vickydankal(f): 8:39pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
Aldebarann: Just like my husband, he doesn’t seem to care about his family and mine. But I fine a lot ways to cover that shortcomings. I call and sends gifts for his family and mine in his name. And they appreciate it, to them my husband is a very busy man. My husband can leave the house just so he won’t have to say more than greetings to family members. Who you will marry will play a huge role here, understanding and patience. One day you will cone alone just like my husband 3 Likes |
Re: Singles Drop Your Fears About Marriage And Let The Married Ones Clear Your Doubt by vickydankal(f): 8:43pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
Blakjewelry: Happy birthday to you Happy birthday to you Happy birthday happy birthday Happy birthday to you Hip hip hip hurray It is a must ooo. My husband has never celebrated birthday in his life, I force him to organize for the children and mine yearly. He has refused to celebrate his; I pray for God’s blessings I will surprise him this year. Start adjusting your mindset towards partying and children’s noise. It will come and by age it will also pass. Don’t forget you did same 3 Likes |
Re: Singles Drop Your Fears About Marriage And Let The Married Ones Clear Your Doubt by vickydankal(f): 8:47pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
OcVoice: Every woman wants to support a man with a vision. Make sure you marry an intelligent and God fearing lady and that fear will die a natural death . For cheating this is what one aspect me and you don’t have a final say, all you could do is pray and do your best to satisfy your woman and hope she doesn’t chop cassava in the next garden 1 Like |
Re: Singles Drop Your Fears About Marriage And Let The Married Ones Clear Your Doubt by vickydankal(f): 8:53pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
PrimadonnaO: To be frank with you, raising Godly children is the work of grace. Check many pastors children misbehave. Train up a child in the way he should go....should is the word not must go. You can only do your best and pray for your kids. No matter what you do, training your kids is not Solely dependent on you. There are factors like peer pressure ; societal influences, religious beliefs, exuberances etc could water down whatever doctrine you must have inculcated into your child 1 Like |
Re: Singles Drop Your Fears About Marriage And Let The Married Ones Clear Your Doubt by vickydankal(f): 8:54pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
Expensiverichyb: Just take your time and find who doesn’t possess the above and marry her . |
Re: Singles Drop Your Fears About Marriage And Let The Married Ones Clear Your Doubt by vickydankal(f): 8:57pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
Winneygirl: Getting married to your friend will eliminate many factors that may want to break your marriage. What saved my marriage few years ago was because I husband was my best friend. We gossip and do many things together so we could hardly do without each other. 2 Likes |
Re: Singles Drop Your Fears About Marriage And Let The Married Ones Clear Your Doubt by vickydankal(f): 9:00pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
rain21: During courting you should discern your partner. Time; patient and prayers will reveal it that’s if you don’t denial it when you see it or when family or friends informs you . |
Re: Singles Drop Your Fears About Marriage And Let The Married Ones Clear Your Doubt by vickydankal(f): 9:02pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
Moji12: This is just battle of the mind. Overcome it fast, else fear of dying, parent or family members dying will start creeping in. Prayers is vital here. |
Re: Singles Drop Your Fears About Marriage And Let The Married Ones Clear Your Doubt by vickydankal(f): 9:10pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
drmikeadams: Lolzzzz In one area or the other we are all damaged goods. Runs girls or not. You need peace of mind and other qualities you may desire in a woman you may want to marry and many runs girls possess these attributes. This is not to defend runs girls. But many runs girls will make a better wife than some cover up Mary Magdalen girls we see in churches. If you are a runs girl, repent and turn a new leave. Else you end up as an even paper . Unless you married her a virgin if not runs girl and your wife may have a thin line separating them. So make up your mind what you want. Tear rubber Vg or better wife? 2 Likes |
Re: Singles Drop Your Fears About Marriage And Let The Married Ones Clear Your Doubt by vickydankal(f): 9:12pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
Annstar: Let me help you You don’t need to find the right man but just be the right woman, just like a magnet it will pull and attract him to you. Pray ooooo speak in tongues join 2 Likes |
Re: Singles Drop Your Fears About Marriage And Let The Married Ones Clear Your Doubt by vickydankal(f): 9:15pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
chibuike65: Your fear is a sign of responsibility Just balance the fear else you will end up not getting married on time and when you do you will focus on making money for the family while staving then your attention and time . 4 Likes |
Re: Singles Drop Your Fears About Marriage And Let The Married Ones Clear Your Doubt by Moji12(f): 9:17pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
vickydankal:Thanks i will. 2 Likes |
Re: Singles Drop Your Fears About Marriage And Let The Married Ones Clear Your Doubt by Nobody: 9:17pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
vickydankal: Well said. Thanks for this submission. At first, they come as God fearing, but later they unleash the devil in them. It's only God that can give one a good spouse. No matter how much you satisfy a woman, the one that will cheat will cheat. It's just in them. Men cheat too though, infact men cheat more...but I don't! Like I said, it's only God that can give one a better spouse. Prayers help too, but it hasn't helped me yet. I'm still hoping it will. 3 Likes |
Re: Singles Drop Your Fears About Marriage And Let The Married Ones Clear Your Doubt by PrimadonnaO(f): 9:17pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
vickydankal: I agree. It's absolutely by the grace and favour of God. 3 Likes |
Re: Singles Drop Your Fears About Marriage And Let The Married Ones Clear Your Doubt by Blakjewelry(m): 9:42pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
vickydankal:I love children and I don't bother about their wahala. In fact am great with them but that marriage day is the very day I wish to avoid by any means necessary |
Re: Singles Drop Your Fears About Marriage And Let The Married Ones Clear Your Doubt by Jaycenvirtualse: 9:43pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
Fear of marrying my enemy, an authoritative and violent husband. |
Re: Singles Drop Your Fears About Marriage And Let The Married Ones Clear Your Doubt by Aldebarann(m): 9:47pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
Your husband is blessed to have you, ma’am. Actually, it is not that I do not care, i am not just one who calls or visits people, not even my siblings. Hopefully, she won’t run out of patience before I catch up. vickydankal: 1 Like |
Re: Singles Drop Your Fears About Marriage And Let The Married Ones Clear Your Doubt by vickydankal(f): 9:49pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
Blakjewelry: If I could, I will not forget and forgive my husband for our wedding and reception took about 3 hours. Yes 3 hours. We were already at the hotel when people were calling and asking for directions and where we were. You could do a wedding if few guests at the beach and also consider wedding on odd days. Like Monday or Wednesday. |
Re: Singles Drop Your Fears About Marriage And Let The Married Ones Clear Your Doubt by drmikeadams(m): 9:49pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
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Re: Singles Drop Your Fears About Marriage And Let The Married Ones Clear Your Doubt by Blakjewelry(m): 9:59pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
vickydankal:LOL seriously if I can have my way, it's just straight out of the registry to reception. White man style, but our ladies no wan hear that one |
Re: Singles Drop Your Fears About Marriage And Let The Married Ones Clear Your Doubt by vickydankal(f): 10:02pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
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Re: Singles Drop Your Fears About Marriage And Let The Married Ones Clear Your Doubt by vickydankal(f): 10:04pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
Blakjewelry: Your wife will swear for you oooo But with what I know now It is just the best 2 Likes |
Re: Singles Drop Your Fears About Marriage And Let The Married Ones Clear Your Doubt by GRACEGLORY: 10:05pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
OcVoice: When purpose isn't known, abuse is inevitable. I saw a movie during my childhood, "The gods must be crazy." A coca-cola bottle was dropped from a chopper flying by over a barbarian who thought GOD dropped it from Heaven, took it home and his family tried to use it for chores, even used it to crack nuts, and the kids fought over it, one eventually used it to break the head of another. The father took it and far away he went to dispose it seeing it like some accursed. Many marriages falls into this line. When purpose isn't known, abuse is inevitable. People must ensure they understand what marriage is before they walk in by agreement. And only The One who designed marriage can tell and teach us. Find out from Him, and enjoy your marriage. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Singles Drop Your Fears About Marriage And Let The Married Ones Clear Your Doubt by Aldebarann(m): 11:12pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
@Vickydankal Physiological and emotional suppression over the years. That’s emotions not expressed from childhood The emboldened sums me up to an extent! Growing up, i lived in different places with different people. As young & inexperienced as I was, I struggled with isolation for the most part of my teenage years, so I got used to “coping” on my own. Those weren’t good days but hey, life goes on ![]() I am glad your husband is improving. Keep up the good work. I wish you & yours all the best. Good night ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Singles Drop Your Fears About Marriage And Let The Married Ones Clear Your Doubt by Nobody: 1:10am On Jan 31, 2020 |
It's COMPLICATED 1 Like |
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